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mick01
February 5th, 2017, 10:45 PM
I have a male friend where we have pretty regular sex and it's awesome. And last night, not for the first time, I had great sex with a girl. And it's all safe sex. But the feelings I get from both experiences, I'd hate to give up.
So, what I am trying to say is, I feel really lucky to be attracted to both sexes.
So I'm just wondering how many bi's out there are happy that they can have amazing sex with both boys and girls?

Bull
February 6th, 2017, 08:00 AM
IMO: Mutual pleasure with a partner is awesome regardless the gender of that partner!

mick01
February 6th, 2017, 02:35 PM
IMO: Mutual pleasure with a partner is awesome regardless the gender of that partner!

I agree. But I've always looked at my sexuality as a struggle and in a negative way. And I'm just realizing that it doesn't have to be a negative, that I can really enjoy being with members of both sexes and it shouldn't have to add to the struggle or confusion. I can just enjoy it and be glad that I can.

auser_name
February 6th, 2017, 03:31 PM
Yep, I have to agree.

Just JT
February 6th, 2017, 05:03 PM
Absolutely!!! You can, you are very fortunate. Not
Only cause of the sex, mutual pleaseure, all the good stuff, but cause you are very ok with who you are and your struggle. Most struggle in a negative way. There's no rule book about puberty and sexual orientation and self discovery.

So enjoy life for what it is and be with the people you like being with. Life will figure itself out as it unfolds

jamie_n5
February 9th, 2017, 04:09 PM
I agree. But I've always looked at my sexuality as a struggle and in a negative way. And I'm just realizing that it doesn't have to be a negative, that I can really enjoy being with members of both sexes and it shouldn't have to add to the struggle or confusion. I can just enjoy it and be glad that I can.

I hear what you are saying and went through kind of the same thing when struggling with being gay at first. You have to let it go and know that being Bi is who you are and accept that and go on. As you stated you are happy and very satisfied with being sexual with both sexes. So don't worry about it any more and accept that is who you are and be at peace with it.

ska8er
February 9th, 2017, 06:54 PM
I have a male friend where we have pretty regular sex and it's awesome. And last night, not for the first time, I had great sex with a girl. And it's all safe sex. But the feelings I get from both experiences, I'd hate to give up.
So, what I am trying to say is, I feel really lucky to be attracted to both sexes.
So I'm just wondering how many bi's out there are happy that they can have amazing sex with both boys and girls?


I agree 100% with u. ;)

Amy15kitty
February 10th, 2017, 10:28 AM
Being bi is a great thing

ilc.69
February 11th, 2017, 04:41 PM
I have a male friend where we have pretty regular sex and it's awesome. And last night, not for the first time, I had great sex with a girl. And it's all safe sex. But the feelings I get from both experiences, I'd hate to give up.
So, what I am trying to say is, I feel really lucky to be attracted to both sexes.
So I'm just wondering how many bi's out there are happy that they can have amazing sex with both boys and girls?

I think I'm currently discovering that I might be Bi, I have a question though lol. Do you feel any kind of feelings for these two people? Or do you feel more for one than for the other, or both at the same time...?

mick01
February 11th, 2017, 08:37 PM
I think I'm currently discovering that I might be Bi, I have a question though lol. Do you feel any kind of feelings for these two people? Or do you feel more for one than for the other, or both at the same time...?

This is a really good question and I hope I can make sense in the answer. The guy is a really good friend, and now a friends with benefits kind of thing. It's not really romantic in any way, but it has been a bonding experience with him. It has definitely made us a lot closer. But I'm not in love with him or anything.
I had a good relationship with a girl before and I definitely had feelings for her as a girlfriend (right up until she dumped me). And the girl last weekend was just a quick hook up so I didn't really have a lot of feelings for her.
I struggle all the time with "what I am," but as I have these experiences, I think I'm starting to figure things out.
I don't know that I could fall in love with a guy. With guys, I think it's just the physical part that I enjoy. I feel like I could fall in love with a girl, though and have a romantic/intimate relationship. If you want, you can always pm me. I like talking about it because the talking helps me understand better.

ilc.69
February 11th, 2017, 08:43 PM
This is a really good question and I hope I can make sense in the answer. The guy is a really good friend, and now a friends with benefits kind of thing. It's not really romantic in any way, but it has been a bonding experience with him. It has definitely made us a lot closer. But I'm not in love with him or anything.
I had a good relationship with a girl before and I definitely had feelings for her as a girlfriend (right up until she dumped me). And the girl last weekend was just a quick hook up so I didn't really have a lot of feelings for her.
I struggle all the time with "what I am," but as I have these experiences, I think I'm starting to figure things out.
I don't know that I could fall in love with a guy. With guys, I think it's just the physical part that I enjoy. I feel like I could fall in love with a girl, though and have a romantic/intimate relationship. If you want, you can always pm me. I like talking about it because the talking helps me understand better.

That is actually sooo similar to what happens to me haha. I'm also starting to realize that being bi doesn't mean you have to love both sexes, but just enjoy a relationship with them. I mean, it's kinda complex, but yeah, as soon as I'm able to send pms, I'll do it :lol:

KBar33
February 14th, 2017, 08:27 AM
I love it! Like you already said, whether it's boy or girl, I like that I don't have to only choose from 50% of the population. We get the whole 100 ;) I really like the fact that I can just choose whomever I want and not have to worry about looking for JUST boys or JUST girls. I can just look for people with great personalities that I can mesh with really well. It's pretty awesome. :)

Hermes
February 15th, 2017, 09:20 AM
When it comes to having fun, of course enjoy that you have so much choice. The only snag I can see is that if you want to settle down with someone that person can only be of one sex or the other.

Stever_big_hands
February 18th, 2017, 08:05 PM
its cool being bi i am too i think i like seeing in shape naked guys and i jerk off thinking about naked guys too

Stever_big_hands
February 18th, 2017, 08:06 PM
I have a male friend where we have pretty regular sex and it's awesome. And last night, not for the first time, I had great sex with a girl. And it's all safe sex. But the feelings I get from both experiences, I'd hate to give up.
So, what I am trying to say is, I feel really lucky to be attracted to both sexes.
So I'm just wondering how many bi's out there are happy that they can have amazing sex with both boys and girls?

same but i like in shape guys the most

pconnor
February 18th, 2017, 10:39 PM
It is also all right when you are real young to be simply curious. No lable.

Amethyst Rose
February 18th, 2017, 11:17 PM
I can't say that I like being bi because I'm not. I might like to be bi though. It's hard to explain - I don't really understand it myself. I think it's cool and interesting that other people have orientations that differ from mine, and being straight I feel... ordinary? Eh that's not what I mean but maybe it makes some sense lol. In the end you can't choose who you are, you just are that way.

zzzzzzzzzz
February 19th, 2017, 05:18 AM
I not had sex yet. I get hard easily and think of hot boys and girls when I wank

Dragonmaster69
February 23rd, 2017, 01:42 PM
Sounds similar to what my bestfriend and I have. I am bi and he is str8 and just messes around with me, We both have gfs,i have never done anything with her yet. he has with his gf he is 17 and has done stuff girls before. I know I like my gf a lot in a way I don't like my bestfriend. I am okay with it though. I think the biggest challenge is whether or not when you are in a relationship if you should be honest with that person about being bi. Also,if the want a just 1on1 relationship does that mean I have to give up messing around with my bestfriend. Which has been a great bonding experience for sure.

Harrier
February 23rd, 2017, 10:47 PM
I'm straight but I think it would be awesome to be bi. It would double your chancres of getting lucky if you wanted a one night stand. I'm jealous but I just couldn't be ok with doing stuff with guys personally.

kanefromoz
May 31st, 2017, 11:02 PM
I dont use labels so I just say if it feels good n you're all into it go for it.....

I have a male friend where we have pretty regular sex and it's awesome. And last night, not for the first time, I had great sex with a girl. And it's all safe sex. But the feelings I get from both experiences, I'd hate to give up.
So, what I am trying to say is, I feel really lucky to be attracted to both sexes.
So I'm just wondering how many bi's out there are happy that they can have amazing sex with both boys and girls?

meanwhile do they know about you n each other? why/why not?

Posts merged, please use multiquote next time. ~Endeavour

mick01
June 1st, 2017, 12:04 AM
meanwhile do they know about you n each other? why/why not?
Not really sure about the question. I met the girl at a party and we did some stuff. What's that got to do with my fwb?

Chaosphere
June 1st, 2017, 12:58 AM
Same here. I definitely like the possibilities it opens up.

jackspeaks
June 1st, 2017, 04:12 PM
IMO: Mutual pleasure with a partner is awesome regardless the gender of that partner!

100% agree!

kanefromoz
June 2nd, 2017, 08:53 AM
Not really sure about the question. I met the girl at a party and we did some stuff. What's that got to do with my fwb?

I just meant do they know youre bi? Coz you seem so confident about what your sexuality is now Im just wondering if youre telling them ( or anybody)? I think its a really interesting situation to be in.... ;););)

Tommy Lion
June 2nd, 2017, 09:07 AM
I like being bi as well. For me it is not only physical attraction to a girl and a boy. I also can fall in love with boys and girls. I fall in love with a person, no matter if it's a girl or a boy. It is all still a bit new to me, but I feel really happy and everybody is accepting me the way I am. And my boyfriend is the most amazing boy in the world!! haha

Aldee
June 10th, 2017, 01:46 AM
I have a male friend where we have pretty regular sex and it's awesome. And last night, not for the first time, I had great sex with a girl. And it's all safe sex. But the feelings I get from both experiences, I'd hate to give up.
So, what I am trying to say is, I feel really lucky to be attracted to both sexes.
So I'm just wondering how many bi's out there are happy that they can have amazing sex with both boys and girls?

Glad to hear things are awesome!

Omnomnom
June 11th, 2017, 06:12 AM
I'm kinda glad I'm bi. Wider selection! :D

SamMystic
June 11th, 2017, 06:36 AM
And here I am, still havent had sex with a girl yet..

Seven Wonders
June 14th, 2017, 12:10 PM
if you feel you are right and normal...go ahead

Jamiec1130
June 19th, 2017, 12:16 AM
I'm kinda glad I'm bi. Wider selection! :D

That reminds me of one person I know. He pretty much bullied me, saying I identify as bi so I could perhaps get someone. No, I'm just attracted to both genders.

I do like being bi because I can be attracted to whoever I want and not give a shit about who cares. So what if I think that guy's attractive? I'm happy, and that's what I care about.

Just JT
June 19th, 2017, 12:41 AM
mick01
Like I said earlier there's no rules. Same sex stuff has been happening for thousands of years. And on so many different levels bro. Look at the Romans.

There's lots of guys who feel like you. Very into girls, probably wana get married and all, but really like playing with guys to. Not saying it's a moral ok thing to do if in a "committed" thing. But couples can figure that out

IMO I think the big thing is to just be yourself and enjoy what ever your desires are. And it'll probably change as time goes. Maybe meet that one person anc change everything and maybe not

Just enjoy it and don't get twisted on it

bunnyhabit
June 19th, 2017, 05:44 AM
its great why miss out on half the population. sex with guys and girls is different but enjoyable. girls are more apt to show same sex love in public than guys, i don't know why?

Bull
July 30th, 2017, 02:47 PM
I'm straight but I think it would be awesome to be bi. It would double your chancres of getting lucky if you wanted a one night stand. I'm jealous but I just couldn't be ok with doing stuff with guys personally.

You are "jealous" of guys who are bi yet you "couldn't be ok" doing that of which you are jealous? Have you ever experimented with a guy? It seems, imo, that you are somewhat conflicted. Do you watch gay porn? In straight porn do you focus on the guy? Are you afraid you might actually like doing stuff with a guy? In other words why are you jealous of me and my bi brothers: :what:

Fleek
July 30th, 2017, 04:15 PM
^ Im so done right now. :lol:

Honestly being Bi isn't bad. You basically get the best of both worlds (Kinda like... Hannah Montana? :confused:)
:yes: Yup that seems accurate.

Harrier
July 30th, 2017, 05:37 PM
You are "jealous" of guys who are bi yet you "couldn't be ok" doing that of which you are jealous? Have you ever experimented with a guy? It seems, imo, that you are somewhat conflicted. Do you watch gay porn? In straight porn do you focus on the guy? Are you afraid you might actually like doing stuff with a guy? In other words why are you jealous of me and my bi brothers: :what:

You took my quote out of context. My post had 3 sentences:
1. I'm straight but I think it would be awesome to be bi.
2. It would double your chancres of getting lucky if you wanted a one night stand.
3. I'm jealous but I just couldn't be ok with doing stuff with guys personally.
You completely disregarded sentence #2 which (along with me not likeing boys sexually) was the main point of my post ;)

Bull
July 31st, 2017, 01:40 PM
You took my quote out of context. My post had 3 sentences:

2. It would double your chancres of getting lucky if you wanted a one night stand.

You completely disregarded sentence #2 which (along with me not likeing boys sexually) was the main point of my post ;)

So, are you saying you are jealous of the chances of getting lucky if you wanted a one night stand even though you would not personally take advantage of the oportunity? If so, that's ok.

Harrier
July 31st, 2017, 06:22 PM
So, are you saying you are jealous of the chances of getting lucky if you wanted a one night stand even though you would not personally take advantage of the oportunity? If so, that's ok.

Yep. That's pretty much it. Glad that's ok with you ;)

kirikiri94
August 1st, 2017, 10:11 AM
As long as you enjoy it

thomas2003
August 1st, 2017, 01:29 PM
i think am bi nd i think it great

Lacrosse127
August 1st, 2017, 03:32 PM
i think am bi nd i think it great

same here. Its really good. Cuz theres hot guys I've hooked up with and hot girls I've hooked up with. The best of both worlds

I have a male friend where we have pretty regular sex and it's awesome. And last night, not for the first time, I had great sex with a girl. And it's all safe sex. But the feelings I get from both experiences, I'd hate to give up.
So, what I am trying to say is, I feel really lucky to be attracted to both sexes.
So I'm just wondering how many bi's out there are happy that they can have amazing sex with both boys and girls?

I am 100%

posts merged. be sure to use the "multi quote" button next time. ~devotionnel

Nelmoinen
August 13th, 2017, 10:13 PM
I would like to think that I would be blessed to have the ability to love more than one gender. And I think I do at least limitedly. Congratulations, I am glad you are happy.

Niceguy17
August 14th, 2017, 06:26 AM
Being bi is great, there's nothing wrong with liking both.

Bull
August 14th, 2017, 07:55 AM
Being bi is great, there's nothing wrong with liking both.

Great 100th post. Congratulations on reaching that status! :yeah: