View Full Version : How did you first find out you were gay or bi?
Anonymous
May 21st, 2005, 10:42 PM
i have always had afeeling for guys. i first thought i was gay. then, i saw some porn on the computer with girls and..... YEAH!!! :P
ΦρανψοΒριτ
May 21st, 2005, 11:50 PM
I was always tought to like girls, but I remember in grade 6, i thought this guy was hot, and thinking this isnt normal..... And then in grade 7, i was sitting in class, staring at a guy thinking wow....hes hot! Oh shit....
bobOmatic
May 22nd, 2005, 04:14 PM
im not sur eif im gay but i have feeling for guys and girls i think i might be bi
<-Dying_to_Live->
May 22nd, 2005, 05:11 PM
well at first i denied it for a really long time and then i gradually started to accept it. there was no real defining point where i woke up and was like "im gay"
boy_lover88
May 23rd, 2005, 09:18 AM
I think I found this out when I was in 3rd grade, but I never knew what gay meant until like 5th or 6th grade. I remembered thinking that this guy in my class was cute and when he dropped something he'd always bend down to pick it up. Well, I was always there to watch his fine ass. That must of been my first sign of hormones.
knight4thedark
May 25th, 2005, 12:53 AM
well i always had these weird feelings ever since i was in the fifth grade. when i entered middle school i started noticing the guys more. most of my friends were girls and and all the guys used to say my best friends Pilar and Amanda were the hottest girls in school. i used to hear people say they used to jack off to pictures of them. never had those feelings and i thought it was weird. i was sort of envious that all the guys paid attention to them more than me. i got depressed and started eating more. then i started fantasizing about these two guys in our class... Chris and Peter. i always liked to draw anime and i used to draw them (sometimes how i saw them and sometimes a bit raunchier). i couldnt deny my gayness then. i used to masturbate to the thought of them. i still see them today and it doesnt get any better.
RunAwayMolly
June 7th, 2005, 10:14 AM
i just happen to LOVE being sexual with girls... i dont date girls... i only sleep with them... in most cases they are better then men in bed... in my opinion...
Anonymous
June 7th, 2005, 10:27 AM
wow! really molly? thats awesome!
RunAwayMolly
June 7th, 2005, 10:30 AM
eeeyuuppp! it first started out as a drunken game of truth or dare last summer... i mean i had always LOOOVED the female body and thought it was soooo beautiful i just really hadnt been tangled in it... and let me say... being tangled in it is lots and lots of fun! me and another girl who happens to be a lesbian were dared to kiss... and we were both so drunk we went in another room and kept going lol... yes... good times... but i wont get into details lol!
Waiting
June 7th, 2005, 03:29 PM
shame :P
redcar
June 8th, 2005, 07:16 AM
at first i denied i liked guys but then i just learned to except it for who i am
Sk8erguy065
June 23rd, 2005, 06:00 PM
Ah people tell me my story is funny.. ok well ever since i was in the 5th grade i looked and male underwear catalogs lol like my dad ordered underwear all the time so i would look and look at them for hours and when i got into middle school i had very effectionate feelings for guys so when i got in seventh i kissed a guy on the lips in truth or dare and wooooooo weeeeeeeeee that was the happiest moment of my life!!!! and since then ive always had feelings for boys.
///James///
June 24th, 2005, 03:56 AM
cool story. man i wanna kiss a guy :cry:
Ahoy
June 29th, 2005, 12:07 PM
For the longest time I was not attracted to either sex. When I hit puberty I found women attractive becuase I thought it was not right to like men. Then I saw an underwear page when I first got the internet. It was a mistake going there. I then found the men attractive too. It was a few years actually around christmas that I realised that I was attracted to both.
