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Danielle17
October 5th, 2017, 12:37 PM
Social interactions, peer acceptance, and sexual development are important to all of us. And while each of us tries to establish our own identity, we are also curious to know what everyone else is doing. Independence versus conformity. This survey attempts to discover how and when you coped with your sexual development, and the environment you faced. Perhaps you'll read a response and think, "Hey.....that's me!" Hope you participate and that it helps.

1. Current age:
2. How many siblings do you have? Are they older or younger?
3. Are your parents very religious?
4. Are your parents very strict?
5. Did/do your parents ever talk to you about sex?
6. Do you feel you can openly talk to at least one parent about sex or sexual issues?
7. Do you feel you can openly talk to a sibling about sex? Is that sibling younger or older than you?
8. Have you engaged in oral sex? If so, how old were you the first time?
9. Have you engaged in vaginal sex? If so, how old were you the first time?
10. Have you engaged in anal sex? If so, how old were you the first time?
11. In what order did you have oral, anal, and vaginal sex?
12. Do either of your parents know about your sexual activity?
13. Do any of your siblings know about your sexual activity?
14. How do you deal with getting adequate privacy to engage in sex?
15. Have you ever had oral, vaginal, or anal sex when either your parents or siblings were nearby? Oral, vaginal, anal?
16. Have you ever had anal sex as a form of birth control or to preserve your (vaginal) virginity?
17. Do you consider anal sex to be mainstream or taboo? Would you be embarrassed if your friends knew you've had anal sex? Siblings? Parents?
18. What was/is your most valuable source of information to help you with sex (regarding things like birth control, condoms, lube)?
19. Do you wish your parents or siblings were more available to you to talk about sex, or do you prefer the status quo?
20. If you had a specific question about sex today, where or to whom would you turn to get answers?

Alisha_
October 5th, 2017, 02:50 PM
1. Current age: 13
2. How many siblings do you have? Are they older or younger? One sister, a lot older.
3. Are your parents very religious? Not really
4. Are your parents very strict? Yes
5. Did/do your parents ever talk to you about sex? Never
6. Do you feel you can openly talk to at least one parent about sex or sexual issues? No
7. Do you feel you can openly talk to a sibling about sex? Is that sibling younger or older than you? No, we don't talk that often.
8. Have you engaged in oral sex? If so, how old were you the first time? No
9. Have you engaged in vaginal sex? If so, how old were you the first time?No
10. Have you engaged in anal sex? If so, how old were you the first time? No
11. In what order did you have oral, anal, and vaginal sex?
12. Do either of your parents know about your sexual activity? no
13. Do any of your siblings know about your sexual activity? no
14. How do you deal with getting adequate privacy to engage in sex?
15. Have you ever had oral, vaginal, or anal sex when either your parents or siblings were nearby? Oral, vaginal, anal?
16. Have you ever had anal sex as a form of birth control or to preserve your (vaginal) virginity?
17. Do you consider anal sex to be mainstream or taboo? Would you be embarrassed if your friends knew you've had anal sex? Siblings? Parents? It kind of scares me
18. What was/is your most valuable source of information to help you with sex (regarding things like birth control, condoms, lube)? Internet
19. Do you wish your parents or siblings were more available to you to talk about sex, or do you prefer the status quo? I kind of wish we were more open about sex stuff, but it'd be really embarrassing.
20. If you had a specific question about sex today, where or to whom would you turn to get answers? This website

BlackParadePixie
October 5th, 2017, 04:20 PM
1. Current age: 17
2. How many siblings do you have? Are they older or younger? none
3. Are your parents very religious? no
4. Are your parents very strict? no
5. Did/do your parents ever talk to you about sex? yes, mostly mom.
6. Do you feel you can openly talk to at least one parent about sex or sexual issues? yes
7. Do you feel you can openly talk to a sibling about sex? Is that sibling younger or older than you? don't have any
8. Have you engaged in oral sex? If so, how old were you the first time? yes, 13.
9. Have you engaged in vaginal sex? If so, how old were you the first time? yes, 13.
10. Have you engaged in anal sex? If so, how old were you the first time? nope
11. In what order did you have oral, anal, and vaginal sex? oral, then vaginal
12. Do either of your parents know about your sexual activity? yes
13. Do any of your siblings know about your sexual activity? n/a
14. How do you deal with getting adequate privacy to engage in sex? i close my door and lock it, or just do it when parents aren't home.
15. Have you ever had oral, vaginal, or anal sex when either your parents or siblings were nearby? Oral, vaginal, anal? in the house, yes.
16. Have you ever had anal sex as a form of birth control or to preserve your (vaginal) virginity? no
17. Do you consider anal sex to be mainstream or taboo? Would you be embarrassed if your friends knew you've had anal sex? Siblings? Parents? never done it, but I think its somewhat mainstream now...for older women especially
18. What was/is your most valuable source of information to help you with sex (regarding things like birth control, condoms, lube)? mom
19. Do you wish your parents or siblings were more available to you to talk about sex, or do you prefer the status quo? things are fine the way they are
20. If you had a specific question about sex today, where or to whom would you turn to get answers? mom

sazzzo
October 5th, 2017, 04:29 PM
1. Current age: 13
2. How many siblings do you have? younger sister
3. Are your parents very religious? sort of, they go to church
4. Are your parents very strict? yeah quite strict
5. Did/do your parents ever talk to you about sex? yes my mum
6. Do you feel you can openly talk to at least one parent about sex or sexual issues? yes
7. Do you feel you can openly talk to a sibling about sex? Is that sibling younger or older than you? older and yes
8. Have you engaged in oral sex? If so, how old were you the first time? OMG no
9. Have you engaged in vaginal sex? If so, how old were you the first time? no
10. Have you engaged in anal sex? If so, how old were you the first time? I will never do that
11. In what order did you have oral, anal, and vaginal sex?
12. Do either of your parents know about your sexual activity?
13. Do any of your siblings know about your sexual activity?
14. How do you deal with getting adequate privacy to engage in sex?
15. Have you ever had oral, vaginal, or anal sex when either your parents or siblings were nearby? Oral, vaginal, anal?
16. Have you ever had anal sex as a form of birth control or to preserve your (vaginal) virginity?
17. Do you consider anal sex to be mainstream or taboo? Would you be embarrassed if your friends knew you've had anal sex? Siblings? Parents? like I said I will never do it
18. What was/is your most valuable source of information to help you with sex (regarding things like birth control, condoms, lube)? school
19. Do you wish your parents or siblings were more available to you to talk about sex, or do you prefer the status quo? happy as it is
20. If you had a specific question about sex today, where or to whom would you turn to get answers? online somewhere like here

