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Kory123
November 12th, 2016, 09:49 PM
Still I'm 14. Confused with my sexuality a bit.

I mean, I watch gay porn while I do it. TBH i kinda like it and the moans trigger me however when a girl does it sounds fake and whiney. I like that position cause it's easier to achieve one while fantasizing. Does that make me gay? Because I fear if I'm gay i won't marry a woman and have no kids, and I want to have kids with that have a part of me in them. :(:(:(:(:(

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ska8er
November 12th, 2016, 11:06 PM
we watch all kinds of porn also no matter
how Straight-Bi or Gay we r-so it is normal-and
again before u start worrying bout if u r going to
b married and have kids or not-live ur life for now
and worry about that later once u get older and
mature and then make a decision.

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Endeavour
November 13th, 2016, 12:50 AM
Puberty for Boys :arrow2: Teen Sexuality and Gender

Also, an inappropriate questions has been removed. We do not allow the discussion of techniques here on VT. The sexuality question is fine, though.

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I don't think that makes you gay at all. It is totally normal at your age. Also, at this point of your life, you really shouldn't be worrying about whether you'll have kids or not. Focus on the present moment, and then make those decisions later when the time is right.

kyrocks03
November 13th, 2016, 08:01 AM
I don't think the type of porn you watch defines your sexuality. What defines it is how you feel around boys or girls and what you are attracted too and desire a relationship with.

SeansLittleBro
November 13th, 2016, 12:53 PM
I don't think the type of porn you watch defines your sexuality. What defines it is how you feel around boys or girls and what you are attracted too and desire a relationship with.

that is a simple but correct way of stating it i'm bi/gay and watch straight porn as well as the other classifications when i watch porn that is

Straya
November 15th, 2016, 07:08 AM
Still I'm 14. Confused with my sexuality a bit.

I mean, I watch gay porn while I do it. TBH i kinda like it and the moans trigger me however when a girl does it sounds fake and whiney. I like that position cause it's easier to achieve one while fantasizing. Does that make me gay? Because I fear if I'm gay i won't marry a woman and have no kids, and I want to have kids with that have a part of me in them. :(:(:(:(:(

Inappropriate question removed. ~Lost Horizon

watching gay porn doesent mean your gay cause as you said it is more lifelike and belivable than the overacted straight porn and as others have said the only way to work out your sexuality is what you are attracted to in real life not whats on a screen while your doing the deed

Vegas2933
December 6th, 2016, 03:27 PM
As everyone above has said, porn does not determine your sexuality. Half of that shit both straight and gay Japanese fake anyway! You need to go by which gender in the real world turns you on the most.

Just JT
December 6th, 2016, 03:36 PM
I agree, were all still growing and learning this stuff about ourselves. So I'd probably not worry about it. You might be gay, or bi, or just getting off on something cause it feels taboo to you or something and that's all fine and cool

But also if your gay why be afraid cause you can't have kids?
Not sure I get that cause there are options for that one, so enjoy who you are and worry about kids when you get there.

jamie_n5
December 15th, 2016, 05:45 PM
I would say that if you want to marry and have children that you are straight and curious. What ever type of porn you watch and masturbate to doesn't define your sexuality. I'm sure in time you will figure out just where you are at with your sexuality.

ashdaniel
December 24th, 2016, 11:07 AM
It is hard to say. I feel the exact same before but later I am concise and questioning. At last I realize I am bi and I denying the fact for the same reason of marry and have kids.

samuel15
December 24th, 2016, 11:18 AM
You know you can have a birth mother right? I was borne that way :)

zack.zack
December 24th, 2016, 11:38 AM
I don't think the type of porn you watch defines your sexuality. What defines it is how you feel around boys or girls and what you are attracted too and desire a relationship with.

Exactly. Its not the porn that you watch that determines your sexuality, its how you feel when around actual people that could determine what it is that you are or are not attracted to.

Tudix
December 26th, 2016, 04:41 PM
Still I'm 14. Confused with my sexuality a bit.

I mean, I watch gay porn while I do it. TBH i kinda like it and the moans trigger me however when a girl does it sounds fake and whiney. I like that position cause it's easier to achieve one while fantasizing. Does that make me gay? Because I fear if I'm gay i won't marry a woman and have no kids, and I want to have kids with that have a part of me in them. :(:(:(:(:(

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I am in the same situation bro:/

mick01
December 27th, 2016, 12:47 PM
I'm like you, really confused about my sexuality. I know I like boys but I've enjoyed the stuff I've done with girls. I'm just not ready to commit to being gay and eliminating the possibility of being with girls. So I would say what everyone is pretty much saying. You don't have to decide or know today. Give it time and the answer will probably come, hopefully anyway.