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laxgoalie182
November 3rd, 2008, 10:02 PM
Ok im 13...i have very little armpit hair...what i do have is a few very light hairs...i dont have any dark hairs. I have a little hair down there...but anyways. Can anybody tell me the list of things in order that happens in puberty? like i know the first thing that happens is your testicles grow...can someone give me the order so i can know how far i am in puberty?

And is porn wrong...cause im strongly against it...but i can't hav an orgasm without it =[ and i only looked at it once and i feel guilty...is there any other way to hav an orgasm.

And is it normal if i can't cum at 13...like i can hav an orgasm but nothing comes out like no white or clear stuff.

Oblivion
November 3rd, 2008, 10:11 PM
1. There is no definite order, but you can take this (http://www.virtualteen.org/forums/showthread.php?t=17188) (its out of 5) to help

2. You should be able to have an orgasm without it, especially since you have only seen it once
Try masturbating longer

3. Yes it is normal, many people your age cant produce semen yet

BlackBetty
November 3rd, 2008, 10:16 PM
1. There is no order.
2. Wait a little while and the fruit will fall in your hand...

george
November 3rd, 2008, 10:24 PM
1. There is no order.
2. Wait a little while and the fruit will fall in your hand...

Actually there is a general order, though there are variations for everyone.

Take this to find out which stage you are in - http://www.lavistachurchofchrist.org/LVstudies/GrowingUpInTheLord/Boys/TannerStage.htm

Descriptions for whichever stage you are in.
http://www.lavistachurchofchrist.org/LVstudies/GrowingUpInTheLord/Boys/Stage%201.htm
http://www.lavistachurchofchrist.org/LVstudies/GrowingUpInTheLord/Boys/Stage%202.htm
http://www.lavistachurchofchrist.org/LVstudies/GrowingUpInTheLord/Boys/Stage%203.htm
http://www.lavistachurchofchrist.org/LVstudies/GrowingUpInTheLord/Boys/Stage%204.htm
http://www.lavistachurchofchrist.org/LVstudies/GrowingUpInTheLord/Boys/Stage%205.htm

You should just say, "You should just wait until it happens." Instead of putting it in a metaphor :P

laxgoalie182
November 4th, 2008, 05:14 PM
thanks and i figured out that i can cum =] so im happy

BlackBetty
November 4th, 2008, 10:25 PM
Actually there is a general order, though there are variations for everyone.

Take this to find out which stage you are in - http://www.lavistachurchofchrist.org/LVstudies/GrowingUpInTheLord/Boys/TannerStage.htm

Descriptions for whichever stage you are in.
http://www.lavistachurchofchrist.org/LVstudies/GrowingUpInTheLord/Boys/Stage%201.htm
http://www.lavistachurchofchrist.org/LVstudies/GrowingUpInTheLord/Boys/Stage%202.htm
http://www.lavistachurchofchrist.org/LVstudies/GrowingUpInTheLord/Boys/Stage%203.htm
http://www.lavistachurchofchrist.org/LVstudies/GrowingUpInTheLord/Boys/Stage%204.htm
http://www.lavistachurchofchrist.org/LVstudies/GrowingUpInTheLord/Boys/Stage%205.htm

You should just say, "You should just wait until it happens." Instead of putting it in a metaphor :P

Well exscue the fuck out of me... J/K..

pontiacdriver
November 5th, 2008, 06:06 AM
Ok im 13...i have very little armpit hair...what i do have is a few very light hairs...i dont have any dark hairs. I have a little hair down there...but anyways. Can anybody tell me the list of things in order that happens in puberty? like i know the first thing that happens is your testicles grow...can someone give me the order so i can know how far i am in puberty?

And is porn wrong...cause im strongly against it...but i can't hav an orgasm without it =[ and i only looked at it once and i feel guilty...is there any other way to hav an orgasm.

And is it normal if i can't cum at 13...like i can hav an orgasm but nothing comes out like no white or clear stuff.

Armpit Hair/Body Hair

I would not worry about the hair issue as you are only 13, and you probably won't be getting much hair until a little while longer. Body hair is really overrated, and don't worry if you don't get it right away. You have plently of time to grow as puberty is a 4-5 year process. You should consult the links above for puberty stages (also called the Tanner Stages) as those provide a very general blueprint of what happens. However, keep in mind everyone is different, and your development might vary somewhat from the Tanner stages.

Porn

As for the whole porn issue there is no right or wrong answer, and I understand your situation. I would suggest that as an acceptable substitute that you can use department store sales papers or catologues as a way you can access "clean" images. I suppose you can use women's magazines as another way to jack off as Cosmopolitan or something along those lines should do the job.

Ejaculating

In light of your now being able to ejaculate I guess all I can say in congratulations! Keep in mind that things are going to be hit or miss for a little while when it comes to ejaculating, and give yourself a couple of months for your cum to fully darken. I hope that your first ejaculation went well as it was a total shock for me as I thought I broke something!