MissMolly
October 5th, 2017, 05:17 PM
1. Current age: 16
2. How many siblings do you have? Are they older or younger? one older sister
3. Are your parents very religious? No
4. Are your parents very strict? No
5. Did/do your parents ever talk to you about sex? Yes
6. Do you feel you can openly talk to at least one parent about sex or sexual issues? No
7. Do you feel you can openly talk to a sibling about sex? Is that sibling younger or older than you? No
8. Have you engaged in oral sex? If so, how old were you the first time? Yes. 14
9. Have you engaged in vaginal sex? If so, how old were you the first time? Yes. 15
10. Have you engaged in anal sex? If so, how old were you the first time? Yes, I did it once and never will again. 15
11. In what order did you have oral, anal, and vaginal sex? Oral, vaginal, anal
12. Do either of your parents know about your sexual activity? Yes
13. Do any of your siblings know about your sexual activity? Yes
14. How do you deal with getting adequate privacy to engage in sex? Either away from home, or when alone in house
15. Have you ever had oral, vaginal, or anal sex when either your parents or siblings were nearby? Oral, vaginal, anal? No
16. Have you ever had anal sex as a form of birth control or to preserve your (vaginal) virginity? No
17. Do you consider anal sex to be mainstream or taboo? Would you be embarrassed if your friends knew you've had anal sex? Siblings? Parents? Becoming more mainstream. Yes, I would be embarrassed if they knew. Heck, I'm embarrassed about it
18. What was/is your most valuable source of information to help you with sex (regarding things like birth control, condoms, lube)? friends
19. Do you wish your parents or siblings were more available to you to talk about sex, or do you prefer the status quo? I'm okay with the status quo
20. If you had a specific question about sex today, where or to whom would you turn to get answers? Friends or the internet

AmyP
October 5th, 2017, 06:50 PM
1. Current age: 16
2. How many siblings do you have? Are they older or younger? None
3. Are your parents very religious? Yes
4. Are your parents very strict? Yes .. not as much since 16th BD
5. Did/do your parents ever talk to you about sex? Yes
6. Do you feel you can openly talk to at least one parent about sex or sexual issues? Yes
7. Do you feel you can openly talk to a sibling about sex? Is that sibling younger or older than you? NA
8. Have you engaged in oral sex? If so, how old were you the first time? Yes 16
9. Have you engaged in vaginal sex? If so, how old were you the first time? No
10. Have you engaged in anal sex? If so, how old were you the first time? No
11. In what order did you have oral, anal, and vaginal sex? NA
12. Do either of your parents know about your sexual activity? HAve BF so they know we do stuff
13. Do any of your siblings know about your sexual activity? NA
14. How do you deal with getting adequate privacy to engage in sex? NA
15. Have you ever had oral, vaginal, or anal sex when either your parents or siblings were nearby? Oral, vaginal, anal? No
16. Have you ever had anal sex as a form of birth control or to preserve your (vaginal) virginity? No
17. Do you consider anal sex to be mainstream or taboo? Would you be embarrassed if your friends knew you've had anal sex? Siblings? Parents? Its Nasty
18. What was/is your most valuable source of information to help you with sex (regarding things like birth control, condoms, lube)? Mom/VT
19. Do you wish your parents or siblings were more available to you to talk about sex, or do you prefer the status quo? Status Quo
20. If you had a specific question about sex today, where or to whom would you turn to get answers? VT

Brigje
October 5th, 2017, 07:01 PM
5. Did/do your parents ever talk to you about sex? yes, mostly mom.
6. Do you feel you can openly talk to at least one parent about sex or sexual issues? yes
12. Do either of your parents know about your sexual activity? yes
19. Do you wish your parents or siblings were more available to you to talk about sex, or do you prefer the status quo? things are fine the way they are
20. If you had a specific question about sex today, where or to whom would you turn to get answers? mom

You're as lucky as I am to have a mom like that.

ThereseFrei
October 5th, 2017, 11:17 PM
1. Current age: 14
2. How many siblings do you have? Are they older or younger? Older brother and younger sister
3. Are your parents very religious? no
4. Are your parents very strict? no
5. Did/do your parents ever talk to you about sex? Yes, mom
6. Do you feel you can openly talk to at least one parent about sex or sexual issues? Yes
7. Do you feel you can openly talk to a sibling about sex? Is that sibling younger or older than you? yes with both
8. Have you engaged in oral sex? If so, how old were you the first time? Yes, 10
9. Have you engaged in vaginal sex? If so, how old were you the first time? Yes, 13
10. Have you engaged in anal sex? If so, how old were you the first time? Yes, 13
11. In what order did you have oral, anal, and vaginal sex? Oral, Anal, Vaginal
12. Do either of your parents know about your sexual activity? Yes
13. Do any of your siblings know about your sexual activity? Yes
14. How do you deal with getting adequate privacy to engage in sex?
15. Have you ever had oral, vaginal, or anal sex when either your parents or siblings were nearby? Oral, vaginal, anal? Yes, Oral and Vaginal
16. Have you ever had anal sex as a form of birth control or to preserve your (vaginal) virginity? Yes
17. Do you consider anal sex to be mainstream or taboo? Would you be embarrassed if your friends knew you've had anal sex? Siblings? Parents? I think it's normal and I don't have a problem with talking about it
18. What was/is your most valuable source of information to help you with sex (regarding things like birth control, condoms, lube)? Mom, friends, internet
19. Do you wish your parents or siblings were more available to you to talk about sex, or do you prefer the status quo? Status quo
20. If you had a specific question about sex today, where or to whom would you turn to get answers? Mom or friends

