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Onlyfaith
February 19th, 2016, 08:32 AM
Hello... yesterday I made my first cut... a small cut but... you know I've got a lot of problems and noone to talk too... what to do now? Stupod question I know and I'm stupid but...

Let Me Be a Pony
February 19th, 2016, 10:29 AM
Grab a cup of warm tea, look at the tea and realize that your body is like that tea - if it's mistreated then its warm charm will cease.
You can either continue and have scars, and when the summer begins,you'd be having a pretty hard time keeping this a secret from people. Then there's the scars - some won't heal. You'll be dragging unwanted attention on yourself.
Or you can stop and realize that this does more harm in the long term.
If you're frustrated and trying to go past a blockade of negative emotions, you can always find alternatives. Music, drawing, singing helps for some; hobbies and activities are a good way to steer frustration away.

Fiction
February 22nd, 2016, 04:18 PM
I joined this site, over 6 years ago, having just done my first cuts. You can stop now, or you can live the rest of your life with scars. When I say the rest of your life, I mean you really will have to dal with them long after you want them to be there. I'm 20 and still have parts of my body I can't show. When I was 14 and first started self-hamr I never thought that would happen, but here I am.

But I remember people leaving posts like this on my threads, and thinking it'd never be me. Don't make the mistake I did. It will be you if you carry on.

Doc. Maestro
February 28th, 2016, 12:23 AM
Stop while you can, please. Know that you're important, that you're worth whatever effort is put into staying safe. If you cut now, it will get addictive, and once that happens the scars will start to come out, and you'll have to live with your decisions. You can't shake it, so please, stop. People care about you, don't do it

federica
February 29th, 2016, 01:39 PM
Hello... yesterday I made my first cut... a small cut but... you know I've got a lot of problems and noone to talk too... what to do now? Stupod question I know and I'm stupid but...

cuting yourself?? why are you doing that?

Vermilion
February 29th, 2016, 01:44 PM
You need to talk about what's bother you. I'm happy to talk and help if I can even if it's just listening

benlodge123
March 4th, 2016, 12:40 PM
cuting yourself?? why are you doing that?
People do it as a way of getting their feelings out

alexgirl01
March 9th, 2016, 06:50 PM
i encourage you to talk about it! youve already made the first step here but it would be best to talk to a close friend. it's very common dont think theres anything wrong with you.

Cristina15
March 15th, 2016, 04:57 PM
Hello... yesterday I made my first cut... a small cut but... you know I've got a lot of problems and noone to talk too... what to do now? Stupod question I know and I'm stupid but...

omg! why did you do that? I really do not understand

thatgothgirluknow
March 15th, 2016, 08:59 PM
find some new hobbies make a list of things you like about yourself and know that you need to stop now because the cuts will not stay small forever and if you continue it will not be easy to stop later make some friends on here talk with them heck if you need to msg me cutting is not worth it in fact it will make you even more emotionally unstable

anna_2016
March 19th, 2016, 09:37 PM
I cut in 6th and 7th grade. I was mad at everyone and everything, thinking everyone was against me. I quit gymnastics so I wouldn't show, that made me more mad and cut more. During the summer i told my parents. July 5th was my last time. I went to a rehab place for 3 weeks and still go to a consular once a week. I started gymnastics again this winter. I don't have a scar for every cut but still have lots. It's kinda tough to tell people what they are from when they ask

Double post merged. Please use the 'edit' button next time. - Abhorrence.

Onlyfaith
March 28th, 2016, 04:44 PM
Hello everyone! First of all I am soooo sorry for the late reply! Thank you all for your answers! I would really love to talk to someone cause my life is a f*cking mess right now! Whoever wanna send or something, I'll try contact with the one or the other way

Irishperson15
March 28th, 2016, 06:28 PM
Hello... yesterday I made my first cut... a small cut but... you know I've got a lot of problems and noone to talk too... what to do now? Stupod question I know and I'm stupid but...

Who said you're stupid? You. Nobody else. Don't listen to that voice inside your head that tells you to demean yourself. It gets a kick out of you thinking less of yourself. Do you want to give it the satisfaction of bringing you down? As for the cuts, your body is beautiful. We are all unique and beautiful on our own special way, why would you give in to this demon that tells you to hurt yourself? That will not make you feel better. The pain is temporary. It isn't worth it. Why out yourself through that? Find a friend to talk to, or post on here if you think it helps. Even write down your problem on a piece of paper and bin it (recycle it, obviously). Get rid of it. You don't need any problems. You have your life to live. Stay positive :)

romes3
April 10th, 2016, 03:15 PM
Hello... yesterday I made my first cut... a small cut but... you know I've got a lot of problems and noone to talk too... what to do now? Stupod question I know and I'm stupid but...

Talk about your problems. You are worth so much, and as some one who self harms and is trying to stop, I can tell you that it's not worth it. I'm always around if you need someone to talk to :)

Scylla
June 5th, 2016, 01:44 AM
Whenever you feel upset and have a need to cut either just try to sleep or rant on here. You arent stupid at all, I also go through stuff like this.. If u need to rant just make a post on this site... Im sure lots of us would love to help you

FuTo
June 5th, 2016, 01:55 AM
Awww I'm sorry to hear that. If you need someone to vent to or talk to just send me a message. Sometimes talking about your feelings can help so if u ever feel the need you know where I am :3