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Danielle15
October 5th, 2017, 12:37 PM
Social interactions, peer acceptance, and sexual development are important to all of us. And while each of us tries to establish our own identity, we are also curious to know what everyone else is doing. Independence versus conformity. This survey attempts to discover how and when you coped with your sexual development, and the environment you faced. Perhaps you'll read a response and think, "Hey.....that's me!" Hope you participate and that it helps.

1. Current age:
2. How many siblings do you have? Are they older or younger?
3. Are your parents very religious?
4. Are your parents very strict?
5. Did/do your parents ever talk to you about sex?
6. Do you feel you can openly talk to at least one parent about sex or sexual issues?
7. Do you feel you can openly talk to a sibling about sex? Is that sibling younger or older than you?
8. Have you engaged in oral sex? If so, how old were you the first time?
9. Have you engaged in vaginal sex? If so, how old were you the first time?
10. Have you engaged in anal sex? If so, how old were you the first time?
11. In what order did you have oral, anal, and vaginal sex?
12. Do either of your parents know about your sexual activity?
13. Do any of your siblings know about your sexual activity?
14. How do you deal with getting adequate privacy to engage in sex?
15. Have you ever had oral, vaginal, or anal sex when either your parents or siblings were nearby? Oral, vaginal, anal?
16. Have you ever had anal sex as a form of birth control or to preserve your (vaginal) virginity?
17. Do you consider anal sex to be mainstream or taboo? Would you be embarrassed if your friends knew you've had anal sex? Siblings? Parents?
18. What was/is your most valuable source of information to help you with sex (regarding things like birth control, condoms, lube)?
19. Do you wish your parents or siblings were more available to you to talk about sex, or do you prefer the status quo?
20. If you had a specific question about sex today, where or to whom would you turn to get answers?

Alisha_
October 5th, 2017, 02:50 PM
1. Current age: 13
2. How many siblings do you have? Are they older or younger? One sister, a lot older.
3. Are your parents very religious? Not really
4. Are your parents very strict? Yes
5. Did/do your parents ever talk to you about sex? Never
6. Do you feel you can openly talk to at least one parent about sex or sexual issues? No
7. Do you feel you can openly talk to a sibling about sex? Is that sibling younger or older than you? No, we don't talk that often.
8. Have you engaged in oral sex? If so, how old were you the first time? No
9. Have you engaged in vaginal sex? If so, how old were you the first time?No
10. Have you engaged in anal sex? If so, how old were you the first time? No
11. In what order did you have oral, anal, and vaginal sex?
12. Do either of your parents know about your sexual activity? no
13. Do any of your siblings know about your sexual activity? no
14. How do you deal with getting adequate privacy to engage in sex?
15. Have you ever had oral, vaginal, or anal sex when either your parents or siblings were nearby? Oral, vaginal, anal?
16. Have you ever had anal sex as a form of birth control or to preserve your (vaginal) virginity?
17. Do you consider anal sex to be mainstream or taboo? Would you be embarrassed if your friends knew you've had anal sex? Siblings? Parents? It kind of scares me
18. What was/is your most valuable source of information to help you with sex (regarding things like birth control, condoms, lube)? Internet
19. Do you wish your parents or siblings were more available to you to talk about sex, or do you prefer the status quo? I kind of wish we were more open about sex stuff, but it'd be really embarrassing.
20. If you had a specific question about sex today, where or to whom would you turn to get answers? This website

