What do I do???

[billwill]

so i recently met a girl and realized i'm in love with her. although, i have 3 problems.1- we dont go to the same school.2- i dont know if she has a boyfriend.3- i barely see her maybe twice a month but i chat with her online and i have her myspace. what can i do or say so she feels the same way i feel for her(so she will like me too)??

[Patchy]

well if u will hardly see her its best to get to know her really well before you ask her out.

[goin to work]

dude nice just talk to her more and show her ur a nice guy

[ScotsGirl]

Solutions:
1- you dont spend every waking moment in school, theres plenty of time after school and at weekends to see her.
2- ask her. During the conversation, maybe start by talking about real things before you ask her straight out. Not small talk. I mean, things that you wouldnt usually tell just anyone;). Just so she doesnt just think youre asking because you want to ask her out...
3- carry on chatting to her and maybe arrange to hang out with her more than a couple of times a month. (Also, refer to no.1)

Just get to know her. Hang out and of course, have fun :D
xxx

[billwill]

how do i find out if she has a boyfriend?

[Echelon]

Easiest way to do it is just drop the question into a conversation somewhere. Doesnt sound as odd as you might think, especially if you do it over IM. As for not going to the same school and not seeing her often, you just need to arrange to meet up more often. You'll want to do that before you ask her out, so she feels comfortable around you. Also remember to ask her in person, not over IM, phone etc.

[billwill]

what can i ask to find out if she has a boyfriend? wouldn't it be awkward just to ask if she has a boyfriend? besides, i don't even know if she likes me back.

[0=]

I really doubt you actually love this person if they're not even a close friend yet. Just get to know her a bit and don't try to be too hasty.

[Octo22]

I really doubt you actually love this person if they're not even a close friend yet. Just get to know her a bit and don't try to be too hasty.

Stole my post.

You're infatuated, not in love. You love the ideal you see her as. Get to know her as a MUCH closer friend, you may just pick up on some faults you don't like. Take off the rose-coloured glasses. Get to know her.

And caring about the boyfriend part before getting to know her better is almost a sign of disrespect. If you can't date her you don't care for her?

Simplest way to bring it up, is to just let a conversation slide that.

You: Ugh this girl keeps hitting on me, but I'm completely not interested!

followed shortly after by a: you got this at all? or do you have a boyfriend to ward them off :P

Something like that, (not that exact) just drop it in there.