Danielle17
October 6th, 2017, 12:55 AM
1. Current age: 16
2. How many siblings do you have? Are they older or younger? one older sister
3. Are your parents very religious? No
4. Are your parents very strict? No
5. Did/do your parents ever talk to you about sex? Yes
6. Do you feel you can openly talk to at least one parent about sex or sexual issues? No
7. Do you feel you can openly talk to a sibling about sex? Is that sibling younger or older than you? No
8. Have you engaged in oral sex? If so, how old were you the first time? Yes. 14
9. Have you engaged in vaginal sex? If so, how old were you the first time? Yes. 15
10. Have you engaged in anal sex? If so, how old were you the first time? Yes, I did it once and never will again. 15
11. In what order did you have oral, anal, and vaginal sex? Oral, vaginal, anal
12. Do either of your parents know about your sexual activity? Yes
13. Do any of your siblings know about your sexual activity? Yes
14. How do you deal with getting adequate privacy to engage in sex? Either away from home, or when alone in house
15. Have you ever had oral, vaginal, or anal sex when either your parents or siblings were nearby? Oral, vaginal, anal? No
16. Have you ever had anal sex as a form of birth control or to preserve your (vaginal) virginity? No
17. Do you consider anal sex to be mainstream or taboo? Would you be embarrassed if your friends knew you've had anal sex? Siblings? Parents? Becoming more mainstream. Yes, I would be embarrassed if they knew. Heck, I'm embarrassed about it
18. What was/is your most valuable source of information to help you with sex (regarding things like birth control, condoms, lube)? friends
19. Do you wish your parents or siblings were more available to you to talk about sex, or do you prefer the status quo? I'm okay with the status quo
20. If you had a specific question about sex today, where or to whom would you turn to get answers? Friends or the internet

It's nice to know that moms are still a resource for information during puberty.....I'm jealous. Like you, my mom talked to me about sex, but I don't feel comfortable discussing issues with her now.

Just curious...Why would you be embarrassed that you've had anal sex if you consider it to be pretty mainstream? And why wouldn't you have it again (or regularly) in that case?

MissMolly
October 6th, 2017, 02:39 AM
IIt's nice to know that moms are still a resource for information during puberty.....I'm jealous. Like you, my mom talked to me about sex, but I don't feel comfortable discussing issues with her now.

Just curious...Why would you be embarrassed that you've had anal sex if you consider it to be pretty mainstream? And why wouldn't you have it again (or regularly) in that case?


think it is becoming mainstream because of porn.

I did it because my then boyfriend put a lot of pressure on me to do it and I gave in. And then I HATED it. I hated it physically and I hated it emotionally and I swore I would never ever do it again.

ChloeF
October 6th, 2017, 08:32 PM
1. Current age: 15
2. How many siblings do you have? Are they older or younger? 1, younger
3. Are your parents very religious? not overly so
4. Are your parents very strict? no
5. Did/do your parents ever talk to you about sex? yes
6. Do you feel you can openly talk to at least one parent about sex or sexual issues? yes
7. Do you feel you can openly talk to a sibling about sex? Is that sibling younger or older than you? yes
8. Have you engaged in oral sex? If so, how old were you the first time? 12
9. Have you engaged in vaginal sex? If so, how old were you the first time? 12
10. Have you engaged in anal sex? If so, how old were you the first time? no
11. In what order did you have oral, anal, and vaginal sex? oral, vaginal
12. Do either of your parents know about your sexual activity? yes
13. Do any of your siblings know about your sexual activity? yes
14. How do you deal with getting adequate privacy to engage in sex? it's never been a problem
15. Have you ever had oral, vaginal, or anal sex when either your parents or siblings were nearby? Oral, vaginal, anal? yes, oral
16. Have you ever had anal sex as a form of birth control or to preserve your (vaginal) virginity? no
17. Do you consider anal sex to be mainstream or taboo? Would you be embarrassed if your friends knew you've had anal sex? Siblings? Parents? somewhat, more so with the proliferation of porn nowadays
18. What was/is your most valuable source of information to help you with sex (regarding things like birth control, condoms, lube)? mum/internet
19. Do you wish your parents or siblings were more available to you to talk about sex, or do you prefer the status quo? things are good as they are
20. If you had a specific question about sex today, where or to whom would you turn to get answers? depends, either mum, internet or friends

Hayleyyy
October 11th, 2017, 03:42 PM
1. Current age: 14
2. How many siblings do you have? Are they older or younger? One older brother
3. Are your parents very religious? Not really
4. Are your parents very strict? Sometimes but in general no
5. Did/do your parents ever talk to you about sex? A little, but I’ve mostly learned through personal experience, my peers, and school
6. Do you feel you can openly talk to at least one parent about sex or sexual issues? I guess but it’s a little awkward
7. Do you feel you can openly talk to a sibling about sex? Is that sibling younger or older than you? Yes, we’re pretty honest with each other
8. Have you engaged in oral sex? If so, how old were you the first time? Yes, 12
9. Have you engaged in vaginal sex? If so, how old were you the first time? Yes, 12
10. Have you engaged in anal sex? If so, how old were you the first time? Yes, 13
11. In what order did you have oral, anal, and vaginal sex? Oral, vaginal, then anal
12. Do either of your parents know about your sexual activity? Yes, but they don’t know exactly how active I am
13. Do any of your siblings know about your sexual activity? Yes
14. How do you deal with getting adequate privacy to engage in sex? Usually do stuff when my/their parents aren’t home, but I’ve done stuff out of the house when needed
15. Have you ever had oral, vaginal, or anal sex when either your parents or siblings were nearby? Oral, vaginal, anal? Yes, brother was home. Oral and vaginal
16. Have you ever had anal sex as a form of birth control or to preserve your (vaginal) virginity? I’m on birth control so no
17. Do you consider anal sex to be mainstream or taboo? Would you be embarrassed if your friends knew you've had anal sex? Siblings? Parents? I think it’s gotten more mainstream. I’m not embarrassed that my friends and my brother knows, but I don’t want my parents to find out
18. What was/is your most valuable source of information to help you with sex (regarding things like birth control, condoms, lube)? Friends, school (kinda), and online resources like here!
19. Do you wish your parents or siblings were more available to you to talk about sex, or do you prefer the status quo? I’m happy with how it is
20. If you had a specific question about sex today, where or to whom would you turn to get answers? Friends first, then online