BlackParadePixie
October 5th, 2017, 04:20 PM
1. Current age: 17
2. How many siblings do you have? Are they older or younger? none
3. Are your parents very religious? no
4. Are your parents very strict? no
5. Did/do your parents ever talk to you about sex? yes, mostly mom.
6. Do you feel you can openly talk to at least one parent about sex or sexual issues? yes
7. Do you feel you can openly talk to a sibling about sex? Is that sibling younger or older than you? don't have any
8. Have you engaged in oral sex? If so, how old were you the first time? yes, 13.
9. Have you engaged in vaginal sex? If so, how old were you the first time? yes, 13.
10. Have you engaged in anal sex? If so, how old were you the first time? nope
11. In what order did you have oral, anal, and vaginal sex? oral, then vaginal
12. Do either of your parents know about your sexual activity? yes
13. Do any of your siblings know about your sexual activity? n/a
14. How do you deal with getting adequate privacy to engage in sex? i close my door and lock it, or just do it when parents aren't home.
15. Have you ever had oral, vaginal, or anal sex when either your parents or siblings were nearby? Oral, vaginal, anal? in the house, yes.
16. Have you ever had anal sex as a form of birth control or to preserve your (vaginal) virginity? no
17. Do you consider anal sex to be mainstream or taboo? Would you be embarrassed if your friends knew you've had anal sex? Siblings? Parents? never done it, but I think its somewhat mainstream now...for older women especially
18. What was/is your most valuable source of information to help you with sex (regarding things like birth control, condoms, lube)? mom
19. Do you wish your parents or siblings were more available to you to talk about sex, or do you prefer the status quo? things are fine the way they are
20. If you had a specific question about sex today, where or to whom would you turn to get answers? mom

sazzzo
October 5th, 2017, 04:29 PM
1. Current age: 13
2. How many siblings do you have? younger sister
3. Are your parents very religious? sort of, they go to church
4. Are your parents very strict? yeah quite strict
5. Did/do your parents ever talk to you about sex? yes my mum
6. Do you feel you can openly talk to at least one parent about sex or sexual issues? yes
7. Do you feel you can openly talk to a sibling about sex? Is that sibling younger or older than you? older and yes
8. Have you engaged in oral sex? If so, how old were you the first time? OMG no
9. Have you engaged in vaginal sex? If so, how old were you the first time? no
10. Have you engaged in anal sex? If so, how old were you the first time? I will never do that
11. In what order did you have oral, anal, and vaginal sex?
12. Do either of your parents know about your sexual activity?
13. Do any of your siblings know about your sexual activity?
14. How do you deal with getting adequate privacy to engage in sex?
15. Have you ever had oral, vaginal, or anal sex when either your parents or siblings were nearby? Oral, vaginal, anal?
16. Have you ever had anal sex as a form of birth control or to preserve your (vaginal) virginity?
17. Do you consider anal sex to be mainstream or taboo? Would you be embarrassed if your friends knew you've had anal sex? Siblings? Parents? like I said I will never do it
18. What was/is your most valuable source of information to help you with sex (regarding things like birth control, condoms, lube)? school
19. Do you wish your parents or siblings were more available to you to talk about sex, or do you prefer the status quo? happy as it is
20. If you had a specific question about sex today, where or to whom would you turn to get answers? online somewhere like here

MissMolly
October 5th, 2017, 05:17 PM
1. Current age: 16
2. How many siblings do you have? Are they older or younger? one older sister
3. Are your parents very religious? No
4. Are your parents very strict? No
5. Did/do your parents ever talk to you about sex? Yes
6. Do you feel you can openly talk to at least one parent about sex or sexual issues? No
7. Do you feel you can openly talk to a sibling about sex? Is that sibling younger or older than you? No
8. Have you engaged in oral sex? If so, how old were you the first time? Yes. 14
9. Have you engaged in vaginal sex? If so, how old were you the first time? Yes. 15
10. Have you engaged in anal sex? If so, how old were you the first time? Yes, I did it once and never will again. 15
11. In what order did you have oral, anal, and vaginal sex? Oral, vaginal, anal
12. Do either of your parents know about your sexual activity? Yes
13. Do any of your siblings know about your sexual activity? Yes
14. How do you deal with getting adequate privacy to engage in sex? Either away from home, or when alone in house
15. Have you ever had oral, vaginal, or anal sex when either your parents or siblings were nearby? Oral, vaginal, anal? No
16. Have you ever had anal sex as a form of birth control or to preserve your (vaginal) virginity? No
17. Do you consider anal sex to be mainstream or taboo? Would you be embarrassed if your friends knew you've had anal sex? Siblings? Parents? Becoming more mainstream. Yes, I would be embarrassed if they knew. Heck, I'm embarrassed about it
18. What was/is your most valuable source of information to help you with sex (regarding things like birth control, condoms, lube)? friends
19. Do you wish your parents or siblings were more available to you to talk about sex, or do you prefer the status quo? I'm okay with the status quo
20. If you had a specific question about sex today, where or to whom would you turn to get answers? Friends or the internet

AmyP
October 5th, 2017, 06:50 PM
1. Current age: 16
2. How many siblings do you have? Are they older or younger? None
3. Are your parents very religious? Yes
4. Are your parents very strict? Yes .. not as much since 16th BD
5. Did/do your parents ever talk to you about sex? Yes
6. Do you feel you can openly talk to at least one parent about sex or sexual issues? Yes
7. Do you feel you can openly talk to a sibling about sex? Is that sibling younger or older than you? NA
8. Have you engaged in oral sex? If so, how old were you the first time? Yes 16
9. Have you engaged in vaginal sex? If so, how old were you the first time? No
10. Have you engaged in anal sex? If so, how old were you the first time? No
11. In what order did you have oral, anal, and vaginal sex? NA
12. Do either of your parents know about your sexual activity? HAve BF so they know we do stuff
13. Do any of your siblings know about your sexual activity? NA
14. How do you deal with getting adequate privacy to engage in sex? NA
15. Have you ever had oral, vaginal, or anal sex when either your parents or siblings were nearby? Oral, vaginal, anal? No
16. Have you ever had anal sex as a form of birth control or to preserve your (vaginal) virginity? No
17. Do you consider anal sex to be mainstream or taboo? Would you be embarrassed if your friends knew you've had anal sex? Siblings? Parents? Its Nasty
18. What was/is your most valuable source of information to help you with sex (regarding things like birth control, condoms, lube)? Mom/VT
19. Do you wish your parents or siblings were more available to you to talk about sex, or do you prefer the status quo? Status Quo
20. If you had a specific question about sex today, where or to whom would you turn to get answers? VT

Brigje
October 5th, 2017, 07:01 PM
5. Did/do your parents ever talk to you about sex? yes, mostly mom.
6. Do you feel you can openly talk to at least one parent about sex or sexual issues? yes
12. Do either of your parents know about your sexual activity? yes
19. Do you wish your parents or siblings were more available to you to talk about sex, or do you prefer the status quo? things are fine the way they are
20. If you had a specific question about sex today, where or to whom would you turn to get answers? mom

You're as lucky as I am to have a mom like that.

ThereseFrei
October 5th, 2017, 11:17 PM
1. Current age: 14
2. How many siblings do you have? Are they older or younger? Older brother and younger sister
3. Are your parents very religious? no
4. Are your parents very strict? no
5. Did/do your parents ever talk to you about sex? Yes, mom
6. Do you feel you can openly talk to at least one parent about sex or sexual issues? Yes
7. Do you feel you can openly talk to a sibling about sex? Is that sibling younger or older than you? yes with both
8. Have you engaged in oral sex? If so, how old were you the first time? Yes, 10
9. Have you engaged in vaginal sex? If so, how old were you the first time? Yes, 13
10. Have you engaged in anal sex? If so, how old were you the first time? Yes, 13
11. In what order did you have oral, anal, and vaginal sex? Oral, Anal, Vaginal
12. Do either of your parents know about your sexual activity? Yes
13. Do any of your siblings know about your sexual activity? Yes
14. How do you deal with getting adequate privacy to engage in sex?
15. Have you ever had oral, vaginal, or anal sex when either your parents or siblings were nearby? Oral, vaginal, anal? Yes, Oral and Vaginal
16. Have you ever had anal sex as a form of birth control or to preserve your (vaginal) virginity? Yes
17. Do you consider anal sex to be mainstream or taboo? Would you be embarrassed if your friends knew you've had anal sex? Siblings? Parents? I think it's normal and I don't have a problem with talking about it
18. What was/is your most valuable source of information to help you with sex (regarding things like birth control, condoms, lube)? Mom, friends, internet
19. Do you wish your parents or siblings were more available to you to talk about sex, or do you prefer the status quo? Status quo
20. If you had a specific question about sex today, where or to whom would you turn to get answers? Mom or friends

Danielle15
October 6th, 2017, 12:55 AM
1. Current age: 16
2. How many siblings do you have? Are they older or younger? one older sister
3. Are your parents very religious? No
4. Are your parents very strict? No
5. Did/do your parents ever talk to you about sex? Yes
6. Do you feel you can openly talk to at least one parent about sex or sexual issues? No
7. Do you feel you can openly talk to a sibling about sex? Is that sibling younger or older than you? No
8. Have you engaged in oral sex? If so, how old were you the first time? Yes. 14
9. Have you engaged in vaginal sex? If so, how old were you the first time? Yes. 15
10. Have you engaged in anal sex? If so, how old were you the first time? Yes, I did it once and never will again. 15
11. In what order did you have oral, anal, and vaginal sex? Oral, vaginal, anal
12. Do either of your parents know about your sexual activity? Yes
13. Do any of your siblings know about your sexual activity? Yes
14. How do you deal with getting adequate privacy to engage in sex? Either away from home, or when alone in house
15. Have you ever had oral, vaginal, or anal sex when either your parents or siblings were nearby? Oral, vaginal, anal? No
16. Have you ever had anal sex as a form of birth control or to preserve your (vaginal) virginity? No
17. Do you consider anal sex to be mainstream or taboo? Would you be embarrassed if your friends knew you've had anal sex? Siblings? Parents? Becoming more mainstream. Yes, I would be embarrassed if they knew. Heck, I'm embarrassed about it
18. What was/is your most valuable source of information to help you with sex (regarding things like birth control, condoms, lube)? friends
19. Do you wish your parents or siblings were more available to you to talk about sex, or do you prefer the status quo? I'm okay with the status quo
20. If you had a specific question about sex today, where or to whom would you turn to get answers? Friends or the internet

It's nice to know that moms are still a resource for information during puberty.....I'm jealous. Like you, my mom talked to me about sex, but I don't feel comfortable discussing issues with her now.

Just curious...Why would you be embarrassed that you've had anal sex if you consider it to be pretty mainstream? And why wouldn't you have it again (or regularly) in that case?

MissMolly
October 6th, 2017, 02:39 AM
IIt's nice to know that moms are still a resource for information during puberty.....I'm jealous. Like you, my mom talked to me about sex, but I don't feel comfortable discussing issues with her now.

Just curious...Why would you be embarrassed that you've had anal sex if you consider it to be pretty mainstream? And why wouldn't you have it again (or regularly) in that case?


think it is becoming mainstream because of porn.

I did it because my then boyfriend put a lot of pressure on me to do it and I gave in. And then I HATED it. I hated it physically and I hated it emotionally and I swore I would never ever do it again.

ChloeF
October 6th, 2017, 08:32 PM
1. Current age: 15
2. How many siblings do you have? Are they older or younger? 1, younger
3. Are your parents very religious? not overly so
4. Are your parents very strict? no
5. Did/do your parents ever talk to you about sex? yes
6. Do you feel you can openly talk to at least one parent about sex or sexual issues? yes
7. Do you feel you can openly talk to a sibling about sex? Is that sibling younger or older than you? yes
8. Have you engaged in oral sex? If so, how old were you the first time? 12
9. Have you engaged in vaginal sex? If so, how old were you the first time? 12
10. Have you engaged in anal sex? If so, how old were you the first time? no
11. In what order did you have oral, anal, and vaginal sex? oral, vaginal
12. Do either of your parents know about your sexual activity? yes
13. Do any of your siblings know about your sexual activity? yes
14. How do you deal with getting adequate privacy to engage in sex? it's never been a problem
15. Have you ever had oral, vaginal, or anal sex when either your parents or siblings were nearby? Oral, vaginal, anal? yes, oral
16. Have you ever had anal sex as a form of birth control or to preserve your (vaginal) virginity? no
17. Do you consider anal sex to be mainstream or taboo? Would you be embarrassed if your friends knew you've had anal sex? Siblings? Parents? somewhat, more so with the proliferation of porn nowadays
18. What was/is your most valuable source of information to help you with sex (regarding things like birth control, condoms, lube)? mum/internet
19. Do you wish your parents or siblings were more available to you to talk about sex, or do you prefer the status quo? things are good as they are
20. If you had a specific question about sex today, where or to whom would you turn to get answers? depends, either mum, internet or friends

Hayleyyy
October 11th, 2017, 03:42 PM
1. Current age: 14
2. How many siblings do you have? Are they older or younger? One older brother
3. Are your parents very religious? Not really
4. Are your parents very strict? Sometimes but in general no
5. Did/do your parents ever talk to you about sex? A little, but I’ve mostly learned through personal experience, my peers, and school
6. Do you feel you can openly talk to at least one parent about sex or sexual issues? I guess but it’s a little awkward
7. Do you feel you can openly talk to a sibling about sex? Is that sibling younger or older than you? Yes, we’re pretty honest with each other
8. Have you engaged in oral sex? If so, how old were you the first time? Yes, 12
9. Have you engaged in vaginal sex? If so, how old were you the first time? Yes, 12
10. Have you engaged in anal sex? If so, how old were you the first time? Yes, 13
11. In what order did you have oral, anal, and vaginal sex? Oral, vaginal, then anal
12. Do either of your parents know about your sexual activity? Yes, but they don’t know exactly how active I am
13. Do any of your siblings know about your sexual activity? Yes
14. How do you deal with getting adequate privacy to engage in sex? Usually do stuff when my/their parents aren’t home, but I’ve done stuff out of the house when needed
15. Have you ever had oral, vaginal, or anal sex when either your parents or siblings were nearby? Oral, vaginal, anal? Yes, brother was home. Oral and vaginal
16. Have you ever had anal sex as a form of birth control or to preserve your (vaginal) virginity? I’m on birth control so no
17. Do you consider anal sex to be mainstream or taboo? Would you be embarrassed if your friends knew you've had anal sex? Siblings? Parents? I think it’s gotten more mainstream. I’m not embarrassed that my friends and my brother knows, but I don’t want my parents to find out
18. What was/is your most valuable source of information to help you with sex (regarding things like birth control, condoms, lube)? Friends, school (kinda), and online resources like here!
19. Do you wish your parents or siblings were more available to you to talk about sex, or do you prefer the status quo? I’m happy with how it is
20. If you had a specific question about sex today, where or to whom would you turn to get answers? Friends first, then online

sara___
October 13th, 2017, 09:16 PM
1. Current age: 15
2. How many siblings do you have? One Are they older or younger? Younger
3. Are your parents very religious? Not really
4. Are your parents very strict? Only when they have to be
5. Did/do your parents ever talk to you about sex? Yes
6. Do you feel you can openly talk to at least one parent about sex or sexual issues? I could talk to either but it would be a little awkward with my dad
7. Do you feel you can openly talk to a sibling about sex? Is that sibling younger or older than you? My younger brother and I can talk about anything and have very few secrets from each other
8. Have you engaged in oral sex? Yes If so, how old were you the first time? 13
9. Have you engaged in vaginal sex? No If so, how old were you the first ?
10. Have you engaged in anal sex? No If so, how old were you the first time?
11. In what order did you have oral, anal, and vaginal sex? I've only had oral sex so far
12. Do either of your parents know about your sexual activity? I don't think so
13. Do any of your siblings know about your sexual activity? Yes
14. How do you deal with getting adequate privacy to engage in sex? Most of the time that I have fooled around with a guy he has been older and we were in a car. But at first when I did something with a boy it was usually after school in my house before anyone got home.
15. Have you ever had oral, vaginal, or anal sex when either your parents or siblings were nearby? Oral, vaginal, anal? No
16. Have you ever had anal sex as a form of birth control or to preserve your (vaginal) virginity? Not anal but in a way I have oral sex so I don't get pregnant
17. Do you consider anal sex to be mainstream or taboo? Would you be embarrassed if your friends knew you've had anal sex? I don't think I would want to talk to anyone about it if I ever decide to do it Siblings? Parents?
18. What was/is your most valuable source of information to help you with sex (regarding things like birth control, condoms, lube)? My mom
19. Do you wish your parents or siblings were more available to you to talk about sex, or do you prefer the status quo? Things are good the way they are
20. If you had a specific question about sex today, where or to whom would you turn to get answers? Probably my best friend's mom she's like a second mom to me and it would be less embarrassing[/QUOTE]

oneofthosepeople
October 17th, 2017, 06:54 PM
1. Current age: 13
2. How many siblings do you have? Are they older or younger? 16 yo sister, 10 yo sister, 1 yo brother
3. Are your parents very religious? No
4. Are your parents very strict? No
5. Did/do your parents ever talk to you about sex? Yes
6. Do you feel you can openly talk to at least one parent about sex or sexual issues? Yes
7. Do you feel you can openly talk to a sibling about sex? Is that sibling younger or older than you? My older sister yes
8. Have you engaged in oral sex? If so, how old were you the first time? No
9. Have you engaged in vaginal sex? If so, how old were you the first time? No
10. Have you engaged in anal sex? If so, how old were you the first time? No
11. In what order did you have oral, anal, and vaginal sex? Only time will tell
12. Do either of your parents know about your sexual activity? No
13. Do any of your siblings know about your sexual activity? No
14. How do you deal with getting adequate privacy to engage in sex? Don't need to yet
15. Have you ever had oral, vaginal, or anal sex when either your parents or siblings were nearby? Oral, vaginal, anal? No
16. Have you ever had anal sex as a form of birth control or to preserve your (vaginal) virginity? No
17. Do you consider anal sex to be mainstream or taboo? Would you be embarrassed if your friends knew you've had anal sex? Siblings? Parents? It's nit a taboo, but not mainstream. Somewhere in the middle
18. What was/is your most valuable source of information to help you with sex (regarding things like birth control, condoms, lube)? Older sister
19. Do you wish your parents or siblings were more available to you to talk about sex, or do you prefer the status quo? Status quo is fine
20. If you had a specific question about sex today, where or to whom would you turn to get answers? Older sister or internet

LITTLEANGEL16
October 18th, 2017, 12:18 AM
Social interactions, peer acceptance, and sexual development are important to all of us. And while each of us tries to establish our own identity, we are also curious to know what everyone else is doing. Independence versus conformity. This survey attempts to discover how and when you coped with your sexual development, and the environment you faced. Perhaps you'll read a response and think, "Hey.....that's me!" Hope you participate and that it helps.
Danielle Thanks to your for posting a Girl's survey post :yes:
But just one thing anyone posting surveys should so a COPY AND PASTE AND ANSWER THEIR OWN SURVEY. :)
XX

LITTLEANGEL16
October 18th, 2017, 12:39 PM
1. Current age: 17
2. How many siblings do you have? Are they older or younger? None
3. Are your parents very religious? It's just mum and me
4. Are your parents very strict? On some issues
5. Did/do your parents ever talk to you about sex? Yes
6. Do you feel you can openly talk to at least one parent about sex or sexual issues? Yes mum.
7. Do you feel you can openly talk to a sibling about sex? Is that sibling younger or older than you? N/A
8. Have you engaged in oral sex? If so, how old were you the first time? Experimenting @ 12ish, But also since that.
9. Have you engaged in vaginal sex? If so, how old were you the first time? No
10. Have you engaged in anal sex? If so, how old were you the first time? No and would Not
11. In what order did you have oral, anal, and vaginal sex? Oral
12. Do either of your parents know about your sexual activity? Yes mum
13. Do any of your siblings know about your sexual activity? N/A
14. How do you deal with getting adequate privacy to engage in sex? It's just courtesy.
15. Have you ever had oral, vaginal, or anal sex when either your parents or siblings were nearby? Oral, vaginal, anal? Mum was downstairs.
16. Have you ever had anal sex as a form of birth control or to preserve your (vaginal) virginity? Don't do anal or never would
17. Do you consider anal sex to be mainstream or taboo? Would you be embarrassed if your friends knew you've had anal sex? Siblings? Parents?
18. What was/is your most valuable source of information to help you with sex (regarding things like birth control, condoms, lube)? If its not something I already know I would ask mum, or Ask A BFF or her older sister or just Google it.
19. Do you wish your parents or siblings were more available to you to talk about sex, or do you prefer the status quo? It's Just Mum and me I can ask her anything.
20. If you had a specific question about sex today, where or to whom would you turn to get answers?If its not something I already know I would ask mum, or Ask A BFF or her older sister or just Google it.