Jordan-Civ3 Master1991
June 30th, 2005, 04:45 PM
I guessw ive always known in my heart but i did not except it untill recenly
Jordan-Civ3 Master1991
June 30th, 2005, 04:46 PM
your heart will know if you just listen enough
depressed hyper boy
July 9th, 2005, 01:19 AM
ok, this is a story i havent told ANYONE!!!! so yea...well, i was at my friends house, which was huge!!! we were all there cause we were going to play hide and seek... it was dark....i came in late, and people were changing into dark clothes...i walked into a closet that was...occupied by a boy the same age as me *this was the beginning of 7th grade btw* and he was openly gay... i always that he was kinda handsome, not cute, but handsome....anyway, he turned around and he was BUCK NAKED! and, i got soo....happy....and i kissed him.....for very long....like an hour.....and then, a boy walked in, not noticing us kissing, and crouched down....he was in his black boxers, and no shirt...and happend to be gay too....and i liked him...alot....so, i left the other guy for a second, and started kissing the guy who walked in.....and then the 1st guy came over, and started, like, petting the guys chest....and i got sooooooo horny...and then all of us 3 started...getting it on............i wont go farther, but when we finished, there was no1 else in the house...and it was midnight.....yea...THE END!...dont laugh.... :oops:
RunAwayMolly
July 9th, 2005, 06:41 PM
I love to look at a nice pair of ta ta's
kevin
July 9th, 2005, 07:27 PM
ok, this is a story i havent told ANYONE!!!! so yea...well, i was at my friends house, which was huge!!! we were all there cause we were going to play hide and seek... it was dark....i came in late, and people were changing into dark clothes...i walked into a closet that was...occupied by a boy the same age as me *this was the beginning of 7th grade btw* and he was openly gay... i always that he was kinda handsome, not cute, but handsome....anyway, he turned around and he was BUCK NAKED! and, i got soo....happy....and i kissed him.....for very long....like an hour.....and then, a boy walked in, not noticing us kissing, and crouched down....he was in his black boxers, and no shirt...and happend to be gay too....and i liked him...alot....so, i left the other guy for a second, and started kissing the guy who walked in.....and then the 1st guy came over, and started, like, petting the guys chest....and i got sooooooo horny...and then all of us 3 started...getting it on............i wont go farther, but when we finished, there was no1 else in the house...and it was midnight.....yea...THE END!...dont laugh.... :oops:
what are you takling about, you're lucky.
CamXV
July 10th, 2005, 12:30 PM
yea, we all wish... i first found out i was gay when i was about 5. i never really thought about it much, but i never really liked girls that much. i mean, i have feelings for them ,just not sexual you know?
Amphetamine
July 12th, 2005, 06:22 AM
i figured out i was bi when i was in 7th grade. some people say the fact i played football did it for me but it wasn't. i got a crush on one of my best friends. i didn't tell anyone until 8th grade and that's when lindsay (my gf now) told me she was too. so yeah. that is my story.
<-Dying_to_Live->
July 12th, 2005, 01:45 PM
i broke up with my gf cuz i didnt want to "do" anything. thats when it finally struck me. that and the openness of vt allowed me to accept it
kevin
July 12th, 2005, 06:17 PM
i broke up with my gf cuz i didnt want to "do" anything. thats when it finally struck me. that and the openness of vt allowed me to accept it
that's vT's job. Making lives clearer around the world!
Waiting
July 13th, 2005, 07:32 AM
damn right, woo a success case
olivia
June 18th, 2007, 05:52 AM
well it didn't show until 5th or 6th grade but i always said i liked girls but then in the 7th grade i got a boyfriend and i came out as bi and then i lost the 2 girls i loved so then there was only men left so i knew when this boy named patrick sucked my dick
lxl
June 18th, 2007, 11:41 AM
9th grade... saw a realllly cute boy in my class
Melchi0r
June 18th, 2007, 12:00 PM
When I was in like second grade I had a childhood romance with a girl my mom babysat. In middle school I was all about getting a girlfriend. But when I got into high school I began to realize my feelings for guys grew stronger than my feelings for girls, but since I still like dating girls I've realized I'm bisexual.
lxl
June 18th, 2007, 01:54 PM
When I was in like second grade I had a childhood romance with a girl my mom babysat. In middle school I was all about getting a girlfriend. But when I got into high school I began to realize my feelings for guys grew stronger than my feelings for girls, but since I still like dating girls I've realized I'm bisexual.
i had something like that too... i mean few years ago i really liked girls and stuff and i thought it was just a regular thing that i would go through.... when i started high school thats when i figured out
Flex
June 18th, 2007, 02:23 PM
internet
Guess :P
sfmdraw
August 17th, 2007, 05:19 AM
This past summer I discovered that I am gay. (I'm going into 9th.) Near the end of school, a highschooler (the building is 6-8, then 9-12), said that I was cute. I had a odd feeling around him for the remainder of the year, but I thought it was embarresment, or just the memory of that awquard and random moment. But, lo and behold, he was at my drama camp this summer...and so was his boyfriend. I kept looking at him funny, and spacing out, but when he looked I would turn away. Cliche, isn't it? And idiotic. Oh, by the way...he's hot and gorgous! :wub: After camp had finished, we texted daily. Then he [randomly] asked if I liked anyone. I was shocked. My answer:
Yes.
Him: Do I know...this person?
Me: Mmhmm.
Him: Does...this person go to our school?
Me: Yeah.
Him: It's me, isn't it?
I was dumbfounded. How did he know? When I asked, he replied that he had seen all my glances towards him, but had said nothing because he found it cute. Then he said: You're going all red, aren't you? I replied that I was. He thought something I had done was cute!!! I told him I was shocked he noticed that I glow red when embarresed or really pleased. He said he noticed a lot about me, for he had snuck glances at me, too. That made me redder. He said he thought my red episodes were cute and very attractive.
