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Hallie
May 26th, 2014, 01:28 AM
I get them all the time. I'll shake and tremble and i'll feel like I can't breathe. It's horrible. Is there anything I can do to make it less horrible without having to wait it out?

ksdnfkfr
May 26th, 2014, 02:33 AM
not really anything i can think of outside of popping med like benzodiazepine for severe ones. drinking ice cold water seems to help some. outside of that it's just a lot of deep breathing and walking/pacing. i had some pretty bad ones last month or so :(

Sirgarett
May 26th, 2014, 05:15 AM
I think the best way to combat a panic attack is to be calm and in order to do so, you can maybe try reciting the Alphabet backwards.

DeadEyes
June 8th, 2014, 05:36 PM
Sit down and breathe.

TheLoneWolf
June 9th, 2014, 11:05 AM
Sit down, hold my breath for 30 seconds, breathe again like I'm dying and so it continues...
I don't know how to stop it...

KieranRules
June 9th, 2014, 11:46 AM
I get them all the time. I'll shake and tremble and i'll feel like I can't breathe. It's horrible. Is there anything I can do to make it less horrible without having to wait it out?

When I got over have panic attacks I always used to go outside listen to the birds and watch the cars go by and forget about all the problems in the world. The main thing to do really is to trick yourself into thinking you're not having a panic attack.

In the worst cases however, grab some biscuits and water, go outside, breath 3 seconds in and 3 seconds out while eating and drinking. This will make your brain focus on too many things at once as it will be studying the outside environment, concentrate on your breathing and dealing with food and drink as well. This doesn't always work straight away but it will help your heart rate go down to normal but you may still be in a bit oh shock or unsteadiness.

I hope this helps! :)

Lost in the Echo
June 10th, 2014, 05:50 AM
Yeah, basically just calm yourself down. Take deep breaths, and keep your mind off of stressful things. It's simple, but it really does work.

Karkat
June 12th, 2014, 09:52 AM
When I got over have panic attacks I always used to go outside listen to the birds and watch the cars go by and forget about all the problems in the world. The main thing to do really is to trick yourself into thinking you're not having a panic attack.

In the worst cases however, grab some biscuits and water, go outside, breath 3 seconds in and 3 seconds out while eating and drinking. This will make your brain focus on too many things at once as it will be studying the outside environment, concentrate on your breathing and dealing with food and drink as well. This doesn't always work straight away but it will help your heart rate go down to normal but you may still be in a bit oh shock or unsteadiness.

I hope this helps! :)

Best advice so far. The key part is in bold- the trick is to distract yourself.

As my old therapist said, a panic attack is basically an adrenaline rush in the absence of something that should actually cause an adrenaline rush.

In other words, anxiety. The future can't hurt you technically speaking, but panic attacks are its way of trying to. But the thing is, you're not in the future, where the anxiety is coming from. You're in the present. The trick is to stay in the present. Suddenly, you're not in the future, the anxiety goes away.

What has been suggested to me is to feel the sensations of my body just existing, basically. Focus on what exists NOW. Focus on where my feet are, what they are touching, focus on my breath, focus on the painting on the wall, etc.

I mean, inevitably, you'll have the times your brain will get a case of the dumbs, or that your panic attack will be too strong for it to work, but you just have to tell yourself you'll get through it. (I know that's a bit ironic, but isn't focusing on a positive future event more productive than focusing on a negative one?)

Edit: Would also like to add that the "calm yourself down" advice is kind of bad, and pretty insulting- you can't. It's not that easy. If it were that easy, no one would give two shits about panic disorder, etc.

Sure, calming down is the GOAL, but it isn't exactly one of the steps. You can't fly on the plane if you're not at the airport- you can't use the mode of transportation you're trying to get to to get to the mode of transportation you're trying to get to. It isn't possible, logically speaking.

fitnessfun
June 12th, 2014, 02:53 PM
I breathe in for 5 seconds and then hold my breath before letting it out. I do this over and over until I feel calm

bob97
June 12th, 2014, 05:07 PM
I do the deep breathing stuff like everybody else says. But I still feel lingering effects of it for a while after(heart being funny, dizzy, stuff like that). I try to go out and play basketball or work out and that helps alot.

Ben_Frost
June 12th, 2014, 11:44 PM
Sit down, breathe, snap my fingers, or look something to tap on, or I go to play a game.

Cognizant
June 13th, 2014, 01:09 AM
This isn't the most happy solution to a problem, but if it's late out and I can't go out I just force myself to cry.

Otherwise I'll talk to someone, shoot photos, play the sims, jerk off, or do anything to get my mind off of what's making me freak out. I've been known to randomly start cleaning the kitchen when I'm trying to get my mind off things.

KieranRules
June 13th, 2014, 10:32 AM
Best advice so far. The key part is in bold- the trick is to distract yourself.

As my old therapist said, a panic attack is basically an adrenaline rush in the absence of something that should actually cause an adrenaline rush.

In other words, anxiety. The future can't hurt you technically speaking, but panic attacks are its way of trying to. But the thing is, you're not in the future, where the anxiety is coming from. You're in the present. The trick is to stay in the present. Suddenly, you're not in the future, the anxiety goes away.

What has been suggested to me is to feel the sensations of my body just existing, basically. Focus on what exists NOW. Focus on where my feet are, what they are touching, focus on my breath, focus on the painting on the wall, etc.

I mean, inevitably, you'll have the times your brain will get a case of the dumbs, or that your panic attack will be too strong for it to work, but you just have to tell yourself you'll get through it. (I know that's a bit ironic, but isn't focusing on a positive future event more productive than focusing on a negative one?)

Edit: Would also like to add that the "calm yourself down" advice is kind of bad, and pretty insulting- you can't. It's not that easy. If it were that easy, no one would give two shits about panic disorder, etc.

Sure, calming down is the GOAL, but it isn't exactly one of the steps. You can't fly on the plane if you're not at the airport- you can't use the mode of transportation you're trying to get to to get to the mode of transportation you're trying to get to. It isn't possible, logically speaking.

Yep, when I mention about calming down btw I'm not saying: "oh you have to calm down, it's so simple". In fact I am aware that it is the hardest part but I wouldn't call it a goal, depending on the panic attack you're having. In the case of a physical adrenaline rush or heart rate increase it is certainly not the goal but instead a step as the aim is to reduce the strain on the heart and lungs, in the future making heart attacks less likely and reducing any other related problems. It is hard, very hard but just like becoming hyperactive, you can stop it and the only way to do that is to slow down and 'relax' as such. Again, I know it is hard to do that also but it is what you have to do.

If it's more mental: Do as you said above

If it's more physical: sit down, eat a biscuit and forget about it in the mean time, of which I generalised as 'calming down'

Sorry that I may have insulted you or anyone else by not really making it clear but I hope this kinda makes it more specific to the kind of panic attack you may be responding to. See, the panic attack was not specified and symptoms we'rent listed which is fine, but in response they would have got a 'general' answer like mine. As a previous sufferer maybe I'm just a little too used to the topic and just assume people know what I mean... Sorry about that! :)

Edit: Just as a note, mental panic attacks should be consulted with a health professional, I don't know if you have to pay in the USA or not but it is worth it as people can develop full anxiety symptoms which can lead to major stress and even paranoia. HOWEVER saying that, most teenagers go through a phase of panic attacks as a result of hormones shocking the body and most people do NOT develop serious illnesses when they are older but in my opinion it's worth talking to someone about mental panic attacks if you are a sufferer.

Also: When mentioning physical panic attack or mental I mean more physical draining panic attacks or more mentally draining panic attacks because, obviously, all panic attacks have mental and physical symptoms.

All of which is directed not at the person who wrote the quote but to anyone who may be reading this. Therefore this text is indirect is built to help or explain to anyone reading. Thanks :)

ChaseDakoda
June 13th, 2014, 03:40 PM
All answers are great. My panic attacks are all about dieing, Like being buried alive.

I am on Medication called Clonazapan. and I can do anything.

Karkat
June 13th, 2014, 04:00 PM
Yep, when I mention about calming down btw I'm not saying: "oh you have to calm down, it's so simple". In fact I am aware that it is the hardest part but I wouldn't call it a goal, depending on the panic attack you're having. In the case of a physical adrenaline rush or heart rate increase it is certainly not the goal but instead a step as the aim is to reduce the strain on the heart and lungs, in the future making heart attacks less likely and reducing any other related problems. It is hard, very hard but just like becoming hyperactive, you can stop it and the only way to do that is to slow down and 'relax' as such. Again, I know it is hard to do that also but it is what you have to do.

If it's more mental: Do as you said above

If it's more physical: sit down, eat a biscuit and forget about it in the mean time, of which I generalised as 'calming down'

Sorry that I may have insulted you or anyone else by not really making it clear but I hope this kinda makes it more specific to the kind of panic attack you may be responding to. See, the panic attack was not specified and symptoms we'rent listed which is fine, but in response they would have got a 'general' answer like mine. As a previous sufferer maybe I'm just a little too used to the topic and just assume people know what I mean... Sorry about that! :)

Edit: Just as a note, mental panic attacks should be consulted with a health professional, I don't know if you have to pay in the USA or not but it is worth it as people can develop full anxiety symptoms which can lead to major stress and even paranoia. HOWEVER saying that, most teenagers go through a phase of panic attacks as a result of hormones shocking the body and most people do NOT develop serious illnesses when they are older but in my opinion it's worth talking to someone about mental panic attacks if you are a sufferer.

Also: When mentioning physical panic attack or mental I mean more physical draining panic attacks or more mentally draining panic attacks because, obviously, all panic attacks have mental and physical symptoms.

All of which is directed not at the person who wrote the quote but to anyone who may be reading this. Therefore this text is indirect is built to help or explain to anyone reading. Thanks :)

I wasn't actually referring to you when I said that :lol: I do tend to be outspoken, but I try to be tactful :P I actually pretty much entirely agreed with you

Ah, see, that's the thing though- people with panic attacks? Usually don't get heart attacks from them. They just THINK they're going to. Which is both cruel and a huge relief at the same time. No, to have a heart attack, you must have hypertension+high blood pressure- which can happen, however, usually anyone under 40 who is healthy can take the strain. Even if you do have minor heart problems, unless you are prone to one, the other, or both, heart attack is fairly unlikely. As is a syncopal episode (passing out), because the part of your brain that can actually communicate with your body knows that nothing bad is going to happen. (Syncopal episodes are there to protect your body from damage by shutting down nonessential "programs" as it were. Ever had your computer crash? That's what your brain does when you pass out. It just freaks us out because we expect consciousness and the ability to stand upright in an "ok" person- the brain doesn't exactly see things our way.)(isn't it funny how our brains are such huge dicks- you can communicate with your body to move it, but your body cannot communicate with you, other than in the form of "WOW THIS REALLY HURTS" or "I FEEL LIKE I'M GOING TO DIE" If we could, you know, hear voices in our head or something. Come on, brain.)

Now see, the problem with that is that panic attacks ARE mental- even if they are a misfiring of things in your adrenal gland, this is because your brain is sending off a weird signal that it shouldn't be, because panic attacks are typically due to chemical imbalance in the brain. I mean, it's not so much that it's "all in your head", however, your mind IS causing the attack. The anxiety you get about something turns into a much bigger response because your brain is dealing with it the wrong way.

I mean, all mental illness is physical, just not in the sense that diabetes, or cancer is. Plus, the difference between mental illness and what I listed above is that your mind does have some control over it, which is what therapy is there for.

Actually, you have that wrong- panic attacks aren't a precursor of anxiety disorder- panic attacks are typically as a result of existing anxiety problems, or possibly an anxiety disorder. Severe problems with panic attacks are called panic disorder, which is a type of anxiety disorder, such as GAD or OCD. (I have all three) What you are referring to is called panic disorder, and while it can cause extreme stress and paranoia, episodes of panic attacks do not necessarily lead to this (as most people have isolated panic attacks once or twice in their life, and yes, as you've said they seem to be more common in teens through twentysomethings- probably due to school, and impending adulthood. A lot of changes happen in this period of time, and all are stressful to one degree or another.)

And really, seeking professional help is always a good thing- HOWEVER, it tends to be expensive, and very hard to go through with for those with anxiety, so you look at the criteria of when it starts to become a 'serious problem', and severely complicate your life- at this point it is practically necessary in order to function. (There will always be varying degrees of mental illness, and varying degrees of resiliency and natural ability to cope in people.)

1. Major stress in relationships
2. Major change in school or work performance, as well as how you feel about your ability to function in these situations (Once you get to the point of feeling like you need to quit your job/calling in constant sick days to either/dropping out of school/etc, you need professional help.)
3. Major change in schedule and daily patterns (sleeping more/less/inconsistently, eating more/less/inconsistently, neglecting hygiene, etc.)
4. Being unable to "cope with life", unable to complete simple tasks or run simple errands. (Please seek help before it comes to this- I've been there, I am there, and you don't want to hit that low.)

