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azurzg
September 7th, 2017, 11:47 AM
I find myself having thoughts about being sexual with two people at the same time (in my case, two specific people).

In theory, I definitely find this attractive (or at least arousing). In real life, in not sure how this would even work.

I am sure I am not the only one having these thoughts, but I wonder how common is this in real life? Are threesomes (moresomes) bad? Are they common?

Anybody here have thoughts on this? (no inappropriate details, please).

logan2002
September 7th, 2017, 12:31 PM
Been in a few, must say I enjoyed them. I would do again.

mick01
September 7th, 2017, 12:53 PM
Threesomes are not a bad thing as long as they are entirely consensual. People find all kinds of ways to do things differently sexually and this is just one more way.

Zachary G
September 7th, 2017, 01:25 PM
Threesomes are not a bad thing as long as they are entirely consensual. People find all kinds of ways to do things differently sexually and this is just one more way.

Agree with mick01. Not a bad thing at all, just another way to enjoy ones self sexually, only with 2 partners in stead of the usual one.

Seraph
September 8th, 2017, 08:59 AM
I've once been in one with my twin cousins. I must say it felt good, and I feel no problem in being in another one with them. As long as it's consensual and all three are willing, there shouldn't be a problem in it.

PinkFloyd
September 8th, 2017, 01:08 PM
Yeah, 3-ways are extremely sought after. My friend had sex with his girlfriend and another female friend of theirs. That happened a year ago, and I'm still super jealous.

Harrier
September 8th, 2017, 03:43 PM
Several friends have done them. I guess you could say I have in the broad definition of sexual threesums (though not actual intercourse with 2 others). I would do it but so far my GF isn't sold on it 100%

Mollypop
September 8th, 2017, 06:26 PM
Some people get jealous or possessive. Those people shouldn't do it. But as long as everyone can be casual and fun with it, you can have a great time.

jamie_n5
September 8th, 2017, 06:41 PM
My BF and I had a fuckbuddy girl for 2 years and had lots of threesomes. She is the only girl that either of us has done anything sexual with.

Just JT
September 8th, 2017, 06:51 PM
I think all kinds of fantasies are a good thing. Just the famsaty itself let's you work out so much in your head kinda like a dream

As for irl, I'd say they are probably more common than most would think maybe? But not like an every day thing imo. But yeah I'm pretty sure everyone think about them in some way. And that doesn't mean they think about it in a way that they wana try it

For me, yeah, personally, I think you find so much out about yourself, what you like and don't like. You'll learn new limits, and find new things you'll enjoy.

But hopefully, those things will be discovered with consenting people you can trust, and deal with whatever is happening. 3 some aren't for everyone. And in reality, you needa kind of be pretty mature about it cause there's a lot to it really.

SeansLittleBro
September 8th, 2017, 08:24 PM
Some people get jealous or possessive. Those people shouldn't do it. But as long as everyone can be casual and fun with it, you can have a great time.

That is the only drawback to a 3-way. If all participate equally then it can be a great experience. My bf and I have been in a couple of these and find that it brings us even closer together. Be sure this is what you want and if you do there is nothing wrong with it and I agree with JT that it is probably more common than many of us realize.

Jinglebottom
September 9th, 2017, 04:01 AM
Totally against it.

azurzg
September 11th, 2017, 04:46 AM
Totally against it.

OK. I think I need more information here. Can you tell me why?

Just JT
September 11th, 2017, 05:29 AM
OK. I think I need more information here. Can you tell me why?


More information?
Probably just a preference is all.

azurzg
September 11th, 2017, 07:40 AM
Threesomes are not a bad thing as long as they are entirely consensual. People find all kinds of ways to do things differently sexually and this is just one more way.

Agreed. Sounds good, in theory.
But what happens in real life? Like, in every day life afterwords. Is there weirdness? Expectations?

Jinglebottom
September 11th, 2017, 10:37 AM
OK. I think I need more information here. Can you tell me why?
Cause I'm prudish. :D

Just JT
September 11th, 2017, 09:16 PM
Agreed. Sounds good, in theory.
But what happens in real life? Like, in every day life afterwords. Is there weirdness? Expectations?


If there's weirdness or feelings like that, after any kinda sex, then you weren't mature enough to handle it in the first place.

Sex has responsibilities. We all hate hearing that but it's also true

You go into a relationship, no matter what kind it is, and involves sex, it changes the relationship. Knowing that before entering into that relationship or engaging in a sexual act, and truly accepting that change makes all the difference. A lot like being secure with who you are, and how you look nude. If you're embarrassed about being nude with someone, and truly u comfortable with that,
You may not be ready for anything sexual.

Maybe a little off topic, but not to much imo....

Andyyy95
September 12th, 2017, 05:24 AM
Sure the fantasy sounds very arousing, but in practice, I'm against it personally - I feel that someone(s) will get hurt eventually.
I know it's not uncommon though - it all falls back to trust in my opinion.

hayley2003
September 12th, 2017, 05:47 AM
seems OK if that is what they want to do.

i have seen some stuff online where some guys are doing one girl. i wouldn't want to be that one girl. it was porn. i couldn't watch it for very long. i just don't understand how people can like watching stuff like that, let alone do it.

i am still kinda getting use to one guy at a time...lol.

Just JT
September 12th, 2017, 05:53 AM
seems OK if that is what they want to do.

i have seen some stuff online where some guys are doing one girl. i wouldn't want to be that one girl. it was porn. i couldn't watch it for very long. i just don't understand how people can like watching stuff like that, let alone do it.

i am still kinda getting use to one guy at a time...lol.

I agree. But remember porn isn't real, they're "actors" being told what to do
Irl it's not like that at all

It can be god and fun.....if all are ok and ready for that

What you watch is putting one person (a girl) in a very degrading position. Not cool imo. Don't mean that doesn't happen, just not my thing.

It's just not a real and accurate depiction of any sex

Endeavour
September 12th, 2017, 05:37 PM
I don't think this is appropriate, let alone related to discovering your sexuality/gender. :locked: