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flying[star]
May 28th, 2008, 02:34 PM
oohhkaayyy..usually my house isn't bad, so i don't bother complaining,but this nott right

why the hell would ANY sane person let a TWO YEAR OLD child even touch kitchen knives????:confused::eek::confused::confused: seriuosly. what idiot's idea was that[oh that's right, my mother's]


So she's putting dishes away okay, and the baby tries to 'help' by putting silverware away...one problem, HE'S PUTTING ALL OF IT AWAY. kitchen knives, spoons, forks, butterknives, everything!...he took one knife and ran it up the dog's coat, and I was the one who took it from him. then the bitch said i was overreacting to it...he was (unintentionally) trying to hurt the damn dog!

this isn't the first time either...

*sigh* it's amazing nobody's been to the hospital over this sorta crap...

Ocean Challenger
May 28th, 2008, 02:40 PM
Yeah Its definatly not right to let infants hold knifes and its also not good for him to be hurting the dog, after all the dog knows less about whats going on than your brother does.

flying[star]
May 28th, 2008, 02:45 PM
sorry if this was totaly pointless....re-reading that it's not the most intelegent work i've ever written...

gar. still...I N S A N E...like with the stove. DON'T LET THE KID TRY TO STAND ON IT OR OPEN THE DOOR..

thesphinx
May 28th, 2008, 06:22 PM
Sounds like your mom could definitely be a little more aware of what your sister is doing!
Is you dad around? you could talk to him about it.

Oblivion
May 28th, 2008, 06:29 PM
^^ Her Brother haha :P

Anyway, talk to your mom about it... Or dad. Then if things get really out of hand try contacting child protection... Thats if it gets really bad though :)

Mojo Jojo
May 28th, 2008, 06:33 PM
^^ Her Brother haha :P

Anyway, talk to your mom about it... Or dad. Then if things get really out of hand try contacting child protection... Thats if it gets really bad though :)
I don't think child protection would be the best option just because a 2 year old is messing with knives. Why don't you take it upon yourself and teach the child not mess with things like that if the mother won't do it then step up and be there for protection.

thesphinx
May 28th, 2008, 06:41 PM
^^ Her Brother haha :P

Anyway, talk to your mom about it... Or dad. Then if things get really out of hand try contacting child protection... Thats if it gets really bad though :)

whoops :P

flying[star]
May 28th, 2008, 07:04 PM
tis okay michael, didn't really make his gender clear (woopsies)

=/ seems i'm gonna have to be mommy for him like i was with the other one (who's 5 now)

my dad is NEVER home and is a total asshole

IAMSAM
May 28th, 2008, 09:28 PM
Ahh, Gwyn='Parentified child'. This no good, Gwyn is child herself. Mother needs to be parent.

Try to calmly talk with mom about your concerns, keep it simple, and to the point. "Mom, the baby could have cut himself badly with the knife, I watched, and was worried".

If that doesn't work, tell some other family member. If your dad cannot help, try some other relative, maybe they can be both more reasonable and intervene.

flying[star]
May 29th, 2008, 08:55 AM
Ahh, Gwyn='Parentified child'. This no good, Gwyn is child herself. Mother needs to be parent.
lol yup

Try to calmly talk with mom about your concerns, keep it simple, and to the point. "Mom, the baby could have cut himself badly with the knife, I watched, and was worried".

...i was the one who took it away from the kid...then I got yelled at for 'overreacting'


I don't think child protection would be the best option just because a 2 year old is messing with knives. Why don't you take it upon yourself and teach the child not mess with things like that if the mother won't do it then step up and be there for protection.

No, it's not. and if i did that, i'd be compleatly shunned from the family (if you break this family apart i'll never forgive you bitch. i will hate you for the rest of my life if you do..that's why i can't do that)

i guess i'm gonna have to


what's sad it, it's normal for me to be a parental figure...when i was eight, my mom broke her leg and i was the one taking care of the other boy (who is five now...) when i wasn't in school...it's alot for a third grader to deal with....

Nihilus
May 30th, 2008, 09:57 AM
WOAH!!!!
Your mom could be alot more careful. Your younger sister could kill herself, hurt herself, or hurt someone else. Your mom should be alot more careful. Try talking to your mom or some other family member because what she did was dangerous.

flying[star]
May 30th, 2008, 11:15 AM
...i did talk to her....actually

later yesterday he was playing with the oven again....

"it's not a big deal. you're overreacting gwyn!!"
"Mom, it's the oven, do you want him to hurt himself??"
"He's NOT GOING TO"[skilfuly avoiding the question i might add]
*looks at dad for support on this one..he continues making coffee like nothing's going on*
(still me) "What's wrong with you?"
"YOU played with the oven, Bob played with the oven, Kass[kid we babysat] played with the oven[i know for a fact she and bob didn't...lying bitch], they're fine!"
*goes to room to avoid more fighting*



and they wonder why i'm messed up....

notsure101
May 30th, 2008, 04:04 PM
That doesn't sound right!

IAMSAM
May 30th, 2008, 10:16 PM
Gwyn, I'm not meaning to sound cold here, but I think you can only do what you can do. If your mom won;t listen to you, if you've told other adults who might have more influence, if you've told some adults at school, there's not much more you can do. As i said, you're just a kid yourself, you cannot take on the responsibiility for caring for everyone.

Get the word out that you (and they) need help. But know when to let go. Your wisdom isn't being heeded.

flying[star]
May 31st, 2008, 12:19 PM
Gwyn, I'm not meaning to sound cold here, but I think you can only do what you can do. If your mom won;t listen to you, if you've told other adults who might have more influence, if you've told some adults at school, there's not much more you can do. As i said, you're just a kid yourself, you cannot take on the responsibiility for caring for everyone.

Get the word out that you (and they) need help. But know when to let go. Your wisdom isn't being heeded.


don'worry bout it, ur not sounding cold at all...gosh, nobody calls me by name anymore (lol)



there aren't many people i can tell...i mean, if i told a teacher, they'd call cps on us and i'd be kicked out for good..and being 14(fourteen in a few weeks)&on the streets isn't a good thing...gah i need to chill

iceyfresh
July 15th, 2008, 08:28 PM
WOW thats just mest up!!!! infants shouldent hold knifes