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Aivis371LV
November 16th, 2015, 06:33 AM
So i feel there is something in me what everyone else don't like in me.
I made small research about things. And i am Aquarius and i personaly hate (and suffer) taurus(they are anoying) scorpio(they boss me like fool) leo(they think they know everything but they don't know shit as mutch as me) libra(anoying fuckers who don't think about future) Capricorn is ok and my closest friend is gemini and when he meat other friends then i am in dust and i am alone. I'm ok with that.
Generally i hate people. But there is some good people.. Maybe.
I am in charge of this or this is others fault??
I feel like i need to be like Sociopath. No morals and respect to others. And more.. That is better than this shit.
Sorry rude words

Bontigo Papi .
November 16th, 2015, 07:41 AM
Hey, don't worry what people think about you and shit, you know you're a good person.

Find yourself some good friends, its not that difficult, and fuck that bullshit to the side. Stay possitive and you won't have to worry about anything.

Aivis371LV
November 16th, 2015, 08:30 AM
Hey, don't worry what people think about you and shit, you know you're a good person.

Find yourself some good friends, its not that difficult, and fuck that bullshit to the side. Stay possitive and you won't have to worry about anything.

Ok. I'll try

Bontigo Papi .
November 16th, 2015, 08:35 AM
Ok. I'll try

Don't try ... Just do it .

MarisWonder
November 16th, 2015, 10:10 AM
Trust me; your star sign has nothing to do with your interaction with people.

Some people just do not click, and that's okay! No one you ever meet is going to be a perfect match for you- having arguments and disagreements is a healthy part of a relationship. You won't always get along, but you cannot focus on what you don't like in a person otherwise you won't ever find a friend!

It may be hard but you have to look for the things you do like in a person and judge them off that first. If the good outweigh the bad- you could be friends.

Aivis371LV
November 16th, 2015, 11:54 AM
Trust me; your star sign has nothing to do with your interaction with people.

Some people just do not click, and that's okay! No one you ever meet is going to be a perfect match for you- having arguments and disagreements is a healthy part of a relationship. You won't always get along, but you cannot focus on what you don't like in a person otherwise you won't ever find a friend!

It may be hard but you have to look for the things you do like in a person and judge them off that first. If the good outweigh the bad- you could be friends.

Ok. But i start to feel i need changes. And if i make changes then drastically. Not small steps.
A lot of people disagree in conversations and i am tired of saying they are idiots.
Even small conversations like Latvia's birthday. They enjoy living in Latvia and are happy here.. I am not. I hate latvia and i want to get out of here.
And in plain conversation. They say i am idiot about that i use Linux instead Windows or Mac(Mac's suck.. Sorry:D) even they use Linux in phones every day(Android and probably Symbian)
I know i am unpleasant human.. But it all get's two heavy sometimes and i do stupid things and i am clean 0 days:| my hand nails hurt's when i touch them and i have shame on me when i have to help someone with some work, because my fingers is not in good shape and i don't show them publicaly.
Sorry about my this mess..:D and bad grammar

MarisWonder
November 16th, 2015, 12:00 PM
Ok. But i start to feel i need changes. And if i make changes then drastically. Not small steps.
A lot of people disagree in conversations and i am tired of saying they are idiots.
Even small conversations like Latvia's birthday. They enjoy living in Latvia and are happy here.. I am not. I hate latvia and i want to get out of here.
And in plain conversation. They say i am idiot about that i use Linux instead Windows or Mac(Mac's suck.. Sorry:D) even they use Linux in phones every day(Android and probably Symbian)
I know i am unpleasant human.. But it all get's two heavy sometimes and i do stupid things and i am clean 0 days:| my hand nails hurt's when i touch them and i have shame on me when i have to help someone with some work, because my fingers is not in good shape and i don't show them publicaly.
Sorry about my this mess..:D and bad grammar

Lol it is ok that you do not agree with people! No one agrees with everything!

If you do not like Latvia, that's ok. But it is not okay to tell people they are wrong or stupid for liking it....the same way you do not like being called names for using a Linux, they don't want to be called names for liking Latvia.

When you want to make changes, you should talk to people and get their opinions first. If you're doing group work or something, you definitely need to ask because it cannot always be what you want. Working together is about compromise.

For your nails, I don't understand what you are trying to say.

Just JT
November 16th, 2015, 12:05 PM
You probably don't have a choice about where you live atm cause of your age, so make the best of it for now
When your older, you can make the changes you want/need
But I'd make smaller, baby steps in changes, in a direction you wana go in
Make a goal, then identify all the stuff you need to accomplish to make that goal a reality
When talking to people, maybe don't be so open about your feeling till you know them better. Then let your feeling out more, little by little, so your not targeted

Just take it easy, relax, keep your head up, your a good person ok?

Aivis371LV
November 16th, 2015, 12:09 PM
Lol it is ok that you do not agree with people! No one agrees with everything!

If you do not like Latvia, that's ok. But it is not okay to tell people they are wrong or stupid for liking it....the same way you do not like being called names for using a Linux, they don't want to be called names for liking Latvia.

When you want to make changes, you should talk to people and get their opinions first. If you're doing group work or something, you definitely need to ask because it cannot always be what you want. Working together is about compromise.

For your nails, I don't understand what you are trying to say.