So did his bf notice our glances? Or anyone else, for that matter? He said that he didn't kwow of anyone noticing. Good. For some reason, I freaked at the thought, but soon calmed. He had been gay for over a year, so we met up [not telling his bf, whose a bit of a jealous type], had lunch, and he talked to me about what to expect being gay. He asked me who else I was attrackted to, but it's only him.
As I said that, I gave my drink a carefull examination, avoiding his gaze.
"You mean," he had started, "that I'm the only guy for you?"
"Mmhmm." I mumbled. He reached across the table and put his hand over mine. My face started glowing. He reminded me that he has a boyfriend. I told him that I know, but I can't help lo-
I stopped. I almost said it.
"You love me?"
"Well - I - it's just that -" I remember babling, my face getting redder. He quickly withdrew his hand, realizing that made me red in the first place. He said it was the first time he didn't find my redness attractive.
I'm sorry, readers, but this seems like a made-up story, doesn't it? Oh well, I guess I'm used to writing events like this since I DO go to an art school for writing. Thanks for reading.
baby_girl1
August 17th, 2007, 11:26 AM
Well I first strating noticeing that I thought girls were hot was like 5th grade, my best friend wanted me to spend a night at her house, so when we went to bed we dared each other to kiss one another along with other parts of the body so we both did and ive started noticing women every since, but i still think guys are hot to..:)
Serenity
August 17th, 2007, 12:22 PM
This past summer I discovered that I am gay. (I'm going into 9th.) Near the end of school, a highschooler (the building is 6-8, then 9-12), said that I was cute. I had a odd feeling around him for the remainder of the year, but I thought it was embarresment, or just the memory of that awquard and random moment. But, lo and behold, he was at my drama camp this summer...and so was his boyfriend. I kept looking at him funny, and spacing out, but when he looked I would turn away. Cliche, isn't it? And idiotic. Oh, by the way...he's hot and gorgous! :wub: After camp had finished, we texted daily. Then he [randomly] asked if I liked anyone. I was shocked. My answer:
Yes.
Him: Do I know...this person?
Me: Mmhmm.
Him: Does...this person go to our school?
Me: Yeah.
Him: It's me, isn't it?
I was dumbfounded. How did he know? When I asked, he replied that he had seen all my glances towards him, but had said nothing because he found it cute. Then he said: You're going all red, aren't you? I replied that I was. He thought something I had done was cute!!! I told him I was shocked he noticed that I glow red when embarresed or really pleased. He said he noticed a lot about me, for he had snuck glances at me, too. That made me redder. He said he thought my red episodes were cute and very attractive.
So did his bf notice our glances? Or anyone else, for that matter? He said that he didn't kwow of anyone noticing. Good. For some reason, I freaked at the thought, but soon calmed. He had been gay for over a year, so we met up [not telling his bf, whose a bit of a jealous type], had lunch, and he talked to me about what to expect being gay. He asked me who else I was attrackted to, but it's only him.
As I said that, I gave my drink a carefull examination, avoiding his gaze.
"You mean," he had started, "that I'm the only guy for you?"
"Mmhmm." I mumbled. He reached across the table and put his hand over mine. My face started glowing. He reminded me that he has a boyfriend. I told him that I know, but I can't help lo-
I stopped. I almost said it.
"You love me?"
"Well - I - it's just that -" I remember babling, my face getting redder. He quickly withdrew his hand, realizing that made me red in the first place. He said it was the first time he didn't find my redness attractive.
I'm sorry, readers, but this seems like a made-up story, doesn't it? Oh well, I guess I'm used to writing events like this since I DO go to an art school for writing. Thanks for reading.
Awww omgosh that was so adorable! I was just grinning the whole time. So what happened with him? Did you stay friends?
Unknown_kid
August 17th, 2007, 12:42 PM
it was the middle of 7th grade... And my girlfriend just dumped me....and my best friend adam, who only i, have known, him being bisexual, came to me, and just, randomly gave me a hug, and i kind of got red...so later that day, when i got out of my last class, he was waiting by the door, usealy he meets me at the bottom of the hill to walk home... so we stsrted walking home, and, my mom was never home, so we went to my house to hang out.
Then we just kind of started talking, and, idk why, but, i just fealt like kissing him, but i still fealt weird because i like girls.....
and thats kinda how i knew i was bi.
jkpartyguy14
August 17th, 2007, 12:51 PM
I knew I was bi whe I started liking guys and looking at them. I had always dated girls, but I knew all along I really liked guys a little more than girls so there for I am bi. :)
Unknown_kid
August 17th, 2007, 12:55 PM
i kind of had that fealing :)
Mollie
August 17th, 2007, 01:27 PM
i realised when i was watching tv and i always noticed how good looking the girls were...
but i love guys aswell lol
i cant decide who i like more...
