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scott2002
March 31st, 2017, 07:17 PM
Girls: I'm curious how girls make the decision to do it for the first time with a guy. If u have not had sex yet, why not? (Please choose all that apply):

[ ] I feel I'm still too young
[ ] I don't have a boyfriend
[ ] I haven't found the right guy yet
[ ] I'm afraid it will hurt
[ ] Fear of pregnancy (or contraception not available)
[ ] I'm afraid it will give me a "bad reputation"
[ ] I'm not (or not yet) sexually attracted enough to boys to want to do it
[ ] I want to save myself for marriage (or a serious relationship when I'm much older)
[ ] Other reasons:

veroda
March 31st, 2017, 07:39 PM
Girls: I'm curious how girls make the decision to do it for the first time with a guy.

If u have not had sex yet, why not? (Please choose all that apply):
[ ] I feel I'm still too young
[ x ] I don't have a boyfriend
[ ] I haven't found the right guy yet
[ ] I'm afraid it will hurt
[ a little bit ] Fear of pregnancy (or contraception not available)
[ x ] I'm afraid it will give me a "bad reputation"
[ ] I'm not (or not yet) sexually attracted enough to boys to want to do it
[ ] I want to save myself for marriage (or a serious relationship when I'm much older)
[ x ] Other reasons:
no opportunities as I am not acquainted to any boy at all IRL...
fear of stds and such
fear to be judged by that boy like why am I not doing this or that like (bj and such)
a little bit of fear to be caught while doing it...

LITTLEANGEL16
April 1st, 2017, 01:18 AM
If u have not had sex yet, why not? (Please choose all that apply):
[ ] I feel I'm still too young
[ x ] I don't have a boyfriend
[ ] I haven't found the right guy yet
[ ] I'm afraid it will hurt
[ a little bit ] Fear of pregnancy (or contraception not available)
[ x ] I'm afraid it will give me a "bad reputation"
[ ] I'm not (or not yet) sexually attracted enough to boys to want to do it
[ ] I want to save myself for marriage (or a serious relationship when I'm much older)
[ x ] Other reasons:
no opportunities as I am not acquainted to any boy at all IRL...
fear of stds and such
fear to be judged by that boy like why am I not doing this or that like (bj and such)
a little bit of fear to be caught while doing it...
Hiya Veronique Good answer just a pity more girls don't think the same. :yes:
Take Care X

[ ] I feel I'm still too young
[ ] I don't have a boyfriend
[ ] I haven't found the right guy yet
[ ] I'm afraid it will hurt
[ ] Fear of pregnancy (or contraception not available)
[ ] I'm afraid it will give me a "bad reputation"
[ ] I'm not (or not yet) sexually attracted enough to boys to want to do it
[ ] I want to save myself for marriage (or a serious relationship when I'm much older)
[X ] Other reasons

clobo
April 1st, 2017, 02:21 AM
[ X] I feel I'm still too young
[X ] I don't have a boyfriend
[ ] I haven't found the right guy yet
[X ] I'm afraid it will hurt
[ X] Fear of pregnancy (or contraception not available)
[ X] I'm afraid it will give me a "bad reputation"
[ ] I'm not (or not yet) sexually attracted enough to boys to want to do it
[ ] I want to save myself for marriage (or a serious relationship when I'm much older)
[ X] Other reasons:

Anna Kadlecova
April 1st, 2017, 05:00 AM
I have anal sex some times (more than 7), but never vaginal.

[ ] I feel I'm still too young
[ ] I don't have a boyfriend
[ ] I haven't found the right guy yet
[ ] I'm afraid it will hurt
[ ] Fear of pregnancy (or contraception not available)
[ ] I'm afraid it will give me a "bad reputation"
[ ] I'm not (or not yet) sexually attracted enough to boys to want to do it
[ ] I want to save myself for marriage (or a serious relationship when I'm much older)
[ x] Other reasons: I do not want lost my virginity now

ClaraPott
April 1st, 2017, 07:55 AM
I em not a virgin, but I never di anal. This is the reason:
[ ] I feel I'm still too young
[ ] I don't have a boyfriend
[ ] I haven't found the right guy yet
[ x] I'm afraid it will hurt
[ ] Fear of pregnancy (or contraception not available)
[x ] I'm afraid it will give me a "bad reputation"
[ ] I'm not (or not yet) sexually attracted enough to boys to want to do it
[ ] I want to save myself for marriage (or a serious relationship when I'm much older)
[ ] Other reasons:

Barbara.
April 1st, 2017, 08:10 AM
[ x ] I feel I'm still too young
[ x ] I don't have a boyfriend
[ x ] I haven't found the right guy yet
[ x ] I'm afraid it will hurt
[ x ] Fear of pregnancy (or contraception not available)
[ ] I'm afraid it will give me a "bad reputation"
[ ] I'm not (or not yet) sexually attracted enough to boys to want to do it
[ x ] I want to save myself for marriage (or a serious relationship when I'm much older)
[ ] Other reasons.

KateMarshal
April 3rd, 2017, 07:29 AM
[ ] I feel I'm still too young
[x ] I don't have a boyfriend
[ x] I haven't found the right guy yet
[ ] I'm afraid it will hurt
[ ] Fear of pregnancy (or contraception not available)
[ ] I'm afraid it will give me a "bad reputation"
[ ] I'm not (or not yet) sexually attracted enough to boys to want to do it
[ ] I want to save myself for marriage (or a serious relationship when I'm much older)
[ ] Other reasons:

midnightgirl518
April 3rd, 2017, 02:24 PM
[ ] I feel I'm still too young
[ ] I don't have a boyfriend
[ ] I haven't found the right guy yet
[x ] I'm afraid it will hurt
[ ] Fear of pregnancy (or contraception not available)
[ ] I'm afraid it will give me a "bad reputation"
[ ] I'm not (or not yet) sexually attracted enough to boys to want to do it
[ ] I want to save myself for marriage (or a serious relationship when I'm much older)
[x ] Other reasons:

Sandra123
April 6th, 2017, 06:40 AM
Girls: I'm curious how girls make the decision to do it for the first time with a guy. If u have not had sex yet, why not? (Please choose all that apply):

[ ] I feel I'm still too young
[ ] I don't have a boyfriend
[ ] I haven't found the right guy yet
[ ] I'm afraid it will hurt
[ ] Fear of pregnancy (or contraception not available)
[X ] I'm afraid it will give me a "bad reputation"
[ ] I'm not (or not yet) sexually attracted enough to boys to want to do it
[X ] I want to save myself for marriage ONLY AFTER MARRIAGE
[ ] Other reasons

darla
April 6th, 2017, 01:51 PM
[x ] I feel I'm still too young
[ ] I don't have a boyfriend
[ x] I haven't found the right guy yet
[ ] I'm afraid it will hurt
[ ] Fear of pregnancy (or contraception not available)
[ ] I'm afraid it will give me a "bad reputation"
[ ] I'm not (or not yet) sexually attracted enough to boys to want to do it
[ ] I want to save myself for marriage (or a serious relationship when I'm much older)
[ ] Other reasons:

Emilyyy
April 6th, 2017, 02:53 PM
Girls: I'm curious how girls make the decision to do it for the first time with a guy.

[ ] I feel I'm still too young
[x] I don't have a boyfriend
[x] I haven't found the right guy yet
[ ] I'm afraid it will hurt
[ ] Fear of pregnancy (or contraception not available)
[ ] I'm afraid it will give me a "bad reputation"
[ ] I'm not (or not yet) sexually attracted enough to boys to want to do it
[ ] I want to save myself for marriage (or a serious relationship when I'm much older)
[ ] Other reasons:

Claire Asteroid
April 7th, 2017, 06:52 PM
[ ] I feel I'm still too young
[x] I don't have a boyfriend
[x] I haven't found the right guy yet
[x] I'm afraid it will hurt
[ ] Fear of pregnancy (or contraception not available)
[x] I'm afraid it will give me a "bad reputation" not generally but with people in my Christian group
[ ] I'm not (or not yet) sexually attracted enough to boys to want to do it
[x] I want to save myself for marriage (or a serious relationship when I'm much older)
[ ] Other reasons:

Nelli
April 8th, 2017, 06:07 AM
[ ] I feel I'm still too young
[ ] I don't have a boyfriend
[x] I haven't found the right guy yet
[ ] I'm afraid it will hurt
[ ] Fear of pregnancy (or contraception not available)
[ ] I'm afraid it will give me a "bad reputation"
[ ] I'm not (or not yet) sexually attracted enough to boys to want to do it
[ ] I want to save myself for marriage (or a serious relationship when I'm much older)
[ ] Other reasons:

scott2002
April 17th, 2017, 11:33 PM
Thanks for great responses!

CaitlynK0206
April 25th, 2017, 02:27 PM
[ x] I feel I'm still too young
[ ] I don't have a boyfriend
[x ] I haven't found the right guy yet
[ ] I'm afraid it will hurt
[ ] Fear of pregnancy (or contraception not available)
[ ] I'm afraid it will give me a "bad reputation"
[ ] I'm not (or not yet) sexually attracted enough to boys to want to do it
[ x] I want to save myself for marriage (or a serious relationship when I'm much older)
[ ] Other reasons:

Yeah I'm 16 no need to rush it...not something I think I need to get it "over with"... really, don't feel ready, prob when I get out and go to college things will feel different. Not a prude, but hey, a lot involved, right? Maybe wait until it's someone you love and care about. I go to an all girls school anyway, not that I'm surrounded by boys all day. I go out with a mixed boy/girl group of friends...sometimes we pair off and have fun but nothing serious yet

KatieCO2003
April 25th, 2017, 11:11 PM
[ ] I feel I'm still too young
[X] I don't have a boyfriend
[X] I haven't found the right guy yet
[ ] I'm afraid it will hurt
[ ] Fear of pregnancy (or contraception not available)
[ ] I'm afraid it will give me a "bad reputation"
[ ] I'm not (or not yet) sexually attracted enough to boys to want to do it
[ ] I want to save myself for marriage (or a serious relationship when I'm much older)
[ ] Other reasons: