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October 22nd, 2016, 11:30 PM
I just came back from a party(i am a introvert person,so i dont really like parties), and i feel so lost ,because i feel very diferent from the others teenagers, i dont like dancing and smocking, and the girls dont talk to me at all , they are just searching for something that is not me , i cant understand anything and nobody, i am just lost, is it wrong to hate parties, hate loud eletronic music or hate big crowds of people, i am just sad that nobody cares , Why girls of my age ( i am 17 btw) cant understand me , why cant i feel save and happy , Why must i struggle alone , seeing teenagers that only care about making out if everybody, and being populars. I need help, or my head is Going to explode

Just JT
October 23rd, 2016, 12:13 AM
I get the alone feeling. That's huge, but for me, when I feel that way I ask myself I feel the way. I know that sounds stupid, but sometimes the reality. Ands answers wer looking fort are to obvious.
Maybe you just haven't found the right croud of people to chill with
I hate crowds and loud volumes to.-
Prefer open space quiet water flow wind blowing birds singing kinda stuff
Relaxes me

October 23rd, 2016, 07:39 PM
I don't think there is anything wrong with you. I don't particularly like loud blasting music and large parties either. I will go to them for a while but don't usually stay real long. I enjoy quieter parties where you can actually talk and interact with other people. You may become more outgoing and less shy the older you get too. Time will tell. Just keep trying to be with others though. Don't withdraw from public happenings.