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MeliWelli
June 15th, 2015, 09:00 AM
Hey - was thinking about this and really don't know why some things I like seeing aren't things I would want to try personally. I know most porn is fake and I don't watch it often but I sometimes do with or without my bf. There are certain types of scenes I really enjoy like big dick masturbation (I'm not a size queen tho) or interracial group sex scenes (but I don't prefer black guys over any others) but I still watch them...Not sure what to make of it, but do any of you feel the same way?

LITTLEANGEL16
June 15th, 2015, 09:22 AM
Porn can never be compared to real life.

Elena_
June 15th, 2015, 11:15 AM
Hey - was thinking about this and really don't know why some things I like seeing aren't things I would want to try personally. I know most porn is fake and I don't watch it often but I sometimes do with or without my bf. There are certain types of scenes I really enjoy like big dick masturbation (I'm not a size queen tho) or interracial group sex scenes (but I don't prefer black guys over any others) but I still watch them...Not sure what to make of it, but do any of you feel the same way?

Same here !! But i think thats really normal lol For example , I like violent films but I dont want to be killed or shoot ... (Its a bad example ikr haha)

LucieP
June 15th, 2015, 02:38 PM
Porn is entertainment not education. Lots of stuff in it you would never want to do in real life. Anal sex for one thing is waaaay more aggressive and rough in porn than it should ever be in real life. Its cool to masturbate to sometimes, like a fantasy, but I feel bad if youre learning all about sex from porn since its so far from real life. The best way to learn about sex is to do it and experiment with someone you like and respect and trust!!

Legs
June 15th, 2015, 04:24 PM
The few porn videos I have watched are definitely scenes that are being acted by two people. May I say terribly acting. :) The sex is sometimes so bizarre sometimes with the things they do that I would never even think of doing something like that. I still have watched it before(not a lot), and I will continue to watch because there just might be something I pick up from one of the videos that I might want to do with my boyfriend down the road. I know one thing that I won't be doing and that is spitting a lot on my boyfriends Dick when giving him a blowjob. I don't have to use extra spit like that on his dick when the inside of my mouth is already wet anyway.

Taryn98
June 15th, 2015, 06:23 PM
Variety is the spice of life. Nothing wrong with watching things that you wouldn't do, or doing things that some people wouldn't.

biancachica
June 15th, 2015, 09:08 PM
The porn I watched was mostly with my boyfriends as a part of foreplay I guess. I know its not real life but it does influence our sex lives. Sometimes my boyfriend asks to try something new that I know he saw in porn. Sometimes it gives us ideas, but most of the things they do in porn is for the cameras and not to pleasure the people having sex.

MeliWelli
June 15th, 2015, 11:03 PM
Thanks everyone! I appreciate all your responses, feel better for sure :) I'm definitely not looking out for educational tips, but it does give me new ideas sometimes. Some of it is hot but like most of you already said, its mostly entertainment and just cause you watch it doesn't mean you'll do it. Thanks again :)

Isabella_
June 17th, 2015, 04:14 AM
It's not real life but it's performed by real people really doing it so I dunno

sweettayla
June 18th, 2015, 11:43 PM
It's fun to watch, but l'm always amazed at what girls will let guys do to them.

Levy
June 19th, 2015, 12:10 AM
People are attracted to things they wouldn't want to try, because the idea of something slightly taboo is alluring.

Cangirl
June 19th, 2015, 07:05 AM
I kinda think that porn is our fantasy life or what we are curious to try but scared to or not ready to do yet. But like somebody said anal is to aggressive or hard in porn and i don't think you can do that everyday in real life lol. I also heard that a lot of girls like girl/girl porn and aren't even bi but maybe curious? idk. so maybe it like seeing what you think about but don't really want to try.

Variety is the spice of life. Nothing wrong with watching things that you wouldn't do, or doing things that some people wouldn't.

I love that :)

GeorginaDW
June 19th, 2015, 10:57 AM
Yes I feel the same way. I agree with Levy about taboos being alluring.

Felicia_
June 24th, 2015, 07:06 AM
Just have to remember it's an act and that they are well prepared and practiced

Renata_cmp
June 24th, 2015, 04:53 PM
when you know what happens behind the scenes of porn, you dont want to watch any porn ever again...

mayyya
June 25th, 2015, 04:17 PM
I watch only amateur type of porn. Quality is not so good but it is real, not fake like pro porn.

Iam-Marie
June 26th, 2015, 01:12 PM
it comes only and earn only about money

ClaraWho
June 26th, 2015, 01:41 PM
When you take into account that women tend to only get into porn if they were raped/molested as children, then watching them be taken advantage of is just adding to their victimisation yet again.

I hate porn and it depresses me.

~ Clara