Concerned about my sexuality

[robert92]

hi... i'm new here 2 starts so im not exactly sure what i'm doing but i'm posting here for a reason so i'll just say..

ok... recently i think i have realized that i " like " my best mate, i should start by saying that he is not str8 he says he is either gay or bi and he knows that, anyway i keep thinking bout him alot and phantisise(spellin sucks soz) bout doin "stuff" with him yet, i have told him i'm not sure what i am and am rather confuzzed, he does not know that i " like " him in that way, however my big dilema is i hav a gf who i have been out with twice, the first time i generally loved her however now i am not so sure, and i think she knows i mite be confusses or she may generally think i am gay..
i am not really sure what i am, i could just be curious with these fantasies however i am not sure i think i may be gay/bi...
are there any suggestions to help me with this cus i am generally stuck.

[Maverick]

If you're confused I'd say wait before labeling yourself. There's no rush. You don't need to label yourself right away because you might label yourself prematurely and you don't want to go back and fourth. Just for now, keep an open mind and when you become more sure of yours sexuality then label yourself.

As long as you're with your girlfriend I say you should stay faithful to her and don't go off and do things with your friend. It may just be hormones making you feel that way or you could be gay/bi. Time will tell.

Just do what feels right. If it's not working out with your girlfriend then end it. But don't go around and do both, it's not right in my opinion.

You may be gay, bi, straight, or it could be hormones, Worry until you're older before labeling yourself.

[what the?]

I agree with Anthony, don't worry too much about what you are. Trust me, I know how frustrating it can be, but that's all part of being a teenager. I also agree that you should stay faithful to your girlfriend while you're still dating. Be honest with her, tell her about your doubts and worries, she'll respect you more for doing so :)

Good luck to ya man!

[robert92]

I agree with Anthony, don't worry too much about what you are. Trust me, I know how frustrating it can be, but that's all part of being a teenager. I also agree that you should stay faithful to your girlfriend while you're still dating. Be honest with her, tell her about your doubts and worries, she'll respect you more for doing so :)

Good luck to ya man!

as i said in my previous post i told my best mate about the unsure of what i am stuff, he told me to tell my girlfriend and i did, it didn't go down well at all, there was alot of well :mad: <that . we r still together now but i think she knows i am still insure, so im little stuck there...

but ty for your comments, i will think aboutwhat you said. :)

[Maverick]

Yeah I can understand with her that she may react that way. It's kinda the last thing you want to hear in a relationship. Just decide if you want to stay with her or end it so you can explore your sexuality more. Those are pretty much your options.

[robert92]

ok cheers