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bfldworker
September 20th, 2016, 05:13 PM
I need to take my mind off of something so I have a question.

When did you truly know you were gay, bi, asexual, etc???

drhalsey1
September 20th, 2016, 05:58 PM
Realized I might be at 11, figured out I was surely gay at 12

SethfromMI
September 20th, 2016, 06:11 PM
I guess I realized/came to terms with being bi around 12 or so

Hideous
September 20th, 2016, 06:14 PM
I would say my freshmen year of highschool.

Sean4U
September 20th, 2016, 07:10 PM
Around 10 I also knew I was different and attracted to other guys. But I knew when I was 11 that I was gay, totally into boys.

Collins1
September 20th, 2016, 07:11 PM
Last year I realised I was bisexual when I went out with my bestfriend's ex-girlfriend and he (my bestfriend) started ignoring me after that. It took me a few months of crying nearly every night to realise that I care so much because I loved him.

AmyUK
September 21st, 2016, 01:46 AM
I guess when I was around 12-13 I realised properly that I was bi.

Melodic
September 21st, 2016, 05:01 AM
I was in denial that I was bisexual throughout middle school up until my senior year. I did have a couple of crushes on girls but I kept pushing it away as loneliness or confusion. I finally accepted my sexuality in 2015.

Bull
September 21st, 2016, 05:27 AM
When I was 17 a friendship turned into more when out of the blue he kissed me and I kissed him back. It was nice. I accept that sexuality can take me in both male and female relationships.

Babs
September 22nd, 2016, 09:23 PM
I first pondered the idea at around 12, and I knew for sure that I wasn't straight when I was around 14 or 15.

davdev17
September 22nd, 2016, 10:08 PM
I think I knew when I was 10 or 11 and kinda started wondering when I was like 8

Brightwolf
September 22nd, 2016, 10:14 PM
I need to take my mind off of something so I have a question.

When did you truly know you were gay, bi, asexual, etc???

I can tell you the exact date: January 30 2014. I'm bi. I think

pjones
September 23rd, 2016, 07:20 PM
i was 14. when i told my best friend we shouldn't be boy friends i went home and cried for hours. he came over the next day to give me a hug and it was the best day of my life,

jamie_n5
September 24th, 2016, 07:48 PM
I knew that I was definitely gay between 11-12.

damon_fl
September 25th, 2016, 10:07 PM
i thot it since i was 10 bu i never told someone til i was 12 n thats when it rlly felt like i knew.
its weird but after i told some friends, lil bro n my cusin n they were cool thn if felt like it was right for me

NoahNoah
September 25th, 2016, 10:32 PM
When i realised that I was interested in both boys and girls, where as most boys only ever talked about girls.

LITTLEANGEL17
September 25th, 2016, 10:40 PM
Have been interested in Girls most of my life, and now it's Girls only :yes:

SeansLittleBro
October 16th, 2016, 01:20 PM
I still haven't tbh i believe i'm bi maybe leaning toward gay very interested in boys in an emotional way especially a friend of mine time will tell

steellord321
October 23rd, 2016, 08:54 PM
Realized I might be at 11, figured out I was surely gay at 12

wow, same for me. Had my first crush at almost 12 at summer camp but it was short so i just ignored. Soon had a crush on my friend i spent a lot of time with. The rest of that summer i was like why do i feel this way when this guy's around and can't stop thinking of him when he's not, even dreams? But again, just one guy...

School starts in the fall and i'm around a lot more people. Just looked around class one day and realized i like several guys but none of the girls, so i must be gay

orangeyes
October 25th, 2016, 09:21 PM
I always knew I had more interest in boys since I was a kid, and eventually denied it in 6th grade and in 8th grade I started accepting myself the way I am. I'm proud to be gay!

pastel
October 25th, 2016, 09:30 PM
i had broken up with a 'girlfriend' i had when i was like 14 (lol) and realized nuh-uh not all for the lady parts and everything they have to offer so i realized i was actually gay. at the time i was bisexual and kinda scoping around both genders

MaeFae
October 26th, 2016, 03:50 PM
I didn't know the term at the time, but around 12 is when I started looking at other girls.

jdhud024
November 2nd, 2016, 11:22 PM
Early this year. I was 15. Began sucking dick at like 13. After sucking 5 dicks, I figured I might be. Now that I have my second boyfriend I probably am. I'm 16 now lol

loki2000
November 5th, 2016, 07:34 AM
Around 9-10 I knew I was attracted to boys..but not until 12 when I figured out I was gay for sure

Zachary G
November 11th, 2016, 06:59 PM
I kinda knew I always liked boys and came out to my parents when I was 10. I didnt really know what gay was until I was like 12 and then it all made sense to me

PandaLeah
November 21st, 2016, 11:27 AM
I need to take my mind off of something so I have a question.