Maverick
August 17th, 2007, 03:07 PM
It's old but I think I'll sticky this.
chrestomanci266
August 17th, 2007, 06:43 PM
at the min im 16 and a late developer, iv liked girls for a long time but recently bn lookin at boys but i think its prob more curiosity because im such a late developer, but this topic has helped me some how so thx:)
Unknown_kid
August 17th, 2007, 07:05 PM
heh?
LateForTheSky
August 20th, 2007, 11:19 AM
I've kinda always known but it didnt hit me until I found out what gay means and how it is preseved by the public. I always liked boys better than girls even for friends
Phoenix Vermillion
August 23rd, 2007, 04:27 AM
I, myself didn't really find out I was bi; it was quite obvious to me really.
But, to give a clear answer, it was when I was on the phone talkin' to my best bud. He just said "We're both bi." And I replied with a simple "Yup."
XD
Yeah, I just really don't care and I don't make a big deal out of it. I look at it like "Who cares?". My point? HELL NO am I telling my parents, XD
george
August 25th, 2007, 03:30 PM
Im not sure if im gay or not :confused:
robert92
August 26th, 2007, 06:20 AM
Im not sure if im gay or not :confused:
mm same :(
Serenity
August 26th, 2007, 06:36 PM
Im not sure if im gay or not :confused:
mm same :frown:
Don't worry- you've got plenty of time to work it out. :daisy:
Jupiter Love
August 28th, 2007, 08:16 AM
I'm not gay, but I am Bisexual!!! :D
There was this Greek guy who I kinda liked a while back. I just thought that the way he had his hair was hot, and he had a really cute smile. :)
There were times when I had sexual thoughts about him, and it really turned me on.
But I still sort of like him in a way. We aren't friends or anything, and he doesn't know that I think he is hot. And I sometimes find his laugh to be cute.
But he ain't the only guy who I thought was hot and had sexual thoughts about.
There was also this Mexican guy, this Asian guy, this Italian guy, and this half Asian half Hawaiian guy. :)
So yeah, I am bisexual, but I like girls more, though. Isn't that weird?
Serenity
August 28th, 2007, 12:15 PM
So yeah, I am bisexual, but I like girls more, though. Isn't that weird?
Not really. I have yet to meet a bisexual person who likes guys and girls equally :P
Chris92
September 2nd, 2007, 01:44 PM
i knew i was bi/gay when i started thinking guys wur hot haha cause straight guys dont lol, but then my first time with a guy was drunken then again my next guy i was completley sober hahaha but i mean yeah to me if uf eel for guys more then girls ur gay bi, i mena some people are just curios, but if ur curious then ur bi like its simple u cant be straight and want to suck a dick it jsut doesnt make sense.
the presence
September 3rd, 2007, 08:43 PM
i'm bi, i like guys about 80 or 90% of the time tho
i kissed my best friend and i knew from that point on. and i started noticing boys more than i noticed girls.
monkeychild
September 5th, 2007, 02:25 AM
i first worked out i was gay in year 7.
i just started a new school and there was one guy i could not stop thinking about and then i started looking at pics of guys so thats how i knew. i have never told anyone that
lxl
September 9th, 2007, 09:35 PM
hmm... beginning of high school for me
like all of a sudden, i found myself crushing on this guy in my class...
t0mb0ii13
September 18th, 2007, 03:14 PM
(im a girl lol -_-)
I never really started getting into anybody until i was about 13, I pretty much was always a sk8r chick XD anyway, I went to one of my friends house (HUGE HOUSE XD) and we were all playing truth or dare, (there was a few boys of course lol) and one of my friends was really REALLY shy lol, and my friend Chey dared me to kiss her and i was all "WTF?!" and i kinda got pissed off at her but she offered me a fifty so i did it, turns out i LIKED kissing her, and after the party i told her that i liked her ^_^ and now were together ^_^ if u laugh i will hunt u down and kill ur CARPET CLEANER XD:D
Dave
September 18th, 2007, 03:56 PM
When i was on 4-5 grade, i start having oral sex with a friend (we don't know that it was bad or something), then i decide to tell him that we should stop doing it, because we understand that it was bad, not becuase we know the reason, we only know that it was bad.
Later on, in middle school, when i was in 2 grd. I experience my first masturbation thinking in that moments, so then i was starting to think i was gay, and it doesn't matter.
