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dysterian
October 23rd, 2016, 06:30 PM
I've been having an issue figuring out if I'm gay or bi. I find guys attractive and would date one, and the same for girls. I would become sexually involved with guys, but not girls. They just don't turn me on.

What does this make me?

Babs
October 23rd, 2016, 11:39 PM
In my opinion, that would make you gay because that's the simplest way to put it. If you're into the super elaborate labels, perhaps biromantic homosexual. But ultimately, call yourself whatever you feel most comfortable with.

ska8er
October 24th, 2016, 04:39 PM
I c that u r 13-right now u r into puberty and
emotions r high and confusing-I'm going through
the same still-I'm 16. I would say u r Bi Curious.
Get to know guys and girls and over the next year
or two c how ur feelings r. We r what we r and
shouldn't label ourselves but we and others do.
Just make friends and enjoy urself.

jamie_n5
October 27th, 2016, 05:32 PM
You are young but I knew I was gay for sure at 12. The way that you explained yourself and your feelings I would have to say that you are gay. Gay guys like girls too as friends and like hanging out with them too. We gay guys just aren't interested in them sexually or romantically.