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Anomaly6
June 12th, 2017, 07:53 PM
I'm a guy and I'm 18.. The reason I ask is because I never used to be like this! But for the past couple months it's like my hormones have gone insane! I can't go a day without it anymore and before I only did a couple times a week. There are just so many pretty girls online, and I'm worried that I'm getting addicted to this! I go on a live stream app, and I start chatting just for fun but it always ends up with me masturbating.. Is it normal to not be able to control yourself like this? I only do this in the privacy of my own home, I'd never become one of those public masturbators because I'm too shy anyway so it'll always be kept to myself! Most of the time the girl doesn't even know I do it, I don't want to become a creep like that so I better get a real girlfriend soon! Do girls think what I'm doing is creepy? Do I need to stop this now?? And is it possible to run out of cum? How quickly should it fully regenerate?? 😥

jamie_n5
June 12th, 2017, 08:33 PM
I wouldn't be too alarmed about getting horny and masturbating. It is a normal thing. We are at a peak of ending puberty at 18 and I masturbate daily even if I have had sex with my boyfriend I may have masturbated earlier in the day or later on. I think things will mellow out in our 20's but lets face it guys are horny sex machines.

SamMystic
June 12th, 2017, 08:45 PM
The fact that you think u might have to be alarmed is the the alarm in my opinion, try cutting back to just watching porn if you think its a problem

Chaosphere
June 13th, 2017, 02:10 AM
Yeah, hormones are pretty unpredictable. I would say that what you are doing is kind of creepy, at least in my opinion. I almost never malign masturbation and self-pleasure, but the fact that the girls don't know you're doing it is where it becomes wrong. I would stick to porn or try to connect with a flesh-and-blood girl.

ShineintheDark
June 13th, 2017, 07:41 AM
I'd say try and cut back if it worries you and try and not do it when girls don't know since that is a little worrying

mick01
June 13th, 2017, 09:02 AM
If you're saying you can't control yourself, then yes, it's a problem. And masturbating when the girls doesn't know it isn't right either. You need to stop and get control back before it gets worse.

Seven Wonders
June 13th, 2017, 12:49 PM
i can not say it is too much..i used to have just twice a week

Lilbro Jason
June 30th, 2017, 12:00 AM
If it interferes with your life then its too much

Pika2001
July 1st, 2017, 01:31 PM
you are fine with how much you masturbate, I do it about twice a day! but im sure you hormones will calm down eventually

Hufflepufflife
July 5th, 2017, 10:19 AM
As long as it isn't getting in the way of your life, aspirations, etc. than you should be alright.

naenaendr
July 5th, 2017, 10:35 AM
If you aren't doing the things you used to do (sports, music, etc.) it may be too much, but it usually is never a problem.

azurzg
July 5th, 2017, 11:41 AM
As long as it isn't getting in the way of your life, aspirations, etc. than you should be alright.

If you aren't doing the things you used to do (sports, music, etc.) it may be too much, but it usually is never a problem.

Exactly!
If it is not messing up your life, you're fine.
If you start skipping school or stop talking to people, you're overdoing it.

Jeff1857
July 27th, 2017, 01:32 PM
It is not to much at all but if you feel upset about it then work on cutting back but know it is totally normal to masturbate a lot.

NewLeafsFan
August 14th, 2017, 11:19 PM
Around 18 is supposedly when men hit their sexual peak, which means that we want sex a lot more. I'm going through it right now. Most of my friends haven't gotten there yet. I started puberty younger than most people

Emilyyy
August 15th, 2017, 05:56 PM
People masturbate all sorts, some only once in a while, others several times a day. If you;re actually worried about how much you;re doing it then yeah maybe make an effort to cut down. Generally though the time to cut down is if it's having an effect on your everyday life like your schooling or work or personal relationships :)

Apple_ManPS3
August 15th, 2017, 06:07 PM
People masturbate all sorts, some only once in a while, others several times a day. If you;re actually worried about how much you;re doing it then yeah maybe make an effort to cut down. Generally though the time to cut down is if it's having an effect on your everyday life like your schooling or work or personal relationships :)

I agree, people do their own thing, there’s not a set bar limit for what’s normal and what’s not. It’s okay.

teenboyNathan
August 15th, 2017, 09:18 PM
If it starts to interfere with your personal life, that's when it would be too much