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Damion3437
July 9th, 2017, 11:36 AM
I don't watch it much but I feel like I sin when I do. Can someone pleas help me:yes:yes:yummy::yummy::yummy

Phosphene
July 9th, 2017, 12:17 PM
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Just JT
July 9th, 2017, 12:20 PM
I don't think porn is a sin, wrong, or bad. I actually think it's health. Helps you kinda work out sexual fantasies you may not truly be able to.

But also keep in mind, porn isn't real, it's fake sex and it's all an act, and that's it

Also, it has to leave nobody hurt, and be consensual. If it's not, then it's bad

Zachary G
July 9th, 2017, 12:55 PM
I dont think there is anyone who can help you with your issue because its your own personal morals that you are experiencing and no one can change that, only you.

SamMystic
July 9th, 2017, 12:56 PM
You know, I can answer with a very sarcastic response saying porn is made by the devil and if you watch it your penis will shrink 100", or I can be a normal rational human being and just tell you its normal to watch it, just dont get any false ideas of what real sex is like.
Im going for the second option:
Porn is normal, but dont think sex in porn is like real sex.

ska8er
July 9th, 2017, 01:50 PM
Its only a sin if u r coming under
conviction for doing something
regarding it.

LRSSS02
July 9th, 2017, 01:52 PM
i personally think that it is natural

Theaverageboy
July 9th, 2017, 06:59 PM
If it was bad then it wouldn't exist

jamie_n5
July 9th, 2017, 08:59 PM
I think it's up to you what you want to watch. Personally I don't feel it's a sin to watch porn.

Elysium
July 9th, 2017, 10:19 PM
Well, in terms of the porn industry, there's lots of abuse and questionable ethics going on behind the camera. There's also, of course, legal concerns if you're under 18.

Setting all that aside, it's kind of up to you. Plenty of people watch it without consequence or shame. For others, it's unthinkable. So there's tons of support for both answers and everything in between. Just do what you feel comfortable with and what you feel is acceptable.

Falcons_11
July 9th, 2017, 11:20 PM
I think it's an individual choice to watch porn or not watch it. If you think it's a sin then I wouldn't watch it.

LITTLEANGEL17
July 10th, 2017, 02:21 AM
I agree with Elysium about the legal angle, as long as you are old enough to watch porn ie. 18+ and also the porn you are watching is "LEGAL"
Also watching porn actors can make a lot of people feel inadequate.

Chaosphere
July 10th, 2017, 03:17 AM
I don't watch it much but I feel like I sin when I do. Can someone pleas help me:yes:yes:yummy::yummy::yummy
Look, if you feel it's against your religion and it's a sin, nothing anyone here can change your mind, but I will give my view on it so you have some data to work with. Basically, everybody looks up stuff like that eventually, it's part of growing up. As long as you don't become addicted (where you can't orgasm without it or you start dehumanizing females), I don't think it's a problem. It's natural, to yearn for and be curious about the bodies of others, both of the opposite and the same gender.

azurzg
July 10th, 2017, 06:18 AM
I don't watch it much but I feel like I sin when I do. Can someone pleas help me:yes:yes:yummy::yummy::yummy

There is no right answer to your question. I watch porn and I do not feel guilty about it. There's porn that I find disgusting. There's porn I find exciting.

Bailey56
July 10th, 2017, 11:30 PM
Don't think too hard into it, its natural to do

Orange Kenny
July 11th, 2017, 01:25 PM
A sin?! What year is it, 1920?

DarkKnight16
July 11th, 2017, 09:05 PM
I think this question is more of a personal question towards yourself and your morals.

ClaraWho
July 12th, 2017, 04:36 AM
Morally? No, it isn't right. People will try to justify it for their own personal advantage as you can see above. Now I'm not talking about from a religious perspective, I think that is all nonsense. But to me it is wrong to take advantage of vulnerable individuals for your own pleasure or gain.

