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Kooy
June 19th, 2017, 09:22 PM
Spike is... My sisters pitbull. My sister isn't home, nore is her dad (step sister) my mom and i are the only ones here. Okay. So spike is old.. And having issues. We don't think we will have him long... He lost control of his bowls tonight and.. And my mother lost it. Then she has me get her stuff to clean it while she drags him outside and ties him to a tree despite a storm coming. And comes back in saying she "kicked his ass" and I only seen the end of it... Im watching and waiting for him to finish and she's flipping out saying... Horrible things... I had enough and i yelled out he cant help it hes old. This starts an argument and she goes in my room and smeares the diorea on my bed and then on me telling me if he can't help it I should have no problem cleaning it up. I just got him safe in the kinnal after being hit with used tolet paper with her screaming "don't fucking do that ever again" (she clames she was aiming at the spike but that doesn't help) then I was told of i "disrespected" her again she would make me eat it...

Just JT
June 20th, 2017, 07:42 AM
I think you and your family need some professional help. Help you can't give them or yourself. I read through some of your posts and threads. Seems to me there's a lot happening in your life you got no control over. But in the same time, only you control what happens in your life.

Your at a point I think you need to make some choices for yourself. Suit that's not easy to decide on. And get the fuck outa where you live. Cause that's not a good place for you

Hate to put it like that in your face way, but I'll be straight up honest bro, I've been in some fucked up living situations, and that's fucked up.

That's suptiff you can't fix, someone else can help you and them.....or just you...

Idk why people abuse animals or kids....well o do but the list is endless....and nobody deserves that.

Kooy
June 24th, 2017, 02:58 PM
I think you and your family need some professional help. Help you can't give them or yourself. I read through some of your posts and threads. Seems to me there's a lot happening in your life you got no control over. But in the same time, only you control what happens in your life.

Your at a point I think you need to make some choices for yourself. Suit that's not easy to decide on. And get the fuck outa where you live. Cause that's not a good place for you

Hate to put it like that in your face way, but I'll be straight up honest bro, I've been in some fucked up living situations, and that's fucked up.

That's suptiff you can't fix, someone else can help you and them.....or just you...

Idk why people abuse animals or kids....well o do but the list is endless....and nobody deserves that.

I don't know if i can do anything.

Just JT
June 24th, 2017, 04:53 PM
I don't know if i can do anything.

I'm sure you can do something. I'm not saying pack your bag and run away forever right this minute. Making change in your life needs like
Planning. And you probably can't do all that on your own. That's where professional help comes in. Someone can help and guide you along a change that makes sense for you

Nadin
June 24th, 2017, 05:36 PM
Have you try family counselor?

Kooy
June 24th, 2017, 10:07 PM
Have you try family counselor?

Thats a thing?

Just JT
June 25th, 2017, 09:18 AM
Thats a thing?

What's the thing?

Nadin
June 25th, 2017, 05:55 PM
What's the thing?

I din't get the meaning of it too.

Kooy
June 25th, 2017, 06:08 PM
What's the thing?

I din't get the meaning of it too.

Family counselor. I didn't know that was a thing

Just JT
June 25th, 2017, 06:34 PM
Family counselor. I didn't know that was a thing

Dude yeah, it is. Even if you just go alone. Doesn't need to always be with family

Kooy
June 25th, 2017, 06:47 PM
Dude yeah, it is. Even if you just go alone. Doesn't need to always be with family

Okay

Just JT
June 25th, 2017, 07:17 PM
Let us know how you make out ok?
We're interested

Kooy
June 25th, 2017, 08:16 PM
Let us know how you make out ok?
We're interested

Okay

BlackParadePixie
June 25th, 2017, 09:33 PM
no offense, but your mom sounds like a psycho. Ditto on the professional help, sounds like your mom has some serious issues.

Kooy
June 25th, 2017, 09:53 PM
no offense, but your mom sounds like a psycho. Ditto on the professional help, sounds like your mom has some serious issues.

At times I can agree, scary part for me is the next day shes all rainbows and sunshine like it never happened.

BlackParadePixie
June 25th, 2017, 09:54 PM
At times I can agree, scary part for me is the next day shes all rainbows and sunshine like it never happened.
yeah, she's probably bipolar. That's not something to just take lightly and ignore.

Kooy
June 25th, 2017, 10:47 PM
yeah, she's probably bipolar. That's not something to just take lightly and ignore.

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