sara___
October 13th, 2017, 09:16 PM
1. Current age: 15
2. How many siblings do you have? One Are they older or younger? Younger
3. Are your parents very religious? Not really
4. Are your parents very strict? Only when they have to be
5. Did/do your parents ever talk to you about sex? Yes
6. Do you feel you can openly talk to at least one parent about sex or sexual issues? I could talk to either but it would be a little awkward with my dad
7. Do you feel you can openly talk to a sibling about sex? Is that sibling younger or older than you? My younger brother and I can talk about anything and have very few secrets from each other
8. Have you engaged in oral sex? Yes If so, how old were you the first time? 13
9. Have you engaged in vaginal sex? No If so, how old were you the first ?
10. Have you engaged in anal sex? No If so, how old were you the first time?
11. In what order did you have oral, anal, and vaginal sex? I've only had oral sex so far
12. Do either of your parents know about your sexual activity? I don't think so
13. Do any of your siblings know about your sexual activity? Yes
14. How do you deal with getting adequate privacy to engage in sex? Most of the time that I have fooled around with a guy he has been older and we were in a car. But at first when I did something with a boy it was usually after school in my house before anyone got home.
15. Have you ever had oral, vaginal, or anal sex when either your parents or siblings were nearby? Oral, vaginal, anal? No
16. Have you ever had anal sex as a form of birth control or to preserve your (vaginal) virginity? Not anal but in a way I have oral sex so I don't get pregnant
17. Do you consider anal sex to be mainstream or taboo? Would you be embarrassed if your friends knew you've had anal sex? I don't think I would want to talk to anyone about it if I ever decide to do it Siblings? Parents?
18. What was/is your most valuable source of information to help you with sex (regarding things like birth control, condoms, lube)? My mom
19. Do you wish your parents or siblings were more available to you to talk about sex, or do you prefer the status quo? Things are good the way they are
20. If you had a specific question about sex today, where or to whom would you turn to get answers? Probably my best friend's mom she's like a second mom to me and it would be less embarrassing[/QUOTE]

LITTLEANGEL17
October 18th, 2017, 12:18 AM
Social interactions, peer acceptance, and sexual development are important to all of us. And while each of us tries to establish our own identity, we are also curious to know what everyone else is doing. Independence versus conformity. This survey attempts to discover how and when you coped with your sexual development, and the environment you faced. Perhaps you'll read a response and think, "Hey.....that's me!" Hope you participate and that it helps.
Danielle Thanks to your for posting a Girl's survey post :yes:
But just one thing anyone posting surveys should so a COPY AND PASTE AND ANSWER THEIR OWN SURVEY. :)
XX

LITTLEANGEL17
October 18th, 2017, 12:39 PM
1. Current age: 17
2. How many siblings do you have? Are they older or younger? None
3. Are your parents very religious? It's just mum and me. We are Catholics
4. Are your parents very strict? On some issues
5. Did/do your parents ever talk to you about sex? Yes
6. Do you feel you can openly talk to at least one parent about sex or sexual issues? Yes mum.
7. Do you feel you can openly talk to a sibling about sex? Is that sibling younger or older than you? N/A
8. Have you engaged in oral sex? If so, how old were you the first time? Experimenting @ 12ish, But also since that.
9. Have you engaged in vaginal sex? If so, how old were you the first time? No
10. Have you engaged in anal sex? If so, how old were you the first time? No and would Not
11. In what order did you have oral, anal, and vaginal sex? Oral
12. Do either of your parents know about your sexual activity? Yes mum
13. Do any of your siblings know about your sexual activity? N/A
14. How do you deal with getting adequate privacy to engage in sex? It's just courtesy.
15. Have you ever had oral, vaginal, or anal sex when either your parents or siblings were nearby? Oral, vaginal, anal? Mum was downstairs.
16. Have you ever had anal sex as a form of birth control or to preserve your (vaginal) virginity? Don't do anal or never would
17. Do you consider anal sex to be mainstream or taboo? Would you be embarrassed if your friends knew you've had anal sex? Siblings? Parents?
18. What was/is your most valuable source of information to help you with sex (regarding things like birth control, condoms, lube)? If its not something I already know I would ask mum, or Ask A BFF or her older sister or just Google it.
19. Do you wish your parents or siblings were more available to you to talk about sex, or do you prefer the status quo? It's Just Mum and me I can ask her anything.
20. If you had a specific question about sex today, where or to whom would you turn to get answers?If its not something I already know I would ask mum, or Ask A BFF or her older sister or just Google it.

Danielle17
October 29th, 2017, 11:55 PM
Danielle Thanks to your for posting a Girl's survey post :yes:
But just one thing anyone posting surveys should so a COPY AND PASTE AND ANSWER THEIR OWN SURVEY. :)
XX

You're absolutely right, so here goes.....


1. Current age: 17
2. How many siblings do you have? Are they older or younger? One sister and one brother, both younger
3. Are your parents very religious? Practicing Catholics, but.....
4. Are your parents very strict? not strict or overbearing
5. Did/do your parents ever talk to you about sex? Yes, with mom
6. Do you feel you can openly talk to at least one parent about sex or sexual issues? With my mom
7. Do you feel you can openly talk to a sibling about sex? Is that sibling younger or older than you? Yes, with my younger sister
8. Have you engaged in oral sex? If so, how old were you the first time? Yes, 14
9. Have you engaged in vaginal sex? If so, how old were you the first time? Yes, 15
10. Have you engaged in anal sex? If so, how old were you the first time? Yes, 15
11. In what order did you have oral, anal, and vaginal sex? Oral, vaginal, anal
12. Do either of your parents know about your sexual activity? Yes
13. Do any of your siblings know about your sexual activity? Yes, my sister and I talk a lot
14. How do you deal with getting adequate privacy to engage in sex? We try to have it when no one, or just my siblings, are at home.
15. Have you ever had oral, vaginal, or anal sex when either your parents or siblings were nearby? Oral, vaginal, anal? Yes, oral and vag. My sister has been home when we've had anal.
16. Have you ever had anal sex as a form of birth control or to preserve your (vaginal) virginity? Yes
17. Do you consider anal sex to be mainstream or taboo? Would you be embarrassed if your friends knew you've had anal sex? Siblings? Parents? It's mainstream, so I'm pretty open about it and not embarrassed, even with my mom
18. What was/is your most valuable source of information to help you with sex (regarding things like birth control, condoms, lube)? Mostly the internet and friends, my mom to a lesser degree
19. Do you wish your parents or siblings were more available to you to talk about sex, or do you prefer the status quo? Status quo is fine
20. If you had a specific question about sex today, where or to whom would you turn to get answers? Friends or the web, tho my parents are pretty open to any questions

