*** Post ALL Masturbation Discussion HERE ***

[Garrett]

Is it bad to masturbate without lube?

[handssolo]

No it is perfectly fine to masturbate with or with out lube. Using lube is as personal preference. So it is your choice so have fun with what ever you decide.

[Requin]

NO! Masturbating is a natural experience that can be enjoyed any way you like.
With or without lube.

[pontiacdriver]

Is it bad to masturbate without lube?

I agree with the others that lube falls into the optional category. However, if you are cut having lube does make the whole experience a lot better. Also, lube does cut down on friction for cut guys making masturbating easier. In the end of the day, if you don't use lube, then you are fine as long as you don't have friction when you masturbate or chafe your skin.

[donniedarko]

Hi, im 14 and I masturbate almost everyday, and whenever I masturbate and I had also masturbated the day before, I ejaculate a very little bit, but when I masturbate and I havnt in a while I ejaculate a lot, is that bad?
I no that's a confusing question

[Bobby]

Nope it's normal. The longer you don't do it, the more ejaculate you can build up.

[Ace-.]

Sometimes i like holding it in for a while and not wanking

so that when i do

you have one hell of an orgasm :)

thats just me though

lol

[donniedarko]

whenver i masturbate i look at pornography, is this bad?
ive tried not looking at it, but when i do it feels alot better.
and when im done, i feel like ive done somthing wrong
what should i do?

[donniedarko]

whenver i masturbate i look at pornography, is this bad?
ive tried not looking at it, but when i do it feels alot better.
and when im done, i feel like ive done somthing wrong
what should i do?

[Ace-.]

Lol dont worry

Im exactly the same :)

And its always better when i look at porn :)

[dannyallmighty36]

when i would masturbate about 1-2 years ago stuff would come ot, but it would be completley clear, some times it still does. is that bad,

when i masturbate now, my semen or sperm just oozes out instead of shooting like you would see on the internet

[fireice99]

Well, i've been researching on masturbation, and they all say its okay. I love to masturbate, but when i finishing cumming i feel very guilty. im a Christian, and i feel masturbation is sin= lust. Is it really? Do christian teens like me masturbate. I tried to stop myself, but i cant. help???

[wonderboy]

erm im 13 and every time i masterbate my penis swells up and it seems like i cant ejaculate even after 20 minutes wat should i do and how do u controll when you do im soooooooooo confused someone help me!!!

Well, i've been researching on masturbation, and they all say its okay. I love to masturbate, but when i finishing cumming i feel very guilty. im a Christian, and i feel masturbation is sin= lust. Is it really? Do christian teens like me masturbate. I tried to stop myself, but i cant. help???

im a christian and i masterbate sometimes does that help?


Please don't make multiple posts together like that.

[Second Sight]

erm im 13 and every time i masterbate my penis swells up and it seems like i cant ejaculate even after 20 minutes wat should i do and i dont know how to ejaculate!

well i'm not sure why it swells up, or maybe im thinking of a different context..

but you will ejaculate when your body developes enough to make sperm, ejaculation is not an aquired skill, you can't learn to do it, your body just does it.

[Saturn]

Wonderboy, please do not double, triple, quadruple, or any other combination of excessive posts anymore.
Thank you

[Cristiann123]

Well, i've been researching on masturbation, and they all say its okay. I love to masturbate, but when i finishing cumming i feel very guilty. im a Christian, and i feel masturbation is sin= lust. Is it really? Do christian teens like me masturbate. I tried to stop myself, but i cant. help???



Well to put it simply yes j/o is a sinand yet again lust, fireice99 you'v probobly learned in church that no one men can be pure in the eyes of the lord right? (pure= low or no sin) so YOUR STILL A TEEN not a man yet but a medium sized hormone induced teen, and if ya think about it closely, joseph and mary made jesus BY LUST!!! lust = sin, sin = masturbation, masturbation+ penis = :D:D:D

[redsoxboy]

I have been masturbating lately, but I can't ejaculate! I am 13 and I think I should be able to ejaculate. Is this normal? Please help!!!! Thanks!!

[pontiacdriver]

I have been masturbating lately, but I can't ejaculate! I am 13 and I think I should be able to ejaculate. Is this normal? Please help!!!! Thanks!!

The reality is that many 13 year olds cannot ejaculate, and you just may not be developed enough to have the ability to do so. In short, you are perfectly normal for not ejaculating, and keep in mind that guys can be as old as 16/17 before they experience their first ejaculation even though they are developed everywhere else.

As long as you are getting an orgasm, then you are getting most of the feelings anyway without the pain of cleaning up a mess.

[notsure101]

I was 12 when I first cummed but didnt relize it until I was 13

[redsoxboy]

thanks. I don't know if I am even getting to orgasm. I just can't make it happen. Do I need to masturbate longer? Any ideas? Thanks!

[astrosfan21]

First off, what if when my penis is erect and each time it is different lengths because usually itis like about 5.5inches or more but one time it was 6.3inches. What if i get a boner talking about penis or sucking one(talking about sucking one not actually doing it, or talking about having sex with men.) and how do i get it to be full size when erect, i want it 6.3 again but only time i got that i had urges to do a man or suck a penis. Another question what is the correct way to masterbate, like how should i do it?

[astrosfan21]

sorry i have masterbated but like i just move my hand up and down
is there any other way

[Steel boy]

Try Jackinworld.com for techniques.

[astrosfan21]

do you get viruses from the site?

[dannyd]

maybe it is because you are more attracted to guys sexually and ecerytime you masturbate thinking of them you become more sexually aroused giving you a full on boner believe it or not I'm sometimes like that

[Steel boy]

do you get viruses from the site?

I havent ever got a virus and i have been on there a few times.

[pontiacdriver]

thanks. I don't know if I am even getting to orgasm. I just can't make it happen. Do I need to masturbate longer? Any ideas? Thanks!

There is a chance you might need to masturbate longer, but just make sure that you are aroused when you masturbate and that you are thinking of things you find attractive. Your mental state no doubt has a major impact on the quality of when you masturbate. As the others have mentioned, you should visit www.jackinworld.com for specific techniques as we are not allowed to go into detail on this website about masturbation.

do you get viruses from the site?

If you are refering to www.jackinworld.com, then it is a very safe website, and there is not dangers of viruses from it. However, I cannot speak for the affiliated websites that may advertise on jackinworld, and you should only stay on the actual jackinworld website if you have doubts on the links ith as.

[tyler ftw]

ok ive been heareing people talking about being addicted to masturbateing but im woundering how many times is addicted like i usually try to do it at least twice a week but people say that they do it once a day so what is addicted?

[Second Sight]

ok ive been heareing people talking about being addicted to masturbateing but im woundering how many times is addicted like i usually try to do it at least twice a week but people say that they do it once a day so what is addicted?

there are no truely addictive qualities of masturbation. you cant get addicted to something thats happening in your body anyways. but they enjoy the orgasm, so they keep doing it. and think they're addicted.

[skateforlifecj]

Is it ok to jack off and then(if ur not gay) eat ur cum???

[ThatCanadianGuy]

Is it ok to jack off and then(if ur not gay) eat ur cum???

That doesn't "make you gay" in any way? So if you're gay and do that then its wrong. lol

Nothing wrong with it (STRAIGHT OR GAY JEEZE).

[Ryandel]

Is it ok to jack off and then(if ur not gay) eat ur cum???


Nothing wrong with it, it's a personal preference. It doesn't make you gay or bi especially since you're not having any sexual attraction to another guy.

[skateforlifecj]

k thankx

[sam94]

i once masturbated with a comdom it feels great and having a foreskin is fantastic

[Just_a_kid]

Ive had orgasms and it feels great until the very end when I suppose Im supposed to cum because inside of it, it gets really dry and it hurts. Ive never ejaculated before, but after it hurts I cant masturbate for another ten minutes. Is something wrong with the hurting?

[pontiacdriver]

Ive had orgasms and it feels great until the very end when I suppose Im supposed to cum because inside of it, it gets really dry and it hurts. Ive never ejaculated before, but after it hurts I cant masturbate for another ten minutes. Is something wrong with the hurting?

Usually you should not be hurting when you orgasm, and having dry orgasms should not be causing your pain. Is your pain internal or external with regards to your penis? If your pain is external, then there is a chance you are rubbing yourself raw, and you should use lube especially if you are cut. If your pain is internal, then do you have pain when you urinate, too? If you have pain urinating, then there could be a chance you have a urinary tract infection which is not uncommon for guys.

Basically, can you orgasm when your masturbate, or does the pain prevent you from getting an orgasm?

[redsoxboy]

Ok well I am 13 and I was masturbating in the shower last night. I took a bar of soap on my hands for lubrication. It felt really good, but when I got out, the part under my head of my penis, the glans I think, were bleeding a little bit. This hurt like crazy all night, and it is in the morning and it still hurts to masturbate today. Is this normal? Please help! How can I soothe the pain? Thanks in advance for all of your help!

[Just_a_kid]

The pain is internal, and it hurts when I pee but only after I go to the bathroom RIGHT after I shower and clean it with some soap, how do you get rid of urinary tract infections? cuz it has always hurt after Ive taken a shower doing that.

[pontiacdriver]

Ok well I am 13 and I was masturbating in the shower last night. I took a bar of soap on my hands for lubrication. It felt really good, but when I got out, the part under my head of my penis, the glans I think, were bleeding a little bit. This hurt like crazy all night, and it is in the morning and it still hurts to masturbate today. Is this normal? Please help! How can I soothe the pain? Thanks in advance for all of your help!

Firstly, using soap as a lubricant is not a good idea as it will cause burning in your urethra as well as dry out your skin. If you masturbate only in the shower, then use things like cream or baby oil as a lube as soaps, shampoos, conditioners, and body washes are all going to cause irritation down there and not provide adequete smoothness (out of a lack of a better word).

As for your bleeding, my thinking is that you went too rough when you masturbated thus causing a small cut. Just go a lot more gentle on yourself next time, and don't push yourself too hard when your masturbate. As for what you can do now, I would not masturbate for a couple of days, and your wound should heal on its own. Just keep the area clean, and you can always apply Neosporin, or its generic equivalent, on the wound.


The pain is internal, and it hurts when I pee but only after I go to the bathroom RIGHT after I shower and clean it with some soap, how do you get rid of urinary tract infections? cuz it has always hurt after Ive taken a shower doing that.

My thinking is that if it hurts to pee after you clean your penis with soap, then you must have gotten some soap in your urethra causing your irritation. Soap getting into your urethra does cause a burning sensation, and you should never use soap as lube if you masturbate in the shower. While you certainly must use soap on your genitals to keep them clean just don't use soap, body washes, shampoos, and conditioners as lubes. Use something like cream, vaseline, or baby oil as lubes if you cannot actually buy real lube like AstroGlide or KY. I do not think that you have a urinary tract infection due to your irritation happening only after your shower when you interact with soap. If your pain happens everytime you urinate, then you have cause for concern.

The only way to get rid of a urinary tract infection is through antibiotics, and if you ever have troubles urinating, then it is critical that you seek medical attention. Basically, you have to urinate in a cup, and the doctor does a dipstick test to ascertain if there is bacteria in your system. In most cases a urinary tract infection will clear up within a week with the right medication.

Again, I don't think you have a urinary tract infection, and you should try masturbating without soap, if you do use it as a lube, to see if your problem persists.

[Just_a_kid]

I dont masturbate with soap. So still, I dont understand why it hurts when I masturbate

[redsoxboy]

Thanks for your help! Are there any household items I could use as lube in the shower? Also are there any that I could use for masturbating in general?

[Second Sight]

Thanks for your help! Are there any household items I could use as lube in the shower? Also are there any that I could use for masturbating in general?

well you could use vaseline for both in the shower and normal masturbation, you could use some baby oil in the shower. don't use soap (liquid or barred) as a lube though as once it hits the urethra it starts to sting.

[pontiacdriver]

I dont masturbate with soap. So still, I dont understand why it hurts when I masturbate

My only guess at this point is that when you shower you might accidentally get some soap into your urethra when you clean around your penis. As a result of some soap getting into your urethra some stinging happens when you urinate after a shower.

Then there could be a chance you have a urinary tract infection. My strong suggestion is to tell your parents that you have pain when you urinate, and you will need to go to the doctor. A urinalysis is quick and painless, and there is no shame in your problem, if you have one.

well you could use vaseline for both in the shower and normal masturbation, you could use some baby oil in the shower. don't use soap (liquid or barred) as a lube though as once it hits the urethra it starts to sting.

I totally agree with this post, and the two items listed are the best as they don't dissolve immediately in water unlike cream.

[mylife101]

i can suck my one dick is that ok? can anyone else do it?:confused:

[mylife101]

i can suck my dick is that ok? can anyone else do it

[Second Sight]

i can suck my dick is that ok? can anyone else do it

its fine as long as you enjoy it and don't hurt yourself. i can do it.

[faster123]

heres my quick question.

can you ejaculate if you dont have a erection?

[Saturn]

It would be very hard, but you quite possibly may be able to.

[Just_a_kid]

okay, listen. It does not hurt when I urinate. Only after I take a shower and use soap which I already know is why it hurts then. But why does it hurt when I masturbate and get to the point when Im SUPPOSED to ejaculate, but dont just get left with a great orgasm which leads to great pain in my urethra

[pontiacdriver]

okay, listen. It does not hurt when I urinate. Only after I take a shower and use soap which I already know is why it hurts then. But why does it hurt when I masturbate and get to the point when Im SUPPOSED to ejaculate, but dont just get left with a great orgasm which leads to great pain in my urethra

In light of your clarification, then my best guess is that the grip or method you are using must be the root of your problem. I was confused as I thought that your problem happened when your urinated, or you had masturbated right after showering. You should visit www.jackinworld.com, which is a safe website, and you can experiment with the various techniques listed on it. Perhaps you are too rough with your grip as you might be squeezing your penis too hard thus causing your discomfort. You are probably still new to masturbating, and it is going to take time to get things right. You might want to use some lube like Hitman suggested above as that might make a difference in your situation as you probably have too much friction.

I hope that my answer addressed your issue, and let us know if you are still having problems.

[hellapnoy94]

I've never had an orgasm? Or at least an intense one. Like, I cum and everything but it just feels normal. Like i reached the point of ejaculation and thats it. I wish i could experience a VERY strong orgasm from masturbation. Any pointers or tips at how?