Know im 15, in 2 grd of highschool, i still think of him, and when i see other mans naked, i get turned on, so at this moments, i think i'm gay, because i was never atracted by womens, but im still "in the closet"
spyfly25
September 18th, 2007, 08:10 PM
you think all your stories are wierld.
my friends were looking at porn on my compter(don't ask y), well i see a picture of a guy and a girl. well i am still looking at the picture and i think wow look that that ***** then i start to think look at the dick. day after i take my laptop into the bathroom and star looking at porn on staight porn i mean GAY porn.
Intesting enough that night way the first night i jacked off and before that i didn't know what masterbait meant; not the least one bit.
so who can beat the story of my discovery
sasori1122
October 1st, 2007, 06:22 PM
Well...I always felt attracted to girls...and then I started being attracted to guys too...and then I fell in love with a girl for the first time...have since broken up with that girl...and now I'm practically in love with a guy...so...I guess it just sort of gradually built up on me...
grimlip
October 6th, 2007, 03:19 AM
6th grade is when I first thought a guy was cute. And I thought to myself "Ok, so if I am gay, so what" and I completly forgot that. I didn't really accept myself until the 9th grade and even then I thought I was bi. I didn't FINALLY accept my gayness, :), until a couple of months ago actually. I think it was 4 months ago.
drcarter24
October 10th, 2007, 02:15 AM
ALWAYS been gay...lol...i used to play with barbies and dress up in moms clothes...then I hung out with ALL girls and played house on the playground...then I guess you could say I was molested by a family member...but i can't say that I didn't want it...although incest is gross...and as I grew up...i LOVED seeing guys naked in the locker room after football prac. and what not. :D
Blahages
October 16th, 2007, 12:07 AM
Well, I've never had a girl friend. Never had any interest in one. I never had any interest in a boy friend either. I went quite a while without even giving any of it any thought.
Then, two years ago, I had a summer job with Two Twin Guys I know, that I went to school with, and I eventually got to the point where there was one of them I was really attracted to. Never really had been attracted to anyone before, so I definitely noticed it. Of course, it got worse over time, but eh. He has a girl friend, and of course, nothing would ever happen between us. But, since then, I've come to the conclusion that I like guys, and I'd love to have a relationship with one, but I'm too shy for that to happen anytime soon. I'm still working on coming out to my Family. I did to a few friends, and one of My Sisters. Also, to My mom Two years ago, but she didn't seem to believe me at the time, and I do believe has forgotten about it, or decided that I was just confused, and nothing has been said since between us about it.
Many Years ago, I THOUGHT I liked Girls, for a time, but I'm thinking it was mainly just me thinking that since I was "Supposed" to like them, that I did. I never gave the opposing idea any thought, until that.
I've had a few people I've liked, one of which is a "fairly" close friend, and he knows it. But they've all been Straight, and Have no intention of Returning the Feelings.
The FIRST time I MIGHT have an the SLIGHTEST Idea I was gay was Perhaps in 4th Grade. There was this guy a grade or two ahead (Perhaps more? I can't remember anymore) that I had this odd feelings towards. Never really understood it. All I knew was their first name, but some reason there was something strange about them. For whatever reason I had this Idea that there was something "Magic" about them. Yeah. Don't ask me to explain the thoughts of a 4th Grader, even IF I was that Fourth Grader. Because, I honestly don't know.
Fun Stuff. :-/
myspace
November 9th, 2007, 05:36 AM
Ive always liked girls.
Always.
Once I thought that boy looked okay, but then, Im Just like that girl looks way hotter
mofo620
November 20th, 2007, 02:42 AM
well it started when I was like 8 there was this girl in class I liked then there was a boy that lived near me and he stayed the night one time and we did stuff.
then on I was more of Bi curious as I got older, Now that I am 17 I have been with a guy and a girl, so I know for sure now.
Dave
November 30th, 2007, 01:17 PM
I have finally come out to my parents!!!!!
sabin22
December 12th, 2007, 08:53 AM
eeeyuuppp! it first started out as a drunken game of truth or dare last summer... i mean i had always LOOOVED the female body and thought it was soooo beautiful i just really hadnt been tangled in it... and let me say... being tangled in it is lots and lots of fun! me and another girl who happens to be a lesbian were dared to kiss... and we were both so drunk we went in another room and kept going lol... yes... good times... but i wont get into details lol!
thats a good 4 1st time, lol, sry for being off subjrct, rock on
zacharooo
December 18th, 2007, 03:10 AM
i am not sure what i am!
fuji
December 18th, 2007, 03:23 AM
i think i'm bi
joes2
December 28th, 2007, 12:31 AM
I new i was gay after i started flirting with my best friend
Everglow
December 28th, 2007, 12:35 AM
gay porn.
Tatsuya
December 28th, 2007, 05:10 AM
I new i was gay after i started flirting with my best friend
me too......except i`m bi :p
Mick O'Leery
December 28th, 2007, 06:05 AM
gay porn.
??? You knew form that?
Patchy
December 28th, 2007, 07:29 AM
??? You knew form that?
Maybe he got turned on by that...even though that doesnt mean your gay.
Mick O'Leery
December 29th, 2007, 04:36 AM
Yeah that's what I meant.
Xarra
December 29th, 2007, 08:18 AM
me too......except i`m bi :p
the bi twinx!!:P
ideasgirl
January 5th, 2008, 08:21 PM
I was always physically attracted to girls. Even in grade two I had this terrible crush on a girl in my class. I had no idea what being gay was though. All through my schooling years I found I only had crushes on girls, and used to pretend to like guys so that my friends wouldn't freak out. When I hit year 10 there was this girl at my school that was bi, and I randomly ended up at a party with her and we hooked up. From that, I was reassured, and ever since then (despite one or two boyfriends that lasted a week at a time) it's been girls all the way. Booyeah
racy
January 20th, 2008, 08:38 AM
I love the fashion magazines and teen magazines, and movie star magazines. I guess I always thought girls were pretty. My best friend is really pretty. Like in 6th grade, she made me feel tingly when we are alone together. I hid it from her, but sometimes we get giggly at the same time, or we hold hands in the mall when it's crowded. I don't know. It's confusing.
Kaleidoscope Eyes
January 20th, 2008, 08:13 PM
I don't know if I'm bi really, but I've definitely always enjoyed looking at girls. I really think girls got the better end of the stick as far as attractive anatomy goes. I'm still attracted to guys, for sure, but the female body is just so incredibly beautiful. As a kid, I often felt awkward about my feelings towards other girls. I've never been emotionally attracted to one, but for a long time, from age 7-ish until I was almost 13, the first thing I'd see when around a girl around my age or older (this never happened with adults though), was her breasts. And sometimes it was really hard to tear my eyes away and focus on her face like you're supposed to when talking to someone. At first I told myself, "Oh, you're just looking because your jealous that her boobs are bigger than yours", but as I grew and other girls' breasts were about the same size as mine (even smaller in some cases), it didn't stop. Finally I learned some self-control, but I still find myself looking on occasion, when I know no one's watching me do it.
I first noticed a sort of physical attraction to girls at a sleepover when I was about 10. There were a bunch of us there, and Truth or Dare was suggested. We were all terrible at coming up with Truth questions though (and no one wanted to answer the ones we did come up with), so it became just Dare. Just about every girl was dared to strip at one point; just for a few seconds and then they were allowed to put their clothes back on. Everyone was supposed to cover their eyes or look away, the dare wasn't so we could look at each other naked but more to see who trusted us to keep our promise and not look. Well, I started out sneaking peeks as I'm sure the other girls did here and there, just to see if everyone else looked like I did. I'd never seen another girl naked before except my sister, and I was curious. I realized soon enough that we were all pretty much the same (except I was the only one with pubic hair, how mortifying!), and pretty soon I realized something else--when I'd look at the girls, I'd get this warm, sorta tingly feeling "down there". It was new, but not unpleasant, and it subsided when I'd look away. So naturally, I kept watching. One of the girls noticed though and gave me a weird look then whispered "WHAT are you doing?" I followed the rules and kept my eyes covered for the rest of the game, and thankfully she didn't say anything to the other girls about it. From that point on I'd bring up "the dare game" at every sleepover, until the rest of the girls starting hitting puberty and decided they didn't want to play anymore.
I dunno though, is it really bisexuality if the emotional aspect isn't there? I can picture myself messing around with another girl, but not really being in a serious relationship with one and certainly not marrying one. Maybe I just haven't met the right girl who I'd consider dating, but I don't think I will. I'm all guys as far as that goes.
jma94
January 21st, 2008, 06:34 PM
Well, I was never really attracted to either gender. It didnt matter. By the time i hit puberty i saw girls as like... attractive? Then one day i realized i thought the same of guys. So i've never really told anyone but i'm bi. :P
VampireKitten
February 3rd, 2008, 12:20 AM
My guy best friend kissd me when i was 13 and since then iv all ways liked guys =)
imawsome91
February 3rd, 2008, 06:04 PM
im curious on how u can tell i mean i jack of too gay porn but i love girls so idk
Kaleidoscope Eyes
February 3rd, 2008, 06:18 PM
If you're bi you're probably attracted to boys outside porn. Lots of straight guys look at gay porn, and since you like girls it's pretty easy to say you're not gay. If you're bi though, you'd be attracted to guys the same way you're attracted to girls.
imawsome91
February 3rd, 2008, 06:33 PM
o ok but wat if u expirement wit other guys and u enjoy it and u wanna do it again???
Glasgow
February 3rd, 2008, 06:45 PM
im curious on how u can tell i mean i jack of too gay porn but i love girls so idk
Jacking off to gay porn is pretty gay..
Kaleidoscope Eyes
February 3rd, 2008, 06:53 PM
o ok but wat if u expirement wit other guys and u enjoy it and u wanna do it again???
Then you're definitely curious, a lot of teens are. Only you can say if this is pretty much just hormones or if you think you might be like this for the rest of your life. Either way, it's normal.
Jacking off to gay porn is pretty gay..
A lot of curious guys do that. You'd be surprised how many guys who do not identify themselves as gay, and may not be sure if they're even bi, still look at gay porn.
sabin22
February 4th, 2008, 12:57 AM
Then you're definitely curious, a lot of teens are. Only you can say if this is pretty much just hormones or if you think you might be like this for the rest of your life. Either way, it's normal.
A lot of curious guys do that. You'd be surprised how many guys who do not identify themselves as gay, and may not be sure if they're even bi, still look at gay porn.
wow u know ur stuffs teeny, GJ
jakieboi
February 4th, 2008, 05:48 AM
nar im not guy i like bobies but who knowes im ony 14
Mycall.
February 4th, 2008, 11:47 PM
I have always been attracted to guys, and having older siblings I always knew what gay was.
i'unno.
Guys give better head jobs, lol. I suppose that's what keeps me interested...
Because I do often see a chick, and as it was put, think "wow".
ipod_aficionado
February 13th, 2008, 07:56 PM
i have been thinking about whether or not i am bi and by reading various forums i have found out that i am in fact bi, no one i know knows about it yet. i'm pretty sure my family will except me. so...ya
The Entertainer
February 14th, 2008, 09:56 AM
bear in mind though that there are different "shades" of straight, bi and homosexual. Everyone is different in their thoughts and feelings, so they might not necessarily fall right into those 3 catagories
Electric Cheese
February 22nd, 2008, 05:49 PM
I was always attracted to girls, but I had little luck with them. I was talking to it with a friend and he told me he was bi. To this point I'd never had any feelings towards a guy but for some reason I was more "into" him than anyone else before. I finally plucked up the balls to talk to him about it and we ended up making out for the better part of twenty minutes!! So after that I considered myself gay.....then the next week I got myself a girlfriend....
so I'm bi I guess, I'm more leniant (spelling?) towards the girls now, but I still have that lil soft spot for the guys too
LightxInxDarkness
February 22nd, 2008, 06:04 PM
I fell in love with a boy i met online and then i realized how happy i was talking to him so I finally accepted it
zacharooo
March 5th, 2008, 03:08 AM
well i was probably 8 when me and a friends masturbated each other a couple of times that year but im still attracted to the girls a bit but i may be more bi than straight
Conna
March 10th, 2008, 08:19 PM
I was 15 and me and a friend was in my bed. I dunno something always told me he was gay - maybe not, I dunno. But I could feel he had a boner at one point. Then he said 'I'm bored', so I slid my hand down his trousers. He didn't complain and he did it to me. After a while I started to give him head, and then he did to me.
Odd.
So yeah - I'm officially bisexual - and I'm out.
zacharooo
March 12th, 2008, 12:02 AM
well when i was 8 i had a friend come over and he basically asked me if i wanted to do some stuff and then i found out at that time that i wa smaybe bi and curious
Fezzie
March 14th, 2008, 01:09 PM
Well when I started the 6th grade. Thats when I knew. I was sitting next to this boy in class and I Just thought he was so "hot". Then I just started to like men. I just didn't have any interest in women.
I first started to tell my friends that I'm Bi but then I came out to my friends that I am gay. And thats how it all started.
Charlie B. Barkin
March 16th, 2008, 06:46 PM
It all happened just a few months ago.
Well I went over to visit a very old friend whose parents got a divorce. Well I went over there and the minute I walked through that door......I knew that he was the one.
Of course when we were younger we masturbated eachother and all that but when I saw him...he just struck something and it felt that my heart found what it was looking for.
But on the other side I knew that I had a crush on this girl who I serve with at church. And it occured to me that my heart was torn in two pieces. It was rather my friend or my secret crush.
I decided the day after.....and I picked.....my friend. I've been bi-sexual ever since. And I'm proud of it
Myself
March 17th, 2008, 07:00 PM
i dont know what i am, im leaning tword bi
Gavin
March 19th, 2008, 12:31 PM
i dont know what i am, im leaning tword bi
I'm just wondering,how old are you?
