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jordand
January 24th, 2017, 06:32 PM
I think I've been bi for a couple years now. I've swapped head with a boy and loved gay porn. I just want to have straight thoughts, though. I hate have gay feelings. Anyone else on the same boat?

ashdaniel
January 24th, 2017, 06:37 PM
Welcome to the club, that is basically me for the pass two years but now I just ignore that feeling and start enjoy/ waiting for that special guy or girl to appear.

Dalcourt
January 24th, 2017, 06:46 PM
Changing feelings is not really easy I'd say.
You can try to suppress your feelings and not act on them but changing them I don't think it's possible.
Maybe your "gay feelings" go away on their own in the course of puberty. If not you have to learn to arrange yourself with them.

ska8er
January 24th, 2017, 07:49 PM
U cant force urself to have Str8 feelings-u
either think one way or the other. U said u
think u were Bi and loved gay porn-a lot
of us like gay porn but that doesn't mean
that we r gay. Don't go so hard on urself
cause maybe it is just hormones playing
tricks with ur mind. There is nothing bad
with being Bi and having these feelings.
I have the same and wonder y but I don't
let it mess with my mind. I don't think u
r gay. Just let it ride out.

kyrocks03
January 24th, 2017, 10:16 PM
It's not necessarily what you think but what you feel. Don't let it bother you and try to go with the flow. You'll figure it out when you are ready and not so conflicted.

Endeavour
January 25th, 2017, 03:32 AM
Puberty for Boys :arrow: Teen Sexuality and Gender

mick01
January 25th, 2017, 01:44 PM
I think I've been bi for a couple years now. I've swapped head with a boy and loved gay porn. I just want to have straight thoughts, though. I hate have gay feelings. Anyone else on the same boat?

I'm on the same boat Jordan, being very confused about my sexuality. I know I'm not straight tho. I'm 15 and have had full on sex with both boys and girls and I really liked both. But I'm no where near making a final decision on what sex I would end up with. I'm just enjoying whatever experiences I can have. I wouldn't resist or deny any feelings you have or force any others onto yourself that don't come naturally. Btw, have you had sex with a girl?

Jordanchill
January 27th, 2017, 01:18 AM
Human sexuality tends to be fluid throughout ones life, meaning that it can change, more for some than others. There really is no point in forcing yourself to choose one sex over the other, especially at a young age. You will learn more of who you are as you age. It really does not matter what sex you end up falling in love with in the end. As long as you love the person, everything will be fine. Also, sex and porn does not necessarily determine what you like. It may point to your interests, but hormones do a lot with turning a person on.

ilc.69
February 11th, 2017, 04:35 PM
I'm going through the exact same thing. I think we just gotta discover what we like and stop feeling weird about these gay feelings, or the fact that we like more homosexual porn, than heterosexual. We're getting to know ourselfs and one thing I've learned through out this entire sexuality journey, is that sexuality is not always black or white, there are maaaaany shades of gray in between.

Riley23
February 12th, 2017, 06:05 AM
I used to feel bad about it, but I've sort of accepted it

Just JT
February 12th, 2017, 07:10 AM
Sexuality is a really confusing thing. You have a desire for one thing but want something different. Reality is what you want is a result of "social norms" and doesn't satisfy your desires. You can't have both unless what you want does satisfy your desires. When conflicted you have a choice. Satisfy your desires, or the desires of other people's expectations. May not be what "you" think you want, but you need to live with yourself forever

Dragonmaster69
February 23rd, 2017, 01:56 PM
Society makes us feel weird if we don't fit into a neat little box. I am 15 and ik I am bi. I kinda still do struggle with it. yes, i think sometimes just being str8 would be easier. I am who I am though. So like everyone else has said I just go with the flow and figure things out as I go. I wouldn't feel bad about it man.