[pontiacdriver]

I've never had an orgasm? Or at least an intense one. Like, I cum and everything but it just feels normal. Like i reached the point of ejaculation and thats it. I wish i could experience a VERY strong orgasm from masturbation. Any pointers or tips at how?

We cannot go into specific methods on this website, but you should visit www.jackinworld.com which has an exhaustive supply of techniques. My basic suggestion to you is that you should only masturbate when you are very aroused, and quality is much better than quantity of masturbation. Sometimes if you limit your masturbation to fewer times per week, then you will get better results. Finally, make sure your mental state is clear of distractions when you masturbate because non-sexual thoughts can lessen an orgasm's intensity.

[Just_a_kid]

well the thing is that my grip is VERY hard but that is what makes it pleasurable because if I have a limp grasp then nothing happens. But it only hurts right up until I get right after that orgasm and then it hurts to grasp my penis again for several minutes.

and its normal to like really want to masturbate at times and then at other moments just think its just the sickest thing on the planet right? Cuz like, Ill want to masturbate and end up having 4 orgasms in a row after the pain is gone and then at other times just be like *barf*, that disgusting.

[pontiacdriver]

well the thing is that my grip is VERY hard but that is what makes it pleasurable because if I have a limp grasp then nothing happens. But it only hurts right up until I get right after that orgasm and then it hurts to grasp my penis again for several minutes.

and its normal to like really want to masturbate at times and then at other moments just think its just the sickest thing on the planet right? Cuz like, Ill want to masturbate and end up having 4 orgasms in a row after the pain is gone and then at other times just be like *barf*, that disgusting.

I can see your point about wanting to have a strong grip, but the reality is that you have to loosen up somewhat as going at your penis too hard pretty much defeats the purpose of masturbating. Masturbating should go by smoothly, and a gentle, but firm grasp is what you need and not a hard grasp. The root of your pain seems to be in the way you are holding your penis, and my suggestion is that you lighten up a tad so that you won't have so much pain. Also, using lube such as cream or baby oil might help make up for the lack of strong grasp. Experiment with different techniques, and try not to hold your penis so tightly because the urethra is fundamentally pretty delicate, and you don't want to choke it. When you eventually start ejaculating having too tight of a grip is going to make things somewhat painful which is why you should learn now on how to enjoy masturbating with a looser grip. Remember, www.jackinworld.com has plenty of tips.

Your feelings about masturbating is totally normal, and most of us are like you. When one is really aroused masturbating seems like the greatest thing, but when one returns to "Earth," then a question can go through one's mind about why one masturbated in the first place? In short, with hormones at full blast within you it is not unusual for you to like to masturbate, and with your having dry orgasms it is not uncommon for folks like you to masturbate multiple times. When my orgasms were dry I used to masturbate multiple times, but once I started getting wet orgasms, then that really reduced masturbation frequency.

As a rule of thumb, as long as masturbating doesn't interfere with your usual routines or life, then doing it is fine. The only time you should be concerned is if you are putting off other things to masturbate.

Basically, you are normal, and you have nothing about which to worry.

[redsoxboy]

I am 13 and I masturbate, but I cant reach orgasm! I have tried all of the techniques, but I can't do it! The only way is getting on the floor and going back and forth untill I orgasm. How can I get an orgasm without getting on the floor? Thanks in advance for all of your help!!

[pontiacdriver]

I am 13 and I masturbate, but I cant reach orgasm! I have tried all of the techniques, but I can't do it! The only way is getting on the floor and going back and forth untill I orgasm. How can I get an orgasm without getting on the floor? Thanks in advance for all of your help!!

My guess is that masturbating in the prone position is what you find enjoyable, and I would use that method if you find that enjoyable. Masturbating with one's fist is one of many ways to pleasure oneself, and there is nothing wrong with masturbating in the prone position.

[splashearlylaser]

ihave a question!!! if you masturbate alot does ur penis get smaller

[DaTrooper00]

nope just an urban myth

[Just_a_kid]

okay, i tried what you said pontiacdriver and nothing changed. It still kinda hurts and i cant masturbate for 10 minutes after I have the orgasm

[pontiacdriver]

okay, i tried what you said pontiacdriver and nothing changed. It still kinda hurts and i cant masturbate for 10 minutes after I have the orgasm

Your situation is hard to explain in words, but I am going to try to do so. My regrets if my explanation does not help out.

What I would suggest is start with a really loose grip and try masturbating that way. Very, very gradually tighten up so that you get a grip that is not too loose or not too tight. Also, make sure that you are using some sort of lube as my guess is maybe you are rubbing yourself raw. Use something like a cream or baby oil as those two items are readily available around the house without your having to get lube (which is actually ideal, but probably not possible at your age). Be gentle, and don't be rough. Even if it takes you a lot longer to get an orgasm it is better that you go slow and gentle rather than fast and hard.