Danielle17
October 30th, 2017, 12:14 AM
1. Current age: 14
2. How many siblings do you have? Are they older or younger? One older brother
3. Are your parents very religious? Not really
4. Are your parents very strict? Sometimes but in general no
5. Did/do your parents ever talk to you about sex? A little, but Iíve mostly learned through personal experience, my peers, and school
6. Do you feel you can openly talk to at least one parent about sex or sexual issues? I guess but itís a little awkward
7. Do you feel you can openly talk to a sibling about sex? Is that sibling younger or older than you? Yes, weíre pretty honest with each other
8. Have you engaged in oral sex? If so, how old were you the first time? Yes, 12
9. Have you engaged in vaginal sex? If so, how old were you the first time? Yes, 12
10. Have you engaged in anal sex? If so, how old were you the first time? Yes, 13
11. In what order did you have oral, anal, and vaginal sex? Oral, vaginal, then anal
12. Do either of your parents know about your sexual activity? Yes, but they donít know exactly how active I am
13. Do any of your siblings know about your sexual activity? Yes
14. How do you deal with getting adequate privacy to engage in sex? Usually do stuff when my/their parents arenít home, but Iíve done stuff out of the house when needed
15. Have you ever had oral, vaginal, or anal sex when either your parents or siblings were nearby? Oral, vaginal, anal? Yes, brother was home. Oral and vaginal
16. Have you ever had anal sex as a form of birth control or to preserve your (vaginal) virginity? Iím on birth control so no
17. Do you consider anal sex to be mainstream or taboo? Would you be embarrassed if your friends knew you've had anal sex? Siblings? Parents? I think itís gotten more mainstream. Iím not embarrassed that my friends and my brother knows, but I donít want my parents to find out
18. What was/is your most valuable source of information to help you with sex (regarding things like birth control, condoms, lube)? Friends, school (kinda), and online resources like here!
19. Do you wish your parents or siblings were more available to you to talk about sex, or do you prefer the status quo? Iím happy with how it is
20. If you had a specific question about sex today, where or to whom would you turn to get answers? Friends first, then online

So a follow up question for you that I didn't think of asking in my survey, but should have. Do you talk with your older sibling about sex, and have you relied upon him as a source of information?

Also, you mention that anal sex is pretty mainstream and that your friends and brother know you've had it. Why then would you be concerned if your parents also knew?

LITTLEANGEL17
October 30th, 2017, 01:50 AM
You're absolutely right, so here goes....
Thanks Danielle. Take Care You And Yours
XX:)

Claire Asteroid
November 13th, 2017, 09:51 AM
1. Current age: 19
2. How many siblings do you have? Are they older or younger? One sister, she's 15
3. Are your parents very religious? Yes, they go to church each week
4. Are your parents very strict? Quite strict
5. Did/do your parents ever talk to you about sex? No hardly at all
6. Do you feel you can openly talk to at least one parent about sex or sexual issues? No
7. Do you feel you can openly talk to a sibling about sex? Is that sibling younger or older than you? I talk to my younger sister about sex
8. Have you engaged in oral sex? If so, how old were you the first time? Yes, 13, from a girl
9. Have you engaged in vaginal sex? If so, how old were you the first time? No
10. Have you engaged in anal sex? If so, how old were you the first time? No
11. In what order did you have oral, anal, and vaginal sex? Oral sex (received only) others not yet
12. Do either of your parents know about your sexual activity? No
13. Do any of your siblings know about your sexual activity? My sister knows what there is to know
14. How do you deal with getting adequate privacy to engage in sex? When I had a boyfriend we mostly did things like kissing and him play with my breasts at his house because his parents weren't in and they didn't care so much. We didn't get to be alone together at my house much. When I received oral sex it wasn't very private because my friend was in the room while her sister did it.
15. Have you ever had oral, vaginal, or anal sex when either your parents or siblings were nearby? Oral, vaginal, anal? No. Oral sex from my friend's sister in my friend's room with her there.
16. Have you ever had anal sex as a form of birth control or to preserve your (vaginal) virginity? No
17. Do you consider anal sex to be mainstream or taboo? Would you be embarrassed if your friends knew you've had anal sex? Siblings? Parents? don't know but I probably would be but I don't want to do it.
18. What was/is your most valuable source of information to help you with sex (regarding things like birth control, condoms, lube)? Internet, library at university, friends.
19. Do you wish your parents or siblings were more available to you to talk about sex, or do you prefer the status quo? It would be good if my mum had talked to me more about sex.
20. If you had a specific question about sex today, where or to whom would you turn to get answers? Friends

MeganA
November 13th, 2017, 03:43 PM
1. Current age: 15
2. How many siblings do you have? Are they older or younger? 2. one brother who is 10, sister is 17
3. Are your parents very religious? Kinda
4. Are your parents very strict? kinda
5. Did/do your parents ever talk to you about sex? Yes
6. Do you feel you can openly talk to at least one parent about sex or sexual issues? Yes
7. Do you feel you can openly talk to a sibling about sex? Is that sibling younger or older than you? Yes older sister
8. Have you engaged in oral sex? If so, how old were you the first time? first time 14
9. Have you engaged in vaginal sex? If so, how old were you the first time? No
10. Have you engaged in anal sex? If so, how old were you the first time? No
11. In what order did you have oral, anal, and vaginal sex? oral only
12. Do either of your parents know about your sexual activity? no
13. Do any of your siblings know about your sexual activity? no
14. How do you deal with getting adequate privacy to engage in sex?i haven't yet
15. Have you ever had oral, vaginal, or anal sex when either your parents or siblings were nearby? Oral, vaginal, anal? no
16. Have you ever had anal sex as a form of birth control or to preserve your (vaginal) virginity? No
17. Do you consider anal sex to be mainstream or taboo? Would you be embarrassed if your friends knew you've had anal sex? Siblings? Parents?
18. What was/is your most valuable source of information to help you with sex (regarding things like birth control, condoms, lube)?
19. Do you wish your parents or siblings were more available to you to talk about sex, or do you prefer the status quo?
20. If you had a specific question about sex today, where or to whom would you turn to get answers?

