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jessie3
March 2nd, 2015, 09:40 PM
I have a question that i never really thought about until now, As I'm currently getting flashbacks of what happened to me.

Here's my question.

Was it rape if i was between the ages of 8-12 if he was under 20? Was i molested? I don't know.

Luminous
March 2nd, 2015, 09:43 PM
If he was over 18, then legally, yes. Honestly at your age, it pretty much is a yes anyways. But did you consent to it? Did you understand what was happening?

jessie3
March 2nd, 2015, 09:47 PM
I don't think i consented. I told him a couple of times that it hurted and when ever he was doing me i always kept quiet

Skaterdude1998
March 2nd, 2015, 11:38 PM
You can not consent at 8 to 12 anyway. If he was over 18 16 in some
states it is rape.

Straya
March 3rd, 2015, 05:24 AM
if he was any more than 2 years older than you then yes it was rape

cami
March 3rd, 2015, 02:05 PM
Sounds like rape. I'm sorry for you :(

Dalcourt
March 4th, 2015, 09:58 AM
You were much too young to consent so I'm sorry to say it was rape.

fairmaiden
March 5th, 2015, 09:30 PM
If you didn't want it to happen, then it is rape, no matter what age he was. I'm sorry ):

MadManic
April 7th, 2015, 07:13 PM
Age is irrelevant in determining if this was rape or not. You were against what was going on. Saying no: means no. Staying silent out of fear: means no. Pushing away etc: means no. It doesn't matter if he was only two months older than you, you didn't want it so therefore, it was rape. Especially if you are having flashbacks. Consensual sex should never cause flashbacks. I'm sorry you had to go through that

mrjc
June 8th, 2015, 08:01 AM
sounds like rape, call the police

Lost in the Echo
June 10th, 2015, 01:22 AM
This is just past the two month bump limit. Please only post in threads with less than two months of inactivity. :locked: