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Steelerfan
August 17th, 2017, 02:01 PM
Just curious. What is your take on experimenting with a family member. My and my sister were talking about things but werent sure if we should. We wouldnt go all the way though

Vegas2933
August 17th, 2017, 02:06 PM
If you both are comfortable with it, I see no problem with it.

Steelerfan
August 17th, 2017, 02:15 PM
Thanks. We but dont have a take on it

Barbara.
August 17th, 2017, 03:39 PM
No never,not a good thing to do with a family member.

Bull
August 17th, 2017, 03:51 PM
No! No! NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO!

bojack
August 17th, 2017, 03:55 PM
Yeah i would not recommend immediate family, thats a bit much

ska8er
August 17th, 2017, 04:25 PM
NO-not with a sister. Over a period
of time it may become an emotional
prob especially if an accident occurs.
Not to say the guilt that goes with it.
Find a good friend to experiment with.

BlackParadePixie
August 17th, 2017, 05:11 PM
Probably not a good idea...

Emilyyy
August 17th, 2017, 06:02 PM
It seems to be a topic that comes up a bit on VT. I personally wouldn't do it as it would gross me out, don't think either of my siblings would be too happy either. Then again if everyone is happy then I don't see a huge problem.

jennycakes
August 17th, 2017, 06:32 PM
I have had some experience with my female cousin, but I agree. I personally wouldn't do it with my siblings. I think it would be too uncomfortable. There are times my brother and I catch each other naked and I feel uneasy. But if you and your sister are comfortable with the idea, just set some boundaries. But beware it might get weird.

Jamiec1130
August 17th, 2017, 06:53 PM
I would never do something like that if I had siblings. You don't know what it could do with the relationship between you two.

kro814
August 17th, 2017, 08:21 PM
I think incest is a bad idea.

kirikiri94
August 18th, 2017, 12:45 AM
Just curious. What is your take on experimenting with a family member. My and my sister were talking about things but werent sure if we should. We wouldnt go all the way though

OK with a brother but only mutual jerk. No oral, no anal. Simple curiosity

Diana2002
August 18th, 2017, 09:25 AM
I wouldn't recommend it... But it depends on your existing relationship I guess.
In my case it was ok at first but now it seems wrong

jamie_n5
August 18th, 2017, 12:59 PM
I don't think you should ever have any relations with a direct family member. That is incest plus just no good. Find a friend or even a cousin if you want to experiment.

kev1998
August 18th, 2017, 04:04 PM
I would stay away from actual sex or penetration but I have jerked off with close family members my own age.

kimmykim
August 19th, 2017, 08:07 AM
I would stay away from actual sex or penetration but I have jerked off with close family members my own age.

i agree, even tho most would say anything like that is wrong, i know it does happen. i did some experimenting with a cousin, but not sex. there is a big difference between some experimenting and sex.

Two.Cool.
August 19th, 2017, 10:44 PM
Go ahead, But be careful since she is a girl--don't wanna get 'er preggers

colephase
August 21st, 2017, 12:28 AM
The only situation similar is my cousins using my thong and thigh for masturbating.

i not problem with share shower with my brother, we are too close but nothing sexual.

pjones
August 21st, 2017, 08:56 AM
i've jerked off with my brother and we've done each other but we'd never have anal sex, to me that's going too far with a sibling or other relative

Vermilion
August 21st, 2017, 08:59 AM
Like many have said Jo with a brother is one thing but do not have sex with your sister

Nelmoinen
August 22nd, 2017, 09:38 PM
Just curious. What is your take on experimenting with a family member. My and my sister were talking about things but werent sure if we should. We wouldnt go all the way though

I would not recommend that.

Dmaxd123
August 23rd, 2017, 04:45 AM
i think there are a lot of variables... if you are close in age and she is sortof the one initiating then I think a bit of "show you mine show me yours" wouldn't be all bad but if she is younger and you initiate then it could get dicey

ashleigh7
August 28th, 2017, 10:45 AM
Me personally....if you both are comfortable with each other and BOTH want to, then I think it's fine. But 100% use some form of protection if you go that far. My brother and I have tried stuff. It's a safe way to experiment and stuff....I think.

Madison519
August 28th, 2017, 11:42 AM
I think show and (not) tell is fine, but no touching and def no sex. Masturbating together in the same room is where I'd draw the line. That's seems like something that satisfies curiosity and builds some trust without risk or regrets.

darla
August 28th, 2017, 02:12 PM
nope

ItsFootballnotSoccer
August 28th, 2017, 04:59 PM
If both sides agree, and it is for some mutual learning or curiosity, I see no problem. If it starts to affect your emotional relationship as siblngs, dont do it

Two.Cool.
August 28th, 2017, 11:10 PM
Seems ok, just be careful

chomoto123
August 31st, 2017, 09:37 AM
Woah I don't think that's a great idea
Incest tho -.-

SeansLittleBro
September 1st, 2017, 09:01 PM
With your sister I would say no. My twin and I have had sexual experiences together since we were very young and have masturbated one another.

LITTLEANGEL17
September 2nd, 2017, 12:22 AM
I Did with some BFF when we were younger, they were also Experimenting.

Jericho14
September 2nd, 2017, 06:00 AM
I find incest weird, Showing off private parts or jacking off with a family member would be fine

scott2002
September 2nd, 2017, 07:12 AM
Just curious. What is your take on experimenting with a family member. My and my sister were talking about things but weren't sure if we should. We wouldn't go all the way though
I think two boys, as brothers or cousins, I think it's actually pretty common and okay. But a boy and his sister? I think that's creepy! And, think about when you two become adults and you're both married and you both have kids of your own. I think you'd always feel awkward around each other, knowing that at one time you did that thing together.
(But I had a friend when I was 13 and his younger sister was curious about boy body parts and asked him if she could watch him jerk off, and he did let her watch him do it all the way. In return, he asked to see everything that she had, and she let him see all of her female parts. But that was it. Maybe that's okay??)

Falcons_11
September 2nd, 2017, 06:26 PM
There are a lot of factors that come into play when you start experimenting with a close family member. I don't see anything wrong with experimenting with a brother or cousin provided you are close in ages and agree to doing it. But with your sister is a whole different can of worms. If it's just experimenting..like "you show me yours and I'll show you mine" and doesn't end up having outright sex, it's probably okay if she agrees to do it.

Drewboyy
September 2nd, 2017, 07:41 PM
Even if you have a dragon flying through your living room, no.

Yonah
September 3rd, 2017, 07:53 AM
I have a younger and an older brother.
A couple of times I watched my older brother playing with himself while I pretended to sleep. I know that he was aware that I'm watching, but he stopped when I moved and tried to join in.
My brother was never shy and he didn't mind to undress and be naked in our room, but if it would have come to body contact with hard-ons he would chicken out.
Nowadays I'm in the same situation with my younger brother, who sneaks around me like a cat, teases me, and asks me to show him the development of my body. He is my little brother boy, and it's an awkward situation. I don't want it.

Girly talker
September 4th, 2017, 04:27 PM
My brother and I used to masturbate in front of each other it was so good later we moved on to experimenting then I gave him a blowjob when we got older him and I had full blown sex with a condom I wish it never stopped

Ayoze
September 4th, 2017, 06:27 PM
Just curious. What is your take on experimenting with a family member. My and my sister were talking about things but werent sure if we should. We wouldnt go all the way though

How old are you? And your sister?

It depends, but I would never do that. Specially if you are a teen.

Jay bay
September 5th, 2017, 03:05 AM
My brother and I used to masturbate in front of each other it was so good later we moved on to experimenting then I gave him a blowjob when we got older him and I had full blown sex with a condom I wish it never stopped

How long ago was this? Why do you wish it never stopped?

Cronor
September 5th, 2017, 06:04 PM
As long as you're both comfortable with it, it's tolerable, but you have to keep in mind that you can't just distance yourself from family members (well, you can, but..) and that it might cause uncomfortable and awkward situations & relations in the future.

Family relations are a very serious matter, I wouldn't risk a healthy relationship with a sibling for sexual pleasure.

Be very wise about this, and don't make any heat-of-the-moment decisions.

Brigje
September 9th, 2017, 05:48 AM
I wouldn't recommend it... But it depends on your existing relationship I guess.
In my case it was ok at first but now it seems wrong

Diana
Does it seems wrong to you because society is, or will be, judgemental on it when they ever find out, or for other personal reasons?

When you both want it and are totaly okay with it, show and (not) tell is fine, but no sex. Masturbating together is where I would draw the line for teenagers. It satisfies curiosity in the safety of the family home with someone you trust without risk or regrets.

Posts merged ~Endeavour

scott2002
September 9th, 2017, 07:25 AM
My brother and I used to masturbate in front of each other it was so good later we moved on to experimenting then I gave him a blowjob when we got older him and I had full blown sex with a condom I wish it never stopped
Yikes!!! Even just reading this makes me feel uncomfortable!! I think discovery and showing each other, brother and sister, what your different sex parts look like and how you get pleasure from them, is okay, but definitely not taking it to having intercourse together. (Ugh!)