And really, you can tell when it becomes a problem. You just kind of know. It comes in the form of "I can't take this anymore". I feel like I've left out signs, but those are really the major ones.

I see where you're differentiating the panic attacks now, but that doesn't really make sense in context to above- not to mention that they are caused by the same thing, and can be solved by the same thing.

Melodic
June 13th, 2014, 05:01 PM
Simple breathing in and out, realize I'm panicking, then finding something to distract myself to help calm me down. It works every time I do so.

KieranRules
June 13th, 2014, 05:17 PM
I wasn't actually referring to you when I said that :lol: I do tend to be outspoken, but I try to be tactful :P I actually pretty much entirely agreed with you

Ah, see, that's the thing though- people with panic attacks? Usually don't get heart attacks from them. They just THINK they're going to. Which is both cruel and a huge relief at the same time. No, to have a heart attack, you must have hypertension+high blood pressure- which can happen, however, usually anyone under 40 who is healthy can take the strain. Even if you do have minor heart problems, unless you are prone to one, the other, or both, heart attack is fairly unlikely. As is a syncopal episode (passing out), because the part of your brain that can actually communicate with your body knows that nothing bad is going to happen. (Syncopal episodes are there to protect your body from damage by shutting down nonessential "programs" as it were. Ever had your computer crash? That's what your brain does when you pass out. It just freaks us out because we expect consciousness and the ability to stand upright in an "ok" person- the brain doesn't exactly see things our way.)(isn't it funny how our brains are such huge dicks- you can communicate with your body to move it, but your body cannot communicate with you, other than in the form of "WOW THIS REALLY HURTS" or "I FEEL LIKE I'M GOING TO DIE" If we could, you know, hear voices in our head or something. Come on, brain.)

Now see, the problem with that is that panic attacks ARE mental- even if they are a misfiring of things in your adrenal gland, this is because your brain is sending off a weird signal that it shouldn't be, because panic attacks are typically due to chemical imbalance in the brain. I mean, it's not so much that it's "all in your head", however, your mind IS causing the attack. The anxiety you get about something turns into a much bigger response because your brain is dealing with it the wrong way.

I mean, all mental illness is physical, just not in the sense that diabetes, or cancer is. Plus, the difference between mental illness and what I listed above is that your mind does have some control over it, which is what therapy is there for.

Actually, you have that wrong- panic attacks aren't a precursor of anxiety disorder- panic attacks are typically as a result of existing anxiety problems, or possibly an anxiety disorder. Severe problems with panic attacks are called panic disorder, which is a type of anxiety disorder, such as GAD or OCD. (I have all three) What you are referring to is called panic disorder, and while it can cause extreme stress and paranoia, episodes of panic attacks do not necessarily lead to this (as most people have isolated panic attacks once or twice in their life, and yes, as you've said they seem to be more common in teens through twentysomethings- probably due to school, and impending adulthood. A lot of changes happen in this period of time, and all are stressful to one degree or another.)

And really, seeking professional help is always a good thing- HOWEVER, it tends to be expensive, and very hard to go through with for those with anxiety, so you look at the criteria of when it starts to become a 'serious problem', and severely complicate your life- at this point it is practically necessary in order to function. (There will always be varying degrees of mental illness, and varying degrees of resiliency and natural ability to cope in people.)

1. Major stress in relationships
2. Major change in school or work performance, as well as how you feel about your ability to function in these situations (Once you get to the point of feeling like you need to quit your job/calling in constant sick days to either/dropping out of school/etc, you need professional help.)
3. Major change in schedule and daily patterns (sleeping more/less/inconsistently, eating more/less/inconsistently, neglecting hygiene, etc.)
4. Being unable to "cope with life", unable to complete simple tasks or run simple errands. (Please seek help before it comes to this- I've been there, I am there, and you don't want to hit that low.)

And really, you can tell when it becomes a problem. You just kind of know. It comes in the form of "I can't take this anymore". I feel like I've left out signs, but those are really the major ones.

I see where you're differentiating the panic attacks now, but that doesn't really make sense in context to above- not to mention that they are caused by the same thing, and can be solved by the same thing.