Women in porn are treated terribly. A pornstars 'lifespan' in the industry is around 4 years. Guys don't want to see the same girl have normal sex more than a few times before they get broed of her. Which means to stay in or get into the industry, you have to do more extreme/violent/depraved acts. After that you cannot get a normal job, so you tend to end up as an escort, prostitute or stripper were girls are treated even worse. A lot of girls who go into the industry have been abused or raped, and instead of seeking the help they need are repeating the abuse cycles. In effect you are watching them relive their abuse/rape experience because that is all they now feel they are good for. There is also very high drug addiction in the industry to cope.

By viewing porn you are clicking on links to sites which are funding the industry to continue via advert revenue. It is not a victimless situation and the girls you see are not happy. Not to mention the clear views of any guy who would sign up to have sex with vulnerable women on camera. Lesbian films tend to come from the same damaged mindset too, as well as most lesbian porn actually made using straight pornstars. I don't have much knowledge on male/male porn mindsets though or why they enter the industry... so if that is your thing then maybe research.

~ Clara

Leon03
July 12th, 2017, 04:54 AM
Well, in terms of the porn industry, there's lots of abuse and questionable ethics going on behind the camera. There's also, of course, legal concerns if you're under 18.

Setting all that aside, it's kind of up to you. Plenty of people watch it without consequence or shame. For others, it's unthinkable. So there's tons of support for both answers and everything in between. Just do what you feel comfortable with and what you feel is acceptable.

Very well said. I totally agree!

LRSSS02
July 12th, 2017, 07:46 PM
i think it is

igalg
July 13th, 2017, 11:29 AM
I think that porn is sin. It is not a worse sin, but anyway. The better option is try not to watch it or at least watch it less.

EvaNL
July 13th, 2017, 03:50 PM
As long as you keep in mind that it's fake, that what you see is not even close to reality and as long as it doesn't become an addiction, there's nothing wrong with watching porn.

If it was bad then it wouldn't exist

Wow. Just wow.
Child abuse videos exist. Just think about that when you say that again.

Posts merged, please edit next time. ~Endeavour

applefoli
July 13th, 2017, 04:32 PM
I think it isn't right or wrong... It depends on your religious faith or something like.

Morgo47
July 15th, 2017, 04:48 AM
I think its fine

Jeff1857
July 15th, 2017, 10:45 AM
As long as you don't get addicted to it I think it is fine

April03
July 15th, 2017, 07:25 PM
It's ok, you won't find many who doesn't watch at your age. I watch it occasionally and I know I shouldn't, ruining my 14 year old mind :D but it's interesting and pleasing. Fan fictions are good too.

Two.Cool.
July 16th, 2017, 08:32 PM
I watch porn and i don't think its sinful or anything, just a way to make masturbation more intense, like a sex toy. However, I hope it doesn't damage the way I expect/perceive sex to be like in real life in the future...

galaxy2000
July 17th, 2017, 05:17 PM
I think its fine. Just remember its not real and don't watch it too much or you might get addicted.

NewLeafsFan
August 14th, 2017, 11:23 PM
I don't think that its a sin. You need relief from something. Better that than sex hich can lead to pregnancy or STIs.

Tyler97
August 15th, 2017, 10:36 AM
it's not right, maybe after 18 years old, but not a day before.

MrSandman
August 15th, 2017, 01:42 PM
It is perfectly fine to watch porn, as long as it's nothing too questionable. Always remember that sex in porn is bullshit. If you don't keep that in mind, it could mess your head up, so just be careful and don't do it too often.

jennycakes
August 15th, 2017, 05:45 PM
I feel its a person preference. If your religion says it is a sin then it is. But for me, I've watched it. There is some i like and some I don't. I don't consider it a sin.