I hope my advice helped out somewhat, and my regrets if I have misunderstood you. Remember, you can always use www.jackinworld.com as a resource as it does go into details about masturbating which we cannot do here.

I hope things get better for you.

[arriving_late]

I have only masturbated, never had sex before because im too afraid to get her pregnant. a friend says that a blow job is safe but better than a masturbating. I acted like i knew what blow job was but i dont, anybody know?

[pontiacdriver]

I have only masturbated, never had sex before because im too afraid to get her pregnant. a friend says that a blow job is safe but better than a masturbating. I acted like i knew what blow job was but i dont, anybody know?

Firstly, a blow job is a pejoritive term for oral sex. Oral sex on a guy involves someone sucking on his penis so that he can achieve an orgasm.

Secondly, it is a misconception that a blow job is any safer than sex as STDs can still be transmitted through blow jobs. The reality is that STDs can exist in one's mouth and throat just as those same bacteria and viruses can be present in one's genitals. It is for that reason why it is absolutely critical that before you are sexually active with anyone, even if it is limited to blow jobs, that you make sure that they are clean of STDs.

Thirdly, your friend is right that a blow job does feel a lot better than masturbating, but I would not have a girl perform a blow job unless she is totally comfortable with it. Keep in mind that the person on the receiving end of the blow job has to not only do all the hard work but also have to sometimes deal with the mess. If you do have someone do a blow job on you, then make sure you are clean down there and try to eat some foods like pineapples and avoid foods with a lot of protein, such as steaks, so that your semen will not taste bad when your partner comes into contact with it. Also, feedback is important with a blow job, and make sure that you are all right with your partner spitting out your semen if she does not want to swallow it. Keep in mind that if you have someone perform a blow job on you, then that person may expect you to do something for them in return. I am guessing you might be too young to do a blow job if you don't even know what one is, and you probably best holding off for a while until you are a bit older as your hand is your safest bet for now.


Finally, when you eventually become sexually active, then make sure you have condoms and that your partner is on birth control. Birth control taken correctly is your best protection against pregnancy, and condoms provide an additional barrier along with protection against fluid borne STDs. Keep in mind that condoms do not protect against skin-to-skin STDs which is why you need to make sure your partner is clean before doing anything sexual.

[lildude123]

how do you masturbate

[Requin]

I won't go into detail. But masturbating is basically 'playing' with your penis. It's when boys rub their penis' to create a stimulation that is like having sex.
I will refer you to a website that will enlighten you on everything to know - www.jackinworld.com (http://www.jackinworld.com)
or for general puberty:
www.puberty101.com (http://www.puberty101.com)

[curiousteen]

it doesnt really matter but if u have foreskin its goin to be more pleasurable but im cut.

[Just_a_kid]

yeah, pontiacdriver. I do use lube, i use lotion. I used a loose grip. Idk wut the problem is, maybe i do have a minor urinary traction. Although, I did ejaculate this liquid that was clear and i dont think it was urine.

[pontiacdriver]

yeah, pontiacdriver. I do use lube, i use lotion. I used a loose grip. Idk wut the problem is, maybe i do have a minor urinary traction. Although, I did ejaculate this liquid that was clear and i dont think it was urine.

My thinking is that what you ejaculated was pre-cum, which is the fluid that lubricate the urethra prior to an ejaculation. Keep in mind that urine is toxic to sperm, and the body needs to lubricate the urethra so as to protect sperm. If you have not ejaculated before, then pre-cum is a sign that your first ejaculation is coming up.

As for your pain, you have nothing to loose to be screened for a urinary tract infection. Simply tell your parents that you have pain when you urinate, and they really should not make a big deal of it. After all, women get urinary tract infections from time to time, and your Mother would be the most understanding of your issue. When you go to the doctor's office all that will happen is the doctor asking you when your pain started and what your symptoms are. Your doctor will not ask if you masturbate, and your doctor will not judge you. As a result, don't be afraid if you get a boner during an exam, but I doubt that will happen as nothing is a bigger turn off than rubber exam gloves and antiseptic spray which is commonly used in medical offices. You will be asked to go to the washroom and urinate into a specimen container. From there the doctor or his/her assistant will do a dipstick test to see if you have any bacteria present. It is a totally painless process. In worst case scenario you will have to be on medication for about a week, and things should clear up. In the short-term you might want to drink some cranberry juice as that alleviates, but does NOT cure, symptoms of a urinary tract infection.

I hope that things get better, and let us know how things turn out.

[Just_a_kid]

okay, so if it doesnt hurt when i urinate then i still dont understand why it hurts for a little while after I orgasm. Cuz ive seen porn before and they just keep going. :/

[IAMSAM]

okay, so if it doesnt hurt when i urinate then i still dont understand why it hurts for a little while after I orgasm. Cuz ive seen porn before and they just keep going. :/


OK, I've followed along here and think I understand.

The sensation you're referring to after orgasm sounds pretty normal. It's not actual 'pain' which is the body's signal that it's damaged or injured (or infected). After orgasm, there's a hypersensitivity to touch and stimulation, which is experienced as 'uncomfortable', like a burning/tingly feeling esp. at or near the head of the penis. This is the body's signal to you to stop, that the act is complete. Biologically, by creating a sensation which results in your stopping, it better insures that the semen you've just expelled (in a vagina during sex for procreation) stays in there and doesnt get 'rubbed out'.

If you're talking about THAT sensation, the tingly, burning feeling after orgasm, it's normal, and there's not much to do. It will last thru the 'refractory period', that time between erections when you're 'resting' and cannot get an erection, and might be more intense the more orgasms you have oin a single session.

Lotions, lubes, grips or techniques will not change this, it is a biological function.

[Just_a_kid]

Wow, thats the exact answer i was looking for. Btw, are you really a doctor?

[IAMSAM]

Glad I could help. Almost a doctor. Just currently practicing!

[Just_a_kid]

Good for you, i hope you get your degree in..... what are you going into? Ureology?

[Kalphite]

okay erm..
i can cum wen i was 12 1/2 a litle bit o.O
am i early , average or late into puberty?? cuz lotz of my friends cant yet
n im 13

[Requin]

I'd say you were maybe a little early. But not alot. So your fine. And it really doesn't matter if your early or not, as you'll end up in the same place anyway so..

Your fine and on the way down the long road of puberty. Just don't veer of at the junction. :-)

[IAMSAM]

Good for you, i hope you get your degree in..... what are you going into? Ureology?

Urology?! Could you imagine that, looking at, and answering stuff like THIS all day?! LOL!

nah, Psychology for me.

[Choppa375]

when i masturbate i fantasize about boys i know masturbating. is this strange? what does everyone think?

[Requin]

when i masturbate i fantasize about boys i know masturbating. is this strange? what does everyone think?
No it's not strange. In fact it's very normal for teenagers. It's all down to the hormones and being curious about the same sex.

It doesn't mean your gay and it's not wrong or a sin. But it's a bit 'taboo' amongst the teenage world to admit to it. But there is nothing wrong with it, lots of teenagers do it, like me. :D

[nameitnom]

Okay i'm 15 and i masturbate maybe once a day idk i don't count but i've never cummed. maybe i have a problem or i havent matured yet if this sort of thing happend to you or have advise reply back please.:confused:

[Second Sight]

Okay i'm 15 and i masturbate maybe once a day idk i don't count but i've never cummed. maybe i have a problem or i havent matured yet if this sort of thing happend to you or have advise reply back please.:confused:

well it sounds like you are a little behind, but its nothing to worry about. you still have 5+ years ahead of puberty.

[pontiacdriver]

Okay i'm 15 and i masturbate maybe once a day idk i don't count but i've never cummed. maybe i have a problem or i havent matured yet if this sort of thing happend to you or have advise reply back please.:confused:

I agree that you are just a late bloomer and have nothing about which to worry. Keep in mind that some guys as late as 16/17 develop the ability to ejaculate at that late stage, and you are hardly alone. There is nothing you can do to make yourself ejaculate as you cannot create something that does not exist. In short, don't worry as you are normal, and not being able to cum hardly makes you less of a man. You will be able to ejaculate sooner than later. If you don't have any signs of puberty by the time you hit 16, then you should visit your doctor. However, if you are having other signs of puberty such as increased size, body hair, and increased muscle tone, then you just need to be patient.

[lildude123]

is there a video out there that shows you how to masturbate

[wsvjr]

umm... maybe but all you really have to do is play with yourself and find out what you enjoy. if i am allowed to there is a mastrabation site i know

[markmcw]

Hey, I have been masturbating for a year or 2 now and well i just done cum.
I normally do it for about 10-20min 1 / 2 times a day.
Is this normal ?

Im comming 14 in about 1 month so...

[Second Sight]

Hey, I have been masturbating for a year or 2 now and well i just done cum.
I normally do it for about 10-20min 1 / 2 times a day.
Is this normal ?

Im comming 14 in about 1 month so...

well its fine as long as masturbation doesnt interfere with your life. (i.e. not going out with friends, not doing homework, etc.)

[markmcw]

Well i just cum for the first time and it felt really good.. Im guessing thats an organsim

[Second Sight]

Well i just cum for the first time and it felt really good.. Im guessing thats an organsim

well the orgasm is the feeling of euphoria/climax you get right before you ejaculate.

[wavey]

Yep, it's normal. That's why a lot of guys do it at night. Helps them fall asleep faster.
:P

Always do it on a night :yawn::wave:

[optimashprime]

lol me to

[pizzamon]

Hmmm. I don't usually do it at night, but there's the incentive falling asleep easier.

