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BeautifulSilence
April 25th, 2009, 01:03 PM
Well, not always, but if you use enough energey then yes :)
Patchy
April 25th, 2009, 01:08 PM
Yup, and it also helps you sleep better
True I've noticed that for me over the past few weeks.
sienna.
April 26th, 2009, 01:21 AM
eww..
i think the whole masturbation thing is wrong..
i have never done it to myself...
and i do not plan too..
it's not for me.. AT ALL!
too_cute_for_you
April 26th, 2009, 02:56 AM
Its not as bad as you think
BeautifulSilence
April 26th, 2009, 04:10 PM
eww..
i think the whole masturbation thing is wrong..
i have never done it to myself...
and i do not plan too..
it's not for me.. AT ALL!
That's your decision. Some people do and others don't. It's as simple as that. Although, it's quite likely thatl you would change your mind if you tried it. Yet it's possible you still wouldn't be comfortable with it.
Like I said, totally up to you.
OnlyByTheNight
April 26th, 2009, 04:22 PM
Meh its your own choice. If you feel more comfortable without doing it then dont.
neji'sbabymama
April 26th, 2009, 11:21 PM
use a tooth brush like the electric ones let the brush move over that bumpy thingy in your clit.. just don't put it inside of u...i promise the orgasm will be great.
Young teen
April 27th, 2009, 04:23 AM
I managed to masturbate on sunday (yesterday) When my mum and sis where out. I had to watch some porn to make it work properly, but i had two orgasms. It was wonderful. :D (And yes, i used an electrick toothbrush, as i can't do it with just my hands)
Ziggy
April 27th, 2009, 01:06 PM
I managed to masturbate on sunday (yesterday) When my mum and sis where out. I had to watch some porn to make it work properly, but i had two orgasms. It was wonderful. :D (And yes, i used an electrick toothbrush, as i can't do it with just my hands)
Congratulations :P
Pandora.
April 27th, 2009, 01:20 PM
eww..
i think the whole masturbation thing is wrong..
i have never done it to myself...
and i do not plan too..
it's not for me.. AT ALL!
I agree with you and have the exact same thoughts as you.
I've never masturbated and I never want to.
However, I don't have anything against people who do masturbate.
sienna.
April 29th, 2009, 03:20 AM
i don't have anything against the people who do.
but i don't find it right.
kinda ewww to me.
i have my boy friend for those needs.
but i wont do it myself....
it's not for me at all.
turtle
May 7th, 2009, 07:05 PM
wheres you G spot? ive tried to find it but i dont know where it is. someone told me it was below my clit and belly button but idk where. i think i might have felt it once but maybe it was me trying to find it and imagined it can you help?
Young teen
May 8th, 2009, 05:35 PM
Follow this link, it really helped me. lol. Link Removed
mrbendover
May 9th, 2009, 12:18 AM
What is the best way to mastrubate? Besides rubbing the clit?
U could lay down in a bath and pour the running water on you clit
mrbendover
May 9th, 2009, 12:31 AM
What are the different types of masterbation please tell?!!
there's so many ways you could masturbate you just need 2 be creative and do different things each time
peyton729
May 9th, 2009, 11:22 PM
I go in my bathroom, turn on the sink, get my eletcric toothbrush (i dont wash my teeth i havge another brush) and rub my clit...Sometimes ill do it in the shower.
allie
May 10th, 2009, 01:00 PM
my shower has a detachable thing that i can use in my clit thing. that always works lol
Kaleidoscope Eyes
May 11th, 2009, 07:36 PM
wheres you G spot? ive tried to find it but i dont know where it is. someone told me it was below my clit and belly button but idk where. i think i might have felt it once but maybe it was me trying to find it and imagined it can you help?
It can be hard for some women to find their g-spot, especially on your own (the angle can be tricky). It's on the front wall of the vagina, around an inch inside, although the exact distance varies from girl to girl. I've heard that you won't really be able to find it unless you're aroused, that it won't feel the same when you touch it. That sort of makes sense to me, because if I was to try masturbating when I wasn't in the mood, it wouldn't feel as good as if I was actually into it. It might even get annoying.
