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Brian117
November 30th, 2007, 04:38 PM
First Id like to say, Im a fat ugly creature...oh phew, had to get that out into the world...


Here goes, When I was born in 1991, my dad and mom got devorced when i was only 2 years old, I really never had a dad around me (except when they decided he had to see his kids every weekend), i grew up with my mom, older sister, and older brother. Through my life i was always alone, by myself, my mom worked most the time, sister was at college, brother hates me to death, my (vulgar word) dad was never around (which i pray to God about because hes a very immature man....VERY!) All throughout middle school i was harassed, and tortured by bullies everyday, I try and tell my mom about them and she sometimes called me off of school and talked to the prinicpal on occasions, in 7th grade ive been gained a little weight, which i got made fun of, i even got made fun of by 3rd graders, in 8th grade i started hanging with girls which I also got made fun of, after dealing with them, I decided to turn Bi,at age 13 ive noticed i was getting mad, and sad alot, so i decided i was going into depression,Growing up without a dad i think made me Bi also, i never had a man figure around me my whole life. Starting recently, my dad started trying to come back into our lives, he always calls my mom and asks for money, and she sucks up to him saying yes, (which pisses me off because he brings over a 6 pack of beer and drinks about 5, and ciggerates everyday he comes over here) so God knows what the money my mom gives him goes to. Recently he got caught doing drugs in the parking lot of Home Depot, my stupid sister and brother bailed him out, (btw, my sister and brother are close to him, while i try to stay away) so im basically alone in this fight to stay away from him. I tell my mom I dont like him, and all she says back "Well brian, you just need to deal with it your whole life" I cry everytime she says that to me because no-one in my family knows how i feel about having him over.

Now onto my brother,...well my brother really never cared about having me around, most brothers would love to have a little brother, i never had anyone to play with my WHOLE life, everytime i say "Hi" to him or "Good morning" he just ignores me and keeps walking, when ever i do something that gets on his nerves, he throws a shoe at me or hits me so hard i get a bruise. Really not much to say about him except i hope he passes away.

Now onto my sister, my sister is really pretty cool, she talks to me, but RARELY plays with me, shes to busy with work and school now. and she can get really annoying sometimes.

My mom i feel closer to then anyone in the family, but latly shes been getting really angry at me, I do so much for her you dont understand, i do the dishes everyday, i make her bed before she comes home from work, i make her breakfast, sometimes lunch when she wants it, and then dinner, but shes pretty cool occasionally.


Now onto my life, Im now 16, i live in a (vulgar word) ghetto nighborhood with a drug house right across the street, cars blaring thier music every single minuet, i get homedschool because the highschool by me is reallllly bad, im in a depressed situation right now....im a fat lazy stupid kid that doesnt know crap about anything, i cant even look in a mirror at myself because i feel so bad about hurting the people around me and how they have to deal with a creture by thier side. Ive tried cutting my self before but i cant do it, every single day is like a accident waiting to happen before me, i have no social life, i hate talking to new people, meeting new people, being around teenagers, being around anyone actally, i have no fricking bedroom because no one gives a damn about me, i sleep on the damn floor in the living room, im embarressed to tell anyone anything about me, i sit somedays when im alone thinking about a better life i could have had if my mom never married my dad. I sit and thank god for the wonderfull life he gave me(NOT), i pray to him mostly every night asking for help in my life, he doesnt give a crap about me at all!! :mad: I weight like 210 lbs right now, because of me being depressed........OK I AM NOW FINISHED, THERE IS WAY MORE TO TELL YOU BUT I CANNOT PUT IT INTO WORDS. PLEASE SOMEONE KILL ME. :)


Wow, this post made no sense, hopefully someone can relate to it, its randomly worded. Please dont post anything like "You need help" or other crap, please be understanding and leave nice posts.

thesphinx
November 30th, 2007, 05:24 PM
First of all I'm not sure I can relate because I am not in your situation. but I can offer you some comfort and advice, It seems that you don't have anyone to talk to about what your going through? Everyone needs to have someone they can talk to. and if I were you I would make it very clear that you don't like your dad around you. if you dad is causing you problems then he is not worth being in your life.