[tjjaida]

I jack off maybe 3 times a day or so. and i cannot get an orgasam. right before i cum i jus feel tension in my penius. Is this normal? How can i get an orgasam?

[please help me 69]

im pretty sure that is the orgasm

[tjjaida]

is there a video out there that shows you how to masturbate

try http://www.jackinworld.com/

[Second Sight]

Not sure. but i know a very good way to masturbate. Get some lube and rub it against the palm of your hand. With the other hand hold you penius still ,and with the lube hand, rub it in a circular motion. The orgasam is really powerful!

TRY iT.!

we're not aloud to talk about masturbation techniques here, but http://www.jackinworld.com/ is a great website for masturbation techniques.

[jarojosy]

Guys? I'm kinda new and have a question-
You say that when you have an orgasm after masturbating, you ejaculate, right? When I masturbate, nothing comes out. Is this normal for a 13 year old?

[iamvampire]

Yea, your not developed enough to ejaculate yet... itll happen when you are.

[jarojosy]

Yea, your not developed enough to ejaculate yet... itll happen when you are.

oh... right. Thanks for helping!

[Second Sight]

Guys? I'm kinda new and have a question-
You say that when you have an orgasm after masturbating, you ejaculate, right? When I masturbate, nothing comes out. Is this normal for a 13 year old?

yes. give it time. when your body matures enough to make enough sperm and semen you will be able to ejaculate.

[ski4life]

I'm uncut and it feels a whole lot better to jack off.

[Awesdude2]

Does it say in the bible about masturbation?

[Awesdude2]

Does it say in the bible about masturbation?

[ViciousScheme]

About what about masturbation? Like is it a sin, things of that nature? If thats what your asking, it depends on what religion. There are a few tweaked versions. I could probably answer if you told me what religion you are.

[Awesdude2]

Does it say anything about masturbation in the bible
also is it bad for you????

[Awesdude2]

Does it say anything about masturbation in the bible
also is it bad for you????
I am Christian

[Awesdude2]

What does the bible say about Masturbation
I am Christian
Also is it harmful fir your body

[Second Sight]

What does the bible say about Masturbation
I am Christian
Also is it harmful fir your body

I don't listen to the bible. Religion is fake (i'm christian, i can say that). It didn't develope with humanity, it was developed by humanity. The bible makes no mention of masturbation, but the popes of a couple centuries ago believed that you could run out of sperm, so they decreed that masturbation was sinful and wasteful.

And its not harmful to your body in any way (unless its interfereing with your life). See my puberty guide (http://www.virtualteen.org/forums/showthread.php?t=32886), it has the benefits and negitive things of masturbation in Section 4.

[tjjaida]

I agree
Masturbating should be your choice because it's your body and your not harmng anybody.It's your choice if you do or don't.it's your body


Hit meh upp ppl on here or aim

princemoney8

[pontiacdriver]

What does the bible say about Masturbation
I am Christian
Also is it harmful fir your body

To be honest, the Bible really does not say much, if anything, about Masturbation. I think there is some obscure reference to masturbation in the Old Testament where God told a fellow to marry his dead brother's wife and impregnate her to have children in his brother's name (as was custom in those days), and the fellow defied God by masturbating rather than having sex with the woman. However, there is really no outright probhition to masturbation to my knowledge. I think that any religion, be it Christianity, Judaism, Islam, etc. pretty much teaches one should be responsible with one's body and that as long as one does not abuse it, then you are kosher. As long as you are not masturbating all the time or practising negative sexuality, then masturbating is fine. After all, masturbating/ejaculating is a normal biological process no different than urinating, defecating, or sweating.

[mrpenguin]

What is the best way to masturbate and get the best 'sensation' other than pulling up and down (the traditional way)?

[peachey1994]

i used a comdom great way to stop mess

[iwgg]

I'm 14 and almost done puberty (like stage 4 or something) and I have masturbated and ejaculated semen and everything. But even after not masturbating for at least a month and also at the beginning/midway through puberty, I haven't had a wet dream. I thought you were supposed to have them. Is there something wrong with me?

[pontiacdriver]

I'm 14 and almost done puberty (like stage 4 or something) and I have masturbated and ejaculated semen and everything. But even after not masturbating for at least a month and also at the beginning/midway through puberty, I haven't had a wet dream. I thought you were supposed to have them. Is there something wrong with me?

Wet dreams definitely are not mandatory, and many guys don't get one especially if they have been masturbating for a while. Wet dreams are simply the result of the build up of a lot of semen, and if you masturbate a lot, then you just are not going to have build up of any sort resulting in a wet dream.

[markmcw]

Is cum white? As mine comes out and its like sorta clear but like cream in a way... Or is it cause im 14?

