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btudor9
August 29th, 2007, 09:37 PM
Hello everyone, i have just started highschool and there has been a problem with love and all that stuff. Ever since the first day of school i have noticed this girl. I did not know her at all didnt even know her name. ever since i have been finding out more and more about her and she seems like my type. ive been talking to her on myspace and at school i have introduced my self to her. the problem is i dont know how to be better friends with her so that i can eventually ask her out. or maybe not even that. just asking her if she wants to go see a movie and see how things work out from there. this is not just the usual "oh shes pretty hot". i like her alot and i dont really know how to get to know her more. any advice?:cool:
Serenity
August 29th, 2007, 09:41 PM
Well keep talking to her, ask questions about her so you get to know her better, tell her some stuff about yourself. It's not gonna happen overnight :P Ask her out when you feel you know her enough.
btudor9
August 29th, 2007, 09:49 PM
thats the problem i cant really just go and walk up to her and her friends and me like hey whats up. u sorta know me lets talk that= screw off loser :(
Serenity
August 29th, 2007, 09:59 PM
Well if you're not even willing to walk up to her and talk to her, you're never going to have a chance with her at all, ever. Nothing's just going to clairvoyantly HAPPEN- you need to take initiative and go out on a limb.
Gumleaf
August 29th, 2007, 10:04 PM
Well if you're not even willing to walk up to her and talk to her, you're never going to have a chance with her at all, ever. Nothing's just going to clairvoyantly HAPPEN- you need to take initiative and go out on a limb.

val is right. you need to take the lead and get to know her and rather then her friends being a turn off, then maybe try and be friends with them too. that way it may not look strange to them if you talk to this one girl.
btudor9
August 29th, 2007, 10:32 PM
ya i need to grow some balls and just do it thnx guys
Serenity
August 29th, 2007, 10:35 PM
No prob. We all need a push now and then :daisy:
Gumleaf
August 30th, 2007, 12:19 AM
ya i need to grow some balls and just do it thnx guys

exactly!!! so go for it now and good luck with it. :)
Camazotz
August 30th, 2007, 11:19 AM
Good luck, and dont sound too desperate, thats what I do. :D