When did you truly know you were gay, bi, asexual, etc???

I think I first realized it when I was 10 or 11

didn't come out until I was 13 though

kyrocks03
November 21st, 2016, 05:19 PM
I knew for certain when I was 12 but started questioning things at 10 when I was interested in other boys and disinterested in girls like my friends were starting to become.

PandaLeah
November 24th, 2016, 11:58 AM
I need to take my mind off of something so I have a question.

When did you truly know you were gay, bi, asexual, etc???

I think I first knew it when I was 11... but didn't come out until I was 13

Lucky enough my older sister had come out a few years prior so it wasn't as hard for me.

Just JT
December 16th, 2016, 02:50 PM
I think I always knew in some way. I just liked boys that way as far back as I remember. And my closest bros we explored from a young age and stuff and it just seemed natural for me.

DoodleSnap
December 20th, 2016, 07:47 PM
I think that I first realised at 13, and I came out to my mother in 2015, and my father and sister this year.

mick01
December 21st, 2016, 10:35 AM
I think I was about 10 when I knew my feelings for boys were different. Then when I was 12 I started to give blow jobs to an older neighborhood boy and I liked doing it. Still do.

Sanoj
December 22nd, 2016, 12:49 PM
I realized it when I was looking for the boys on the beach ^^ i think I was 13 ^^

Sanoj
December 22nd, 2016, 12:51 PM
Then when I was 12 I started to give blow jobs to an older neighborhood boy and I liked doing it. Still do.

Lucky you :D how old was he and how are you now? ^^

mick01
December 22nd, 2016, 01:08 PM
Lucky you :D how old was he and how are you now? ^^

I was 12 and he was 15 so now he's 18 and I'm 15.

matshorter
December 23rd, 2016, 05:25 PM
I started to think about it when I was 12 and realized it with 14.

auser_name
December 23rd, 2016, 09:08 PM
I discovered I was gay after a dare between a group of friends. it was stupid but good fun. I kissed this boy, which was the extent of the dare, but after the game had finished we decided to experiment further. not full but enough. I liked it and continued he however did not and decided women were better. All this at the late age of 16

KBar33
December 26th, 2016, 01:54 AM
Ever since I started puberty I had feelings for boys. It wasn't until much later on that I started developing emotional feelings for boys as well. I always denied this part of myself for the vast majority of puberty/school. It honestly wasn't until I was 15 that I finally accepted myself as bi. I knew that I wasn't straight because I liked boys, and I knew I wasn't gay because I liked girls too. I was really confused for a super long time, I finally discovered the term bisexual when I was 14, thought about it for a long time and accepted myself when I was 15.

bougainvillea
December 26th, 2016, 09:58 AM
Pondered it but denied it about 2 years back. Only accepted it within the last couple of weeks.

LiamC
December 27th, 2016, 11:59 PM
About 10 I was noticing guys feet and bulges and bodies on Big Brother I remember lol, and that was the first time I really thought anything sexual about anyone. I never really thought of being gay until about 14 though, when I was properly growing up and realising things about my feelings and coming to terms with who I was. I didn't really "want" to be gay so even to myself I lied that I was bi until then, and I didn't come out to most people until I was 16. But in short, about 13 or 14 I just thought nah I don't like girls at all, I am deffo gay.

SethTheGreat
December 28th, 2016, 12:46 AM
For me, I think I was when I started noticing that all my friends were having girlfriends and I didn't want to girlfriend but I was looking at the guys and I was gonna getting jealous of guys getting girlfriends. Then we learned about all the sexual relations and stuff like that in school And that's when I realized I liked guys more than girls. So I guess when I first realized it is when all my friends started liking girls and I didn't.

Miss Ophelia
January 4th, 2017, 05:18 PM
I was about 12 when I realised that girls attracted me more than guys did.