[marcus24rich]

Is cum white? As mine comes out and its like sorta clear but like cream in a way... Or is it cause im 14?

most likely its b/c your 14 or it could just be pre-cum but probably the first

[markmcw]

Well it cant be pre cum as i have a orgasm and all... i think its just cause of the first one...

[Second Sight]

Well it cant be pre cum as i have a orgasm and all... i think its just cause of the first one...

yes. it sounds like you can ejaculate, but your semen is clear/cloudy (it has some sperm in it) and over time, it will progress to become translucent (mostly white).

[NinJaKloWn]

Hey, im 14 and kinda new to masturbating. Every time i jack off a clear liquid comes out like urine (im pretty sure its not). I usually catch it in my hand and use it as lube. What is this stuff? Also, until recently, i masturbated to no orgasm. The other day i got like a sensory overload and had to stop. Just then, a tiny amount ( maybe one drop ) of what i think was semen came out. Was this an orgasm? If so, why so little?

[Second Sight]

Hey, im 14 and kinda new to masturbating. Every time i jack off a clear liquid comes out like urine (im pretty sure its not). I usually catch it in my hand and use it as lube. What is this stuff? Also, until recently, i masturbated to no orgasm. The other day i got like a sensory overload and had to stop. Just then, a tiny amount ( maybe one drop ) of what i think was semen came out. Was this an orgasm? If so, why so little?

What comes out sounds like semen or pre-cum. However, since you are able to catch it in your hand, i would say that you are ejaculating semen.

Why would you masturbate to no orgasm? when the stuff comes out its called Ejaculation, not Orgasm. Orgasm is the strong feeling of euphoria you get after masturbation. I think your "sensory overload" would be the orgasm, and thats the point where your supposed to masturbate to get to. You will Ejaculate more over time as your body matures and it makes more semen and sperm. its Normal.

[pontiacdriver]

Hey, im 14 and kinda new to masturbating. Every time i jack off a clear liquid comes out like urine (im pretty sure its not). I usually catch it in my hand and use it as lube. What is this stuff? Also, until recently, i masturbated to no orgasm. The other day i got like a sensory overload and had to stop. Just then, a tiny amount ( maybe one drop ) of what i think was semen came out. Was this an orgasm? If so, why so little?

The post above has hit the nail on the head, and the only thing I would add is that the sensory overload you had was probably the refractory period after one ejaculates. Keep in mind that after one ejaculates the penis is usually sensitive for a little while after the ejaculation.

[weebananas]

Hey, I just had my first ejaculation the other day. [Congrats, right!? Haha!]

Well, i used my own saliva for lube, and it worked pretty well. I was wondering if there could be any nice house-hold products to use, since im not just gonna go out and buy some lube. Haha.

Also: A little after my first time, when I tuched my penis it hurt. Is this just because its not used to ejaculating?

[pontiacdriver]

Hey, I just had my first ejaculation the other day. [Congrats, right!? Haha!]

Well, i used my own saliva for lube, and it worked pretty well. I was wondering if there could be any nice house-hold products to use, since im not just gonna go out and buy some lube. Haha.

Also: A little after my first time, when I tuched my penis it hurt. Is this just because its not used to ejaculating?

Congratulations on your first ejaculation, and I hope it went by well and that you knew what was happening.

As for household lubes, you can use creams, lotions, or baby oil. Just don't use anything medicated or any soaps, shampoos, or conditioners as those things will burn your urethra. Cream is your best bet as you not only moisterize your skin, but you also have a good lube.

As for your penis hurting a bit after your first ejaculation my first guess is that it is because you are not used to the sensations down there as your plumbing is being turned on so to speak. Also, keep in mind that you will have a brief period after you ejaculate called the "refractory period" where you penis will be sensitive to the touch as your penis needs time to recover from your ejaculation.

[calleimix]

is it ok to masterbate like 5 times a day perhaps?

[surenix]

whatever floats your boat, just don't over do it and have it take over your life.

[weebananas]

Congratulations on your first ejaculation, and I hope it went by well and that you knew what was happening.

As for household lubes, you can use creams, lotions, or baby oil. Just don't use anything medicated or any soaps, shampoos, or conditioners as those things will burn your urethra. Cream is your best bet as you not only moisterize your skin, but you also have a good lube.

As for your penis hurting a bit after your first ejaculation my first guess is that it is because you are not used to the sensations down there as your plumbing is being turned on so to speak. Also, keep in mind that you will have a brief period after you ejaculate called the "refractory period" where you penis will be sensitive to the touch as your penis needs time to recover from your ejaculation.Haha yeah. I felt... "achieved" after it. :D

Yeah... I think my saliva is working great. xD

As for the refractory period, I noticed... I pulled my boxers up and it touched my glans, then I was like "WOAH!" Haha. :yummy:

Also... Yesterday, all that came out was pre-cum. I'm not sure if what came out today was regular semen, or still pre-cum. Yesterday was very clear with a white tent to it. Today, it was just liek watery milk?