Leena_2003
November 17th, 2017, 07:28 PM
1. Current age: 14
2. How many siblings do you have? Are they older or younger? Older sister, younger brother.
3. Are your parents very religious? No
4. Are your parents very strict? No
5. Did/do your parents ever talk to you about sex? No
6. Do you feel you can openly talk to at least one parent about sex or sexual issues? No
7. Do you feel you can openly talk to a sibling about sex? Is that sibling younger or older than you? My older sister.
8. Have you engaged in oral sex? If so, how old were you the first time? Not yet
9. Have you engaged in vaginal sex? If so, how old were you the first time? Not yet
10. Have you engaged in anal sex? If so, how old were you the first time? Not interested
11. In what order did you have oral, anal, and vaginal sex? Not yet
12. Do either of your parents know about your sexual activity? No
13. Do any of your siblings know about your sexual activity? No
14. How do you deal with getting adequate privacy to engage in sex? Not yet
15. Have you ever had oral, vaginal, or anal sex when either your parents or siblings were nearby? Oral, vaginal, anal? No
16. Have you ever had anal sex as a form of birth control or to preserve your (vaginal) virginity? Not interested
17. Do you consider anal sex to be mainstream or taboo? Would you be embarrassed if your friends knew you've had anal sex? Siblings? Parents? Not interested
18. What was/is your most valuable source of information to help you with sex (regarding things like birth control, condoms, lube)? Internet
19. Do you wish your parents or siblings were more available to you to talk about sex, or do you prefer the status quo? No
20. If you had a specific question about sex today, where or to whom would you turn to get answers? Internet forums like this one

ThisGoodBoyX
December 14th, 2017, 11:17 AM
1. Current age: 14
2. How many siblings do you have? Are they older or younger? Older sister, younger brother.
3. Are your parents very religious? No
4. Are your parents very strict? No
5. Did/do your parents ever talk to you about sex? No
6. Do you feel you can openly talk to at least one parent about sex or sexual issues? No
7. Do you feel you can openly talk to a sibling about sex? Is that sibling younger or older than you? My older sister.
8. Have you engaged in oral sex? If so, how old were you the first time? Not yet
9. Have you engaged in vaginal sex? If so, how old were you the first time? Not yet
10. Have you engaged in anal sex? If so, how old were you the first time? Not interested
11. In what order did you have oral, anal, and vaginal sex? Not yet
12. Do either of your parents know about your sexual activity? No
13. Do any of your siblings know about your sexual activity? No
14. How do you deal with getting adequate privacy to engage in sex? Not yet
15. Have you ever had oral, vaginal, or anal sex when either your parents or siblings were nearby? Oral, vaginal, anal? No
16. Have you ever had anal sex as a form of birth control or to preserve your (vaginal) virginity? Not interested
17. Do you consider anal sex to be mainstream or taboo? Would you be embarrassed if your friends knew you've had anal sex? Siblings? Parents? Not interested
18. What was/is your most valuable source of information to help you with sex (regarding things like birth control, condoms, lube)? Internet
19. Do you wish your parents or siblings were more available to you to talk about sex, or do you prefer the status quo? No
20. If you had a specific question about sex today, where or to whom would you turn to get answers? Internet forums like this one

You are complete innocent, very good.

ThisGoodBoyX
December 14th, 2017, 11:51 AM
You're absolutely right, so here goes.....

1. Current age: 17
......
10. Have you engaged in anal sex? If so, how old were you the first time? Yes, 15
.....


http://www.virtualteen.org/forums/showthread.php?t=185541

why there is big gap between decision and action?

Juliarules832
December 14th, 2017, 04:48 PM
I will fill it out once I have actually done any of the things.

ThisGoodBoyX
December 15th, 2017, 09:50 AM
I will fill it out once I have actually done any of the things.

Thank you dear Julia, You mean you did non of them? even with yourself? You have plan to do? You are really innocent. Nice.

Juliarules832
December 15th, 2017, 12:34 PM
Thank you dear Julia, You mean you did non of them? even with yourself? You have plan to do? You are really innocent. Nice.

The survey means with another person.

OldNewGuy
December 15th, 2017, 03:50 PM
The survey means with another person.

What do you mean by another person? I know you need 2 people for sex but like, im not surr how that answered the question that thisgoodboy asked. I might just be missing something here anyway.

Sandra123
December 15th, 2017, 06:41 PM
1. Current age: 17
2. How many siblings do you have? Are they older or younger? Youngere
3. Are your parents very religious? Yes
4. Are your parents very strict? Yes
5. Did/do your parents ever talk to you about sex? Not really
6. Do you feel you can openly talk to at least one parent about sex or sexual issues? Not really kinda shy
7. Do you feel you can openly talk to a sibling about sex? Is that sibling younger or older than you? Never
8. Have you engaged in oral sex? If so, how old were you the first time? Not
9. Have you engaged in vaginal sex? If so, how old were you the first time? Not
10. Have you engaged in anal sex? If so, how old were you the first time? Not
11. In what order did you have oral, anal, and vaginal sex? I'm virgin
12. Do either of your parents know about your sexual activity? Yes not activity!
13. Do any of your siblings know about your sexual activity?
14. How do you deal with getting adequate privacy to engage in sex?
15. Have you ever had oral, vaginal, or anal sex when either your parents or siblings were nearby? Oral, vaginal, anal?
16. Have you ever had anal sex as a form of birth control or to preserve your (vaginal) virginity?
17. Do you consider anal sex to be mainstream or taboo? Would you be embarrassed if your friends knew you've had anal sex? Siblings? Parents?
18. What was/is your most valuable source of information to help you with sex (regarding things like birth control, condoms, lube)?
19. Do you wish your parents or siblings were more available to you to talk about sex, or do you prefer the status quo? It's ok
20. If you had a specific question about sex today, where or to whom would you turn to get answers? I have no question

