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Nnoki
August 16th, 2017, 07:48 PM
So i've never had many friends, as long as i remember i could count them with just one hand and it is no exception now, my "dream" many years was to get a close friend, those friends who you can tell everything.
Well, I think that I found the right one, in one week we became "best friends" and knew almost everything about eachother.
Well, I think he is coming to my house soon and I want to be naked with him, I know it sounds weird but i kinda wonder how would it be like, to compare sizes and just joke around, maybe even masturbate. He doesn't know I'm bi and I think if i tell him it will become an obstacle.
As far as we talked (as he told me) he hasn't masturbated or seen another guy naked so i think it could be fun. For us getting "caught" there's no problem (since my parents usually never come to my room, just yell at me when they need something) but I just want some advice on how to offer the chance (again, not sexually) just for fun, he is kinda shy but I am too, and I don't mind with him.

Just JT
August 16th, 2017, 08:56 PM
What ever relationship you develope or have with your friend don't rush it.
If your both shy then just roll with what happens. If you have an egenda of getting nude with your new best friend you might scare him off if he's not ready for what you wanna do.
Just chilaxe with him and be chill. See where things go.
Some people are cool with hanging nude and some aren't. And finding that out might be kinda hard
Just be yourself and see what happens and be open and chill with stuff

Vegas2933
August 17th, 2017, 03:41 AM
If he is a real friend, he won't mind you being bi. As for getting nude with him, don't push it. He won't do it if he doesn't want to and if you respect that, there shouldn't be a problem. Swing a conversation to that topic and bring it up on a slow burner, and he may surprise you.

ska8er
August 17th, 2017, 06:57 AM
Take it easy so u don't weird him
out. Start by looking at stuff on the
computer and then c where that leads
to. Over time u will get comfortable with
one another.

loki2000
August 18th, 2017, 04:20 AM
Go slow ( Don`t ) rush things .. You two hanging out on the computer would be a great way to see were thing could go .. again do things slow and easy ! Hope that helps .

Diana2002
August 18th, 2017, 08:00 AM
I kinda was is the other way around scenario with a friend of mine who is a girl. Sadly we are not as good of friends now. But you guys may prove people wrong

jamie_n5
August 18th, 2017, 01:07 PM
Just talk to him about curiosity and comparing bodies and penis'. You could talk about porn and masturbation too. Like others have said take your time and feel comfortable about talking about and entering into those areas.

mookie
August 19th, 2017, 01:39 PM
You may scare him if you just tell him lets get naked and compare penises. Become more of a friend first and when you see an opportunity you can ask his opinion about being naked with someone, like changing clothes with friends or when having a sleepover and see what he says. He may be comfortable with it. I do have a friend I have rarely seen naked and only his bottom when we change to swim but he's very curious to know how many pubes we have and stuff like that but I think he'd faint if we asked him to show us his or look at ours.