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Thehrogger
June 18th, 2017, 08:06 PM
I'm a guy, I know for sure that I'm attracted to girls (I have a girlfriend who I'm very physically and mentally attracted to). But when I watch porn, sometimes I get turned on by the guy, too. Pictures of guy's asses and dicks make me horny and for some reason, pictures of guys' hairy armpits make me really really horny. I'd never want to kiss a guy or have ass sex, but the idea of touching another guy's dick and jacking him off turns me on. So does the thought of getting a blowjob from a sexy guy. But I'd never date a guy. Am I bisexual?

refrigeratorx
June 18th, 2017, 08:28 PM
I think you should be less concerned with the label. It's not so final and it's all easily able to change. Sure you may be curious about guys, but that doesn't make you one thing or another unless you genuinely feel it. It's not up to us to tell you what you are just by a little tidbit of your inner thoughts.

I feel it's worth exploring, but it doesn't determine anything about you.

Coolteenboy
June 18th, 2017, 09:22 PM
Lol!
Ure 100% normal. ALL my friends have admitted to having some attraction to other guys. Bisexual is a label, and i personally hate labels. Theyre SSSOOOOO limiting!
Just enjoy life and as long as ure impulses dont hurt anyone else, go 4 it!!

Just JT
June 18th, 2017, 11:59 PM
And how old are you?
So normal, just takes time bro, labels suck
Just follow your feelings and what your attracted to and enjoy. There's really no rules in sex or sexuality unless you want some

Jamiec1130
June 19th, 2017, 12:06 AM
I know that I was confused when I first had the feeling that maybe I wasn't completely straight, and it took a while to get my head wrapped around it, and I'm still not completely sure. It will all make sense to you soon enough. You could be, but we don't know.

azurzg
June 20th, 2017, 10:38 AM
I'm a guy, I know for sure that I'm attracted to girls (I have a girlfriend who I'm very physically and mentally attracted to). But when I watch porn, sometimes I get turned on by the guy, too. Pictures of guy's asses and dicks make me horny and for some reason, pictures of guys' hairy armpits make me really really horny. I'd never want to kiss a guy or have ass sex, but the idea of touching another guy's dick and jacking him off turns me on. So does the thought of getting a blowjob from a sexy guy. But I'd never date a guy. Am I bisexual?

sexuality if fluid.
take it easy... explore if you feel like it, don't explore if you're not feeling comfortable about exploring.
its you're life, you're in charge, do what you like (as long as that does not hurt other people).
labels are for clothes, not humans.

Vegas2933
June 21st, 2017, 04:25 PM
You seem to be Hetero-Romantic and Bi-Sexual; which mean that you're romantically attracted to girls and sexually attracted to both. But who cares about labelling?! Your life is your life! Do and feel whatever makes you happy! :)

ImCoolBeans
June 21st, 2017, 09:38 PM
People always say "don't pay attention to labels", and it took me years to finally wise up to that. They're right. You don't need to be "this" or "that", simply do what you like and what you're comfortable with. You don't have to be anything other than yourself, and if that involves some level of attraction to both sexes, then so be it, but honestly many guys go through a stage like this and it would be totally normal either way -- whether you outgrow it and never think about a guy sexually again or if you become more attracted to men and do end up considering yourself bisexual. In the meantime, I wouldn't let it worry you to much, and I would just try to enjoy the ride because you'll figure it all out in due time.

biboy_unsure
June 22nd, 2017, 12:27 AM
I'm a guy, I know for sure that I'm attracted to girls (I have a girlfriend who I'm very physically and mentally attracted to). But when I watch porn, sometimes I get turned on by the guy, too. Pictures of guy's asses and dicks make me horny and for some reason, pictures of guys' hairy armpits make me really really horny. I'd never want to kiss a guy or have ass sex, but the idea of touching another guy's dick and jacking him off turns me on. So does the thought of getting a blowjob from a sexy guy. But I'd never date a guy. Am I bisexual?

i once felt the same exact way... it progressed into me only watching gay porn for jo materials and eventually was my only material for jo. i loved having sex with her but i never was totally motivated by her. of course i got off and it was great but i deep down knew it wasn't what i truly desired.

mick01
June 22nd, 2017, 03:18 PM
I made a post on here before that I liked the idea of being able to have sex with a boy or a girl. I guess I'm bisexual but I don't care what you call me, I just get into doing things with both. So just enjoy doing some experimenting and you can figure out what you are later.

Lilbro Jason
June 30th, 2017, 12:10 AM
I made a post on here before that I liked the idea of being able to have sex with a boy or a girl. I guess I'm bisexual but I don't care what you call me, I just get into doing things with both. So just enjoy doing some experimenting and you can figure out what you are later.

This is a perfect answer. Im bi as well

naenaendr
July 3rd, 2017, 01:53 PM
I feel the same way. I have a girlfriend, but surprisingly, I usually watch gay porn. I'm bisexual, more romantically attracted to women, and more sexually attracted to men.

Coolteenboy
July 3rd, 2017, 03:03 PM
21i once felt the same exact way... it progressed into me only watching gay porn for jo materials and eventually was my only material for jo. i loved having sex with her but i never was totally motivated by her. of course i got off and it was great but i deep down knew it wasn't what i truly desired.


Same here. When i watch porn to jo, i only watch gay.
Couple of buds and me "experimented" w gay porn at a sleepover. Needless to say, things hppened from there!!

naenaendr
July 3rd, 2017, 08:19 PM
I'm a guy, I know for sure that I'm attracted to girls (I have a girlfriend who I'm very physically and mentally attracted to). But when I watch porn, sometimes I get turned on by the guy, too. Pictures of guy's asses and dicks make me horny and for some reason, pictures of guys' hairy armpits make me really really horny. I'd never want to kiss a guy or have ass sex, but the idea of touching another guy's dick and jacking him off turns me on. So does the thought of getting a blowjob from a sexy guy. But I'd never date a guy. Am I bisexual?

Don't worry about it. If you enjoy the thought of being bisexual, you are most likely bisexual. You are supposed to identify however you wish, so it's your choice.

Bailey56
July 10th, 2017, 08:28 PM
Let me know if you ever wanna talk. I've had the same feelings and feel very comfortable with my sexuality at this point

LRSSS02
July 10th, 2017, 09:39 PM
as i see it, you are either bisexual or curious

ilc.69
July 12th, 2017, 11:09 PM
We get really confused and stressed out about labels, which are stupid, but it happens to me too, and to a lot of other people, so I'll try to answer your question with what I think and what can probably make you feel better.
Sexuality isn't a clear and unique path, it isn't either black, gray or white; it's a freaking huge palette of colors where you are never completely straight nor completely gay. Humans look for pleasure, and you can find it in many different places: men and women; humans are also curious, and what I'm just trying to say with all of this, is that if you aren't atracted to men in a "love" way, then you aren't bisexual, you are just curious and like the sexual interaction between men. Just don't worry about it, let everything flow; masturbate to whatever gets you off, have sex with ur girlfriend and enjoy life and sex without worrying about what the rest would think

naenaendr
July 20th, 2017, 08:24 AM
You shouldn't ask people if you are bi. Sexuality is meant to be your choice. If you happy being bi, great. If not, great. It's your choice.

pjones
July 21st, 2017, 07:07 PM
All the guys I grew up with have had some sort of sexual experience with each other, it's just something we all enjoyed as we were going through puberty and discovering the pleasure our bodies gave us.

If you have the chance to explore with a male friend I'd say go for it. If you just like seeing males in porn there is nothing wrong with that. We have our entire lives ahead of us to figure it all out, if we can.

Fleek
July 21st, 2017, 09:11 PM
sexuality if fluid.
take it easy... explore if you feel like it, don't explore if you're not feeling comfortable about exploring.
its you're life, you're in charge, do what you like (as long as that does not hurt other people).
labels are for clothes, not humans.

Clothes dont need labels either dammit! They are to price-y as it is because of Name Brand. Clothes are strong independent... anywayyyyy.

People dont need them either, be yourself labels be damned. :)

Jericho14
July 26th, 2017, 02:48 AM
Almost sounds like the way i feel now lol

Nelmoinen
August 13th, 2017, 10:27 PM
Just be yourself, love yourself.
If you end up liking a guy, good for you. The sea just widened for you.

loki2000
August 19th, 2017, 08:24 AM
Just relax and don`t get worked about labeling your self and enjoy what your interested in ! Perfectly normal to want to get with a guy sexually !

colon32
September 23rd, 2017, 03:25 PM
I'm a guy, I know for sure that I'm attracted to girls (I have a girlfriend who I'm very physically and mentally attracted to). But when I watch porn, sometimes I get turned on by the guy, too. Pictures of guy's asses and dicks make me horny and for some reason, pictures of guys' hairy armpits make me really really horny. I'd never want to kiss a guy or have ass sex, but the idea of touching another guy's dick and jacking him off turns me on. So does the thought of getting a blowjob from a sexy guy. But I'd never date a guy. Am I bisexual?


I feel pretty much the same way and the only guy i feel comfortable with isnt very into this kinda thing what do i do????