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iwant69
April 7th, 2017, 02:11 PM
Hi, whats people's opinions on watching pron when you're in a relationship (on your own, not together)?

More specific questions...

Girls: would you be offended and if so why?

Guys: if you watch porn and you're in a relationship do you think about actually f*cking the people in porn or is it just something you stare at and it just makes you horny?

zack.zack
April 7th, 2017, 02:14 PM
Even though I am in a relationship, we both watch porn sometimes independently and its more of an arousal tool that leads to masturbation -not that we want to have sex with the people in the videos or anything.

BlackParadePixie
April 7th, 2017, 03:51 PM
I don't have a problem with it.

ClaraWho
April 7th, 2017, 04:19 PM
I have moral issues with pornography to begin with, but setting that aside.

I would be offended if a guy I was dating was watching porn. Why is a fantasy about me not enough? Why does he need to watch other women/men to get off? The same way I don't check out other people whilst in a relationship irl, I expect my partner to feel the same. I go blind to other people when I'm in love.

And on that, if you need additional stimulus then you don't really NEED to be masturbating. You're doing it possibly out of boredom or a vague feeling.

I think it is a self-respect thing too for those who are offended.

~ Clara

mattsmith48
April 7th, 2017, 04:24 PM
Even when you are in couple you sometimes need to masturbate and porn is just there to help out. Sometimes we even watch porn together.

nicole97
April 7th, 2017, 05:17 PM
I don't personally watch porn but honestly, my BF doing it doesn't really bother me. It's just fantasy about people who may as well be fictional, and I admit not every sexual fantasy I've had has involved my BF.

Harrier
April 7th, 2017, 07:36 PM
Watching porn in no way is cheating. Not even close. I will never cheat. I could but I won't. Cheating is so wrong. if you want to cheat, then just be single or in an open relationship. But that being said, sexually I can get bored. Luckily my gf is very adventurous, but even as crazy as she can get I feel I need a little spice and change. Porn can do that without cheating. My gf is way better than jerking off to porn, but sometimes at 3am and you're boned up and can't get back to sleep, porn is the only solution. Maybe if we were living together. But even then what happens when one person wants sex more than the other? Guys are often visual. Many girls are too. Porn is fine.

Michael M.
April 7th, 2017, 07:56 PM
I watched a tv show about sex and how sex is better if both you and partner watch porn together while having sex

teenboyNathan
April 7th, 2017, 09:34 PM
I'm not in a relationship but if I were, I'd be fine with my girlfriend watching porn if she wanted too

Jordanchill
April 15th, 2017, 06:32 AM
Personally, I would'nt care if my partner were to watch porn. To be honest, I don't even think I would know they were watching porn because it would probably be when they were alone. Porn is really just a form of stimulation for a person and does not signify for me boredom or a failing relationship. Sometimes people need some time alone to sexually explore themselves, even while in a relationship, and porn is a tool for arousal.

Londongirl01
April 23rd, 2017, 03:20 AM
I think it depends how much of it you're watching. If your watching too much then that can be a problem

Cute_Jenny
April 23rd, 2017, 04:23 AM
If both want it, why not?

Vicboy2707
April 23rd, 2017, 05:21 AM
My gf doesn't mind we sometimes watch it together I know my cousin watch it his gf is fine with it they watch it together as well

boyfromthesouth
April 23rd, 2017, 02:15 PM
i do it because unless shes banging me daily ill still get really horny

jerrion
April 24th, 2017, 11:12 AM
Hi, whats people's opinions on watching pron when you're in a relationship (on your own, not together)?

More specific questions...

Girls: would you be offended and if so why?

Guys: if you watch porn and you're in a relationship do you think about actually f*cking the people in porn or is it just something you stare at and it just makes you horny?

if i was in a relationship but my partner was away i would watch porn to get horny i guess

Chaosphere
April 25th, 2017, 01:12 AM
Hi, whats people's opinions on watching pron when you're in a relationship (on your own, not together)?
Guys: if you watch porn and you're in a relationship do you think about actually f*cking the people in porn or is it just something you stare at and it just makes you horny?
I think there's a big difference between watching someone do something sexual in a 2-D video, and having a meaningful and intimate relationship with a partner. I don't think porn is a big deal in a relationship that's either really open about nudity or sexuality or a relationship that's closed off. If you're a loyal person, and you're physical needs aren't being met in a relationship, than porn can be an outlet for that tension. (In that scenario, it's best to talk with your partner and explain your needs, if they have a chance of being met. Someone who wears a promise ring might not be the best person to have such a chat with.) If you have an active sex life that satisfies you, then it's probably a bit healthier to stick with your partner's naked body, not a porn star's, haha.

jamie_n5
April 25th, 2017, 07:29 PM
My BF and I watch porn together all the time. I have also watched it with girls.

geanyna
April 28th, 2017, 09:26 AM
i dont have a problem with it, im watching porn too so why should i tell my boyfriend to keep his eyes off the hot stuff? and watching together is fun fun fun.

Shiny Moon
April 28th, 2017, 09:37 AM
It's ok to me, I watch it too.

messid
April 28th, 2017, 04:36 PM
Hi, whats people's opinions on watching pron when you're in a relationship (on your own, not together)?

More specific questions...

Girls: would you be offended and if so why?

Guys: if you watch porn and you're in a relationship do you think about actually f*cking the people in porn or is it just something you stare at and it just makes you horny?

I tried to stay away from it when i was with my last gf so that she didnt think she wasnt enough for me, just in case she ever found out...but that only lasted for like a month, lol...
personally, its just something that gets me excited...i dont imagine myself with the women in the videos so i dont think its a big deal

bigwolf2
April 28th, 2017, 06:34 PM
It is okay to me.

mkellam54
May 9th, 2017, 03:57 PM
I think it's up to the couple, if they decided watching porn is okay even though they are in a relationship then it's okay, whereas if they agree it isn't then they should respect each other and not do it