PunkModRevial
August 16th, 2017, 01:12 AM
It's up to you; morals are an individual thing.

kirikiri94
August 17th, 2017, 09:06 AM
It's normal as long as you dont get addicted

Diana2002
August 18th, 2017, 01:58 PM
some of is kind of messed up and can mess you up also, but there is also nice one where you can learn from

Nelmoinen
August 22nd, 2017, 09:42 PM
I don't watch it much but I feel like I sin when I do. Can someone pleas help me:yes:yes:yummy::yummy::yummy

I do not think there is anything wrong with it. As long as, it does not rule your life.

chirishlassie731
August 24th, 2017, 09:43 PM
The only reasons I can think of that would make watching porn wrong are
A. if the porn involved something illegal, especially doing something to or with another person that they really don't want to do (even something like using a hidden camera)
B. You are a believer in a religion, faith, etc that forbids porn and\or masturbation. While forbidding masturbation seems absurd to me, I have no interest in arguing with someone else about their god, they know more about him than me. Although I would just like to briefly add that most (if not all) holy books were written before it was so easy to do if you were tempted in the slightest, with the ability to see have the planet nude in three mouseclicks.

If you're not religious, your guilt might be tied to untrue societal implications that masturbation is "gross\dirty\perverted", only weirdos do it, or something like "if a real man can't get it from a woman, he goes without."
All bullshit.
Or you could just feel guilty because you're not technically old enough to watcg porn, or even just something as simple as feeling guilty because you watched on your parents computer. Just try and relax, you've done nothing wrong, enjoy yourself

stoneflowe96
August 26th, 2017, 07:16 PM
I'm off age so there would be no legal problem. I don't watch porn often, because a lot of it I don't like. If it s a sin? I don't know,but if you feel unconfortable I would not watch it. Masturbation I definitly don't see as a sin, because it is something you only do with you

kro814
August 26th, 2017, 10:07 PM
Its up to you. If you are a adult-over 18.

chomoto123
August 31st, 2017, 12:22 PM
I feel guilty after masturbating to porn :(
Idk why but I too feel like that :(

SeansLittleBro
September 9th, 2017, 01:20 PM
I don't think porn is a sin, wrong, or bad. I actually think it's health. Helps you kinda work out sexual fantasies you may not truly be able to.

But also keep in mind, porn isn't real, it's fake sex and it's all an act, and that's it

Also, it has to leave nobody hurt, and be consensual. If it's not, then it's bad


There is no right answer to your question. I watch porn and I do not feel guilty about it. There's porn that I find disgusting. There's porn I find exciting.

JT makes a good point that we have to remember that porn is NOT REAL. It is produced to excite and to provide fantasies. Also, like Azur said some of it is really disgusting but again that is all an individual choice.

Trish_Lynn
September 10th, 2017, 11:20 PM
IDK why you would feel guilty. You would have been mbating without it anyways. Porn just stimulates your sensual senses to make mbating more pleasurable. Heck, guys used to do it to Playboy magazines many years ago. I doubt if they felt guilty doing that, unless they were caught by a parent! jk

Just enjoy and do it in private.

jacob.neruda
September 20th, 2017, 12:11 PM
I'm against commercialised porn, as it is often unrealistic and plays to men's fantasies. And nothing turns me off more than when a guy treats a women like a piece of meat. Nowadays, women often feel pressured into getting waxed, doing anal, deep throating, swallowing, and other sexual acts that were considered extreme 30 years ago.

I don't think it's right that this is happening.

If I ever watch porn, it is always homemade.

DoodleSnap
September 20th, 2017, 04:16 PM
It is a very common feeling for people to feel guilty or remorseful after using porn, or masturbating in general - I think it is linked to the fact that we are told to feel guilty about and repress our sexuality and sexual desires by society. When we start watching porn, we are driven past those societal inhibitions by our desire to get off. When we finally reach orgasm, and that sexual urge wears away, we default back to some of those feelings of guilt and shame we pick up from those around us.

I don't think that using porn is inherently bad, but as with all things, it has to be done in moderation - using it excessively can cause physical and mental health problems, so I'd recommend also masturbating without the use of pornography.

jasondrums
September 20th, 2017, 06:34 PM
If you think it's wrong, then it's wrong for you. If you think it's OK, then it's OK. The main thing to worry about is that you don't spend all your time watching that instead of being out forming regular relationships in the real world.

Bluegrass
September 20th, 2017, 06:52 PM
Everybody needs to see porn its like how you need to go to the bathroom you just have to do it.

hayley2003
September 21st, 2017, 06:36 PM
i was 10-11 when i was at asleep over at a friends house; she had her own computer in her room and we looked at some porn on the internet. we had never seen it before and we were shocked, we couldn't stop giggling for a very long time. we even debated if it was real, or just very strange people doing gross stuff. We all agreed that the guy's penis had to be fake. LOL

Tom_theflash
September 21st, 2017, 06:50 PM
I think it's quite a normal thing

Friedchickenman12
October 23rd, 2017, 09:59 PM
A lot of people say itís fine and such, which to a point it is. But I got addicted to it and it made me really insecure and about everything and once I just put my phone down and went to it with only my imagination it made my masturbation experiences much better. Up to you, Iím christian and donít like porn cause of many reasons, just me tho

Sevro au Barca
October 24th, 2017, 02:19 PM
There's nothing inherently wrong with porn itself. While there are often issues in the ethics of its production, those issues are not intrinsically part of porn, and, while terrible, don't automatically make all porn evil.

Maurice998
October 25th, 2017, 05:29 AM
I see nothing wrong with watching porn

Hermes
October 26th, 2017, 06:08 AM
I think you have to make your own judgement on that.

There is a Christian teaching that it is wrong to lust after a woman who is not your wife but to me that seems in keeping with much of the rest of the bible which is very much anti-adultery. In modern times this is often interpreted as it being wrong to have sex, or in this case even imagine having sex, with someone else who is, like you, free and single but I am not sure that was how it was originally intended. I think in biblical times people just weren't free and single because puberty was later and marriage was earlier so at that time if one had sexual desires he would also have a wife to satisfy them so there was no need for the bible to address the case of the horny teen.

Some people complain that porn encourages women to be seen as sex objects rather than complete people and some even suggest this drives rape. I did see an article, though, that found that as access to the Internet improved throughout America the rate of rape went down. (inverse correlation) It could be, of course, that men all over America were watching TED talks but the author of the article suggested instead that they could live out their fantasies watching porn and didn't need to force a real woman.

I have also seen a TV programme that found that many of the people in front of the camera have rather broken lives in so far as also being involved in drugs and/or prostitution. You have to decide for yourself if you think watching porn causes the supplier to exploit people like than and make their situation worse or whether they would probably still do the drugs and prostitution just without the money from porn.

Vic_Fire
October 26th, 2017, 12:14 PM
i think it's ok to watch porn sometimes but not often

lliam
October 26th, 2017, 01:33 PM
I think in general it's correct to prohibit minors to watch porn.

But I also think that it is completely individual dependent, whether Porns look for minors is scandalous or not.

Personally, I looked at something like that when I was 12 years old. By mid-thirteenth, this was boring for me. And I only saw porn again when my girlfriend asked me what I thought of the porn she had looked at. Something that completely hit me out 8f sudden.

I believe that it's not a sin to watch porn.

If, later on, as a father, I get confronted with my kids watching porns, I'll just ask'em why they do that and, depending on their answers, what fascinates them watching it. Whether I forbid them is also dependent on their answers. But I will never tell them that this is a sin.

Oh yeah, I'll be a embarrrasing dad talking that way to my kids, that's for sure.

Brandon-19Bi
November 4th, 2017, 09:18 PM
I think in general it's correct to prohibit minors to watch porn.

But I also think that it is completely individual dependent, whether Porns look for minors is scandalous or not.

Personally, I looked at something like that when I was 12 years old. By mid-thirteenth, this was boring for me. And I only saw porn again when my girlfriend asked me what I thought of the porn she had looked at. Something that completely hit me out 8f sudden.

I believe that it's not a sin to watch porn.

If, later on, as a father, I get confronted with my kids watching porns, I'll just ask'em why they do that and, depending on their answers, what fascinates them watching it. Whether I forbid them is also dependent on their answers. But I will never tell them that this is a sin.

Oh yeah, I'll be a embarrrasing dad talking that way to my kids, that's for sure.

