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Jake445
September 28th, 2017, 04:14 PM
So, I share a room with my twin sister and we're not especially modest in front of each other.
We change in full view of each other, walk from and to the shower naked and occasionally sleep nude, not always both of us.
Also we sometimes shower together if we're in a hurry.

So my questions are: (requires sibling or equivalent)
Your gender:

Your age:

Do you have a brother, sister or both?

Are you fine with them seeing you nude?

Are they fine with you seeing them nude?

Do/ did you share a room with your sibling(s) ?
Brother or sister?
Same or close age?
Would you rather have your own room?

Do you sleep nude?

Do they sleep nude?

Have you showered together (at home)?
With a brother or a sister?
Do you do it often?
Why?

Has your relationship changed during puberty, relating to nudity and the things that come with it?


Thanks, feel free to ask questions.

bigwolf2
September 28th, 2017, 04:53 PM
Your gender: male

Your age: 15

Do you have a brother, sister or both? Both

Are you fine with them seeing you nude? I am not

Are they fine with you seeing them nude? I think not

Do/ did you share a room with your sibling(s) ? No
Brother or sister?
Same or close age?
Would you rather have your own room?

Do you sleep nude? No

Do they sleep nude? I do not think so

Have you showered together (at home)? No
With a brother or a sister? No
Do you do it often? No
Why?

Has your relationship changed during puberty, relating to nudity and the things that come with it? No

jamie_n5
September 28th, 2017, 07:12 PM
So my questions are: (requires sibling or equivalent)
Your gender: Male

Your age: 18

Do you have a brother, sister or both? Sister

Are you fine with them seeing you nude? Yeah it's no big deal

Are they fine with you seeing them nude? Mostly

Do/ did you share a room with your sibling(s) ? No
Brother or sister?
Same or close age? My sister is 14
Would you rather have your own room? I do

Do you sleep nude? No

Do they sleep nude? No

Have you showered together (at home)? No
With a brother or a sister?
Do you do it often?
Why?

Has your relationship changed during puberty, relating to nudity and the things that come with it? My sister and I are very close and share everything with each other. I have helped her a lot with puberty questions and things. We don't try to or regularly see each other in the nude. I have purposely shown her things about a penis when she has asked. I know all about girls but I don't have her expose her genitals to me. We have used the internet and she reads posts on here too.

kro814
September 28th, 2017, 07:27 PM
I have two lil brothers and we see each other naked all the time. No big deal.

Harrier
September 28th, 2017, 11:47 PM
Your gender: male

Your age: 18

Do you have a brother, sister or both? Both. Two sisters one bro

Are you fine with them seeing you nude? Yes

Are they fine with you seeing them nude? 90% of yhe the time

Do/ did you share a room with your sibling(s) ? I did with my bro 3 years ago
Brother or sister? Bro
Same or close age? Bro is 4 years younger. Sister is 1 year older, 1 year younger
Would you rather have your own room? I do now and i prefer it

Do you sleep nude? Yes since around 13

Do they sleep nude? No

Have you showered together (at home)? Rarely but ya
With a brother or a sister? All of them
Do you do it often? Nope
Why? Its sorta unusual to share a shower with others unless its a gym. So why do unusual things? When we do it its cuz were in a hurry (we did experiment in the shower too but thats a different story)

Has your relationship changed during puberty, relating to nudity and the things that come with it? No the relationship didnt. I think we all went through a modest phase but it was no biggie and short lived besides my bro but even he is over it now

mick01
September 29th, 2017, 10:08 AM
Your gender: male

Your age: 15

Do you have a brother, sister or both? 2 brothers, 1 sister

Are you fine with them seeing you nude? yes

Are they fine with you seeing them nude? not my sister

Do/ did you share a room with your sibling(s) ? yes
Brother or sister? little brother
Same or close age? he's 13
Would you rather have your own room? doesn't really matter to me

Do you sleep nude? occasionally

Do they sleep nude? occasionally

Have you showered together (at home)? during the summer at our beach house we do
With a brother or a sister? mostly younger brother
Do you do it often? on weekends in summer
Why? Its a huge shower with multiple heads and we have to shower before going into the house after the beach.

Has your relationship changed during puberty, relating to nudity and the things that come with it? we've probably gotten closer. We talk about a lot of stuff together.

Younotus
September 29th, 2017, 11:49 AM
Your gender: Female

Your age: 17

Do you have a brother, sister or both? two brothers (19 and 21)

Are you fine with them seeing you nude? Nope, but my oldest brother doens't care if my family sees him naked

Are they fine with you seeing them nude? I'm always dressed in front of them

Do/ did you share a room with your sibling(s) ? I shared a room with both for 16 years. the last 2 years with one of them. Finally i got my own room
Brother or sister? Brother(s)
Same or close age? kinda
Would you rather have your own room? Yeah, i own one for almost a year now

Do you sleep nude? nope

Do they sleep nude? probably

Have you showered together (at home)? never ever never ever naver ever ever :D
With a brother or a sister?
Do you do it often?
Why?

Has your relationship changed during puberty, relating to nudity and the things that come with it? Npe, im always insecure with nudity in front of familymembers and i dont want them to see me naked

ThaLG
September 29th, 2017, 05:41 PM
Your gender: f

Your age: 15

Do you have a brother, sister or both? two sisters (13,11) one brother (8)

Are you fine with them seeing you nude? my sisters, yes

Are they fine with you seeing them nude? my sisters are

Do/ did you share a room with your sibling(s) ? no
Brother or sister?
Same or close age?
Would you rather have your own room?

Do you sleep nude? very occasionally

Do they sleep nude? dunno

Have you showered together (at home)? yes
With a brother or a sister? sister
Do you do it often? no
Why? time constraints

Has your relationship changed during puberty, relating to nudity and the things that come with it? not really.

galaxy2000
September 29th, 2017, 06:14 PM
So my questions are: (requires sibling or equivalent)
Your gender: male

Your age: 16

Do you have a brother, sister or both? Younger brother

Are you fine with them seeing you nude? Yes

Are they fine with you seeing them nude? Yes

Do/ did you share a room with your sibling(s) ? Yes
Brother or sister? Brother
Same or close age? hes 11
Would you rather have your own room? Yes

Do you sleep nude? Sometimes

Do they sleep nude? No

Have you showered together (at home)? Yes
With a brother or a sister? Brother
Do you do it often? Occasionally
Why? To save time and water

Has your relationship changed during puberty, relating to nudity and the things that come with it? No. Occasionally I masturbate when he’s in the room but he doesn’t care.

noah.whynot
September 29th, 2017, 06:42 PM
Your gender: male

Your age: 15

Do you have a brother, sister or both? brother

Are you fine with them seeing you nude? yes

Are they fine with you seeing them nude? yes

Do/ did you share a room with your sibling(s) ? yes

Same or close age? almost 13
Would you rather have your own room? no

Do you sleep nude? not normally

Do they sleep nude? not normally

Have you showered together (at home)? no

Has your relationship changed during puberty, relating to nudity and the things that come with it? yes

pjones
September 30th, 2017, 05:35 AM
Your gender: male

Your age: 17

Do you have a brother, sister or both? brother, 15

Are you fine with them seeing you nude? yes

Are they fine with you seeing them nude? yes

Do/ did you share a room with your sibling(s) ? we used to

Would you rather have your own room? I moved into another bedroom after my boyfriend came to live with me or I'd still share one with my brother.

Do you sleep nude? yes

Do they sleep nude? yes

Have you showered together (at home)? yes
With a brother or a sister? brother
Do you do it often? not really
Why? if one of us gets up late for school and we have to rush

Has your relationship changed during puberty, relating to nudity and the things that come with it? not at all

JacobJ
September 30th, 2017, 03:45 PM
Your gender: M

Your age: 14

Do you have a brother, sister or both? older sister, younger brother

Are you fine with them seeing you nude? sister definitely not, brother not as much but avoid it as much as possible

Are they fine with you seeing them nude? sister same as me, brother doesn't care (but I wish he did)

Do/ did you share a room with your sibling(s) ? Yes
Brother or sister? Brother
Same or close age? He just turned 12
Would you rather have your own room? YES!

Do you sleep nude? No

Do they sleep nude? No

Have you showered together (at home)? Not since we were little kids
With a brother or a sister?
Do you do it often? Not any more
Why? Why would I?

Has your relationship changed during puberty, relating to nudity and the things that come with it? Yeah I need more privacy, don't really like him seeing my junk. Before I never really thought about it

MissMolly
September 30th, 2017, 10:40 PM
Your*gender: Female

Your*age: 16

Do you have a*brother, sister or both? Older sister

Are*you*fine with*them seeing you nude? No. I try and avoid it at all costs

Are*they*fine with*you seeing them nude? Yes. She walks around nude.

Do/ did you*share a room*with your sibling(s) ?*Nope
Brother or sister?
Same or close age?
Would you rather have your own room?

Do you sleep nude? Nope

Do they sleep nude? I honestly don't know. I don't think so. At least she doesn't when we have share a room, like in a hotel.

Have you showered together*(at home)?*Not for several years
With a brother or a sister?
Do you do it often?
Why?

Has your relationship changed during puberty, relating to nudity and the things that come with it? I have become really shy about my body over puberty. She is as open as always.

Aaron19
October 1st, 2017, 02:33 AM
Your gender:Male

Your age: 19

Do you have a brother, sister or both? Sister (shes 18)

Are you fine with them seeing you nude? Yes

Are they fine with you seeing them nude? Yes

Do/ did you share a room with your sibling(s) ? I did when I was younger. We still share a bathroom though

Do you sleep nude? I used to

Do they sleep nude? No

Have you showered together (at home)? Not since we were kids

Has your relationship changed during puberty, relating to nudity and the things that come with it? Not really. We're both comfortable changing, showering, or using the bathroom in front of each other. I guess I don't walk around naked as much anymore and she wears more than just her panties around the house now but that's it.

SeansLittleBro
October 1st, 2017, 09:37 AM
Your gender: Male

Your age: 17

Do you have a brother, sister or both? brothers - 2 older one twin

Are you fine with them seeing you nude? We always have gone nude together - so yes

Are they fine with you seeing them nude? Yes

Do/ did you share a room with your sibling(s) ? Yes
Brother or sister? Brother
Same or close age? Twin
Would you rather have your own room? Not at all

Do you sleep nude? Yes

Do they sleep nude? Yes

Have you showered together (at home)? Yes
With a brother or a sister? Brother
Do you do it often? Yes
Why? We are very close and see no need not to

Has your relationship changed during puberty, relating to nudity and the things that come with it? Not in the least we have always been comfortable with each other naked or otherwise...

How bout you Jake....you haven't answered your own questions I think we'd all like your input

Jake445
October 1st, 2017, 10:26 AM
Your gender: Male

Your age: 17

Do you have a brother, sister or both? brothers - 2 older one twin

Are you fine with them seeing you nude? We always have gone nude together - so yes

Are they fine with you seeing them nude? Yes

Do/ did you share a room with your sibling(s) ? Yes
Brother or sister? Brother
Same or close age? Twin
Would you rather have your own room? Not at all

Do you sleep nude? Yes

Do they sleep nude? Yes

Have you showered together (at home)? Yes
With a brother or a sister? Brother
Do you do it often? Yes
Why? We are very close and see no need not to

Has your relationship changed during puberty, relating to nudity and the things that come with it? Not in the least we have always been comfortable with each other naked or otherwise...

How bout you Jake....you haven't answered your own questions I think we'd all like your input

I thought that the text in the beginning summed this up but you're right some things are missing, so:
(Plus I can't really refuse a request from a fellow twin, can I?)

Your gender: Male

Your age: 13

Do you have a brother, sister or both? Twin sister

Are you fine with them seeing you nude? Yes

Are they fine with you seeing them nude? Yes

Do/ did you share a room with your sibling(s) ? Yes
Brother or sister? My sister
Same or close age? We're twins so she's also 13
Would you rather have your own room? No, it's fun and comfortable the way it is. For both of us, I've asked.

Do you sleep nude? Sometimes

Do they sleep nude? Sometimes

Have you showered together (at home)? Yes
With a brother or a sister? Sister
Do you do it often? We rarely shower together.
Every school morning one of us gets up earlier, showers, uses the bathroom &co and wakes up the other one. (I normally wake her.)
She showers while I get dressed and pack my bag for the day. We then go down for breakfast together.

Why? If we do shower together we're usually really late for school or something else.
We do it to save time, but we have also deliberately planed it the night before a few times, so we could sleep longer.

Has your relationship changed during puberty, relating to nudity and the things that come with it?
No, we are both still pretty shameless, at least in front of each other. The only things that have changed, is that we both shave our pubs now and do other puberty related things in the shower. That's the reason why we don't shower together every day.

Lord Of Curiosity
October 1st, 2017, 05:09 PM
Your gender: male

Your age: 20

Do you have a brother, sister or both? Older brother

Are you fine with them seeing you nude? I was up untill 13 yo

Are they fine with you seeing them nude? He was up untill 16 yo

Do/ did you share a room with your sibling(s) ? For a short while
Same or close age? He is 2.5 years older
Would you rather have had your own room? For the short time and ignoring the arguments I liked sharing a room

Do you sleep nude? Sometimes I do

Do they sleep nude? No

Have you showered together (at home)? Up till age 11
Do you do it often? No
Why? Because it wasnt nescecary

Has your relationship changed during puberty, relating to nudity and the things that come with it?
Yes, while he was first flopping it around, we now hide it from everyone. We argue too much now anyways :(

Jake445
October 1st, 2017, 05:31 PM
...We argue too much now anyways :(

Sorry to hear that you're not so close anymore,
still thanks for posting.
Best of luck.

Harrier
October 1st, 2017, 05:56 PM
Has your relationship changed during puberty, relating to nudity and the things that come with it?
No, we are both still pretty shameless, at least in front of each other. The only things that have changed, is that we both shave our pubs now and do other puberty related things in the shower. That's the reason why we don't shower together every day.

So I assume by your answer that even though you two are twins and don't have much modesty that you two don't shave your pubes or masturbate in front of each other? Me and my sisters aren't modest either but don't typically do those things in front of each other in less we were goofing. But then we aren't twins either. I imagine being twins there might be some things you do that other siblings wouldn't. But maybe I'm wrong.

Anniebanannie
October 1st, 2017, 06:42 PM
Your*gender: Female

Your*age: 16

Do you have a*brother, sister or both? Older sister

Are*you*fine with*them seeing you nude? No. I try and avoid it at all costs

Are*they*fine with*you seeing them nude? Yes. She walks around nude.

Do/ did you*share a room*with your sibling(s) ?*Nope
Brother or sister?
Same or close age?
Would you rather have your own room?

Do you sleep nude? Nope

Do they sleep nude? I honestly don't know. I don't think so. At least she doesn't when we have share a room, like in a hotel.

Have you showered together*(at home)?*Not for several years
With a brother or a sister?
Do you do it often?
Why?

Has your relationship changed during puberty, relating to nudity and the things that come with it? I have become really shy about my body over puberty. She is as open as always.

It sounds like you guys are day and night, Introvert and extrovert. Do you wish you could be more open like her?

MissMolly
October 1st, 2017, 10:50 PM
It sounds like you guys are day and night, Introvert and extrovert. Do you wish you could be more open like her?

We don't even look alike! If you did not know us, you wouldn't even know were sisters if we were standing next to each other. I never really knew my dad, but people say I really take after him, personality and everything, while she is like the spitting image of my mom.

I dunno if I would want to be more like her. Maybe? Sometimes? I mean, I know it's in large part a confidence thing, so I wish I had her confidence. But i don't know if i want her life.

ThereseFrei
October 1st, 2017, 11:55 PM
Your gender: F

Your age: 14

Do you have a brother, sister or both? sister and brother

Are you fine with them seeing you nude? Yes, I'm

Are they fine with you seeing them nude? Yes

Do/ did you share a room with your sibling(s) ? Yes
Brother or sister? With sister
Same or close age? She's 12
Would you rather have your own room? No

Do you sleep nude? Sometimes

Do they sleep nude? Sometimes

Have you showered together (at home)? Yes
With a brother or a sister? Both
Do you do it often? Yes
Why? It's faster and We like it

Has your relationship changed during puberty, relating to nudity and the things that come with it? No

Jake445
October 2nd, 2017, 02:00 AM
So I assume by your answer that even though you two are twins and don't have much modesty that you two don't shave your pubes or masturbate in front of each other? Me and my sisters aren't modest either but don't typically do those things in front of each other in less we were goofing. But then we aren't twins either. I imagine being twins there might be some things you do that other siblings wouldn't. But maybe I'm wrong.

No, you're not wrong exactly.
We've both shaven with the other one in the bathroom it's no big deal but it doesn't happen a lot.
Masturbation on the other hand is a bit different.
We talked about doing it together ever since we both started.
For now we've always decided to not do it, not because of shame or anything as we've both seen each other accidentally a few times over the years, but we both agree that masturbating together could easily lead to more serious things that we might regret in the future.

Anniebanannie
October 2nd, 2017, 06:29 PM
I dunno if I would want to be more like her. Maybe? Sometimes? I mean, I know it's in large part a confidence thing, so I wish I had her confidence. But i don't know if i want her life.


I understand what you mean.

Jake445
October 3rd, 2017, 08:42 AM
Have you showered together (at home)? Yes
With a brother or a sister? Both
Do you do it often? Yes
Why? It's faster and We like it
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You seem to have a excellent relationship to your siblings , nice to hear that.
How did you start showering together;
Is it that you and your siblings bathed together when you were younger an just never stopped doing it (like my sister and I),
or is it that you stopped for a while and started again because It's faster and can be really fun?

elmoc
October 4th, 2017, 10:33 PM
My siblings are all 10+ yrs older & married. I have seen dad & brothers in changing room at pool, gym. No problem. Sisters- nope. I would be uncomfortable.

Sleep nude: seldom.

Jake445
October 11th, 2017, 04:07 PM
Just bumping my thread. Come on people most of you probably have siblings.

Madison78
October 11th, 2017, 10:46 PM
Your gender: F

Your age: 14

Do you have a brother, sister or both? Both (They are twins)

Are you fine with them seeing you nude? Yes

Are they fine with you seeing them nude? Yes

Do/ did you share a room with your sibling(s) ? No
Brother or sister?
Same or close age?
Would you rather have your own room? I do

Do you sleep nude? Yes

Do they sleep nude? Yes

Have you showered together (at home)? Yes
With a brother or a sister? Both
Do you do it often? Occasionally
Why?

Has your relationship changed during puberty, relating to nudity and the things that come with it? Yes, I think that it has instilled a special bond and high level of trust with each other!

CharlesB
October 12th, 2017, 04:08 AM
Your gender: Male.

Your age: 16.

Do you have a brother, sister or both? Brother (14)

Are you fine with them seeing you nude? No. When we were young sure.

Are they fine with you seeing them nude? No.

Do/ did you share a room with your sibling(s) ? used to.
Brother or sister? Brother.
Same or close age? Close
Would you rather have your own room? I do now.

Do you sleep nude? No.

Do they sleep nude? No.

Have you showered together (at home)? Sure when we were like 5
With a brother or a sister? Bro
Do you do it often? Nah.
Why?
Over here it just ain't a thing to shower with sibling at 16 14 etc. sure when were young because well were none the wiser as to what things are etc

Has your relationship changed during puberty, relating to nudity and the things that come with it? Further apart.

benster
October 12th, 2017, 02:22 PM
Just bumping my thread. Come on people most of you probably have siblings.

I dont but I dont let anyone see me naked I am to shy and embarrassed so I wouldnt let a sibling see me naked

adlop
October 13th, 2017, 07:58 PM
Your gender: Male

Your age: 17

Do you have a brother, sister or both? Both

Are you fine with them seeing you nude? My brother, yes, not my sister.

Are they fine with you seeing them nude? Same as last answer.

Do/ did you share a room with your sibling(s) ? I did, yes.
Brother or sister? Brother.
Same or close age? Close.
Would you rather have your own room? It's better, yes.

Do you sleep nude? Sometimes.

Do they sleep nude? Dunno.

Have you showered together (at home)? Yes.
With a brother or a sister? Brother.
Do you do it often? Not anymore, only at the pool showers.
Why? We shower very quickly now, we used to do it because it was faster.

Has your relationship changed during puberty, relating to nudity and the things that come with it? Maybe, I'm not sure. I'm more confident, I guess (after a phase of less confidence, though).

Jaffe
October 14th, 2017, 11:09 AM
Your gender: Male

Your age: 18 now

Do you have a brother, sister or both? Younger brother, older sister (plus one brother way older, moved out long ago)

Are you fine with them seeing you nude? Yes, definitely

Are they fine with you seeing them nude? Yes

Do/ did you share a room with your sibling(s) ? Previously
Brother or sister? with my brother
Same or close age? 2 years younger
Would you rather have your own room? At present, yes.

Do you sleep nude? Yes

Do they sleep nude? Yes

Have you showered together (at home)? Yes
With a brother or a sister? Brother mostly, but with sister when needed
Do you do it often? No
Why? If I need any help in the shower, or if we are just in a hurry

Has your relationship changed during puberty, relating to nudity and the things that come with it? Some, yes, as we spend more time with other people. Or at least, my brother does.