I was close enough :P

I just wanted to say that it's things like this that make me question the Governments of America, being British I'm very used to seeing a doctor and health specialists at least every year without and kind of charge and medication that is priced is very cheep. I mean, I know this is short of off topic but regarding children and teens that have common problems like panic attacks, they can be solved very quickly with free and very decent care from professional health carers. The NHS (British National Health Service) was what helped me through it all and I no longer suffer from them. However they are on a likely return somewhere down the line. Since this is slightly related could I ask you you're opinion on what I think is known as 'Obama Care'. I think the Mods would rather we discussed that else where though so if you want pm me or something because you seem like someone I could always have an interesting convo with :P

Oh and btw when I split the panic attacks up into the two sections they were more angled at the symptoms rather then the cause and solution... (While writing that it didn't even make sense in my mind xD) EXAMPLE: When I suffered with panic attacks I would usually feel physical affects taking place e.g a rise in temperature. Where as, sometimes I would start worrying about people or think too much into things. I only really had one thing over the other and I presumed it was the same for everyone? Never the less I split the symptoms into two to I could have a more effective approach of dealing with them as the usual 'calming down' method never worked for the one. Maybe it's just me and my weird way of dealing with things haha. If that still doesn't really make sense then give up, I really can't explain things very well (you can probably tell) :P

Oh and btw your points are totally agreed with just that, as I said before, I just can't explain things very well.

Edit: I love how we're going in depth with this and everyone else are just repeating the same things like "just calm down". It would be nice if it was more then me and you taking this further then just a simple answer. (not hinting to people reading this to get more involved at all ._.)

To anyone else reading this bit; I figured that playing with squeezable objects can take your mind off the panic attacks and so can having some kind of activity with a pet! :)

Karkat
June 14th, 2014, 02:32 AM
I was close enough :P

I just wanted to say that it's things like this that make me question the Governments of America, being British I'm very used to seeing a doctor and health specialists at least every year without and kind of charge and medication that is priced is very cheep. I mean, I know this is short of off topic but regarding children and teens that have common problems like panic attacks, they can be solved very quickly with free and very decent care from professional health carers. The NHS (British National Health Service) was what helped me through it all and I no longer suffer from them. However they are on a likely return somewhere down the line. Since this is slightly related could I ask you you're opinion on what I think is known as 'Obama Care'. I think the Mods would rather we discussed that else where though so if you want pm me or something because you seem like someone I could always have an interesting convo with :P

Oh and btw when I split the panic attacks up into the two sections they were more angled at the symptoms rather then the cause and solution... (While writing that it didn't even make sense in my mind xD) EXAMPLE: When I suffered with panic attacks I would usually feel physical affects taking place e.g a rise in temperature. Where as, sometimes I would start worrying about people or think too much into things. I only really had one thing over the other and I presumed it was the same for everyone? Never the less I split the symptoms into two to I could have a more effective approach of dealing with them as the usual 'calming down' method never worked for the one. Maybe it's just me and my weird way of dealing with things haha. If that still doesn't really make sense then give up, I really can't explain things very well (you can probably tell) :P

Oh and btw your points are totally agreed with just that, as I said before, I just can't explain things very well.

Edit: I love how we're going in depth with this and everyone else are just repeating the same things like "just calm down". It would be nice if it was more then me and you taking this further then just a simple answer. (not hinting to people reading this to get more involved at all ._.)

To anyone else reading this bit; I figured that playing with squeezable objects can take your mind off the panic attacks and so can having some kind of activity with a pet! :)

Oh believe me, (in my opinion) any American in their right mind feels the same way. The government sucks.

I actually haven't read up on Obamacare or anything- I feel that it's unfair that insurance is a legal requirement, because er, some people can't feed themselves, or afford homes. What the actual fuck. You think they can afford insurance? There's a line, and if you're over the line, and you have medical problems, health insurance is a great thing if it's good. HOWEVER, if you're under the line, it's practically pointless- you could be saving that money to make sure you don't starve to death or die from being exposed to the elements instead. (As health insurance is also very expensive here. I'm glad that I'm not going to be 18 for another few months, because I'm dealing with a lot as it is, and insurance is not only the last thing on my mind, but something vital to me. I'm both mentally and physically disabled- I can't afford to be uninsured. [ironically])

But yeah, that's really off-topic :lol:

Hah, alright. :P

I find that pets can help a lot if they're uh...In the right disposition. XD If my animals are fidgety or noisy, it doesn't help me.

TheLoneWolf
June 14th, 2014, 03:41 AM
When I got over have panic attacks I always used to go outside listen to the birds and watch the cars go by and forget about all the problems in the world. The main thing to do really is to trick yourself into thinking you're not having a panic attack.