About nails..f*** it is kinda a self harm. When i feel stressed or some other bad emotions i bite them and it hurts and make me feel better for a period of time.
And i don't like group work. I work alone. I don't want to be stabed in back or anyone leak information.
Opinions from my cat and dog? :D i don't want to envolve parrents or other people

CosmicNoodle
November 16th, 2015, 12:30 PM
Chuunibyou

Chances are if no one likes you, there's a damn good reason, just in the few words you said you've come across as a narcissistic fool, in only 7 lines you managed to insult most people stupid enough to believe the month they where born affects their personality.

You are going to cringe so fucking hard at your current self in a few years. I suggest you look at yourself, figure out what it is about you people don't like, there appears to be a lot.

Just JT
November 16th, 2015, 12:45 PM
Chuunibyou

Chances are if no one likes you, there's a damn good reason, just in the few words you said you've come across as a narcissistic fool, in only 7 lines you managed to insult most people stupid enough to believe the month they where born affects their personality.

You are going to cringe so fucking hard at your current self in a few years. I suggest you look at yourself, figure out what it is about you people don't like, there appears to be a lot.


Hey, pretty sure we've crossed paths in the past....gota say, tbh, I agree, just wasn't thinking of being so abrupt about it, but hey, then again, why sugar coat something right?

Aivis371LV
November 16th, 2015, 01:23 PM
Ok. I guess i have to f*** around with my mind and change it. I don't know how i will change it.. There is only one way..

MarisWonder
November 16th, 2015, 01:30 PM
About nails..f*** it is kinda a self harm. When i feel stressed or some other bad emotions i bite them and it hurts and make me feel better for a period of time.
And i don't like group work. I work alone. I don't want to be stabed in back or anyone leak information.
Opinions from my cat and dog? :D i don't want to envolve parrents or other people

Well you cannot expect anyone to like you if you don't want to work with people. The same way you want things to go your way, everyone else has something they want too. Part of having a healthy relationship with someone is compromising. Especially with parents.

Just JT
November 16th, 2015, 01:36 PM
Ok. I guess i have to f*** around with my mind and change it. I don't know how i will change it.. There is only one way..

There is always more than one way to do something, so don't limit how you look at something, be open

And like the previous poster said, it's a give and take, not all about what you want in a relationship, any kind of relationship really

It's a matter of how much are you willing to give, and how much you value the relationship

Aivis371LV
November 16th, 2015, 03:14 PM
There is always more than one way to do something, so don't limit how you look at something, be open

And like the previous poster said, it's a give and take, not all about what you want in a relationship, any kind of relationship really

It's a matter of how much are you willing to give, and how much you value the relationship

If i someone make relationship with me i'll try to stay in control and don't act.. But what i think about friendship value is low. I don't think there is real friendship and that BFF thing is complete bulls***. I will better live alone than fake friendship. The wasted time isn't worth it and not everyone agrees and that is fine two..becouse anyone else have their own rights and i respect that.

Just JT
November 16th, 2015, 04:15 PM
You have a right to live in any way you see fit, what ever makes you happy, but tbh, your opinion of friendship, is pretty out there ok?

To have a real, and true friend, is work, something you put effort in. To say it has little or no value, is like, then why are you even making this thread then?

CosmicNoodle
November 17th, 2015, 12:20 PM
Hey, pretty sure we've crossed paths in the past....gota say, tbh, I agree, just wasn't thinking of being so abrupt about it, but hey, then again, why sugar coat something right?

I refuse to fuck about and nanny to narcissistic idiots, so many people his age (I presume young teen) have a god complex.

You think that about friends because you don't have any. go out an socialise and stop thinking you're better than everyone else and you'll realise you're acting like a total fool, and I have no doubt everyone here is cringing at you. The way you're acting isn't cool, it's not bad ass, you're just digging yourself deeper.

Just JT
November 17th, 2015, 12:26 PM
I refuse to fuck about and nanny to narcissistic idiots, so many people his age (I presume young teen) have a god complex.

You think that about friends because you don't have any. go out an socialise and stop thinking you're better than everyone else and you'll realise you're acting like a total fool, and I have no doubt everyone here is cringing at you. The way you're acting isn't cool, it's not bad ass, you're just digging yourself deeper.


I'm guna assume your talking to me as you quoted me, but tbh, your not making any sense here, cause I don't have any way of thinking about me friends, have plenty, socialize plenty also.....so wtf dude???

CosmicNoodle
November 17th, 2015, 12:29 PM
I'm guna assume your talking to me as you quoted me, but tbh, your not making any sense here, cause I don't have any way of thinking about me friends, have plenty, socialize plenty also.....so wtf dude???

........no, I'm not talking about you, the guy making the thread, why would I randomly insult you?

Just JT
November 17th, 2015, 12:31 PM
........no, I'm not talking about you, the guy making the thread, why would I randomly insult you?

Ok, cool, I misunderstood, you quoted me so I thought you were talking to me
But ok, that's cool

CosmicNoodle
November 17th, 2015, 12:33 PM
Ok, cool, I misunderstood, you quoted me so I thought you were talking to me
But ok, that's cool

Notice the large gap... -_-

Pat the Bunny
November 17th, 2015, 02:34 PM
Generally i hate people. But there is some good people.. Maybe.
I am in charge of this or this is others fault??


People generally don't like people who hate them