A way you can try to find it, is to lie on your back. You may want to place a pillow under your hips to get a better angle, but it's up to you. Bend your wrist so the outside of your hand is pointing away from you and, well,feel around in there. Making a sort of "come hither" motion with your finger may be a good way to look for it, but don't worry if you don't think you found anything. The texture of that area may feel a little different than the rest, sort of a spongy feel. That's all I can really say on the topic. Some women never really find theirs, or it doesn't do much for them, so don't worry too much about it. :)
cupcakesrgood123
May 11th, 2009, 10:51 PM
hey i always masturbate my clit but i have tried sticking my finger inside but i dont really feel that good doing it. how can i make it better?
allie
May 12th, 2009, 03:30 PM
try using a cigar tube.....they are sturdy and come in diffrnt sizes. my dad smokes cigars and he lets me have the cases .
Caliginous
May 25th, 2009, 04:01 PM
Random hello.
OnlyByTheNight
May 28th, 2009, 05:23 AM
Really it depends on the person.
Some people make alot of noises while other really don't make any, it varies from person to person.
LookingCheeky
May 28th, 2009, 06:16 AM
Do people tend to make a lot of noise when they orgasm?
I do i find it VERY hard to keep quite, especially if im having sex or my partner is helping me.
pillows help a lot biting and muffling noises :)
LookingCheeky
May 28th, 2009, 06:18 AM
Do people ever get very randy when they are on the period?
I find i do, i find because i do not relieve myself i get BIGGER mood swings.
The only good thing about it is i find im more sensitive after not having orgasmed for at least 4 days.
Any tips on stopping this.
kaibaby14
May 30th, 2009, 08:08 PM
how do you make yourself orgasm?
beneaththewave
May 31st, 2009, 05:41 PM
So i'm 13 and I was masturbating by fingering myself, and then using a toy my mom gave me and when i pulled the toy out i noticed blood. I know it's not my period because I had my period a week and a half ago. I don't know what happened, which is why i came her. question is, why am i bleeding?
JustNick
May 31st, 2009, 06:16 PM
Hope you dont mind a guy answering. You may have just scratched yourself, but you most likely popped your cherry there (broke the hymen) although, and this is where obviously i have no experience) I would have expected that to hurt.
ThUnDeR
May 31st, 2009, 06:46 PM
how do you make yourself orgasm?
ima a guy but u can find your G-spot
and that will make you orgasm like crazyy
BeautifulSilence
June 1st, 2009, 03:48 PM
how do you make yourself orgasm?
A bit of TLC. It just doesn't happen on demand, and for some, it can be very rare.
So i'm 13 and I was masturbating by fingering myself, and then using a toy my mom gave me and when i pulled the toy out i noticed blood. I know it's not my period because I had my period a week and a half ago. I don't know what happened, which is why i came her. question is, why am i bleeding?
Question: "toy"? Is that a sex toy or just a toy? (It's not very common for parents to give their thirteen year olds sex toys).
Well, like Nick said, you might have broken your hymen, which is a bit of skin cvering the opening of the vagina. It may or may not hurt depending on how tight it is / was. Another thing is that you may have damaged some tissue, which may happen because the toy you used was too big or you were being too aggresive. In which case, it'd be better to be a lot gentler for a while, or try to resist masturbating completely until you think you may have healed.
DrDrDrDrDr
June 1st, 2009, 05:30 PM
eww..
i think the whole masturbation thing is wrong..
i have never done it to myself...
and i do not plan too..
it's not for me.. AT ALL!
well, i respect you're decision, but, as i have found with many other things, give it one shot, if you like it, keep it up, if u don't, at least you can say you've try'ed :)
direlj
June 3rd, 2009, 11:52 PM
help how do you get some one to masturbate for u does licking ur clit help
BeautifulSilence
June 4th, 2009, 04:36 PM
help how do you get some one to masturbate for u does licking ur clit help
Sorry, we are not allowed to give advice on asking for friends to masturbate.