Steelerfan
September 11th, 2017, 02:25 AM
Me personally....if you both are comfortable with each other and BOTH want to, then I think it's fine. But 100% use some form of protection if you go that far. My brother and I have tried stuff. It's a safe way to experiment and stuff....I think.

What have you and your brother tried

ashleigh7
September 11th, 2017, 01:16 PM
What have you and your brother tried

Well...a little bit of everything I guess. Touching...kissing...and we have had sex.

ChloeF
September 11th, 2017, 06:32 PM
Me personally....if you both are comfortable with each other and BOTH want to, then I think it's fine. But 100% use some form of protection if you go that far. My brother and I have tried stuff. It's a safe way to experiment and stuff....I think.

When did you start and do you still do it?

ashleigh7
September 11th, 2017, 07:10 PM
When did you start and do you still do it?

I guess about 3 or 4 years ago... and yes. But he's in the Army now: ( so I don't see him that much. But when he gets back home or back to his base we hang out as much as we can.

Trish_Lynn
September 11th, 2017, 09:20 PM
Interesting. My take is if it's consensual to you and your sister, I don't see the harm to experiment. Siblings have been playing "doctor" like forever. I'm sure it happens more then people realize and that's all I have to say about that.

red04
September 11th, 2017, 09:59 PM
Two letters n o

Tyler97
September 12th, 2017, 09:12 AM
simple answer , no. It's ok to bathe together when you're under 7 years old, I bathed with my sister when I was 7 and she was 6, my mother taught us each other's private parts, so we know everything, but when I turned 8, we bathed separately.

azurzg
September 12th, 2017, 09:59 AM
Just curious. What is your take on experimenting with a family member. My and my sister were talking about things but werent sure if we should. We wouldnt go all the way though

Talking about things is fine...

But think about this: one day when you both grow-up, and perhaps have spouses and children, and when you get together as families... will things be awkward if you've crossed some lines when you were younger?

Andyyy95
September 12th, 2017, 10:42 AM
Discussion is alright, but anything past the line sounds incredibly wrong in my opinion.

DerpyGirl
September 12th, 2017, 06:43 PM
I've been thinking a lot about this, and not because I want to do it or anything, but I've been thinking about how I feel,about the incest thing. I do not think it's right for siblings to have sex. Yes, experimenting and maybe masturbating is acceptable, but sex with siblings is just something I would not do. Now if it were a cousin, even a first female cousin, I'd consider it.

Mollypop
September 13th, 2017, 12:35 AM
I do not think it's right for siblings to have sex. Yes, experimenting and maybe masturbating is acceptable, but sex with siblings is just something I would not do.

I don't get what one has to do with the other. There are plenty of things I won't do but that doesn't mean that those things are wrong. It means they're wrong for me but that's not the same thing at all.

DerpyGirl
September 13th, 2017, 12:50 AM
I don't get what one has to do with the other. There are plenty of things I won't do but that doesn't mean that those things are wrong. It means they're wrong for me but that's not the same thing at all.



That's exactly what I meant Molly. I'm sorry if my wording offended anyone. What I meant to say is it's not right for me. It's not up to me to decide what's right or wrong for everyone. I just don't find it to be something that's right for me.

gotyougoin
September 13th, 2017, 07:07 AM
Depends on what you mean by family member. I would say experimenting with a brother or sister is a no-no, but a cousin that's more like a friend is ok i guess

Nelli
September 14th, 2017, 11:39 AM
A little bit of experimenting would be ok, especially if it happens before puberty. After puberty, well... it depends. If its ok for both, why not?

Steelerfan
September 18th, 2017, 10:22 AM
I guess about 3 or 4 years ago... and yes. But he's in the Army now: ( so I don't see him that much. But when he gets back home or back to his base we hang out as much as we can.

Wow. Thats cool. When was the last time u guys did anything

ashleigh7
September 18th, 2017, 12:41 PM
Wow. Thats cool. When was the last time u guys did anything

Aaaaa...about 2 to 3 months ago : ( He's deployed right now :((((

elmoc
September 18th, 2017, 03:03 PM
First, I congratulate you for showing the maturity to ask VT about it, & not just give in to the hormones.

IMO, "anatomy lessons" can be fun & helpful between brothers & sisters, but going much further can have really negative psychological & physical (pregnant) consequences.

She is someone you will know & love, as a sister, for your entire life. Sex changes that relationship. You might have a few sisters, but you can have as many lovers as you choose. Crossing that line can reall screw up a good family relationship.

Beccabear
September 18th, 2017, 10:13 PM
In a word...YUCK!

Vicboy2707
September 18th, 2017, 10:57 PM
Me and my cousin fool around and we love it we aren’t that close in age there’s a t year difference but we don’t care about that we love it as for immediate family I personally wouldn’t but it’s up to you

Steelerfan
September 19th, 2017, 02:13 AM
Aaaaa...about 2 to 3 months ago : ( He's deployed right now :((((
Thats cool. I dont think i would have sex with my brother. Last night was the first time we experimented. It actually was fun. We didnt feel feird after

AdHall
September 19th, 2017, 07:53 AM
definitely not

Diana2002
September 23rd, 2017, 03:45 PM
Diana
Does it seems wrong to you because society is, or will be, judgemental on it when they ever find out, or for other personal reasons?

When you both want it and are totaly okay with it, show and (not) tell is fine, but no sex. Masturbating together is where I would draw the line for teenagers. It satisfies curiosity in the safety of the family home with someone you trust without risk or regrets.

Posts merged ~Endeavour

It's mostly about society, that's why i deleted some of my posts about it. People tend to judge and look at you different afterwards like you've done something bad.

I agree with what you said

Madison78
September 23rd, 2017, 07:40 PM
I think mutual masturbation is fine among siblings. I masturbate with my siblings and I think it ads a new dimension of trust and security between us. Since we've been doing it together, it has improved our relationships with each other, we hardly fight, we are more accepting of each other and we have a really strong bond. My friends always envy how great our relationship is!

Jrunner
September 23rd, 2017, 07:46 PM
Absolutely nope nope nope

Jessie239919
October 1st, 2017, 10:01 PM
It's mostly about society, that's why i deleted some of my posts about it. People tend to judge and look at you different afterwards like you've done something bad.

I agree with what you said

Diana - what have you done before? No judgement here

Jake445
October 2nd, 2017, 01:13 PM
I guess it's fine if aware of the impact it could have on your relationship.

ThereseFrei
October 3rd, 2017, 01:00 AM
I think just touching and watching is ok but I'm not sure about penetration. For me it's ok.

Brigje
October 3rd, 2017, 03:14 AM
I think just touching and watching is ok but I'm not sure about penetration. For me it's ok.

I totally agree with Therese on this
It is interesting to see that personal and social opinions on this vary so widely.

ThereseFrei Do you think this is also the general opinion in Norway?

ThereseFrei
October 3rd, 2017, 03:28 AM
I think it's not general opinion in Norway or in other countries. People here are really conservative in this topic.

Brigje
October 3rd, 2017, 03:47 AM
I think it's not general opinion in Norway or in other countries. People here are really conservative in this topic.

Thanks for answering Therese.
It is a sensitive topic and many don't want or dare to give their opinion on this.

ThereseFrei
October 3rd, 2017, 03:54 AM
Thanks for answering Therese.
It is a sensitive topic and many don't want or dare to give their opinion on this.

Do you have personal experience with this topic?

Brigje
October 3rd, 2017, 04:04 AM
Do you have personal experience with this topic?

Yes I have, with a cousin about my age, I don't have a brother or sister.

Jake445
October 3rd, 2017, 07:27 AM
Yes I have, with a cousin about my age, I don't have a brother or sister.

Hey, what does your personal experience extend to, if you don't mind me asking?

Brigje
October 3rd, 2017, 08:03 AM
Hey, what does your personal experience extend to, if you don't mind me asking?

I don't mind your asking, but I think that the mods mind when I go into detail about it.

Jake445
October 3rd, 2017, 08:15 AM
I don't mind your asking, but I think that the mods mind when I go into detail about it.

You are right of course so I'll just draw my conclusions from this answer, still, thank you for replying.

ross13
October 3rd, 2017, 08:32 AM
Not with a sister that's to close man, with a cousin that's kinda okay I once made-out with my 2nd cousin but still that was grose
Don't recommend insest at all though

mick01
October 3rd, 2017, 12:03 PM
If same sex siblings or cousins want to experiment, I say go for it. I think it probably happens a lot more than people would admit. I've done some pretty basic stuff with both and it was harmless. Actually it was fun.

Sandra123
October 11th, 2017, 05:14 PM
absolutely nope nope nope

+1 nope!

CharlesB
October 12th, 2017, 02:18 PM
Personally I think it's a disgusting idea but hey were all different. You two good with it go ahead. Me however. No.

I see people giving the okay about jacking off with a brother or cousin but when it comes to sisters they think thats wrong

how can you justify one form of incest and not all?