In the worst cases however, grab some biscuits and water, go outside, breath 3 seconds in and 3 seconds out while eating and drinking. This will make your brain focus on too many things at once as it will be studying the outside environment, concentrate on your breathing and dealing with food and drink as well. This doesn't always work straight away but it will help your heart rate go down to normal but you may still be in a bit oh shock or unsteadiness.

I hope this helps! :)
Tried this a few days ago, and it worked!
Thanks so much for the advice :)

KieranRules
June 14th, 2014, 11:32 AM
Tried this a few days ago, and it worked!
Thanks so much for the advice :)

I'm glad :)

you never know, after a few weeks they might start to die down and become less of a problem! Keep it up! :)

KieranRules
June 14th, 2014, 11:45 AM
Oh believe me, (in my opinion) any American in their right mind feels the same way. The government sucks.

I actually haven't read up on Obamacare or anything- I feel that it's unfair that insurance is a legal requirement, because er, some people can't feed themselves, or afford homes. What the actual fuck. You think they can afford insurance? There's a line, and if you're over the line, and you have medical problems, health insurance is a great thing if it's good. HOWEVER, if you're under the line, it's practically pointless- you could be saving that money to make sure you don't starve to death or die from being exposed to the elements instead. (As health insurance is also very expensive here. I'm glad that I'm not going to be 18 for another few months, because I'm dealing with a lot as it is, and insurance is not only the last thing on my mind, but something vital to me. I'm both mentally and physically disabled- I can't afford to be uninsured. [ironically])

But yeah, that's really off-topic :lol:

Hah, alright. :P

I find that pets can help a lot if they're uh...In the right disposition. XD If my animals are fidgety or noisy, it doesn't help me.

Well in the UK there are no 'insurance plans' offered by the NHS. It's quite simple, if you pay taxes in the UK then some of that tax goes to the NHS from the tax budget. The good thing about this is that if you are homeless or don't pay tax because you don't have a job, you are still allowed treatment and care for free. Also, you're ambulance service runs off the 999 (American 911) call system and can't charge you for service as that is also paid from the tax budget. The system makes it fair for everyone and simple however it takes up about 30% of the tax budget and encourages illegal immigration.

Income tax in the UK has always been about 20% on average and the NHS hasn't changed the rates of tax. In other words, to the people, it's a 99.9% free healthcare system. In the sense that it doesn't charge you any more in tax. The one 0.1% is the fact some treatment is too expensive for the NHS so you have to pay yourself. :)

I'm going to stop talking about that anyway before I get stung by a mod :P

Karkat
June 14th, 2014, 11:47 AM
Well in the UK there are no 'insurance plans' offered by the NHS. It's quite simple, if you pay taxes in the UK then some of that tax goes to the NHS from the tax budget. The good thing about this is that if you are homeless or don't pay tax because you don't have a job, you are still allowed treatment and care for free. Also, you're ambulance service runs off the 999 (American 911) call system and can't charge you for service as that is also paid from the tax budget. The system makes it fair for everyone and simple however it takes up about 30% of the tax budget and encourages illegal immigration.

Income tax in the UK has always been about 20% on average and the NHS hasn't changed the rates of tax. In other words, to the people, it's a 99.9% free healthcare system. In the sense that it doesn't charge you any more in tax. The one 0.1% is the fact some treatment is too expensive for the NHS so you have to pay yourself. :)

I'm going to stop talking about that anyway before I get stung by a mod :P

Haha, no shit- I'm from a first world country, and that'd motivate me to illegally immigrate :P

Yeeeah, we'd better stop :lol:

Caligari
July 7th, 2014, 05:56 AM
I take Xanax, works like a charm, I don't know whatId do without it.

CosmicNoodle
July 10th, 2014, 12:37 PM
Personally?
I cry and rock back and fourth, my panic attacks only really happen when I'm having g a total melt down anyway, meaning I'm to much of a mess to deal with it properly so I just fuck around till its over.

Gottaloveaginger14
July 12th, 2014, 10:49 AM
I just try taking short quick breaths because normally I forget to breath when I have a panic attack and normally my breathing eventually goes back to rormal. I also do better if someone hugs me or holds me

Caligari
July 22nd, 2014, 07:45 AM
The only way I know how to deal with them is to take Xanax and distract myself until it works, it takes about 20 minutes at most

nikkissippi121
August 20th, 2014, 12:32 PM
I have at least one a day. I mostly just try to breathe normal and distract myself, however possible. It's usually worse in public or when I'm trying to sleep, so I often daydream - I like to write and draw, so I usually just focus on a story I'm trying to write and that'll get me through it. I have both Generalized Anxiety Disorder (GAD) and Social Anxiety Disorder (SAD) that were so bad that, when I was a kid, I had to be the first kid to arrive at preschool, and when I started high school, I wouldn't go into a classroom if I were late for class. In June, I graduated and was on the front row, on stage, in front of a crowd of about two to three thousand. I'd never have been able to sit there like that years ago, but I've worked hard and when the day actually came, it wasn't too bad.
Sorry, this got kind of long, but, tl;dr, find something that helps distract you from your anxiety and stick with it. It might not fix it altogether, but it should help. Good luck! :)

Yugen
August 26th, 2014, 01:44 PM
I usually try to leave the situation and find somewhere that's pretty open and not crowded, and breathe. I'll also get someone there with me that I trust. It's easier to deal with until it passes.

slopestyle
September 16th, 2014, 12:51 AM
My panic attacks (other than typical anxiety anyway) manifest both mentally and physically. Short of using medication (which I do when they're really, really, really bad and don't go away) I do as everyone else stated and eat/drink something and do everything possible to completely distract my brain from the way I'm feeling. The one thing that actually helps me a lot is driving, believe it or not. But when the panic attacks hit me hard, it's the first thing I do because it's the one thing that I know I can NOT mess up in for the sake of myself and others around me, the amount of focus it takes to drive normal when they hit helps me tenfold. I'll even stop and do things like get food or drink, get gas, buy something random in any store and just keep driving. That way I'm forcing myself to interact in a normal scenario and forget about it even if it's just for a minute or two.
If I'm around friends or (some of) my family and they see it hit me, they talk with me and hold my hand and just remind me that it's going to pass and they completely understand what's going on.

Although I've never been diagnosed with any mental illnesses, I know anxiety runs deeeeeeep in my family coming from my grandmother, and my sister suffers from mild depression that she takes meds for (same dose and same pill for 6 years and she's been great), I know I have OCD but it's pretty mild but I'm sure that doesn't help with my anxiety issues.

Seriously though as crazy as it may sound to some of you, if you have the legal ability to- drive!!! Even go around the block just to see how you can handle it and go from there. Sometimes it helps me within 5 minutes, sometimes it takes 40 minutes or more. But it's enough to distract me and help me come back down to a normal state of mind

michealstich
September 16th, 2014, 09:35 AM
I don't have a panic attack disorder, but do get panic attacks occasionally when things are bad.

How do I deal with them.. here are my tips.

Put your hands on a flat surface... if there is a table or counter you can lean on, that's good. Sometimes putting your hands flat on a wall can help too. It's good to feel physically stable.
If you are scared you might pass out, sit down. They recommend putting your head between your legs in a sitting position... i'm a bit too "fleshy" and not flexible enough for that personally, so can't say if it helps or not because i've not tried it.

Affirmations. "It's ok". Usually I can't cope with any long-winded affirmation when i'm in the thick of it, but just telling yourself "It's ok... it's alright..." can be quite comforting. Remind yourself that it will pass.

Breathing. Proper big breaths.. like, imagine you're blowing up a balloon. I find puckering my lips like i'm blowing up a balloon helps too. You might look a pillock, but it is helpful.

When you start to feel a bit less wobbly, just take some small steps to get back in your body. Take it easy.
Go and get a glass of water.
If you're prescribed PRN meds, take one of those if they help and you're allowed to do that.

Have a bloody good cry about it too. It's ok.

Deleted User
September 16th, 2014, 11:19 AM
I take medication daily for my anxiety so I very rarely get major panic attacks anymore. But the best thing you can do is breathe. Don't just take deep breaths though, breathe as low and as deeply as you can. It's actually a common vocal exercise that I've found therapeutic. Breathe below your diaphragm (it's a muscle that sits below your lungs) almost into your stomach. Even lower if you can. (You're not actually taking in as much air as you want to think you are since your lungs have a limited capacity but the point is to try to use as much of that capacity as you can. Best way is to imagine breathing from lower parts of your body.) Hold for four beats. Release in four beats. Repeat. If you start yawning by the end of it, you're doing it right. It's a common side effect for people who aren't used to that exercise, lol.

cvijetak
September 17th, 2014, 01:54 AM
I take a deep breath and count to 10.