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tav18
June 13th, 2011, 07:23 AM
I'm not really in to girls- yet, I just sort of had an intrest in boys, i even watch gay porn what am i gay,bi,transg ????

frunziss
June 13th, 2011, 07:50 AM
gay or bi(if you like girls too)

Silver Blade
June 13th, 2011, 08:27 AM
well if you like girls and boys you are bi, if you just like boys, your gay.

Dunce
June 13th, 2011, 09:40 AM
What age are you? You say you're not into girls "yet". Well, you're a teenager so anything could happen and you could turn out to be bi but of course there's a good chance that you're gay, seeing as you like boys.

tav18
June 13th, 2011, 10:26 AM
I'm 14 my birthday was last month.

LoginLeo
June 13th, 2011, 10:43 AM
I'm 14 my birthday was last month.

Well.. Then i guess u r gay, cuz i think that by the age of 14 - if u don't like girls, then u just don't like them...
Or maybe it can change, if u fall in love with a girl or something.. i dunno :)

You feel absolutely nothing to girls, and don't get aroused by them ?

jundell123
June 13th, 2011, 10:49 AM
well all I can say is that,you try watch yourself naked in front of your mirror and if you like watching your **** , it's confirmed your a gay.....

do you really like boys?
have you ever wished to have *** with a boy?

but your just a teenager......
many things could happen.....
maybe those happenings can help you decide....the real you...

Please don't double (or in this case, triple) post. I have merged your posts. -Jon/Donkey

tav18
June 13th, 2011, 11:10 AM
Well i stood in front of my mirrior 100% naked from the front and stood absolutley still i didn't touch my penis or anything i just stood completly still for 5 minutes i even try to think about boys still no erection. I guess what i'm trying to say is i want to experiment with a boy just to see how the other boy fells about it. I was going to my visit my grandma in Pennslyvania she adopted a kid my age and we get along togather so i hoping i was trying to convience him to experiment with me so in case i asked him i will be able ti tell him i'm bi and it's not that i like you i just want to try it i don't know what sex he is but i'll try to ask him when i get there :).

LoginLeo
June 13th, 2011, 11:14 AM
Well i stood in front of my mirrior 100% naked from the front and stood absolutley still i didn't touch my penis or anything i just stood completly still for 5 minutes i even try to think about boys still no erection. I guess what i'm trying to say is i want to experiment with a boy just to see how the other boy fells about it. I was going to my visit my grandma in Pennslyvania she adopted a kid my age and we get along togather so i hoping i was trying to convience him to experiment with me so in case i asked him i will be able ti tell him i'm bi and it's not that i like you i just want to try it i don't know what sex he is but i'll try to ask him when i get there :).

Well... If u don't get erections, it may mean that u don't get aroused by boys.. i dunno... Or just that fantasies - are not enough for you.. hhh i dunno :)

Ohh and good luck with the guy, just be careful man :)
In case he says something like "No", or gets shocked or something, say that u were joking... :)

tav18
June 13th, 2011, 11:24 AM
thanks for the advice i hope it goese well to:)

jundell123
June 13th, 2011, 11:24 AM
in that case ......maybe its just a part of your teenage years and also a result of your curiousity...

tav18
June 13th, 2011, 11:32 AM
I guese your right :)

jundell123
June 13th, 2011, 11:36 AM
do you have facebook or yahoo messenger acount?
if you have just pm it to me........

LoginLeo
June 13th, 2011, 11:42 AM
thanks for the advice i hope it goese well to:)

Sure, no problem man :)
Good luck xD

Shenron
June 18th, 2011, 01:20 AM
Ok, well after reading the other posts, this needs to be said.

Nobody here can tell you your sexuality. And really? look at yourself naked in the mirror? Whoever told you that should reconsider if they were going for a job in counseling...

Right then, on to the advice part. You are only 14, many hormones are raging through your body. You honestly couldn't determine your sexuality for sure even if it was clear that you have no interest in women. Many people can get a feel for their sexualtiy during the teen years but it really can't be solidified until you are done with puberty and the hormones settle down. Now, having said that, to me, you seem curious for sure, and I'd go so far as to say bi-sexual. You really won't know until later though after you have experienced some things and been through relationships. I hope this helps, and if you have any questions or want to talk, please feel free to pm me. :)