It also sounds like you don't have anything to do in the day. do you have any hobbies or anything? maybe a sport or something? if not I encourage you to try something of that sort.

If you ever need to talk to me feel free.
Hang in there :hug2:

Watcher of the Skies
November 30th, 2007, 07:52 PM
First Id like to say, Im a fat ugly creature...oh phew, had to get that out into the world...


Here goes, When I was born in 1991, my dad and mom got devorced when i was only 2 years old, I really never had a dad around me (except when they decided he had to see his kids every weekend), i grew up with my mom, older sister, and older brother. Through my life i was always alone, by myself, my mom worked most the time, sister was at college, brother hates me to death, my (vulgar word) dad was never around (which i pray to God about because hes a very immature man....VERY!) All throughout middle school i was harassed, and tortured by bullies everyday, I try and tell my mom about them and she sometimes called me off of school and talked to the prinicpal on occasions, in 7th grade ive been gained a little weight, which i got made fun of, i even got made fun of by 3rd graders, in 8th grade i started hanging with girls which I also got made fun of, after dealing with them, I decided to turn Bi,at age 13 ive noticed i was getting mad, and sad alot, so i decided i was going into depression,Growing up without a dad i think made me Bi also, i never had a man figure around me my whole life. Starting recently, my dad started trying to come back into our lives, he always calls my mom and asks for money, and she sucks up to him saying yes, (which pisses me off because he brings over a 6 pack of beer and drinks about 5, and ciggerates everyday he comes over here) so God knows what the money my mom gives him goes to. Recently he got caught doing drugs in the parking lot of Home Depot, my stupid sister and brother bailed him out, (btw, my sister and brother are close to him, while i try to stay away) so im basically alone in this fight to stay away from him. I tell my mom I dont like him, and all she says back "Well brian, you just need to deal with it your whole life" I cry everytime she says that to me because no-one in my family knows how i feel about having him over.

Now onto my brother,...well my brother really never cared about having me around, most brothers would love to have a little brother, i never had anyone to play with my WHOLE life, everytime i say "Hi" to him or "Good morning" he just ignores me and keeps walking, when ever i do something that gets on his nerves, he throws a shoe at me or hits me so hard i get a bruise. Really not much to say about him except i hope he passes away.

Now onto my sister, my sister is really pretty cool, she talks to me, but RARELY plays with me, shes to busy with work and school now. and she can get really annoying sometimes.

My mom i feel closer to then anyone in the family, but latly shes been getting really angry at me, I do so much for her you dont understand, i do the dishes everyday, i make her bed before she comes home from work, i make her breakfast, sometimes lunch when she wants it, and then dinner, but shes pretty cool occasionally.


Now onto my life, Im now 16, i live in a (vulgar word) ghetto nighborhood with a drug house right across the street, cars blaring thier music every single minuet, i get homedschool because the highschool by me is reallllly bad, im in a depressed situation right now....im a fat lazy stupid kid that doesnt know crap about anything, i cant even look in a mirror at myself because i feel so bad about hurting the people around me and how they have to deal with a creture by thier side. Ive tried cutting my self before but i cant do it, every single day is like a accident waiting to happen before me, i have no social life, i hate talking to new people, meeting new people, being around teenagers, being around anyone actally, i have no fricking bedroom because no one gives a damn about me, i sleep on the damn floor in the living room, im embarressed to tell anyone anything about me, i sit somedays when im alone thinking about a better life i could have had if my mom never married my dad. I sit and thank god for the wonderfull life he gave me(NOT), i pray to him mostly every night asking for help in my life, he doesnt give a crap about me at all!! :mad: I weight like 210 lbs right now, because of me being depressed........OK I AM NOW FINISHED, THERE IS WAY MORE TO TELL YOU BUT I CANNOT PUT IT INTO WORDS. PLEASE SOMEONE KILL ME PLEASE :)


First of all get a fking grip of yourself! You can get through this and you're not even trying and I think you should. Second of all God does not hate you and he never will. He loves everyone equally and fairly. He cannot deceive nor be deceived and I want you to remember that. He is the one who wants you to learn a lesson from this time in your life. It will come to you sooner or later.

As for the rest I have no comment since I'm not a counseler

the m@rtster
December 1st, 2007, 06:44 AM
First of all get a fking grip of yourself! You can get through this and you're not even trying and I think you should. Second of all God does not hate you and he never will. He loves everyone equally and fairly. He cannot deceive nor be deceived and I want you to remember that. He is the one who wants you to learn a lesson from this time in your life. It will come to you sooner or later.

As for the rest I have no comment since I'm not a counseler

that doesn't seem very helpfull....

not sure i could help because i have no experience at all with what you're going through, seems like you haven't got a too good deal so far in life, but there is one piece of advice i could give you, it sometimes helps me when I'm really down, i just go through the day trying to find things which I'm grateful for, like that i can go on the Internet and chat, or like if I'm hungry, i have food which i can eat, which is more than some...

...maybe that will help?

Hyper
December 1st, 2007, 10:06 AM
Or maybe listen to Dukes ugh though I've been trying to get a grip for half a decade but whatever..

You seem to obviously ''despise yourself'' so you have a non-existant self-esteem which is never a good thing to ''have'' lol..

And I really see you hate the fact that your overweight? Yes well.. I can relate to having no self-esteem and despiseing myself and having a crappy dad and a generally grappy life.. I can try to relate to your brother but all that comes to mind there is the typical asshole... So I would just ignore your brother since.. There is ugh no point at this time as he seems to be a victim of well.. A society of assholes and prejudiced people..

As for your dad your mother is kind of right.. Sure if your older you can go to live 2000 miles away and never talk to him.. Thats your choice but for now you really can't do anything besides tolerate it, yeah I know its one of those sucky things....

All that aside, your problably smart I assume.. Because for some reason everyone who is disliked by the majority of regular people happens to be smart or different in some way... So yes I belive you are smart so take that in mind and think of the future without thinking of the present atm..


As for your self esteem well.. All I can offer you is stop blaming God as this is not God's world, and start trying to do something, its always the hardest to start and keep going but ugh its better than doing nothing as in time that just makes things worse ( belive me I know... )..

Yes well I am not sure should you see a professional or not, there are actually very few good ones and people in a situation like you can rather get worse.. But if you do know a good one it wouldn't hurt to try..



Hmm yes.. This would all take time to ''cure''.. But your not completly alone.. We will still listen to you, for as much as that goes :D, but we will and atleast say something comforting...

Well I want you to reply and if you want msg me as I can't write a book or say much more considering you couldn't say everything about yourself in 1 post

Brian117
December 2nd, 2007, 02:45 AM
:(Thanks guys, you all helped alot except the dude that said to get a grip....>_>, not nice....i just want to die like now...I think about if I wasnt born...I could of saved my family alot of money so they could of moved out of this nighborhood...All i do is ruin peoples lives. sorry if i ruined your lifes guys by making you read this crap... :(

Maverick
December 2nd, 2007, 03:07 AM
First of all get a fking grip of yourself! You can get through this and you're not even trying and I think you should.
I have warned you about your attitude time and time again. Read before you post and look over what you said to see if thats the way you'd like someone to speak to you.

Brian don't ever be afraid to ask for help. That is what this website is for.

Brian117
December 3rd, 2007, 11:16 AM
I have warned you about your attitude time and time again. Read before you post and look over what you said to see if thats the way you'd like someone to speak to you.

Brian don't ever be afraid to ask for help. That is what this website is for.

Thanks Anthony :),


ive seen other related sites like this, puberty, depression ect. but im glad i stuck with this site, its really cool and the mods are the awsomest :whoops:

thesphinx
December 3rd, 2007, 11:27 AM
Brian, everyone deserves to be loved and to have a good life. I can see from your post that you really try. its your family's fault that they don't appreciate you. and Never be ashamed to ask for help. we're here for you you.

Brian117
December 8th, 2007, 10:05 PM
I totally agree that its my familys fault for this...and your exactally on the point when you said "it seems you have no one to talk to", once I read that Im like "is he spying on me or something?" because your exactally right...i have no one to tell my feelings to, ive told some online people, and you cant really expect much out of them you know? who knows, they could be laughing on the other end from what you told them, because most people cant relate to what im going through....when im REALLY depresse,d ill be posting here with my thoughts.