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girlswannahavefun
October 24th, 2015, 12:27 AM
Would you have sex with a boy around 20? Dont know what i should do :(

NZPerson
October 24th, 2015, 03:28 AM
IMO that age gap is too big. And theoretically rape because he is consenting and yo legally cant.

Kuroshiro
October 24th, 2015, 12:37 PM
IMO that age gap is too big. And theoretically rape because he is consenting and yo legally cant.

I don't understand how you think would be rape as the age of concent in both Germany (her county) and New Zeland (your country) is 16 (according to Wikipedia so I could be wrong)

It is perfectly OK legally, however I personally wouldn't be comfortable with the age difference.

NZPerson
October 24th, 2015, 02:32 PM
I don't understand how you think would be rape as the age of concent in both Germany (her county) and New Zeland (your country) is 16 (according to Wikipedia so I could be wrong)

It is perfectly OK legally, however I personally wouldn't be comfortable with the age difference.

Indeed you are correct yet due to the cast majority of americans on this forum i tend to change my answers for them its just habbit

Cadanance00
October 24th, 2015, 02:43 PM
You're above the age of consent. It's your call. If you want to date him go for it.

Taryn98
October 24th, 2015, 03:09 PM
I don't think that age difference is a big deal.

Cadanance00
October 24th, 2015, 03:20 PM
I don't think that age difference is a big deal.

I agree. Girls tend to be more mature anyway so they're probably a fair match.

imjenna
October 24th, 2015, 04:47 PM
4 years is not big at all girl enjoy yourself

Daily
October 24th, 2015, 05:56 PM
Yeah they would. Like how 12 year old girls think their 16y/o boyfriends really love them but they're 4 years older.

Falcons_11
October 25th, 2015, 12:26 PM
Where I live in USA that would be called rape no matter if you all both consented. Just don't get caught doing it.

NCronter99
October 25th, 2015, 12:34 PM
No that's illegal. If I was say 18 and the guy was 22 then yes that'd be ok. Four year difference isn't bad as long as it's legal. My parents are 5 years apart, so there's no problem there

AutumnWinds
October 26th, 2015, 03:09 AM
Would you have sex with a boy around 20? Dont know what i should do :(

i think in general a lot more than age comes into play when most girls decide if they're going to have sex with someone.

do you WANT to have sex with this person? if so why? why do you think it might not be a great idea?

if not there;s your answer on if you should or not. :cool:

kryptonite
October 26th, 2015, 06:41 PM
I'd say if it's ok with both sets of parents, why not?

Daily
October 27th, 2015, 05:34 PM
Its like giving a retarded kid a shiny looking lollipop. He doesn't know nor cares if its poisonous.

playfull-qt
October 28th, 2015, 11:15 PM
i think in general a lot more than age comes into play when most girls decide if they're going to have sex with someone.

do you WANT to have sex with this person? if so why? why do you think it might not be a great idea?

if not there;s your answer on if you should or not. :cool:

I agree 100%

PinkFloyd
October 28th, 2015, 11:18 PM
IMO that age gap is too big. And theoretically rape because he is consenting and yo legally cant.

^This. The age gap is too much and the guy would get tried for first degree sexual assault, the worst of the five degrees of sexual assault.

xcherriesncreamx
October 29th, 2015, 12:40 AM
To me age is just a number but really think about every angle before you do it

kryptonite
November 11th, 2015, 05:50 PM
No that's illegal. If I was say 18 and the guy was 22 then yes that'd be ok. Four year difference isn't bad as long as it's legal. My parents are 5 years apart, so there's no problem there


If your parents were ten years apart, it'd be ok because they're both over 18.

deepthroat_tacos
November 11th, 2015, 06:44 PM
If you like the guy then go for it!! I have done larger age differences and their age came with experience which was amazing.

girlswannahavefun
November 11th, 2015, 07:20 PM
Thanks for all your Replies ! It happened Yesterday and I am happy about it:wub:

dinap
November 11th, 2015, 08:02 PM
I would if I knew the guy and liked him. It all depends on the person

Ashwells9991
November 11th, 2015, 08:59 PM
i think its fine, up to you though

KellyNC
November 11th, 2015, 11:19 PM
It's been a few years but honestly, so long as neither of you are going to get into any legal trouble, I think you're old enough make that decision. I personally wouldn't have any qualms about age if I were still 16 though.

CupcakeLuv101
November 12th, 2015, 09:55 PM
I would definitely say no. In some places this can be considered "rape" because you are still under the legal age.

I myself am turning 16 in a couple weeks, not planning on losing my virginity anytime soon

cherylcherylX2
November 13th, 2015, 01:24 AM
Hmmm this may be better Private messaged

Smc711
November 14th, 2015, 09:48 AM
just an fyi, most places in the united states it is legal to consent at 16, other s 17, and very few are 18. I dont know why everyone assumes that the age of consent is always related to being a minor. i personaly dont know how I feel about the age gap, if he is a good person, go for it. also to clear up another misconception, it is always legal to date whomever you want, the only gray areas come to sex and sex acts. so check your local laws and make sure what you legally can and cant do. you would be surprised.

Shiny Moon
November 14th, 2015, 02:18 PM
Well, I'm 15 right now and recently I've been with a boy 4 years older, so I don't think 20 YO would be a problem.

GryffindorGirl
November 15th, 2015, 08:19 PM
My parents are like 4 years apart and they dated when they were younger, so it could work out. I guess it just depends on the guy.

AutumnWinds
November 19th, 2015, 03:26 PM
i'm glad to see it worked out well for you hunnii :)

Jordan99
November 22nd, 2015, 12:47 PM
I don't think that age difference is a big deal.

I agree. 4 years is no big deal and where I am, 16 is the age of consent anyway so there is no legal element here. Besides, we girls tend to mature faster than boys around this age so I think a four year age gap is just about right. I've been with my BF for a while now and he is only one year older than I am but if we weren't together, I wouldn't rule out a 20 year old because he's 3 to 4 years older.

Jordan99
November 22nd, 2015, 12:51 PM
Thanks for all your Replies ! It happened Yesterday and I am happy about it:wub:

Congratulations!

Maria16 Here
January 1st, 2016, 01:50 PM
Thanks for all your Replies ! It happened Yesterday and I am happy about it:wub:

Thats great

Exotic Babe
January 1st, 2016, 02:00 PM
Yeah they would. Like how 12 year old girls think their 16y/o boyfriends really love them but they're 4 years older.

I wouldn't compare relationships between a 12 and a 16 y/o and a 16 and a 20 y/o. Most people become much more mature in 4 years lol.