Not judging . each to their own just wondering what peoples thoughts are

Jrunner
October 12th, 2017, 03:17 PM
[QUOTE=CharlesB;3580750

I see people giving the okay about jacking off with a brother or cousin but when it comes to sisters they think thats wrong

how can you justify one form of incest and not all[/QUOTE]

Bc watching porn and jacking off w a brother or cousin or friend whatever is just something boys do but it's not incest, the two are apples and bowling balls.

Harrier
October 14th, 2017, 05:30 PM
Personally I think it's a disgusting idea but hey were all different. You two good with it go ahead. Me however. No.

I see people giving the okay about jacking off with a brother or cousin but when it comes to sisters they think thats wrong

how can you justify one form of incest and not all?

Not judging . each to their own just wondering what peoples thoughts are

Bc watching porn and jacking off w a brother or cousin or friend whatever is just something boys do but it's not incest, the two are apples and bowling balls.

Jrunner I would argue that girls mbate as much (or nearly as much) as guys. I could also therefore argue that a brother and a sister could watch porn together and mabte themselves (not touching each other).

Others (not you Jrunner) have suggested that 2 brothers giving each other head is ok since they are "just boys" doing "what boys do" . I don't get that logic at all. That either seems sexist or pro-homosexual.

I am not saying that brothers and sisters SHOULD do stuff! But I don't get why it's "ok" for brothers to do but not brothers and sisters. That seems hypocritical.

Brigje
October 14th, 2017, 07:13 PM
I don't get why it's "ok" for brothers to do but not brothers and sisters. That seems hypocritical.

Exactly this what Harrier says, I don't get it either.

Boys seem to find it o.k. when brothers experiment, but find experimenting between brother and sister awkward.

Cangirl
October 18th, 2017, 09:59 AM
It might not change things to much or at all if youre already used to seeing each other naked or in underwear. Then it just seems to happen or is the next step that some siblings take. some dont though so its up to both of you. My brothers and sister and I share a bathroom so we're used to seeing each other undressed/showering and things and yes we played doctor growing up haha. The important thing is we all are ok with it and its fun and also a good way to see the opposite sex body and things like that.

experimenting doesnt have to mean vaginal sex either but if thats the way it goes then you need protection just like with any boy.

Diana2002
October 22nd, 2017, 09:34 AM
It might not change things to much or at all if youre already used to seeing each other naked or in underwear. Then it just seems to happen or is the next step that some siblings take. some dont though so its up to both of you. My brothers and sister and I share a bathroom so we're used to seeing each other undressed/showering and things and yes we played doctor growing up haha. The important thing is we all are ok with it and its fun and also a good way to see the opposite sex body and things like that.

experimenting doesnt have to mean vaginal sex either but if thats the way it goes then you need protection just like with any boy.

Finnaly a sane and ballanced person.

Brigje
October 22nd, 2017, 09:40 AM
It might not change things to much or at all if youre already used to seeing each other naked or in underwear. Then it just seems to happen or is the next step that some siblings take. some dont though so its up to both of you. My brothers and sister and I share a bathroom so we're used to seeing each other undressed/showering and things and yes we played doctor growing up haha. The important thing is we all are ok with it and its fun and also a good way to see the opposite sex body and things like that.

experimenting doesnt have to mean vaginal sex either but if thats the way it goes then you need protection just like with any boy.

Finnaly a sane and ballanced person.

I second that.

Cangirl
October 23rd, 2017, 09:16 PM
Finnaly a sane and ballanced person.

I second that.

awww thanks :)

Jessie239919
October 25th, 2017, 09:57 PM
Finnaly a sane and ballanced person.

Agree! Finally a balanced message that makes sense!

Animal3393
November 26th, 2017, 08:42 PM
Steer clear is safest but if you both feel you really want/need to then look but donít touch would be my next advice. Watch each other masturbate but no contact, opposite ends of the bed maybe, you donít want anyĎaccodentsí to happen.

toby69
November 26th, 2017, 09:54 PM
It can be a bad idea as stated above. On a low key, my male cousin and I have masturbated together with no bad side effects.

max02
November 26th, 2017, 10:09 PM
Sounds pretty fucked up.

TheSmokingMan
November 26th, 2017, 11:43 PM
Sounds pretty fucked up.

LOL
Love this.

Triple k
November 29th, 2017, 12:08 AM
It might not change things to much or at all if youre already used to seeing each other naked or in underwear. Then it just seems to happen or is the next step that some siblings take. some dont though so its up to both of you. My brothers and sister and I share a bathroom so we're used to seeing each other undressed/showering and things and yes we played doctor growing up haha. The important thing is we all are ok with it and its fun and also a good way to see the opposite sex body and things like that.

experimenting doesnt have to mean vaginal sex either but if thats the way it goes then you need protection just like with any boy.

well said

CuriousBoy15
November 29th, 2017, 11:14 PM
Although you may find it tempting. I would strongly discourage it, if it ever got out that you experimented with your sister...yikes!

Fritz
November 30th, 2017, 11:57 PM
Id feel uncomfortable doing anything with a family member

Juliarules832
December 1st, 2017, 10:33 AM
That does not seem right to me

Chetz
December 2nd, 2017, 07:06 PM
I don't have any siblings. But I masturbated together with my cousins (boys). It would be akward for me to masturbate with a female family member.

sophielicious
December 2nd, 2017, 07:56 PM
I don't have any siblings but sometimes wish I did. To learn things within the safety of your own family, idk, maybe not so bad. Just saying.....

Angelrow
December 3rd, 2017, 06:42 AM
I experimented from an early age with a female cousin .We are about the same age and we loved to help each other out. Never all the way but as far as touching and oral. But am not sure I would feel the same if she was my sis. But that said I would not judge any family that did just not for me.

Axrow
December 3rd, 2017, 10:52 AM
No. It could be very damaging to your relationship

Gopher
December 3rd, 2017, 12:56 PM
ive done and do it and it was a healthy fun experiance, everyone is different so you want to be careful obviously.

CuriousBoy15
December 3rd, 2017, 01:13 PM
No. It could be very damaging to your relationship

Agreed 100%!

YoungHypebeast
December 12th, 2017, 02:45 PM
Hell nooo plz don't do it

ilovevt816
December 22nd, 2017, 12:08 AM
It might not change things to much or at all if youre already used to seeing each other naked or in underwear. Then it just seems to happen or is the next step that some siblings take. some dont though so its up to both of you. My brothers and sister and I share a bathroom so we're used to seeing each other undressed/showering and things and yes we played doctor growing up haha. The important thing is we all are ok with it and its fun and also a good way to see the opposite sex body and things like that.

experimenting doesnt have to mean vaginal sex either but if thats the way it goes then you need protection just like with any boy.

I agree with you

Nikki_1
December 22nd, 2017, 10:14 AM
I don't have any brothers or sisters but I think it would be a bad thing to get physically involved with, theres a difference in asking questions and things concerning sex, I have a great mom that I ask lots of the more personal questions and stuff like that but thats as far as it should go i think.

NudistFun
December 22nd, 2017, 10:28 AM
I think it's far more common than most people think. I don't think actual sex between siblings is a good idea at all, but some touching and exploring I think is normal.

Also, as long as the age difference isn't large either. You don't want to force yourself or have your sibling do it because they want to impress you.

HardCandyGirl
January 22nd, 2018, 05:20 PM
I don't have any siblings but sometimes wish I did. To learn things within the safety of your own family, idk, maybe not so bad. Just saying.....

Youre right

I think just touching and watching is ok but I'm not sure about penetration. For me it's ok.

Penetration not for me, Im not sure about oral, but touching is ok for me

Yes I have, with a cousin about my age, I don't have a brother or sister.

With a cousin is ok

I think mutual masturbation is fine among siblings. I masturbate with my siblings and I think it ads a new dimension of trust and security between us. Since we've been doing it together, it has improved our relationships with each other, we hardly fight, we are more accepting of each other and we have a really strong bond. My friends always envy how great our relationship is!

That sounds beautiful

I think it's far more common than most people think. I don't think actual sex between siblings is a good idea at all, but some touching and exploring I think is normal.

Also, as long as the age difference isn't large either. You don't want to force yourself or have your sibling do it because they want to impress you.

Very, very common, but most people deny it

Tom_theflash
January 22nd, 2018, 07:03 PM
Never and I never will

ashleigh7
January 29th, 2018, 01:17 PM
Just my 2Ę....I think if they are of age and its totally consensual. It's fine. It can be a very safe way to try things. And get "relief" at the same time. : ) If it goes to intercourse...the defiantly 100% need some form of production.

EvaNL
January 29th, 2018, 01:26 PM
Just my 2Ę....I think if they are of age and its totally consensual. It's fine. It can be a very safe way to try things. And get "relief" at the same time. : ) If it goes to intercourse...the defiantly 100% need some form of production.

I hope (and think) you mean 'protection'. Without it, there may be 'production' ;)

ashleigh7
January 29th, 2018, 01:30 PM
Oh!!!!!! ://// my bad ! Lol!! Yes absolutely! PROTECTION..: )

Beach_Blonde
February 1st, 2018, 04:20 PM
i can say that like non-touching with same sex family and comparing would be okay and normal as i have myself done that with cousins and my sister

but with oppoiste sex seems a lil sketchy to me

Maurice998
February 3rd, 2018, 06:20 AM
As long as you donít get in her pants

NewLeafsFan
February 7th, 2018, 02:46 AM
I would recommend against doing it with someone of the opposite sex. If they became pregnant with your baby that would be the most weird conversation of your life when you told your parents and everyone else in your family. If two people of the same sex are just experimenting and trying to figure things out, to me it has a different meaning to it.

wolfeman
February 22nd, 2018, 05:51 PM
i'm not gonna go into detail, but i've done things with both my brother and my sister.

my rule of thumb is don't do anything that will get anyone pregnant and make sure everyone's on the same page.

apart from that, have fun.

Alexis16
February 27th, 2018, 08:48 AM
I don't have any siblings so I don't have any personal experience with this. I wouldn't have thought stuff like this happened but reading all the comments it seems like it does happen.

openmind-son
March 1st, 2018, 04:47 PM
I’m glad to see a post like this, beraking the boundaries of society and taboo bullshit. Do what you all feel to be right. And it is always different from other peoples opinion. In my family there is no such taboo, we all having consensual fun with each other, including full penetration sex as well. (Sry guys, we are happy doing it, I don’t care to gross you out).

SethfromMI
March 1st, 2018, 05:30 PM
Family is always a no no for me. Just no, I am sorry. I can kind of understand cousins maybe jacking off in the same room or something, but when you gen into penetration, esp the possibility of children being made...I would recommend you don't.

Bamf_Girl
June 5th, 2018, 06:09 AM
I have delved in the forbidden fruit yes. I am eve for sure. Itís in our nature I believe.

KristenS
June 5th, 2018, 08:23 AM
Just a little bit of light touching with a cousin who was a boy. We were younger and curious about the different parts.

Katie2003
June 5th, 2018, 08:40 AM
My big sis who is 18 now shared a bedroom and a bed with me up until recently. She also taught me how to masturbate when I asked her about it a few years ago. We have masturbated together more times than I could possibly count, and we also have sex together quite a bit. No one is forcing anyone to do things they don't want to, we both enjoy our times together and have never seen anything wrong with it. To us it seems perfectly natural and healthy. Mom is aware of it, and never said anything that would indicate she was against what we were doing together or thought there was any problem with it.

Bamf_Girl
June 5th, 2018, 08:56 AM
My big sis who is 18 now shared a bedroom and a bed with me up until recently. She also taught me how to masturbate when I asked her about it a few years ago. We have masturbated together more times than I could possibly count, and we also have sex together quite a bit. No one is forcing anyone to do things they don't want to, we both enjoy our times together and have never seen anything wrong with it. To us it seems perfectly natural and healthy. Mom is aware of it, and never said anything that would indicate she was against what we were doing together or thought there was any problem with it.

I agree if everyone is willing and aware that it is ok. My family was just raised that way. I think itís more common than people think.

Katie2003
June 5th, 2018, 09:03 AM
I agree if everyone is willing and aware that it is ok. My family was just raised that way. I think itís more common than people think.


I think maybe a lot of people are afraid or ashamed to talk about things they have done with family members. Some of my friends admit to playing around with a brother or sister, and a lot more say they have done things with their cousins so it must be pretty common. I know a pair of boy-girl twins who have intercourse quite often, and think nothing of talking about it to friends. The mom did put the girl on BC, but did nothing to stop or discourage them.

ashleigh7
June 5th, 2018, 09:24 AM
I think it can be a safe way to talk about things...and if it goes to this try things.

Steelerfan
June 5th, 2018, 10:29 AM
Being a nudist. Do you exsperiment often?

I think it's far more common than most people think. I don't think actual sex between siblings is a good idea at all, but some touching and exploring I think is normal.

Also, as long as the age difference isn't large either. You don't want to force yourself or have your sibling do it because they want to impress you.

Being a nudist. Do u exsperiment often with siblings

I have delved in the forbidden fruit yes. I am eve for sure. Itís in our nature I believe.

What have you done

My big sis who is 18 now shared a bedroom and a bed with me up until recently. She also taught me how to masturbate when I asked her about it a few years ago. We have masturbated together more times than I could possibly count, and we also have sex together quite a bit. No one is forcing anyone to do things they don't want to, we both enjoy our times together and have never seen anything wrong with it. To us it seems perfectly natural and healthy. Mom is aware of it, and never said anything that would indicate she was against what we were doing together or thought there was any problem with it.

Wow thats so cool. Do you guys still do it even though shes not living there

Please don't multi post like that. Use the edit button next me ~Dalcourt

Katie2003
June 5th, 2018, 11:13 AM
Wow thats so cool. Do you guys still do it even though shes not living there

She got her own bedroom when our parents added on to the house, so she's still living here until fall when she goes away to college. I haven't talked to her about it, but I'm sure we will continue along the same lines when she comes home to visit or if I go to visit her at the college.

Pultost
June 5th, 2018, 11:18 AM
Me and a male cousin of mine kissed a bit now and then when we were younger, but it was innocent stuff. I would never even consider getting intimate with a family member.

EmilyD4
June 5th, 2018, 11:25 AM
I agree that it happens often. I experimented with a cousin when I was 9. It’s perfectly natural to be curious. It’s kinda how I figured out I like girls...

With that said, a good friend of mine in high school was in a long term relationship with one of her brothers. It started out consensual, but when she tried to stop he wouldn’t let her. Totally messed her up. I know it’s kind of a different issue, but I think it’s a risk to consider.

Steelerfan
June 5th, 2018, 11:34 AM
She got her own bedroom when our parents added on to the house, so she's still living here until fall when she goes away to college. I haven't talked to her about it, but I'm sure we will continue along the same lines when she comes home to visit or if I go to visit her at the college.

Thats cool that you guys are really close. When was the last time u guys did anything? My and my sister experiment but we never really had sex

Katie2003
June 5th, 2018, 11:39 AM
Thats cool that you guys are really close. When was the last time u guys did anything? My and my sister experiment but we never really had sex

Um, last week? It's not every day, but pretty often. I don't think I'd have intercourse with a brother, but it seems OK to go pretty far with a sibling of opposite gender if both are consenting. For kids of the same gender, I don't have any problems with whatever they want to try. I see it as a safe learning opportunity and if it continues beyond experimenting into a regular thing, that can be awesome.

gurquenjen
June 5th, 2018, 11:55 AM
I've experimented with both my brothers and sisters. It works for us, but we were always pretty close anyway. It is kind of something that you have to really stumble into rather than suggest...I've had friends who have had serious rifts with siblings due to some experimentation...so, use caution, but, also, explore if that's something you want to do. It can be very rewarding.

Steelerfan
June 5th, 2018, 12:49 PM
Um, last week? It's not every day, but pretty often. I don't think I'd have intercourse with a brother, but it seems OK to go pretty far with a sibling of opposite gender if both are consenting. For kids of the same gender, I don't have any problems with whatever they want to try. I see it as a safe learning opportunity and if it continues beyond experimenting into a regular thing, that can be awesome.
Thats cool. We never had sex. The most we ever done is oral and touching eachother

I've experimented with both my brothers and sisters. It works for us, but we were always pretty close anyway. It is kind of something that you have to really stumble into rather than suggest...I've had friends who have had serious rifts with siblings due to some experimentation...so, use caution, but, also, explore if that's something you want to do. It can be very rewarding.
If u dont mind me asking. Whats the most u have done with ur brothers

ashleigh7
June 6th, 2018, 01:18 PM
I think maybe a lot of people are afraid or ashamed to talk about things they have done with family members. Some of my friends admit to playing around with a brother or sister, and a lot more say they have done things with their cousins so it must be pretty common. I know a pair of boy-girl twins who have intercourse quite often, and think nothing of talking about it to friends. The mom did put the girl on BC, but did nothing to stop or discourage them.

I'm assuming that the twins, boy and girl are old enough to know what they ars doing and both consent? And the mom totally knows her son and daughter are having sex? I'm not judging at all...just a little curious.

Ashley2004
June 6th, 2018, 01:29 PM
I think this is messed up and don't agree that it's common or normal. I don't know anyone personally that has ever done anything like this and my friends and I are very open about what we do.

Bamf_Girl
June 6th, 2018, 03:11 PM
I think this is messed up and don't agree that it's common or normal. I don't know anyone personally that has ever done anything like this and my friends and I are very open about what we do.

Maybe, but most people arenít open in real life, but since we are behind a computer we are more open. But idc as long as people willing.

EmilyD4
June 6th, 2018, 03:34 PM
I think this is messed up and don't agree that it's common or normal. I don't know anyone personally that has ever done anything like this and my friends and I are very open about what we do.

Ashley, I respect your opinion. I think it can lead to abusive relationships if people arenít careful.

Maybe, but most people arenít open in real life, but since we are behind a computer we are more open. But idc as long as people willing.

Sara I agree with you too, I think people should use this place to talk about things in their lives and be more open

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Dalcourt
June 7th, 2018, 08:40 PM
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