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Cartman357
July 29th, 2017, 12:08 PM
So ever since i was younger i've always gotten...aroused i guess when I saw guys or even cartoon characters with huge muscular chests, arms, or abs. Recently i've been getting really turned on by guy's bubble butts on Instagram. I just don't know. I do know that i definetly like girls A LOT. I hope to even marry one someday. However, I do wish I had a close gay friend i could experiement with. I get turned on by guys who i find hot easier than i do girls. I do want a gf tho ugh. I honestly have no idea what to do. Any thoughts?

jamie_n5
July 29th, 2017, 02:13 PM
You may be Bi sexual and there is nothing wrong with that. You may also just admire guys with muscular bodies. Hopefully you can find a friend or guy to experiment with so you see what you really think about guys. Good luck.

ska8er
July 29th, 2017, 02:15 PM
I could c a gay guy to experiment with
but u consider that a sure thing? I would
try and find a bi curious guy like urself.
Idk-my opinion-maybe some others have
better advice. Make sure if u do find a
serious girl or guy u don't lead either one
on. Right now u r confused. Give urself more
time to try and figure out what ur orientation
leads to then pick who u would like to marry.

bojack
July 29th, 2017, 03:58 PM
Honestly, yeah it sounds like you being bisexual is definitely a possibility, but ultimately, its up to you to figure it out

azurzg
July 31st, 2017, 05:54 AM
So ever since i was younger i've always gotten...aroused i guess when I saw guys or even cartoon characters with huge muscular chests, arms, or abs. Recently i've been getting really turned on by guy's bubble butts on Instagram. I just don't know. I do know that i definetly like girls A LOT. I hope to even marry one someday. However, I do wish I had a close gay friend i could experiement with. I get turned on by guys who i find hot easier than i do girls. I do want a gf tho ugh. I honestly have no idea what to do. Any thoughts?

I'm a big fan of bubble butts too :)
Exploring sexuality is fun. Take it easy and do what you enjoy and you're comfortable with.

Just JT
July 31st, 2017, 06:25 AM
How old are you?
Sounds pretty normal to me tbh. We're all still growing and figuring shit out. Our sexuality is some of that. All I can say is just roll with it, be yourself and enjoy it. Don't let social norms and family expectations force you to be someone your not.

You are who you are, just be solid in that, and it'll all work out fine. Don't let the confusion run your life

JohnC
July 31st, 2017, 11:58 AM
Admiring a good looking body and even being turned on by it is very normal. Like some of the other guys said, maybe if you had a close friend you could find out more about what you really like.

Coolteenboy
July 31st, 2017, 03:31 PM
I believe, and have always thought, that each human, guy / girl has the capability to be attracted to members of both the same and opposite sexes.
In my life, people who just "chill and go with the flow" and who dont limit or resign themselves with labels are MUCH happier and much more confident than those who do.
Before my first same sex experience, (call it experimentation or whatever you will.....) i SWORE ied never do anything like that. After, i found it was an AMAZING experience, expanded my experiences, andbrought me and my best friend alot closer.
So just be ureself, do what is comfortable, and have no regrets!!!

Lacrosse127
August 1st, 2017, 02:33 PM
[SIZE="3"]So ever since i was younger i've always gotten...aroused i guess when I saw guys or even cartoon characters with huge muscular chests, arms, or abs. Recently i've been getting really turned on by guy's bubble butts on Instagram. I just don't know. I do know that i definetly like girls A LOT. I hope to even marry one someday. However, I do wish I had a close gay friend i could experiement with. I get turned on by guys who i find hot easier than i do girls. I do want a gf tho ugh. I honestly have no idea what to do. Any thoughts?


Im bi curious to. Theres nothing wrong with being bi. I have a smoking hot girl. Boobs and all. I still get attracted to guys with abs like me. I just do. I have a HOT guy friend that I can do stuff with. Honestly I don't think there is anything to do for you. Its just who u r. I mean having a gf does help.

Cartman357
August 3rd, 2017, 08:50 AM
Sorry for the late reply but thanks everyone who took the time to comment! I'll definetly take the advice and just try to go with the flow and figure things out. Here's hoping i'll meet someone irl who's also like me ������.

Vegas2933
August 3rd, 2017, 11:06 AM
You may be Bi sexual and there is nothing wrong with that. You may also just admire guys with muscular bodies. Hopefully you can find a friend or guy to experiment with so you see what you really think about guys. Good luck.

Very good advice! Yes, Jamie's right. You need to experiment or watch porn to fully decide what you are. :)

Nelmoinen
August 13th, 2017, 08:58 PM
Just follow your heart you do not have to be defined by a sexuality. Just do what makes you happy. Find Love in whoever makes you better and you happy.