Alexis16
December 15th, 2017, 08:54 PM
1. Current age: 16
2. How many siblings do you have? Are they older or younger? None
3. Are your parents very religious? No
4. Are your parents very strict? No
5. Did/do your parents ever talk to you about sex? Yes mom
6. Do you feel you can openly talk to at least one parent about sex or sexual issues? Yes mom
7. Do you feel you can openly talk to a sibling about sex? Is that sibling younger or older than you? n/a
8. Have you engaged in oral sex? If so, how old were you the first time? 15
9. Have you engaged in vaginal sex? If so, how old were you the first time? 15
10. Have you engaged in anal sex? If so, how old were you the first time? n/a
11. In what order did you have oral, anal, and vaginal sex? oral, vaginal
12. Do either of your parents know about your sexual activity? No
13. Do any of your siblings know about your sexual activity? n/a
14. How do you deal with getting adequate privacy to engage in sex? Make sure parents arent home
15. Have you ever had oral, vaginal, or anal sex when either your parents or siblings were nearby? Oral, vaginal, anal? No
16. Have you ever had anal sex as a form of birth control or to preserve your (vaginal) virginity? No
17. Do you consider anal sex to be mainstream or taboo? Would you be embarrassed if your friends knew you've had anal sex? Siblings? Parents? Seems to be more mainstream now
18. What was/is your most valuable source of information to help you with sex (regarding things like birth control, condoms, lube)? Mom, doctor, internet
19. Do you wish your parents or siblings were more available to you to talk about sex, or do you prefer the status quo? Status quo
20. If you had a specific question about sex today, where or to whom would you turn to get answers? Internet

Nikki_1
December 18th, 2017, 03:08 PM
1. Current age: 15
2. How many siblings do you have? Are they older or younger? No, just me.
3. Are your parents very religious? Moderately
4. Are your parents very strict? About normal I guess.
5. Did/do your parents ever talk to you about sex? Sometimes, usually my mum.
6. Do you feel you can openly talk to at least one parent about sex or sexual issues? Yes
7. Do you feel you can openly talk to a sibling about sex? Is that sibling younger or older than you? -
8. Have you engaged in oral sex? If so, how old were you the first time? No
9. Have you engaged in vaginal sex? If so, how old were you the first time? yes, No
10. Have you engaged in anal sex? If so, how old were you the first time? No
11. In what order did you have oral, anal, and vaginal sex? -
12. Do either of your parents know about your sexual activity? No
13. Do any of your siblings know about your sexual activity? -
14. How do you deal with getting adequate privacy to engage in sex? -
15. Have you ever had oral, vaginal, or anal sex when either your parents or siblings were nearby? No
16. Have you ever had anal sex as a form of birth control or to preserve your (vaginal) virginity? N
17. Do you consider anal sex to be mainstream or taboo? Would you be embarrassed if your friends knew you've had anal sex? Siblings? Parents? Taboo
18. What was/is your most valuable source of information to help you with sex (regarding things like birth control, condoms, lube)? Mum
19. Do you wish your parents or siblings were more available to you to talk about sex, or do you prefer the status quo? Everything is fine right now.
20. If you had a specific question about sex today, where or to whom would you turn to get answers? Mum

Candy2003
January 1st, 2018, 01:13 PM
1. Current age:15
2. How many siblings do you have? Are they older or younger?3 1bro 2sisters sisters older bro same age
3. Are your parents very religious?no
4. Are your parents very strict?not real
5. Did/do your parents ever talk to you about sex?no
6. Do you feel you can openly talk to at least one parent about sex or sexual issues?yes mom
7. Do you feel you can openly talk to a sibling about sex? Is that sibling younger or older than you?yes sisters
8. Have you engaged in oral sex? If so, how old were you the first time?10
9. Have you engaged in vaginal sex? If so, how old were you the first time?yes 12
10. Have you engaged in anal sex? If so, how old were you the first time?15
11. In what order did you have oral, anal, and vaginal sex? Oral anal and vaginal
12. Do either of your parents know about your sexual activity?maybe dad knows oral anal
13. Do any of your siblings know about your sexual activity?yes
14. How do you deal with getting adequate privacy to engage in sex?dont have problom
15. Have you ever had oral, vaginal, or anal sex when either your parents or siblings were nearby? Oral, vaginal, anal?yes both
16. Have you ever had anal sex as a form of birth control or to preserve your (vaginal) virginity?no
17. Do you consider anal sex to be mainstream or taboo?main strem Would you be embarrassed if your friends knew you've had anal sex? Siblings? Parents?no
18. What was/is your most valuable source of information to help you with sex (regarding things like birth control, condoms, lube)? Never used any of them
19. Do you wish your parents or siblings were more available to you to talk about sex, or do you prefer the status quo?
20. If you had a specific question about sex today, where or to whom would you turn to get answers?

tinkerkell
January 5th, 2018, 05:27 AM
1. Current age: 13
2. How many siblings do you have? Are they older or younger? 10 including stepsiblings, 2 are younger, 2 are my age (1 twin and 1 stepsister), the rest are older than me
3. Are your parents very religious? No
4. Are your parents very strict? No
5. Did/do your parents ever talk to you about sex? Yes
6. Do you feel you can openly talk to at least one parent about sex or sexual issues? Yeah I guess
7. Do you feel you can openly talk to a sibling about sex? Is that sibling younger or older than you? Yeah, older
8. Have you engaged in oral sex? If so, how old were you the first time? Yes 12
9. Have you engaged in vaginal sex? If so, how old were you the first time? Yes 12
10. Have you engaged in anal sex? If so, how old were you the first time? Yes 12
11. In what order did you have oral, anal, and vaginal sex? Oral, anal, vaginal
12. Do either of your parents know about your sexual activity? Yes, my mom just assumes, and my stepdad walked in on me blowing a guy (he was cool about it)
13. Do any of your siblings know about your sexual activity? Yeah, all of them
14. How do you deal with getting adequate privacy to engage in sex? Not subtly, pretty much just "hey, we're going to fuck in here, leave us alone and stay out!"
15. Have you ever had oral, vaginal, or anal sex when either your parents or siblings were nearby? Oral, vaginal, anal? Yes, oral and anal
16. Have you ever had anal sex as a form of birth control or to preserve your (vaginal) virginity? No
17. Do you consider anal sex to be mainstream or taboo? Would you be embarrassed if your friends knew you've had anal sex? Siblings? Parents? It's taboo but in a very mainstream way, it's talked about but not admitted to, and if you find out that someone does anal it makes them kind of edgy and alluring. I'm not embarrassed by my love of butt sex, plenty of my friends know I do it and all my siblings know I'm into the butt love. I wouldn't necessarily be ashamed if my parents found I have anal sex, but it'd definitely be an awkward conversation
18. What was/is your most valuable source of information to help you with sex (regarding things like birth control, condoms, lube)? My big sister Nina
19. Do you wish your parents or siblings were more available to you to talk about sex, or do you prefer the status quo? I'm good where I'm at now. If I need practical advice about sex I can ask any one of my siblings, but if I need help getting certain things, the pill, lube, etc, I ask my mom or stepdad
20. If you had a specific question about sex today, where or to whom would you turn to get answers? Usually my sister Nina, or if I need a guy's perspective, my big brother Sheamus or my twin brother Mickey

Angela1861
January 6th, 2018, 06:51 PM
. Current age:13
2. How many siblings do you have? Are they older or younger? 2 brothers, both 1 year older. 1 sister younger.
3. Are your parents very religious?no
4. Are your parents very strict?not really
5. Did/do your parents ever talk to you about sex?no
6. Do you feel you can openly talk to at least one parent about sex or sexual issues? My mom
7. Do you feel you can openly talk to a sibling about sex? Is that sibling younger or older than you? My younger sister and my older brother.
8. Have you engaged in oral sex? If so, how old were you the first time? 13
9. Have you engaged in vaginal sex? If so, how old were you the first time? No
10. Have you engaged in anal sex? If so, how old were you the first time? No
11. In what order did you have oral, anal, and vaginal sex? Just oral
12. Do either of your parents know about your sexual activity? No
13. Do any of your siblings know about your sexual activity? My older brother
14. How do you deal with getting adequate privacy to engage in sex?dont have problom
15. Have you ever had oral, vaginal, or anal sex when either your parents or siblings were nearby? Oral, vaginal, anal? No
16. Have you ever had anal sex as a form of birth control or to preserve your (vaginal) virginity?no
17. Do you consider anal sex to be mainstream or taboo?main strem Would you be embarrassed if your friends knew you've had anal sex? Siblings? Parents?no
18. What was/is your most valuable source of information to help you with sex (regarding things like birth control, condoms, lube)? Google
19. Do you wish your parents or siblings were more available to you to talk about sex, or do you prefer the status quo? No
20. If you had a specific question about sex today, where or to whom would you turn to get answers? Google

Sannuli
June 20th, 2018, 07:04 PM
1. Current age:16
2. How many siblings do you have? Are they older or younger? one sister 5 years older
3. Are your parents very religious? no
4. Are your parents very strict? not really
5. Did/do your parents ever talk to you about sex? not really
6. Do you feel you can openly talk to at least one parent about sex or sexual issues? no
7. Do you feel you can openly talk to a sibling about sex? Is that sibling younger or older than you? no
8. Have you engaged in oral sex? If so, how old were you the first time? yes 16
9. Have you engaged in vaginal sex? If so, how old were you the first time? yes 15
10. Have you engaged in anal sex? If so, how old were you the first time? yes 16
11. In what order did you have oral, anal, and vaginal sex? vaginal, oral, anal
12. Do either of your parents know about your sexual activity? no
13. Do any of your siblings know about your sexual activity? no
14. How do you deal with getting adequate privacy to engage in sex? i make sure everyone is out of the house or sleeping
15. Have you ever had oral, vaginal, or anal sex when either your parents or siblings were nearby? Oral, vaginal, anal? no
16. Have you ever had anal sex as a form of birth control or to preserve your (vaginal) virginity? no
17. Do you consider anal sex to be mainstream or taboo? Would you be embarrassed if your friends knew you've had anal sex? Siblings? Parents? mainstream and i would be
18. What was/is your most valuable source of information to help you with sex (regarding things like birth control, condoms, lube)? the internet
19. Do you wish your parents or siblings were more available to you to talk about sex, or do you prefer the status quo? im fine with my situation
20. If you had a specific question about sex today, where or to whom would you turn to get answers? the internet

AmyP
June 20th, 2018, 08:22 PM
1. Current age: 17
2. How many siblings do you have? Are they older or younger? None
3. Are your parents very religious? yes
4. Are your parents very strict? Yes but not so much since 16
5. Did/do your parents ever talk to you about sex? Yes
6. Do you feel you can openly talk to at least one parent about sex or sexual issues? Yes
7. Do you feel you can openly talk to a sibling about sex? No sibs
8. Have you engaged in oral sex? If so, how old were you the first time? 16
9. Have you engaged in vaginal sex? If so, how old were you the first time? just 17
10. Have you engaged in anal sex? If so, how old were you the first time? N/A
11. In what order did you have oral, anal, and vaginal sex? oral then vaginal
12. Do either of your parents know about your sexual activity? Yes
13. Do any of your siblings know about your sexual activity? N/A
14. How do you deal with getting adequate privacy to engage in sex? Only when no ones home or at his house.
15. Have you ever had oral, vaginal, or anal sex when either your parents or siblings were nearby? No
16. Have you ever had anal sex as a form of birth control or to preserve your (vaginal) virginity? No
17. Do you consider anal sex to be mainstream or taboo? Would you be embarrassed if your friends knew you've had anal sex? Siblings? Parents? It seems gross and nasty
18. What was/is your most valuable source of information to help you with sex (regarding things like birth control, condoms, lube)? mom,, puberty book and Internet
19. Do you wish your parents or siblings were more available to you to talk about sex, or do you prefer the status quo? status quo i guess
20. If you had a specific question about sex today, where or to whom would you turn to get answers? VTeen

Dalcourt
June 20th, 2018, 09:09 PM
Please don't post in threads with more than two months inactivity :locked: