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the darkness
February 28th, 2017, 04:55 PM
I'm not used to communal changing at swimming pools, but I get quite conscious of my dick.

Any advice how to be more relaxed?

zzzzzzzzzz
February 28th, 2017, 05:14 PM
No-one really bothers too much. Guys may look out of curiosity. just act normal. Wrap a towel round you if worried. You will get used to it after a few minutes

mick01
February 28th, 2017, 06:00 PM
Ya, dude, you might be self-conscious the first couple of times but after that you get used to it quickly. So I would say just get the first couple of times over with and then you'll be fine. No one will say anything to you anyway, regardless of size, pubes, nuts, whatever.

pjones
February 28th, 2017, 06:33 PM
face the wall or locker and just change. it gets easier the more you do it

Fleek
February 28th, 2017, 06:35 PM
Its winter! Go in the changing stall.

scott2002
February 28th, 2017, 07:26 PM
The more all the other guys pick up on sensing that you are embarrassed or don't want anyone to see your dick, many of them will start making fun of you or taunting you and things like that. The BEST thing to do is just let everyone see you naked and try your hardest to PRETEND you're not embarrassed by it. Quickly you'll notice that nobody cares that you're naked, or what your dick looks like, and you'll then feel much more relaxed.

ska8er
February 28th, 2017, 07:43 PM
The first few times probably would b
uncomfortable but once u do it a few
times it gets less obvious to anyone
there. I'm sure the others have the
same feelings as u do and r just as
anxious. Go and change fast and
leave. U don't have to look at any
body and if they look at u-look away.

steellord321
February 28th, 2017, 07:48 PM
When you go swim youre half naked already. It's just removing the other half. The more you do it the easier it gets

But for now, try to focus on other things. You dont need to pay attention to what you're doing to get undressed. So just think of homework or sports or something non sexual

pconnor
February 28th, 2017, 08:43 PM
You will get used to it. I have been changing and showering naked with classmates for many years. Once ya do it a few times you will be fine.

Everyone has the same parts.

Taco69
March 1st, 2017, 02:38 AM
You'll get used to it, just start by like changing with the towel around you or not facing anyone or when you are alone.

the darkness
March 1st, 2017, 07:09 AM
Is a towel a bad idea? does that makee it look like I'm trying to hide something?

mick01
March 1st, 2017, 10:16 AM
I guess using a towel is okay but I think you'll attract more attention to yourself going that way than just quickly stripping down and changing. Nobody wants to get caught looking at other guys naked so it's not like a lot of guys will be staring at you anyway.

SeansLittleBro
March 1st, 2017, 11:15 AM
The more all the other guys pick up on sensing that you are embarrassed or don't want anyone to see your dick, many of them will start making fun of you or taunting you and things like that. The BEST thing to do is just let everyone see you naked and try your hardest to PRETEND you're not embarrassed by it. Quickly you'll notice that nobody cares that you're naked, or what your dick looks like, and you'll then feel much more relaxed.

The first few times probably would b
uncomfortable but once u do it a few
times it gets less obvious to anyone
there. I'm sure the others have the
same feelings as u do and r just as
anxious. Go and change fast and
leave. U don't have to look at any
body and if they look at u-look away.

[What Scott and sk8er have said is good advice i'm on a swim team and have been since i was 8 so i guess i never really went through what you are guys are always curious and will take a sneak peak just as you do/will i'm sure but the more you just do what needs to be done, change and get into your suit the easier it becomes As Scott said if you make a big deal out of it the crowds will smell the embarrassment and you might open yourself up for some comments

DocMcLovins
March 1st, 2017, 07:53 PM
I'm 13 and the same as you. But if you're 18 I think maybe you need to get over it. How big is your dick?

Yonah
March 2nd, 2017, 08:06 AM
Nobody should feel embarrassed because of his body or equipment. It's all nature.
The more you try to hide and sneak out of the community in communal showers and changing rooms, the more attention you arouse.
The only thing I noticed that guys who shave body hair down there are made fun of. Also uncut cocks do tend to get comments. But this is probably different depending on the area where you are.

user-999
March 3rd, 2017, 11:05 AM
I'm quite sure that no one will care about your penis size, so no need worry.

eagle18
March 3rd, 2017, 03:54 PM
Just go for it thats what i did. I used to towel change at gym and realized its silly. At the gym everyone showers naked and no one stares or makes comments, theres all shapes and sizes there, its part of life. I started of changing and showering when no one was around to get used to it and then did it slowly when more people were there and now its not a problem and never popped a boner either.

TWDjacob
March 3rd, 2017, 04:44 PM
whenever i had to change at a public swimming pool i would always change in the bathroom stalls never in the public

niklas
March 4th, 2017, 03:50 PM
I'm used to it from going swimming and playing water polo. Lots of guys get a little self conscious about getting changed in front of other guys. But you've got the same stuff they do. Are guys going to take a look and maybe mentally compare? Yeah, likely, especially at our age. You'll probably do the same. The more often you go and get changed, the more comfortable you'll get.

BrendonOH
March 7th, 2017, 01:47 PM
It kind of like communal changing actually. it gives boys a chance to look at others' parts, compare, etc. even if just for a few seconds

tyrickd
March 7th, 2017, 06:23 PM
just be confident in what u have almost be cocky in a sense for the first couple of times then over time youll notice its not bad all guys t some point are scared of changing in front of people or are nervous so just no your not the only one

the darkness
March 8th, 2017, 03:51 AM
The past couple of times I've just got on with it and not given a fuck.

It's usually older men in the changing room with me, and they're not very big themselves!

Thanks for the replies!

Bikini Boy
March 8th, 2017, 05:27 AM
I'm a swimmer and have been changing in communal type locker rooms for a long time. Eventually you will get used to it. If others want to look, I let them look.

Alan T
March 8th, 2017, 08:00 AM
It kind of like communal changing actually. it gives boys a chance to look at others' parts, compare, etc. even if just for a few seconds

Exactly. Guys are naturally curious how they compare to others. It's not a big deal and it doesn't mean anything. If I notice a guy glance at my dick, I ignore it.

Bull
March 8th, 2017, 10:18 AM
Exactly. Guys are naturally curious how they compare to others. It's not a big deal and it doesn't mean anything. If I notice a guy glance at my dick, I ignore it.

And that would facilitate the guy's curiosity.

Dmaxd123
March 8th, 2017, 01:07 PM
if you have lockers just open your door and face the wall so you're sortof blocked on 2 sides

DarkWish
March 8th, 2017, 01:37 PM
i kind of like showing off. have nothing special big but nothing to hide. i think that ppö who is make to much trubble not showing their willies is getting more attention of ppl wonder what u actuley r doing hehe

Alan T
March 9th, 2017, 04:31 AM
And that would facilitate the guy's curiosity.

It not that I really want to facilitate it. But I'm not going to make eye contact over a furtive glance.

BrendonOH
March 9th, 2017, 05:12 PM
Exactly. Guys are naturally curious how they compare to others. It's not a big deal and it doesn't mean anything. If I notice a guy glance at my dick, I ignore it.

At age 17, do you ever glance at other guys'? Or is it just something we do at my age/younger?

Alan T
March 9th, 2017, 05:14 PM
Yeah, I guess I do sometimes.

the darkness
March 10th, 2017, 03:46 AM
Yeah, I guess I do sometimes.

And I do, especially if theres guys my age lol.

Curiosity at the end of the day.

Jamesk0050
March 13th, 2017, 10:11 PM
Give it a try and what Sean says is right. Dont act nervous and be confident as you strip off, take everything down, grab your swimmers and put them on. When changing out then take them down and grab towel real fast, dry off and grab underwear and you are dressed in no time and only showing for a few seconds. You will get used to it after a few times.

Jtyler
March 13th, 2017, 10:43 PM
Trust me you get used to it and it can be fun haha

Jamesk0050
March 15th, 2017, 07:46 PM
Just do it and not think about it and not look around. You will get used to it and no one will say anything. Just dont be so obvious that you are real nervous.

johnmit13
May 7th, 2017, 02:33 PM
Just walk around confidently nude or not, no one is going to call you out on it because then they admit they were looking

SamMystic
May 7th, 2017, 02:47 PM
Changing stalls help, and if they ask why, just say: 'I dont like looking at your dicks, or letting you look at mine'

Blue-Boy
May 7th, 2017, 04:21 PM
All public pools have changing stalls if you want to use one instead of changing in front of other dudes.

Me, personally I think I have a nice looking dick so I don't mind changing in the general area. Doesn't bother me at all.

mookie
May 7th, 2017, 05:48 PM
My dad takes me to the Y swimming a few times a week. No big deal, really nobody stares at me when I change or shower, and there are other boys there too with their dads. You just do it like at home. I do peek at the other boys and they probably peek at me, just curious.

James2003
May 7th, 2017, 06:27 PM
The more all the other guys pick up on sensing that you are embarrassed or don't want anyone to see your dick, many of them will start making fun of you or taunting you and things like that. The BEST thing to do is just let everyone see you naked and try your hardest to PRETEND you're not embarrassed by it. Quickly you'll notice that nobody cares that you're naked, or what your dick looks like, and you'll then feel much more relaxed.

Excellent advice here from Scott. Turning the other way, slipping off to a stall, or constantly covering up with a towel will get you WAY more unwanted attention and probably teasing than just changing out in the open. It's unlikely that you have anything at all to be embarrassed about anyway, but even if you're on the small side down there, chances are no one is going to say anything out loud. For one thing, it immediately calls attention to THEM for staring at your junk :-)

Chaosphere
May 8th, 2017, 12:40 AM
The best way is to learn about what other guys anatomy looks like. Once you see more of that, you'll see that you probably are much more normal than you think. Porn and idiots who lie on the internet to make themselves feel better have completely fucked up the natural body image and have caused enormous harm to guys trying to get comfortable with themselves. Ironically, the best way to get more comfortable being communally nude, is to actually get nude in a locker room and see the infinite variety in men's bodies, especially the parts we don't see often.

scott2002
May 8th, 2017, 06:20 AM
(I just saw I was quoted!) I'd like to add that I'm now on the 9th grade baseball team, and one of the kids, a fast runner and terrific hitter, looks a LOT more like a 7th grader than a 9th grader, with and WITHOUT his clothes on. He's probably a late developer because he barely has any pubic hair at all yet. But he walks around in the locker room and back and forth the the showers completely stripped naked and proud, just like everyone else. Ihave have never heard anyone make any fun of him and his naked body at all.

SethfromMI
May 8th, 2017, 12:11 PM
(I just saw I was quoted!) I'd like to add that I'm now on the 9th grade baseball team, and one of the kids, a fast runner and terrific hitter, looks a LOT more like a 7th grader than a 9th grader, with and WITHOUT his clothes on. He's probably a late developer because he barely has any pubic hair at all yet. But he walks around in the locker room and back and forth the the showers completely stripped naked and proud, just like everyone else. Ihave have never heard anyone make any fun of him and his naked body at all.

most guys don't make fun. some who would don't for fear they will be called gay or whatever for noticing a naked guy. most of the guys I was around with were so used to it didn't bother them. the only kidding I think ever happened was between close friends and they would expect a joke be made back to them.

the more people change in the locker room and shower, the more people realize it really isn't that big of a deal

owl__city
May 8th, 2017, 12:28 PM
It will get better!

scott2002
May 9th, 2017, 05:29 AM
the more people change in the locker room and shower, the more people realize it really isn't that big of a deal
I agree.

Nights
May 9th, 2017, 11:24 AM
Relax your mind, think about whats for dinner etc.

Snowrider
May 13th, 2017, 11:28 PM
The first few times, I focused on changing and not looking around. The more I got used to it, the more I looked around and the more I noticed other dudes looking around. I would just focus on doing what you need to do--changing--and move on until you get more comfortable.

themanconnor
May 18th, 2017, 10:09 PM
The best advice I can give is just to keep doing it until you feel comfortable. First just do it quickly so that way the embarrassment is short lived. Then gradually keep doing it until it does not make you uncomfortable. That is what I have done and now I can change without thinking anything about it

joshua123
May 21st, 2017, 12:31 PM
Dont be ashamex or embarassed be proud of what your packin and dont be ashamed of your best pal in your pants! No body is going to say anything to you if you walk around confident