skuba steve
June 4th, 2009, 06:05 PM
sorry to sound like a perv but female masturbation sounds soooo much better for themselves than male is
optimashprime
June 5th, 2009, 11:25 PM
it probally is
Untouched
June 7th, 2009, 03:37 PM
Female masturbation = win.
skuba steve
June 7th, 2009, 07:49 PM
Female masturbation = win.
yea sure rub it in our face y don't you lol
ehhheydevin
June 8th, 2009, 06:00 PM
if u search what is a clit on google it comes up with this website but i cant say that cause this is lame but it gives u bunches of storys and ways to:P
Explicit content removed
~Serenity
Untouched
June 8th, 2009, 09:05 PM
yea sure rub it in our face y don't you lol
I will. :)
frillyflower95
June 10th, 2009, 02:46 AM
-link removed- is pretty good. it has a few nice masturbation techniques that everyone would like.
kitkat
June 17th, 2009, 04:29 PM
wouldnt doing it w/t a stuff animal b be better
kitkat
June 17th, 2009, 10:15 PM
r masterbating w/t stuffed toys normal?
JustAGirlInTheWorld
June 23rd, 2009, 08:51 PM
Well IDK about with a stuffed animal --- but pillows rock!
:yes:
BeautifulSilence
June 24th, 2009, 06:00 PM
r masterbating w/t stuffed toys normal?
A lot of young girls actually masturbate by rubbing against things like sheets, pillows and toys without realising it.
kitkat
June 24th, 2009, 07:05 PM
my fluffy dog is great
Shuckleberry
June 24th, 2009, 09:21 PM
Ever since my bf broke up with me nothing feels as good as it did when he did it for me.
Paramore-rox
June 30th, 2009, 12:21 AM
wat is the g-pot?
Snow Angel
June 30th, 2009, 07:50 AM
sorry to sound like a perv but female masturbation sounds soooo much better for themselves than male is
not true...
and the g-spot is a sensitive part inside the vagina which is usually stimulated to give pleasure, if you feel around you'll find it easy. It's a few inches in, on the top wall.
You can find more info on google or wikipedia, just be careful what you search..
rocklives
June 30th, 2009, 08:06 AM
really i thought id be better for girls
Snow Angel
June 30th, 2009, 05:19 PM
define better?
Sugar.Candii
July 2nd, 2009, 12:29 AM
Am I like the only person who doesnt masturbate by fingering?
cupcakesrgood123
July 3rd, 2009, 01:51 AM
OMG!! i masturbate by rubbing my clit but i dont get horny from fingering...sorry that was prob a bit too much info lol
blue_wheat_3
July 6th, 2009, 10:11 PM
do you have any hormonal therapy...?
is that prob affecting you from several years..?
if NOT, try to calm your self having hot shower before begin,and focus your mind on something you love,also try to discover your G.spot
dablue
July 7th, 2009, 02:28 AM
oh okay so i have not had a period yet but i masterbat8 and i want to know is that normal and okay? thakz a lot:)
Neverender
July 7th, 2009, 04:13 AM
How old are you? you might just not be developed enough to have your periods yet.
And masturbating has no effect on your periods.
Anyways, masturbation is a normal and healthy thing to do. Perfectly fine.
hray2k
July 7th, 2009, 03:08 PM
When I masturbate, I don't get very much pleasure... How do I get more pleasure from masturbating? It usually goes really quick and I don't get to enjoy it as much.
BeautifulSilence
July 7th, 2009, 06:36 PM
When I masturbate, I don't get very much pleasure... How do I get more pleasure from masturbating? It usually goes really quick and I don't get to enjoy it as much.
At least half of girls who masturbate have the same problem, because it's very hard for a female to achieve orgasm. However, with time, you'll learn what you like and you need to give yourself time to try different techniques. Everyone has different methods so it's important for you to try to naturally develop your own.
This means trying to forget any specific techniques that you've heard about and just getting to know your body and trying different directions of rubbing or different areas. If that fails, you could always try including lotions or objects (just make sure you're safe and everything is clean and won't harm you).
Rawr
July 8th, 2009, 08:19 PM
is it wrong to wanna touch myselfe alot ?
BeautifulSilence
July 8th, 2009, 08:27 PM
is it wrong to wanna touch myselfe alot ?
Not at all, although it's best not to do it in public.
Rawr
July 8th, 2009, 09:29 PM
but is it wrong to want to have sex really badly?
dablue
July 9th, 2009, 12:57 AM
okay when i do it with myself well i dont feel anything and i dont get it what im i doin wrong all i do is put a thing up my vagina and i dont feel anything plz help:(
sienna.
July 9th, 2009, 03:52 AM
i find it hard to understand the whole masturbation thing...
i mean i don't find it wrong or anything.
i have never done it.. and i don't see the desire to do it.
i'm not against it... but it's just not for me.
i mean.
i will touch and all that to guys.
and they do it to me.
but i just can't touch myself....
i don't know why.
i just can't.
BeautifulSilence
July 9th, 2009, 07:00 PM
Rawr: It's not wrong to want sex really badly, especially during puberty. The urge will lesson as you grow into adulthood.
dablue: Maybe you're not using a technique that's suitable for you, just try something different and remember that not all masturbation is insertive.
sienna.: If you've never had the desire to masturbate then that's fine, and not judging people who do is really big of you. Some people won't ever feel the need to touch themselves sexually, and you're just one of those people.
greenday1
July 10th, 2009, 01:35 AM
okay is this wrong im 13 and i just matrubated IT FELT GREAT i used a back masager but it on my clit and after i found the right spot the feeling was great not after im done it still tingles
Neverender
July 10th, 2009, 02:47 AM
Its not wrong, masturbation is a normal, healthy thing to do.
Just make sure its not sharp and cant do any damage, and not to scratch anything with it :P
bunnyluver
July 10th, 2009, 10:46 PM
is it normal to use a hairbush handle because i do and every time i can't get my self to orgy is that normal
Neverender
July 10th, 2009, 11:47 PM
Well if its not sharp, and cant do damage to the vaginal wall then its fine to use.
Its normal as its hard for girls to get to orgasm. what you have to do is find your "G-Spot". after you do you'll get used to masturbating that area more and you'll reach orgasm easier.
ashley_c
July 13th, 2009, 04:27 PM
A plain old vibrating back massager works wonders for me! ecspecially if it has diffferent speed settings. works like a charm every time :)
Sheila
July 17th, 2009, 01:25 PM
well sometimes ill like touch myself down there and all or ill touch my boobs, but its NOT like a sexual thing i dont get sexually excited at all its like i just like to touch myself but its not and kind of sexy thing at all...
is that normal?
BeautifulSilence
July 19th, 2009, 07:04 PM
well sometimes ill like touch myself down there and all or ill touch my boobs, but its NOT like a sexual thing i dont get sexually excited at all its like i just like to touch myself but its not and kind of sexy thing at all...
is that normal?
Sure. It's just a habit that you've picked up.
dablue
July 20th, 2009, 01:26 PM
i masterbat8 and well i dont feel anything special so how can a feel somthing good
bergibaybee
July 22nd, 2009, 08:10 PM
i normaly jus play with my clit it feels realy gd i love fingering to but prefer to play with my clit dooing both at the sme time izz amazing xx :P xx
crazyshesmiles
July 23rd, 2009, 03:58 AM
hi, Im new to this sort of thing got three questions for you all.
1:- What is insertion? Im curious and would like to try it.
2:- Is it normal for girls to pee them selves during masturbation?
3:- I hear people talk about the 'normal' way to masturbate what is this?
TallAndSmall
July 25th, 2009, 05:47 PM
When I masturbate, I don't get very much pleasure... How do I get more pleasure from masturbating? It usually goes really quick and I don't get to enjoy it as much.
Yeah I know that problem, but I kind of solved it by imagening myself with the guy I like (not boysfriend unfortunatly) getting ready to do it with the most sexy forplay ever, and while I so that I silently start making sexy noices by myself and stimulain my clit.
Hope it helps.
but is it wrong to want to have sex really badly?
No It is not wrong but I advise you to give it alot of thought when you actually do it the first time and with who.... and ofcourse make sure its safe sex;)
icewing
July 31st, 2009, 05:35 PM
how do you know if you have an orgasm?
Requin
July 31st, 2009, 06:09 PM
You'll feel it. Believe me. Its not something you'll miss. You'll get the feeling.
murphym2
August 3rd, 2009, 03:50 PM
Use The Shower Head on your clit :yes:
SOS14
August 15th, 2009, 08:54 PM
i masterbate in my room at night,,
but what if my mom or someone finds out somehow what do i do?
ThatCanadianGuy
August 15th, 2009, 10:47 PM
i masterbate in my room at night,,
but what if my mom or someone finds out somehow what do i do?
Just make sure you don't make too much noise, or wait until you are sure everyone else is asleep. If you have a lock on your door, USE it (obviously :rolleyes:). Even if they "find out" you might be embarrassed, but trust me, they will be just as embarrassed as YOU are!
If people in the house are still awake while you're masturbating, make sure you don't do it in a way that is hard to "cover up". For example; its harder to explain why you're naked on your bed than to explain why your hand was just down your pants :lol:
SOS14
August 15th, 2009, 10:57 PM
okay,, thanks (L)
SlappyTwinkle
August 18th, 2009, 12:43 AM
.... cant belive i'm sayin this, but does it help anyone else sleep?
yes, i do it sometimes to fall asleep. it's not bad to use masturbation as a sleep aid, because there are a bunch of other health benefits that come from masturbating too. and it's better than using drugs or meds to aid sleep.
how do you know if you have an orgasm?
it's hard to explain, but trust me, when you have one, you'll know it.
~Please use the edit button and/or multi-quote feature(s) to prevent double posting. Thanks.
SlappyTwinkle
August 27th, 2009, 07:27 PM
Why can't I masturbate without porn? I am not addicted, but I can't orgasm without it. Is masterbating to porn bad?
Masturbating to porn is not bad, but be careful. If you use it to much, as an aid, it can desensitize you, and you may not be as responsive when it comes to actually getting the job done.
allie
August 31st, 2009, 10:07 AM
sometimes i use the handle of my hairbrush and sometimes i use a cigar tube . my dad smokes cigars and gives me the tubes that the expensive ones come in. they are dirffrnt sizes and work good lol
nicole9695
September 17th, 2009, 04:48 PM
god, i love masturbating.
rukiayua
September 18th, 2009, 08:59 AM
what's a g-spot? :(
karastes
September 18th, 2009, 09:46 AM
A G-spot is a place inside the vagina, that when is rubbed or touched, gives the woman a lot of pleasure. I don't know exactly where it is, but if you google it up, maybe you can have more details.
Tara_Ruble56
September 27th, 2009, 12:30 PM
ok so i dont masterbate that much, but when i do it never really works. like i use an electric toothbrush over my clit and it like feels goodd after a while, but is there anything else i can do? any suggestions
i totally agree after i read this i tried it and it works really well ! i have been masturbating since i was about 3 and i have just always enjoyed it but now i use an electric toothbrush or a drum stick i have :/
Kartellmyst
October 5th, 2009, 07:46 PM
Um...don't know...any idea?
Kartellmyst
October 9th, 2009, 10:41 PM
Well, you could stimulate the breasts, or insertion, but that would hurt at first. Just start, then go w/ what feels good.
^^
woah..Im really not the horny type person...I'm super-controlled and recently started masturbating..I don't think insertion/intercourse is good advice..b/c some girls want to remain virgins until they are married....
But stimulating breasts is good one...I do that with one hand and rub, rub with the other...lol...
First time...
Rubicon
October 9th, 2009, 10:44 PM
Um...don't know...any idea?
Can you provide a more detailed (but not too detailed) question please. Maybe we can help you with an answer.
narelle
October 14th, 2009, 04:33 PM
In response to the last post; I'm curious. How does one acquire sex toys if the law is 18 and up? Please don't take this post the wrong way (mods). I just was wondering what the law is and how it works. Does anyone know the laws for Canada? Because I've been wanting to buy... something and wanted to make sure it was legal. Please, I can't find the law anywhere! And I don't want to try and find out the hard way (i.e. getting kicked out of a "store" . I'd die of embarrasment!).
I use my fingers alot but now and then I will use my little vibrator.
My Dad was the one that bought me my vibrator. The first one he got me was a fleshy looking thing that also had a small thing that rotated. I didnt like it at all. It had a loud buzzing sound as well which wasnt good.It was creepy! So he got me another one called a pocket rocket. Its only a small plastic one, doesnt make a noise and feels much better than the other one.
bigusdikus
October 14th, 2009, 07:20 PM
I use my fingers alot but now and then I will use my little vibrator.
My Dad was the one that bought me my vibrator. The first one he got me was a fleshy looking thing that also had a small thing that rotated. I didnt like it at all. It had a loud buzzing sound as well which wasnt good.It was creepy! So he got me another one called a pocket rocket. Its only a small plastic one, doesnt make a noise and feels much better than the other one.
GULP !! what ? !!! your dad bought you a vibrator, what the hell is going on here ? what the hell is he doing, going out buying his daughter a vib :eek: very odd
narelle
October 14th, 2009, 08:32 PM
GULP !! what ? !!! your dad bought you a vibrator, what the hell is going on here ? what the hell is he doing, going out buying his daughter a vib :eek: very odd
Why would you say that its odd? There are lots of girls in here talking about wanting a vibrator. Are you saying that its bad that I have one? Or are you saying its bad that my Dad went out and got one for me. I understand what your trying to say.
Narelle
mrmcdonaldduck
October 15th, 2009, 09:11 AM
its bad that your dad bought one
mango2020
October 16th, 2009, 01:46 AM
Why would you say that its odd? There are lots of girls in here talking about wanting a vibrator. Are you saying that its bad that I have one? Or are you saying its bad that my Dad went out and got one for me. I understand what your trying to say.
Narelle
Come on! you do have to admit that your dad buying you a sex toy at the age of thirteen is a little creepy! I mean i' m not saying that you should'nt have one, a lot of girls your age experiment with things like that, its just that your dad may be over stepping his bounderies a little bit.
Love.Hate
October 16th, 2009, 05:26 PM
Im Jelous I want a Vibrator But i Would never Ask My Parents for One.
Use a shower head :yes:
Works everytime. :)
narelle
October 18th, 2009, 01:24 PM
Come on! you do have to admit that your dad buying you a sex toy at the age of thirteen is a little creepy! I mean i' m not saying that you should'nt have one, a lot of girls your age experiment with things like that, its just that your dad may be over stepping his bounderies a little bit.
Excuse me, but I dont think its creepy that my dad bought me a vibrator at all. I think it shows he cares about me. And if you must know, I wasnt 13 when he got it for me, i was actually 11. Me and my little sister dont have a mother to talk to and confide in. My Dad has taught me more than most mothers I know. The reason why he bought me a vibrator was because he walked in on me when i was experimenting with my mobile phone on vibrate alert. I didnt hear him come home and when he heard my phone ringing for ages he came into my room to answer it. He wasn't impressed when he saw what i was doing with my phone. He said it wasnt very hygenic to be rubbing my mobile on myself. He sat down and we had a long talk the health issues of using unsterolized things on my private parts. Now he doesnt know everything about girls health but he sure did tell me more than what i get told at school or from any of my friends. He told me the dangers of sticking things in that could break my hymen and unclean objects could cause an infection. He could see and understand that I my figure was changing and I was starting to go through puberty. He just wanted me to BE SAFE and aware of all the possible health issues. He would rather know that I am masturbating in a safe and healthy enviroment and that anything i used was clean. Dad has been very good at bringing us up without a mother. Hes always there for us. I suppose you think its creepy that he bought me cocoa butter to rub on my breasts when they started to grow? Refer to my other post about the use of cocao butter for more info. The bottom line is that my dad isnt creepy, I take offence that you can imply that about a man you dont even know.
Narelle
TheKingDavis
October 18th, 2009, 01:54 PM
Excuse me, but I dont think its creepy that my dad bought me a vibrator at all. I think it shows he cares about me. And if you must know, I wasnt 13 when he got it for me, i was actually 11. Me and my little sister dont have a mother to talk to and confide in. My Dad has taught me more than most mothers I know. The reason why he bought me a vibrator was because he walked in on me when i was experimenting with my mobile phone on vibrate alert. I didnt hear him come home and when he heard my phone ringing for ages he came into my room to answer it. He wasn't impressed when he saw what i was doing with my phone. He said it wasnt very hygenic to be rubbing my mobile on myself. He sat down and we had a long talk the health issues of using unsterolized things on my private parts. Now he doesnt know everything about girls health but he sure did tell me more than what i get told at school or from any of my friends. He told me the dangers of sticking things in that could break my hymen and unclean objects could cause an infection. He could see and understand that I my figure was changing and I was starting to go through puberty. He just wanted me to BE SAFE and aware of all the possible health issues. He would rather know that I am masturbating in a safe and healthy enviroment and that anything i used was clean. Dad has been very good at bringing us up without a mother. Hes always there for us. I suppose you think its creepy that he bought me cocoa butter to rub on my breasts when they started to grow? Refer to my other post about the use of cocao butter for more info. The bottom line is that my dad isnt creepy, I take offence that you can imply that about a man you dont even know.
Narelle
To me, it sounds like he cares about you, at first i was thinking he bought you one for other reasons. So as long as nothing ever develops its fine.
SlappyTwinkle
October 18th, 2009, 04:57 PM
To me, it sounds like he cares about you, at first i was thinking he bought you one for other reasons. So as long as nothing ever develops its fine.
I think you should but out, it's not your business, and if she needs any help she is probably capable of getting it. It seems, to me, like your the creepy one in this conversation because you are so worried about her and her dad.
narelle
October 19th, 2009, 12:17 PM
um....I am abit confused......
:eek:
why are there boys posting in here?
I thought this thread was called was pubity for girls?
Narelle
narelle
October 19th, 2009, 12:40 PM
To me, it sounds like he cares about you, at first i was thinking he bought you one for other reasons. So as long as nothing ever develops its fine.
Yes he does care about me.
You said at first you were thinking he bought me one for other reasons?
I dont know what you mean.
He bought me one because he wanted me to use it.
What other possible reason would he by buying one.
And what do you mean "so long as nothing ever developes".
Anyway i shouldnt have to explain myself.
Why are boys posting in a puberty for girls thread anyway?
I got home work to do, goodnight.
Narelle
mango2020
October 20th, 2009, 01:15 AM
Excuse me, but I dont think its creepy that my dad bought me a vibrator at all. I think it shows he cares about me. And if you must know, I wasnt 13 when he got it for me, i was actually 11. Me and my little sister dont have a mother to talk to and confide in. My Dad has taught me more than most mothers I know. The reason why he bought me a vibrator was because he walked in on me when i was experimenting with my mobile phone on vibrate alert. I didnt hear him come home and when he heard my phone ringing for ages he came into my room to answer it. He wasn't impressed when he saw what i was doing with my phone. He said it wasnt very hygenic to be rubbing my mobile on myself. He sat down and we had a long talk the health issues of using unsterolized things on my private parts. Now he doesnt know everything about girls health but he sure did tell me more than what i get told at school or from any of my friends. He told me the dangers of sticking things in that could break my hymen and unclean objects could cause an infection. He could see and understand that I my figure was changing and I was starting to go through puberty. He just wanted me to BE SAFE and aware of all the possible health issues. He would rather know that I am masturbating in a safe and healthy enviroment and that anything i used was clean. Dad has been very good at bringing us up without a mother. Hes always there for us. I suppose you think its creepy that he bought me cocoa butter to rub on my breasts when they started to grow? Refer to my other post about the use of cocao butter for more info. The bottom line is that my dad isnt creepy, I take offence that you can imply that about a man you dont even know.
