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scott2002
July 25th, 2017, 06:42 AM
Lots of talk in the 'losing your virginity' question made me think about girls and hymens. Girls: Is losing your hymen something still special and important to you, or does this just happen (like, with tampons when you're young) and no longer having an intact hymen is no big deal for girls?

ChloeF
July 25th, 2017, 07:51 AM
It's not losing it, it's breaking or tearing it.
Every girl will feel differently about it but it wasn't huge deal to me.

LITTLEANGEL17
July 25th, 2017, 10:27 AM
It's not losing it, it's breaking or tearing it.
Every girl will feel differently about it but it wasn't huge deal to me.

I totally agree with Chloe, many things can break the hymen. But your don't have to be intact to call yourself a "virgin" as I class myself.

chirishlassie731
August 10th, 2017, 03:54 PM
I think that it's a part of the anatomy that's been way overemphasized as something to determine if a girl is some kind of pure, innocent virgin. It's not a big deal to tear it as far as I'm concerned. I lost mine when I was 8 after I asked my older sister what it was after I noticed it when I was examining myself, of course that wasn't a fun experience, but you get my point

Emilyyy
August 19th, 2017, 03:08 PM
Mine is long gone but im still a virgin. For me it's no big deal as I suspect many females will break there's before any sexual stuff.

jamie_n5
August 19th, 2017, 03:50 PM
Most girls break their hymens from rough activities like running, jumping or horseback riding or other such activities. That has nothing to do with your virginity. Some people used to call breaking the hymen popping the cherry and that was referring to actually breaking the hymen by penetration in sex or masturbation.

kimmykim
August 20th, 2017, 09:04 AM
it wasnt important to me, mine is gone but im still a vaginal virgin

Sandra123
August 20th, 2017, 11:06 PM
Lots of talk in the 'losing your virginity' question made me think about girls and hymens. Girls: Is losing your hymen something still special and important to you, or does this just happen (like, with tampons when you're young) and no longer having an intact hymen is no big deal for girls?

I keep mine and of course it is big deal :yes::wub:

LITTLEANGEL17
August 21st, 2017, 10:42 AM
I keep mine and of course it is big deal :yes::wub:

Sometimes it's hard to keep it intact, things like cycling, exercise even and using a tampon and if you finger yourself if you masturbate.
But I wish you the best of luck in trying to keep in intact, I hope it works out for you Sandra.
Take Care X

ambitious_eclipse
August 21st, 2017, 02:00 PM
How do you know if you've broken your hymen? Just a question...

jamie_n5
August 21st, 2017, 02:46 PM
Here is a website that shows and explains the hymen very well.
https://howshealth.com/how-to-tell-if-my-hymen-is-broken/

Sandra123
August 21st, 2017, 07:28 PM
Sometimes it's hard to keep it intact, things like cycling, exercise even and using a tampon and if you finger yourself if you masturbate.
But I wish you the best of luck in trying to keep in intact, I hope it works out for you Sandra.
Take Care X

The first two is risk about me. Second marked in red isn't allowed because the tampons are not suitable for virgins and because masturbation is sin!
I still have not damaged and hope to be like that in future...:yeah:

LITTLEANGEL17
August 22nd, 2017, 09:14 AM
The first two is risk about me. Second marked in red isn't allowed because the tampons are not suitable for virgins and because masturbation is sin!
I still have not damaged and hope to be like that in future...:yeah:

Sandra Good for you for standing up to your beliefs :yes: I hope all works out for you.
Take Care God Bless
XX