Charlie B. Barkin
March 19th, 2008, 12:35 PM
He's 16 he said in a previous thread in the Puberty for Boys forum :)
curiousteen
May 5th, 2008, 02:17 AM
the first i thought i was gay was in the 5th or 6th grade and i saw this one boys dick in the bathroom while peeing in the urinal. ever since then i luv to dick but at the same time i luv to see boobs and vagina
bleedingheartizzie
May 10th, 2008, 12:38 PM
ive always felt differently buy likeing the same sex
i can remenber when i first acctualy knew i was bi
i was with my bf at the time and he was ignoring me at the time so my childhood freind said to get him jelous we should get of with each other so we did
i knew she was bi and i couldnt explain it but for then i knew that i was
im so glad that happen because other wise i think i would ov just thpught i was like proper weird or somthing
notsure101
May 18th, 2008, 07:26 PM
well im Heterosexual so i couldnt tell u
Loner Girl6
May 18th, 2008, 09:08 PM
Idk,it's a weird story.I guess in grade 6 a new girl moved to our school and we became friends,right.but she started making other friends i got jealouse and told her i hated her.all i did was think i about her and worry about whether she liked me or not.So figured i must like her but i couldn't except that.then in grade nine i met this girl and the same thing happened and i sorta fell for my best friend at the same time.so i guess i realized that i had to accept it czu it was messing up all these relationships.yeah idk...im stl not quite sure what i am.most of the time i have huge crushes on girls but im mmostly sexually interested in guys so yeah...it's weird but anyways...
[crazy]girl
May 31st, 2008, 03:22 PM
oh yea, you really want me to tell don't you...i'll consiter it...it's a long story
alien
June 5th, 2008, 07:15 PM
im not sur eif im gay but i have feeling for guys and girls i think i might be bi
i think i might be bi to cause when i masturbate sometimes i think of guys but i also think of girls :D but some times i see boys i think hoot!!! but i also see girls and i say hooot!!!!!!
alien
June 5th, 2008, 09:35 PM
cool story. man i wanna kiss a guy :cry:
me to.
i found out i was bi when i saw this guy and thoght he and the girl sitting next to him where both hot.:D
Charlie B. Barkin
June 5th, 2008, 09:41 PM
Well alien you are still young. Even thought I am your age I knew that I was bi but I didn't decide as quick as you did.
I thought it over. You just rushed to the choice. As I said in a previous post, just wait for a while. You're still young and need to grow so just wait and think it out.
alien
June 5th, 2008, 10:04 PM
Well alien you are still young. Even thought I am your age I knew that I was bi but I didn't decide as quick as you did.
I thought it over. You just rushed to the choice. As I said in a previous post, just wait for a while. You're still young and need to grow so just wait and think it out.
oh i did think it out but it took 5 years for me to admmit it to my self
so i finaly accepted my self i just dont know if my parents friends and school people accept me for who i am.:D
curiousashley87
June 6th, 2008, 12:43 PM
I always liked both sexes but when I turned thirteen and my dear older sister was throwing me a surprise slumber party. Well we ended up playing truth or dare with my friends and I ended up kissing one of my friends in a french kiss. That night the power went out and for safety reasons my sister had us team up together. Later that night I felt the girl sleeping next to me climb into my sleeping bag and get closer to me. I really liked the feel of her body against mine, her skin rubbing against mine, and the warmth between us. I found out the next day that the friend enjoyed it as well and since then we have been close. Oh I still like guys, but I like girls more. :)
alien
June 6th, 2008, 01:00 PM
so your bi to well when you find out you find out
emecrazy
June 8th, 2008, 02:35 AM
Well Im pretty sure im bi
ha i have slowly became more interested in guys
these last few years in my class i been starin at the older guys and just wishing i could just do something to them ;) hah and then a few months back me and my friends got drunk and started making out.. he blames it on the alcohol.. ha i dont beleive him..
i loved it hah
i finaly realized it after i gave him head...
hah he is still in denial
but i cant come out =[ its frowned upon where i am.. reeally bad
Biggles
June 22nd, 2008, 08:17 PM
Not sure if im bi, more just open minded. I can't see myself loving another guy, unless its their body. Theres something about getting intimite with the same sex that can be 10x better then being in a hetrosexual relationship. I always had no problem with guys liking guys and then at 13 i had my first guy pm guy experience. Havent looked back :D but finding people as open minded as me is hard :(
krystalm
June 22nd, 2008, 08:28 PM
i've always kind of new that i wasn't exactly straight, but after my last boyfriend i realized that i was attracted to girls just as much as guys.. it didn't help that when he was lame in between the sheets i often thought of girls instead of him... then i just knew.
Ryandel
June 22nd, 2008, 08:33 PM
I think I started to have a feeling towards guys when I was nine years old. It never really came to me until I was 12.
MattHutzell
June 26th, 2008, 01:25 PM
Probably 3 or 4 years ago. Just "messin around" with a friend and I was a lost case from there XD :P. Never had problem addmitting it to myself though, thank God! I am what I am, if you don't like, I don't care! :)
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