Gay or Not?

[amigay]

I just really want to know what you people think about this.

I'm 16 and I kinda have a crush on this guy I know. I've never been interested in girls ever since I was a kid, till now.

I've been wondering whether I really am gay, or is this just a phase (I don't think it is) or will this be part of my life? And if so, should I tell him about my feelings towards him? Cause I don't feel like risking it and losing a friend.

What do you people think?

[Kev*]

wqat eva u wanna do

soz if this isnt much help

maybe you shouls leave it a while and then see if its a phase or not

[Ezz]

i dont know if you are gay, if will know if you do.
do you interesting on guy, and you wanted be with him forever? if you do, then i think you are gay...

if you are gay, that doesnt means that your friend is gay, just tell him if he is gay or i think you will ruin your friend ship.... *for my opinions*

by the way, do whatever you feel is good and dont regret

[Ravenous]

Its probably just a phase, If you still feel the same way a few months later then it probably isn't.
Hope this helps.

a_many_question_boy I know english isn't your first language but you dont make sense very often....

[Rowan1011]

I'd probably still hang out with one of my best friend if I found out he was gay....... But.. I wouldn't feel the same way about him. If I were you, I wouldn't say a word unless you find out he's gay too :o..

That is of course, if you are gay but I have no idea if you are.

[Ezz]

Its probably just a phase, If you still feel the same way a few months later then it probably isn't.
Hope this helps.

a_many_question_boy I know english isn't your first language but you dont make sense very often....

huh?

*tell him if you think he is gay
*not tell him if you think he is not a gay

[Dante]

well u said u dont think its a phase......so then ur probably gay

[amigay]

Well... it's easy to say tell. But it's difficult to do it.

I've thought of plenty of ways, but I don't think I can apply any of them, and it's even more scary if you don't know what to expect out of him. I've really been thinking about all these and it makes me quite desperate to look for a way out.

[Kev*]

a_many_question_boy there is a site called www.freetranslations.com and also what is your first languadge

[amigay]

I'm deciding to tell him. But problem is I don't know how I should start or even talk to him about it.

Any suggestions?

[Kev*]

jus say here i got summat 2 tell u n if u tell every1 in skool i will commit suicide (jus 2 scare him)

[Kev*]

o ok oooops dont do that

[ejebay91]

whenever you feel comfortable tell someone you really trust are just wait untill your 18 to tell you parents

[<-Dying_to_Live->]

yep gay sorry

[amigay]

But I'm afraid that if I tell someone about this... I might just lose a friend.

[Ezz]

you really think you are gay? why your friend will leave you if you are gay?