Narelle
Hey look I didn't mean any offense honestly! that was just my opinion, maybe i should have put in in a more tactful perspective. anyway your dad sounds like a good single father raising two young daughters on his own; that ain't a easy thing to do, i have much respect for that, i guess your dad was just doing what he thought at the time was redundant. oh and for the record i dont think your dad buying you cocoa butter is creepy at all, i completely understand that process hurts.;) By the way if you don't mind me asking what happened to your mother!:(
mango2020
October 20th, 2009, 01:51 AM
I think you should but out, it's not your business, and if she needs any help she is probably capable of getting it. It seems, to me, like your the creepy one in this conversation because you are so worried about her and her dad.
The point of these posts is to place your opinion! she knew what would happen if she posted all that stuff about her. So technically it is his business if he came across her post, he has an account he has the right! and if being concerned for somebody is a sign of creepiness in your opinion then I would seriously suggest you get some help!:confused:
mazza-min
October 22nd, 2009, 08:47 PM
the best way I materbate is sticking a hairbrush in and moving it around at different speeds and hard or soft....another good way is with a cucumber or carrot.
I have been doing it for about 3 years now and it is amazing
Jerrys_Baby
October 24th, 2009, 04:21 PM
A vibrator is a worthwhile investment.
Sheila
November 1st, 2009, 11:46 AM
im only 13 i wish i had a vibrator
bigusdikus
November 1st, 2009, 05:46 PM
look basicaly, it just not seem right that a dad would go in to a sex shop or look online to see what kind of vibrator to buy his 13 yr old . you must realise that it is an odd thing t do. not normal.
Kaleidoscope Eyes
November 2nd, 2009, 01:49 AM
look basicaly, it just not seem right that a dad would go in to a sex shop or look online to see what kind of vibrator to buy his 13 yr old . you must realise that it is an odd thing t do. not normal.
It's been a few weeks since that was mentioned, and since this thread is just for masturbation discussion I don't think we really need to bring it back up in order to criticize the girl's dad.
Love.Hate
November 7th, 2009, 12:47 PM
Why Are there loads of guys on this thread? Its Puberty For Girls Not Boys And I know most of you are trying to help but we need things from a girls point of veiw not a lads. thanks anyway x
morganism
November 10th, 2009, 09:54 PM
I like to finger myself, and rub my clit. But I find massaging my breasts makes the masturbation so much more amazing.
drunkonpride
November 18th, 2009, 01:52 PM
I recently started masturbating, but I'm having trouble trying to come.
I never used to touch myself before I got my first boyfriend, and I haven't had sex yet but I love him fingering me. I get horny now, and wanted to start pleasuring myself.
I tried fingering myself, but it didn't feel good like it does when he does it, it just hurts and makes my wrist ache.
So I've started rubbing my clitoris. I rub it gently till it gets hard and put on a porn. I rub it faster as I get more aroused until it gets to the point when I get an urge to rub REALLY fast. I use 3 fingers and furiously rub, my legs start shaking and I start squirming. Then about 3-4 seconds later, the area gets too sensitive and I squeeze my legs together on impulse to stop my fingers. I try and go back to rubbing, but I can't, it's way too sensitive to do. So I have to stop there.
This CANT be an orgasm, can it? It lasted about 3 seconds, and I don't do anything apart from the squirming and I'm silent. My boyfriend's never made me cum, but when he fingers me I cant help but gasp and moan and scream.
laurita_21
November 18th, 2009, 03:15 PM
This CANT be an orgasm, can it? It lasted about 3 seconds
Since you just started masturbating you probs don't know much about it.
orgasms dont last really long... theyr only for a few seconds. :( too bad XD lol
sztegosz
November 18th, 2009, 04:56 PM
Why Are there loads of guys on this thread? Its Puberty For Girls Not Boys And I know most of you are trying to help but we need things from a girls point of veiw not a lads. thanks anyway x
You're right. But for example do you (girls) read the surveys-for-boys? There are a lot... And for example I would be happy, if you (girls) wrote about the male surveys. :) So if you have time, please reply the surveys :P
Moomanmatt
November 18th, 2009, 10:20 PM
I masturbat every day during class in the shower and at night
DejaVu
November 19th, 2009, 03:24 AM
During class :O what if someone saw you
Moomanmatt
November 19th, 2009, 09:35 PM
What does rubbing your breasts do
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