Yeah my parents caught me a couple of times and they really had problems with it, can't blame them though of course.

Ashwells9991
November 5th, 2017, 08:37 AM
shouldnt feel bad about watching porn imo, some of its awesome

Justin-16
November 6th, 2017, 12:51 AM
Watching porn is fine, helps you to explore your body. Just don't believe everything you see in porn as it can give you a wrong expectation of what sex is going to be like

MeganA
November 13th, 2017, 06:24 PM
Yes in moderation.

Luke10123
November 13th, 2017, 11:30 PM
I watch it like twice a week ahaha

ThereseFrei
November 14th, 2017, 02:10 AM
Wh not? I think it's ok

Sina-B
November 14th, 2017, 05:25 AM
of course, why not?

Ashley16
November 19th, 2017, 10:21 AM
Yes, it is. I watch porn sometimes

jonsnowman
November 19th, 2017, 10:23 AM
i love watching it

Triple k
November 25th, 2017, 07:06 PM
I watch it sometimes

Rasmedveten
November 25th, 2017, 07:32 PM
Yes.

CuriousBoy15
November 30th, 2017, 12:21 AM
I don't watch it much but I feel like I sin when I do. Can someone pleas help me:yes:yes:yummy::yummy::yummy

If you believe that everyone is created in God's image, and that image should be respected. Is it right to objectify that image and therefore disrespect something God created?

Uniquemind
November 30th, 2017, 12:30 AM
Religious arguments aside,


I'll say there's nothing wrong with it, but the question is what is the reputation behind the specific producing and directing company of a particular porn company.


How do they treat their actors, how do they find the them and is that process involving deception? Are they paid well? Are non-disclosure agreements signed before filming?


I think you have a good question, but if you engage in higher level thinking, newer questions arise which become the basis of how you should answer the first questions.

Sometimes it's gonna be "no" and other times it's gonna be "yes".

Another question is: is all objectification equal to other forms of objectification? Does consent of actors change that? Was consent procured only because of money?

Juliarules832
November 30th, 2017, 09:17 AM
I think so

Tyler97
November 30th, 2017, 03:05 PM
I think it's ok as long as you're 16 or older.

Lillynet
December 1st, 2017, 09:06 AM
its ok to wathc porn jsut dont do it all the time :P

pauly
December 1st, 2017, 10:34 AM
It's neither right or wrong.

It depends completely on your morals and / or your religion. Either way, don't get obsessed about it.

Beccabear
December 6th, 2017, 08:42 AM
watch what you want to

Chetz
December 9th, 2017, 07:48 PM
Not a sin. Don't feel guilty about it.

max02
December 9th, 2017, 08:18 PM
it;s a civil rights issue lol

Leena_2003
December 9th, 2017, 09:03 PM
I don't think you can call it a sin. I have watched some porn for a while when I became curious but because it is done for cameras and not "real" I lost interest. So personally I don't really like it, but I don't thinks it's wrong to look at porn if it's not the bad kind (I mean violence or extreme or with animals etc). Maybe watching too much of it could be bad? IDK.

baseball1
December 12th, 2017, 04:04 PM
Do whatever you want

ncraw
December 13th, 2017, 04:57 AM
Iíve watched it but I donít like it it looks so fake and they act kinda weird I prefer my own imagination lol

SwimmerDudeJR
December 13th, 2017, 03:37 PM
There is nothing wrong with watching porn. Itís totally natural.

Brigje
December 13th, 2017, 03:56 PM
There is nothing wrong with watching porn. Itís totally natural.

I agree, but it should be accompanied with proper sex education, at home and at school. What you see in porn is not natural.

Teenagers need to know that what they see in porn movies is not real.
With proper education teenagers will learn that real sex is much more than facials blowjobs anal and squirting. And, that real bodies look different than the barbie-pussies and huge dicks in porn.

FawksRunner
December 16th, 2017, 12:38 AM
Well I think it is really up to your own judgement

EatMyFace
December 23rd, 2017, 02:04 AM
Itís fine. If you want to then go for it